Update. I told him i sneaked in his car..

I'm not sure what's worst... me sneaking into his car to find out the truth...'or him lying to me that he didn't have sex with anyone when he was away, but he did for like 5 seconds apparently ( he told me this after the birthday incident)..... the point is, now I wish I never told him I sneaked into his car!!! I did it so that he cud hate me for it which will make it easier for me to move on from him...... it's 4 hours after we talked n his last message was, ok babe go to sleep and keep your words ( me needing space) we have fully ended and he said he agrees we shudnt see each other more coz I'm suffering n he doesn't want that.... n it's very upsetting that I don't trust him ( like seriously?) anyway, man.... now I'm sabataging myself for telling him about the car incident I shud have just kept my mouth shut ...😢 ....now he prob truly think I'm a crazy bitch..... when it's his fault for creating those horrible fears in me...T--T bloody Aqua man!

what the hell?

Why are you worried about what he thinks about you, if he lied about sleeping with someone else?

I don't get it.

So, he's worth more than you, in your mind?

......what the fuck did I just read??

Oh, I just realized that this is an update thread, so there's more to the story ... that would make sense why I don't get where you're coming from.



Nevermind .......

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......what the fuck did I just read??

Hahahahaha u have a dirty mind? is my eng that poor but thank u for making me laugh, I needed it today

Posted by Eddie_Vanjovi
Don't feel guilty. It's not your fault.

He's unfaithful. Don't expect him to ever be. Do more than just get space. Cut him off completely and start the healing process.

We were not officially together or exclusively tougher ... but he did lie coz I asked . knowing how important honesty is to me.... 😢... it hurts to completely cut him off... we had amazing time together despite the trust thing... I am trying..but thank you so much for saying that .....

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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
......what the fuck did I just read??

Hahahahaha u have a dirty mind? is my eng that poor but thank u for making me laugh, I needed it today

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Aquarians are cold bastards when it comes to this thing. They can be extremely cruel to those they don't care about. Same goes for Bulls. He doesn't deserve you.

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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
......what the fuck did I just read??

Hahahahaha u have a dirty mind? is my eng that poor but thank u for making me laugh, I needed it today

Aquarians are cold bastards when it comes to this thing. They can be extremely cruel to those they don't care about. Same goes for Bulls. He doesn't deserve you.

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He surely doesn't !! I deserve a sexy gay man like you,,,, mmmm interested? Kidding hehe... I noe, I am healing..... why is it so hard to find people who value honesty as much as I do—? Arhhhh it's so simple

Where there is smoke there is fire.

No need to apologize about finding what you were looking for.

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Posted by Eddie_Vanjovi
Don't feel guilty. It's not your fault.

He's unfaithful. Don't expect him to ever be. Do more than just get space. Cut him off completely and start the healing process.

We were not officially together or exclusively tougher ... but he did lie coz I asked . knowing how important honesty is to me.... 😢... it hurts to completely cut him off... we had amazing time together despite the trust thing... I am trying..but thank you so much for saying that .....

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If you're not exclusive then it's none of your business what he's doing.....if I were him I'd probably think you were a bit of a crazy bitch as well, but this is fixable. Aqua men can either be forgiving or absolutely not. Sounds like he is right now, so just play it off and stop being possessive. He isn't yours to possess, he doesn't belong to you, you aren't "his" he isn't "yours" so if you're going to be like this and need that over him all I can say is your have to move on because that is not going to slide with any guy who isn't trying to be exclusive.

Have enough self respect to just go and walk away if you don't feel comfortable, or enough self respect to let go of feelings and allow yourself to enjoy the fling without making yourself look nuts.

Personally I say he didn't do anything wrong from just this post because you made it clear there is no true relationship here. Get over it. Maybe move on, you don't seem fit for flings.

Not trying to hate by the way, but I really don't think he's wrong in this. Maybe he could handle things better, but he doesn't OWE you anything, especially a detailed description of his sex life, or really anything. You're not "with" him. As long as he shows you the STD free sheet, you're good to go. Otherwise you're just being a bit possessive.

So you've moved on to the stalking phase. Ah, the memories...

Weird thing about this is that as mad as they might get for intruding into their privacy, I think they secretly like a little bit of crazy. Makes them feel desired.

