Unreliable aqua guy

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Mysteriousleo
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I was in a relationship with an aqua for 4 months. He then proposed me for marriage to which I agreed. His parents werent happy with this so he backed off and got engaged to someone of his parents choice. We stopped talking to each other.

Now..after 3 months he messaged me today telling me.. he isnt happy with that girl and he was asking me if I have someone in life now to which i refused to answer. He also said that he is gettin married to her in January and that he doesnt want to. He kept asking me if I missed him because he did and that we are still friends. I got mad and didnt respond in a polite manner. He got pissed too and argued as i didnt give in.. so my question is.. why did he try to contact me when he is getting married to someone else? What does he want from me?
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I was in a relationship with an aqua for 4 months. He then proposed me for marriage to which I agreed. His parents werent happy with this so he backed off and got engaged to someone of his parents choice. We stopped talking to each other.

Now..after 3 months he messaged me today telling me.. he isnt happy with that girl and he was asking me if I have someone in life now to which i refused to answer. He also said that he is gettin married to her in January and that he doesnt want to. He kept asking me if I missed him because he did and that we are still friends. I got mad and didnt respond in a polite manner. He got pissed too and argued as i didnt give in.. so my question is.. why did he try to contact me when he is getting married to someone else? What does he want from me?
He wants you and always wanted you but he's a pu55y and a pushover. Listen to your parents when it comes to the woman you love? Why in the hell would you do that? You re gonna live with her, not them. Why don't they like you? They sense you can be trouble? And not a good match for their son?

He wants you to 'save' him out of that marriage but he's too weak to handle it and he asks you to help him since he knows you are strong.

He's a pu55y, this Aqua of yours.
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His parents didn't like me cuz I'm independent and they were afraid I'm gona take their son away! He couldnt take any stand for me and went along with their choice. I sensed that he regrets it tho..

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Yep he doesn’t want to marry her so he’s seeking your love and attention. I wonder if he will go through with the marriage
He has to..family pressure.. crazy aint it?

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Don't get tangled in this web of a mess of his. You will end up suffering and reeling from the fallout. He will be on his merry way with this new wife of his popping out babies whilst you're dealing with the heartbreak. Leave it now and run away. Don't even think about it anymore. Find yourself a man who loves you enough to respectfully turn around and say to his family that it's her or no one. A real man would not let family pressure influence him in to giving you up like you're an easily expendable item.
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Yep he doesn’t want to marry her so he’s seeking your love and attention. I wonder if he will go through with the marriage
no, he s not seeking any attention. attention, what the fuck does this even mean. men don't need attention like girls do. an aqua man can live long and happy without a woman's attention. it's just he doesn't want that girl, he wants the leo girl.
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Oh stop. You love attention too. It feels gooood. You love when someone replies to your witty remarks. You love when girls are googly eyed over you and love you even though you don’t want them. It’s the feeling you get from the attention that everyone likes. Well most of the time. There are expections!
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Yep he doesn’t want to marry her so he’s seeking your love and attention. I wonder if he will go through with the marriage
no, he s not seeking any attention. attention, what the fuck does this even mean. men don't need attention like girls do. an aqua man can live long and happy without a woman's attention. it's just he doesn't want that girl, he wants the leo girl.
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He will still go marry that girl without doing anything about it tho hmm othrwise he wouldve taken that stand long ago..:/
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Yep he doesn’t want to marry her so he’s seeking your love and attention. I wonder if he will go through with the marriage
no, he s not seeking any attention. attention, what the fuck does this even mean. men don't need attention like girls do. an aqua man can live long and happy without a woman's attention. it's just he doesn't want that girl, he wants the leo girl.
Oh stop. You love attention too. It feels gooood. You love when someone replies to your witty remarks. You love when girls are googly eyed over you and love you even though you don’t want them. It’s the feeling you get from the attention that everyone likes. Well most of the time. There are expections!
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LOL. I log out and look at the thread and lo and behold that deluded imbecilic pedophile aquarius_man keeps @'ing me even after I've blocked him. What a fucking obsessive psychotic stalker. He can't get over me.

Listen woman, my aqua came back a number of times to me but I cut him off permanently recently after i saw through his volatile and immature behaviour. I'm giving you sound advice. Take it or leave it, it's up to you. As you can quite clearly see aqua men can be extreme attention whores.
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Oh stop. You love attention too. It feels gooood. You love when someone replies to your witty remarks. You love when girls are googly eyed over you and love you even though you don’t want them. It’s the feeling you get from the attention that everyone likes. Well most of the time. There are expections!
No, really, no. Im actually getting so much attention that it annoys me coz it can't let me focus on my things. Im the kind of Aqua who will hide in his ivory tower rather than text back and forth with a girl who needs my attention. No way, go away.
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Lol at ivory tower. Ok. Well what if it was your Aries that was texting you 😝
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Yep he doesn’t want to marry her so he’s seeking your love and attention. I wonder if he will go through with the marriage
He has to..family pressure.. crazy aint it?

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in a way i kind of feel for the man...

personal question,



did they use vedic astrology to match their marriage compatibility?

i feel sad for them....

but he will prob regret living with her for the rest of his life...

he prob has strong feelings for you

but sometimes, love isn't enough 😢



only time will tell...

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Lol at ivory tower. Ok. Well what if it was your Aries that was texting you 😝
That's love, not attention and she texts me daily so I don't actually miss that 😄

Attention would be when a new girl in my lif started liking my FB posts. Thats attention seeking and giving.

