trying to understand aquaruis men 2

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houstonpeach74
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Him saying he needs to be on his own is his need for independence. There's no gray - either you broke up or not, no kinda. By you being in touch is his nice side and "let's be friends" side, unless he actually told you it wasn't working out. So again, there is no kinda to breaking up.

We Taurus can be possessive, and it's good you acknowledge it, but you also need to act on overcoming it, especially with Aqua. Three things I learned I needed to give the Aqua I dated for 3 years were: Independence, stimulate his mind, and the ability to trust me. Other traits played roles, but these are definitely key.

You ask to "come up with some ideas on how to make him interested". He's probably already decided where you stand with him and he won't change his mind. There is no point really in trying to be something you aren't just to gain him back or reel him into a tighter grip. Chances are, he's already based his decision on what he saw within the first month or so.

Everyone can be compassionate, but I believe you mean "passionate", and they can be very passionate - with someone whom they feel comfortable and whom they utterly trust.

That's my opinion based on the informaton you provided.
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tauruslady000
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no i meant he liked me giving him compassion and being 100% yours with no need of confirmation ...

"By you being in touch is his nice side and "let's be friends" side, unless he actually told you it wasn't working out. "
what do you mean by that?

my aqua told me he's not ready for a relationship right now, because he will be away frequently because of work for another month or so and he knows he won't treat me right. but he said he doesnt want me to move on. so i dont know what to think now.