We'll see where this ends. I'm not convinced it's over.

Go have sex with someone in his car! A Leo, maybe...

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Posted by Eddie_Vanjovi
Don't feel guilty. It's not your fault.

He's unfaithful. Don't expect him to ever be. Do more than just get space. Cut him off completely and start the healing process.

We were not officially together or exclusively tougher ... but he did lie coz I asked . knowing how important honesty is to me.... 😢... it hurts to completely cut him off... we had amazing time together despite the trust thing... I am trying..but thank you so much for saying that .....

If you're not exclusive then it's none of your business what he's doing.....if I were him I'd probably think you were a bit of a crazy bitch as well, but this is fixable. Aqua men can either be forgiving or absolutely not. Sounds like he is right now, so just play it off and stop being possessive. He isn't yours to possess, he doesn't belong to you, you aren't "his" he isn't "yours" so if you're going to be like this and need that over him all I can say is your have to move on because that is not going to slide with any guy who isn't trying to be exclusive.

Have enough self respect to just go and walk away if you don't feel comfortable, or enough self respect to let go of feelings and allow yourself to enjoy the fling without making yourself look nuts.

Personally I say he didn't do anything wrong from just this post because you made it clear there is no true relationship here. Get over it. Maybe move on, you don't seem fit for flings.

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I like you

Posted by sultrykitty
So you've moved on to the stalking phase. Ah, the memories...

Weird thing about this is that as mad as they might get for intruding into their privacy, I think they secretly like a little bit of crazy. Makes them feel desired.

We'll see where this ends. I'm not convinced it's over.

@SultryKitty you're often right about us Aquarius peeps. I'm not sure if I like the crazy, but I sure as hell attract it! Even my friends are possessive.

Saweetz why you doing this to yourself?



This dude was never right for you. That's why you a made a thread on him everyday. When it's right you won't have to do that.

Abort mission.

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Eddie_Vanjovi
Don't feel guilty. It's not your fault.

He's unfaithful. Don't expect him to ever be. Do more than just get space. Cut him off completely and start the healing process.

We were not officially together or exclusively tougher ... but he did lie coz I asked . knowing how important honesty is to me.... 😢... it hurts to completely cut him off... we had amazing time together despite the trust thing... I am trying..but thank you so much for saying that .....

If you're not exclusive then it's none of your business what he's doing.....if I were him I'd probably think you were a bit of a crazy bitch as well, but this is fixable. Aqua men can either be forgiving or absolutely not. Sounds like he is right now, so just play it off and stop being possessive. He isn't yours to possess, he doesn't belong to you, you aren't "his" he isn't "yours" so if you're going to be like this and need that over him all I can say is your have to move on because that is not going to slide with any guy who isn't trying to be exclusive.

Have enough self respect to just go and walk away if you don't feel comfortable, or enough self respect to let go of feelings and allow yourself to enjoy the fling without making yourself look nuts.

Personally I say he didn't do anything wrong from just this post because you made it clear there is no true relationship here. Get over it. Maybe move on, you don't seem fit for flings.

I like you

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I'm sorry but you don't get it. It's not about him being with other women that annoyed me. It's him lying to me about it.'I told him early, if u sleep

Withnothee women it's fine just be honest with me about it. He said ofcoz I will tell you babe! The point isn't that he is with anyone the point is that I'm trying to prove his honesty which obviously .. I was right. The fear and the gut feeling I was right about it . He lied. He doesn't think it's a big deal. It is for me.

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Posted by sultrykitty
So you've moved on to the stalking phase. Ah, the memories...

Weird thing about this is that as mad as they might get for intruding into their privacy, I think they secretly like a little bit of crazy. Makes them feel desired.

We'll see where this ends. I'm not convinced it's over.

@SultryKitty you're often right about us Aquarius peeps. I'm not sure if I like the crazy, but I sure as hell attract it! Even my friends are possessive.