Maybe other Aqua males aren't like me, in which case you could also be right. But you re not right about me, no.

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You’d miss if that love (cough* attention) went away from her

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You’d miss if that love (cough* attention) went away from her




No, I wouldn't. An Aquarius doesn't feed on attention like Cancer. He's not insecure as Cancer and he actually enjoys a bit of loneliness. I would suggest you keep researching this sign.
Lol I probably should!!! Help!
a Cancer of all signs should learn when to let the Aqua be. you re the clingiest sign Ive ever ran into, you make the Scorps seem aloof and disinterested. While he might enjoy this attention you keep mentioning, he also needs you from time to time to stop breathing down his neck and let him be and finish his work. He doesn't need to know where you at and what you do at all times, but yes it would help him focus more on his work if you were fine and told him that through a simple text. Not followed by a dozen other texts which can become more of a nuisance 🙂
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I’m saving this to my notes!! Haha I think I annoyed him. I went from clingy to not texting him for 4 days then he ghosted me! Except he looks at my snaps right away. What do I do?? He also has my things still and won’t give them back lol
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Yep he doesn’t want to marry her so he’s seeking your love and attention. I wonder if he will go through with the marriage
He has to..family pressure.. crazy aint it?


Don't get tangled in this web of a mess of his. You will end up suffering and reeling from the fallout. He will be on his merry way with this new wife of his popping out babies whilst you're dealing with the heartbreak. Leave it now and run away. Don't even think about it anymore. Find yourself a man who loves you enough to respectfully turn around and say to his family that it's her or no one. A real man would not let family pressure influence him in to giving you up like you're an easily expendable item.
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Makes sense
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He will still go marry that girl without doing anything about it tho hmm othrwise he wouldve taken that stand long ago..:/


Thats why I called him a pu55. Coz he will do what his parents have decided for him. He told you about it because he knows you have a big big heart and are pasionate and strong and he needs you to save him out of that marriage. A scorpio woman on dxp went through a similar experience, an Aqua engaged to be married to a Pisces was chatting up a Scorpio and telling her he hated his fiance and shit. These guys want to be saved but they are weak men, sorry to be this blunt
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I rather not waste my time on this thn. Lol he just messaged me again saying how he lost his trust in me just now and that he needed my advice and help on something. I asked what was it..he said he changed his mind and doesnt wana talk about it. I stopped responding right after that. Height of immaturity! :/
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I’m saving this to my notes!! Haha I think I annoyed him. I went from clingy to not texting him for 4 days then he ghosted me! Except he looks at my snaps right away. What do I do?? He also has my things still and won’t give them back lol


why are you playing these games? he won t give your things back coz why would he. you re still together, aren t you. what made you start playing these stilly-ass games? when he stalks ur snaps - well i stalk my ex's insta - its the same thing, we want to see what you do, if there are some other dudes sniffing around yous, trying to sleep with you and take you away from us
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I don’t know if we are together or not. It’s been a week. I don’t understand why he won’t answer me. I also haven’t seen him in a month because he’s been so busy with work. He seemed like he was fading away. But I asked him if he still wants to date a few weeks ago and he said yes. I’m congused!! Anyways what do I do to make things better—
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Well that assumption about being prude is false. But I’ll just let him be then. No hope?
if you re not prude, then send him a pic suggesting you ll blow him so hard when he comes to see you...he should find time to reply to that
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lol I don’t know he’s already seen a ton of pictures and videos of me. Won’t be anything too new or different to have the same affect
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do you really need a man who lets his parent decide for him on who he should marry? For me he would be dead the moment he went with that, all feelings gone right away. That's a big downside of a person and you should just go one with your life and ignore that person, let him suffer in his own choices. If he's a pushover you can't change that no matter what you do.
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do you really need a man who lets his parent decide for him on who he should marry? For me he would be dead the moment he went with that, all feelings gone right away. That's a big downside of a person and you should just go one with your life and ignore that person, let him suffer in his own choices. If he's a pushover you can't change that no matter what you do.
I felt the same when we broke up. Now he just messaged out of blue so I replied. I guess I should block him and make myself completely unreachable for him.

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Do I keep sending snaps or do I disappear for a bit?
disappear for more than a bit
How long
2 weeks

or 1 week if u post a pic before going AWOL. a pic that would suggest you re attending this event where there are many pretty boys & old flames
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Lol I’m glad u understand me 🙂 ok I’ll try!!
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Yep he doesn’t want to marry her so he’s seeking your love and attention. I wonder if he will go through with the marriage
no, he s not seeking any attention. attention, what the fuck does this even mean. men don't need attention like girls do. an aqua man can live long and happy without a woman's attention. it's just he doesn't want that girl, he wants the leo girl.
He will still go marry that girl without doing anything about it tho hmm othrwise he wouldve taken that stand long ago..:/

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If he marries her, he's gonna be complaining to you and wanting to be with you but he will stay in the marriage. Even if you give him sex, he's gonna stay because he's pleasing his family. I would be careful with this type of situation. It's easy to end up being a side piece.

If Aquas can't hide a relationship, but he wants you, he'll go after it and make exceptions for himself. Where he would normally be disgusted and have no respect for a women that cheats, once it's his idea and fits into what he wants, it will be ok and he will accept it, until he doesn't want it anymore and gets bored. Then you will be heart broken. This is a mess. I wouldn't touch it at all unless he wasn't getting married.