Just found out my Aqua has been on a dating site since August

And that's the end of that.

Posted by Redbull
Yep I understand. I dont do online dating or online daters. Thats territory I dont get involved in. Can see that killing the whole vibe. Yeah thats it on that haha.

LOL. Well we were in a relationship at the time, and I thought everything was okay! Now to see he was fucking around online really slams the door shut for me. Scorch the Earth, and so on...

Posted by Redbull
Yep I understand. I dont do online dating or online daters. Thats territory I dont get involved in. Can see that killing the whole vibe. Yeah thats it on that haha.

why dont you just outright ask him?

he might have left his profile at the dating site being forgetful that he might be...and left it alone.

although i dont know how it works.

and is he YOURS?

i mean are you boyfriend/girlfriend or just dippng your feet into the waters of testing eachother out?

like you are interested but not sure...

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Redbull
Yep I understand. I dont do online dating or online daters. Thats territory I dont get involved in. Can see that killing the whole vibe. Yeah thats it on that haha.

why dont you just outright ask him?

he might have left his profile at the dating site being forgetful that he might be...and left it alone.

although i dont know how it works.

and is he YOURS?

i mean are you boyfriend/girlfriend or just dippng your feet into the waters of testing eachother out?

like you are interested but not sure...

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Yeah girl we're living together and in a relationship for a year. Past tense now though. My heart is closed.

Has he been interacting on the site? I’m in a relationship but I still have my profile on A dating site because I dunno how to delete it lol

Posted by Moonbutter
Has he been interacting on the site? I’m in a relationship but I still have my profile on A dating site because I dunno how to delete it lol

Yup he was cruising around, looking at profiles, and he created a profile as well saying he's looking for a relationship. I literally am repulsed by him now. In a way it's good, because we kept breaking up and getting back together. Now I'm finally clear.

What’s his reaction to all of this?

Posted by Shadowcat
How long have you two been together?

A little over a year.

Doucheboy!

Posted by taurusgirl9000

Posted by Moonbutter
Has he been interacting on the site? I’m in a relationship but I still have my profile on A dating site because I dunno how to delete it lol

Yup he was cruising around, looking at profiles, and he created a profile as well saying he's looking for a relationship. I literally am repulsed by him now. In a way it's good, because we kept breaking up and getting back together. Now I'm finally clear.

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Ah gotcha.., yeah this is what you needed then. I say congrats! Now you are free to find the man of your dreams 😉

Posted by Shadowcat

Posted by taurusgirl9000

Posted by Shadowcat
How long have you two been together?

A little over a year.

I think you're making the right call.

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Yeah. It's just kinda shocking. He seemed like such a gentle, nice guy. I guess it was all bullshit.

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by taurusgirl9000

Posted by Moonbutter
Has he been interacting on the site? I’m in a relationship but I still have my profile on A dating site because I dunno how to delete it lol

Yup he was cruising around, looking at profiles, and he created a profile as well saying he's looking for a relationship. I literally am repulsed by him now. In a way it's good, because we kept breaking up and getting back together. Now I'm finally clear.

Ah gotcha.., yeah this is what you needed then. I say congrats! Now you are free to find the man of your dreams 😉

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Thanks, mama.

Posted by taurusgirl9000

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by taurusgirl9000

Posted by Moonbutter
Has he been interacting on the site? I’m in a relationship but I still have my profile on A dating site because I dunno how to delete it lol

Yup he was cruising around, looking at profiles, and he created a profile as well saying he's looking for a relationship. I literally am repulsed by him now. In a way it's good, because we kept breaking up and getting back together. Now I'm finally clear.

Ah gotcha.., yeah this is what you needed then. I say congrats! Now you are free to find the man of your dreams 😉

Thanks, mama.

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Mama 🤔

I say give him a taste of his own medicine. I guess you posted about this couple of weeks back and youre relationship was already rocky. If he is "available" just like that then its the end of it and you gotta make room for a new you and a new man.

Posted by lisabethur8

Posted by Redbull
Yep I understand. I dont do online dating or online daters. Thats territory I dont get involved in. Can see that killing the whole vibe. Yeah thats it on that haha.

why dont you just outright ask him?

he might have left his profile at the dating site being forgetful that he might be...and left it alone.

although i dont know how it works.

and is he YOURS?

i mean are you boyfriend/girlfriend or just dippng your feet into the waters of testing eachother out?

like you are interested but not sure...

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I confronted him about it last night. At first he denied it. Then I said, "If you really cared about me, you'd tell the truth." Then he said, "Okay, yes, I got on there the last time we broke up because I was so hurt and upset, I just needed someone to talk to." LOL Then he went on to say, "I only messaged one woman, she has two children, I talked to her all about you. She wanted to meet me and I said no."

The gall that he had actually felt like it was suffocating me.

I know that he was messaging multiple girls, flirting with them. I don't think he met anyone but the intent was there and surely if he messaged someone he liked a lot, he would have gone on to meet her.

The story about the woman with two children really killed me... He was crying too. Probably crying because I caught his ass... Sad that I wasted a year of my life with someone like this. But glad I know now who he really is.

At least when you see it so clearly there’s not going back.

You will be fine.

Posted by Senorita_LL
Oh shit, this is in Aqua board?? I'm screwed.

Can we pretend that we never see what I've wrote? I was feeling so emotional, I think. 😆

😂

aqua men are super flirty its too much like why dont u stick to the aqua image astrology created for you, sit alone and think about universe —?

Posted by ItsMeRoman
How did you find out he was on a dating site?

Like how did you find him and did you go looking for this or were you informed by someone?

I'm just curious about this part of your story.

You two were living together. Sharing expenses I assume? Did you two recently move separately?

It seems like this guy took some minor issues you'd experienced or arguments and took it to that next level of having intent to hook up with someone online. If after only being with one another for six months and he's already turning tricks online......lol yeah he's not worth saving. I love ❤️ the crying part though 😂 But I'm evil.

I really found out by accident. We were sitting on the couch and his phone (sitting between us) dinged. I looked down at it and saw a notification from POF.com.... He is a 40 year old man, I guess he's clueless enough that he didn't bother setting his phone so they notifications don't pop up.

Yes we are living together and splitting everything by half. I told him he has to move out ASAP after our argument last night. Our relationship lasted a little over a year and was rocky, I admit, but come on. If you want out, just say so and I will accept it.

He's not to be trusted , you're making the right decision

How very age of Aquarius

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Posted by taurusgirl9000

Posted by ItsMeRoman
How did you find out he was on a dating site?

Like how did you find him and did you go looking for this or were you informed by someone?

I'm just curious about this part of your story.

You two were living together. Sharing expenses I assume? Did you two recently move separately?

It seems like this guy took some minor issues you'd experienced or arguments and took it to that next level of having intent to hook up with someone online. If after only being with one another for six months and he's already turning tricks online......lol yeah he's not worth saving. I love ❤️ the crying part though 😂 But I'm evil.

I really found out by accident. We were sitting on the couch and his phone (sitting between us) dinged. I looked down at it and saw a notification from POF.com.... He is a 40 year old man, I guess he's clueless enough that he didn't bother setting his phone so they notifications don't pop up.

Yes we are living together and splitting everything by half. I told him he has to move out ASAP after our argument last night. Our relationship lasted a little over a year and was rocky, I admit, but come on. If you want out, just say so and I will accept it.

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Splitting rent with a grown 40 year old man—