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Honestly I think he likes it too coz after I told him about it all he stil lcalled me babe and responded within seconds when we were saying farewell goodbye so I told him, I'm glad I told him coz now I have officially turned him off and we r even and he said If thinking that makes me happy then think so. Meaning, what I did wasn't that bad for him I racken.. but to me it was. I hated doing what I did but the fear was super high ... anyway it's all over now... u r not convinced it's over? Well it is for now, I have blocked him from everything. Someone here recommended me doing it so I did. the only way for him to reach me is to knock on my door which I'm sure he wudnt do that ( I hope not )..... or message me from someone else's number. We were amazing friends who shared the best connection.... it has to all end for now.

Posted by bkbella86
Saweetz why you doing this to yourself?



This dude was never right for you. That's why you a made a thread on him everyday. When it's right you won't have to do that.

Abort mission.

Thanks . Hope u r well🙂

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Eddie_Vanjovi
Don't feel guilty. It's not your fault.

He's unfaithful. Don't expect him to ever be. Do more than just get space. Cut him off completely and start the healing process.

We were not officially together or exclusively tougher ... but he did lie coz I asked . knowing how important honesty is to me.... 😢... it hurts to completely cut him off... we had amazing time together despite the trust thing... I am trying..but thank you so much for saying that .....

If you're not exclusive then it's none of your business what he's doing.....if I were him I'd probably think you were a bit of a crazy bitch as well, but this is fixable. Aqua men can either be forgiving or absolutely not. Sounds like he is right now, so just play it off and stop being possessive. He isn't yours to possess, he doesn't belong to you, you aren't "his" he isn't "yours" so if you're going to be like this and need that over him all I can say is your have to move on because that is not going to slide with any guy who isn't trying to be exclusive.

Have enough self respect to just go and walk away if you don't feel comfortable, or enough self respect to let go of feelings and allow yourself to enjoy the fling without making yourself look nuts.

Personally I say he didn't do anything wrong from just this post because you made it clear there is no true relationship here. Get over it. Maybe move on, you don't seem fit for flings.

I like you

I'm sorry but you don't get it. It's not about him being with other women that annoyed me. It's him lying to me about it.'I told him early, if u sleep

Withnothee women it's fine just be honest with me about it. He said ofcoz I will tell you babe! The point isn't that he is with anyone the point is that I'm trying to prove his honesty which obviously .. I was right. The fear and the gut feeling I was right about it . He lied. He doesn't think it's a big deal. It is for me.

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Maybe he felt threatened, he had no obligation at all. It's none of your god damn business.

If you're so worried then obvi you can't handle it. If you're worried about STDs then tell him no sex until he gets checked if you have doubts. I don't see the problem beyond you being a little nuts about it.

Posted by leolionlady
Go have sex with someone in his car! A Leo, maybe...

Hahaha

....and leave a couple of condoms there as well as your heel marks on the inside roof

😛

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Posted by saweetz1988

Posted by Eddie_Vanjovi
Don't feel guilty. It's not your fault.

He's unfaithful. Don't expect him to ever be. Do more than just get space. Cut him off completely and start the healing process.

We were not officially together or exclusively tougher ... but he did lie coz I asked . knowing how important honesty is to me.... 😢... it hurts to completely cut him off... we had amazing time together despite the trust thing... I am trying..but thank you so much for saying that .....

If you're not exclusive then it's none of your business what he's doing.....if I were him I'd probably think you were a bit of a crazy bitch as well, but this is fixable. Aqua men can either be forgiving or absolutely not. Sounds like he is right now, so just play it off and stop being possessive. He isn't yours to possess, he doesn't belong to you, you aren't "his" he isn't "yours" so if you're going to be like this and need that over him all I can say is your have to move on because that is not going to slide with any guy who isn't trying to be exclusive.

Have enough self respect to just go and walk away if you don't feel comfortable, or enough self respect to let go of feelings and allow yourself to enjoy the fling without making yourself look nuts.

Personally I say he didn't do anything wrong from just this post because you made it clear there is no true relationship here. Get over it. Maybe move on, you don't seem fit for flings.

I like you

I'm sorry but you don't get it. It's not about him being with other women that annoyed me. It's him lying to me about it.'I told him early, if u sleep

Withnothee women it's fine just be honest with me about it. He said ofcoz I will tell you babe! The point isn't that he is with anyone the point is that I'm trying to prove his honesty which obviously .. I was right. The fear and the gut feeling I was right about it . He lied. He doesn't think it's a big deal. It is for me.

