To know or not to know, that is the question

Well maybe not 'THE' question but one of the.

K, well the weekend saw my sisters 21st. After a wine tour (that commenced at 9:30 am) & more wine at her place oooOOOooOO & some wicked chocolate port & a Heritage bottle of red at the BBQ & ......... oh well ALLOT of fine wine, we played truth or dare (Hee hee, yup for a night we were all 2 again) there is allot I already know about my man & I am not too fazed but as for my friends I was shocked at the couples who had been together for years & years who knew barely anything about the other!! I also managed to upset my man with some not so pretty truths about myself (which he asked to know then after decided he didn't want to know any more).

Would you really want to know the truth if it was going to hurt you?

Ewwww - Prime 'dear' is like something u would get from your Nan!
Baby, baby for sure is beter. If mr bf said dear to me I would laugh at him.
I like butt munch or shorty or sweet pea or babes

Now if it does have an impact, that's a different story

Prime you should know the past always affects the future of a person. It is the 'roots' of the person.

Religion is like this too. They refuse to hear other POV in case it has an affect on thier belief. They choose not to know. There are some things that I don't want to know in like (like when the last BM you had was) but in general its curiosity that gets me. I don't know if what is said is going to hurt me, I can't anticipate my reaction, but none the less I think I would rather know.
Once you do know something about your partner that isn't so pretty, do you think it will change you opinion of them?

This toga party I did in college where I got all drunk, doesn't really impact me today. In fact I get a good laugh over it

But if you were to have another toga party now, you would have a general idea of what happens at a toga party - or you would have a preset notion as to what may happen so in affect it does non the less leave an imprint on you?

26 - Shame I was on my own at 15 too.

*Once you do know something about your partner that isn't so pretty, do you think it will change you opinion of them?

-i think it depends on what exactly....the severity of the details and the circumstances...the overall situation really...

Sinapore English? lah? heh hehee

i think it depends on what exactly....the severity of the details and the circumstances...the overall situation really...


Even if they are nothing like that anymore?

*Even if they are nothing like that anymore?

-like i said the situation.....if the acts in question were something of the moment, that can be one thing, however, other things can follow you and impose themselves on your present situation...

hhhmmmm.....kinda makes me feel glad i never did anything too extreme in my past...

Why do you have to prove anything?
He doesn't have to because I accepted him "as is"

Pisces

that's one way of looking at it....but if you found out he raped someone or beat up his ex-girlfriend would u still be so accepting? i just think various circumstances require their own judgement....sorry i went beyond any sort of sexual history, i'm just saying a person's past can come back to haunt them if it is severe enough....

Ah! Got it GEM.

Hummmm - In that case, one should most definitely endeavour to know as much about the others history as possible!!!