Maybe he felt threatened, he had no obligation at all. It's none of your god damn business.

If you're so worried then obvi you can't handle it. If you're worried about STDs then tell him no sex until he gets checked if you have doubts. I don't see the problem beyond you being a little nuts about it.

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We have discussed things honestly in he past, I was fine with it. Didn't do any act or was crazy like any emotional sign. I handle emotion well. I don't have to explain stuff to u. How the hell is it threaten. Everytime I asked him I always joke about it. it's not hard to admit to such act. Obviously u have no problem with lying and I do. Let's leave it as that. Can't b bother trying to prove my point to those who have differnt core values than mine. Just pointless

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Posted by leolionlady
Go have sex with someone in his car! A Leo, maybe...

Hahaha

....and leave a couple of condoms there as well as your heel make on the inside roof

😛

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Hahahah would love to do that 😉 lol nah, my time is precious. It's over now, he can't have sex with 10 women in there if he wants to lol

He can have sex *

Posted by infires
he wasn't worth the pain, he doesn't deserve you and he knows thats why he's letting you go

it's not five seconds..he just said that, trust. you deserve a loyal man, if that's what you're looking for.

also you did say that you weren't boyfriend and girlfriend, so if it was fwb..i really think you got too attached to him

It was never a fwb. He introduced me to his friends n really wanted me to like them. He kept telling me it wasn't fwb what we were building. But u r right I think he knows he doesn't deserve me that's why he's letting me go too....🙂 thank you for ur kind words. Yes I want a loyal man. At least someone who can be truly honest with me. It's that simple really.... funny how he told me it was upsetting how I didn't trust him.... lol... got to love it... thank you again

Posted by infires
he wasn't worth the pain, he doesn't deserve you and he knows thats why he's letting you go

it's not five seconds..he just said that, trust. you deserve a loyal man, if that's what you're looking for.

also you did say that you weren't boyfriend and girlfriend, so if it was fwb..i really think you got too attached to him

If he lied about one thing ... Can u imagine what more there is! ? He told me honestly that's the one thing he only lied to me about... once trust is broken it's impossible to build back... just sad....

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Posted by leolionlady
Go have sex with someone in his car! A Leo, maybe...

Hahaha

....and leave a couple of condoms there as well as your heel make on the inside roof

😛

Hahahah would love to do that 😉 lol nah, my time is precious. It's over now, he can't have sex with 10 women in there if he wants to lol

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Was the *can't* a Freudian slip? 😛

Karmic impotency maybe?

Lol

Smh.

She is a Taurus after all. Well fixed ideas in her head. Anyway, she surely enjoys his attention, even though she barely acknowledges his intentions. But she is a very nice girl and I like her. I wish her the best.

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Didn't you sneak into his car the day of you birthday.. when you were worried he might have an affair with a girl he was sexting... before you two ended it?

Or is this something that happened after you ended it?

In either cases why are you even worried about what happened?..

You found out the truth... like you always meant to..

You should worry about what happens now.....

He is already with someone new.. he's gone.. moving along.. while you are analyzing all the mess he made...

This is the way I see it,

You are not in control of someone else's motives or intentions. What you are in control of is how you react to it and if you can move forward positively.

I'm grateful for the fact that whether a guy treats me like shit, or is playing games I can move on very quickly. It doesn't mean I'll forgive him though.. at that point I grow extremely cold.

Just saying and actually doing it are two different things.

His signs were clear that he was never serious about her but she took it that way.

All the aquas of this board have been watching her continuous posts. We all knew.

Ok. I meant her just saying.. she would move on and then actually doing it... are 2 different things. What she does next is all upto her... I agree.

Ahh yeah.. we'll see because it's up to her.

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Nah he was fixed in the story that there was no other women. He only lied about when I was in Thailand that was it.. but maybe u r right, he has prob been having chicks on the side maybe not sex but courting per se. It's done now.. I don't want him back. When he lied about me things were amazing between us. That shows he's not a relationship material can't hold simple life value...! Honesty. I don't want that as my parter. Staying away from Aqua men for now that's for sure!!! I'm moving on. Seriously moving on. I have accepted my past and on my way to someone who can actually be honest lol... it's not that hard