wants marraige then backs out

My love from years ago had moved 18 hours away from me 2 years ago & we have kept in touch & realized we still have very strong feelings for each other. A month ago he came out & talked about marraige & me moving out there & to really think about it. I have, and said i would like to go sometime in the next year. Well now he's talking about someone he knows is getting married & talking like they're CRAZY! I am sooo confused & he is acting so distant. I know this is an aquaruius thing, BUT he's the one who brought it up!!! He's flying me out next month to visit for a week, but I almost don't want to bother if it will just break my heart. WHAT THE F?!!!! -about to break my Taurus heart

Perhaps he's got cold feet now.
but, he could be saying they are crazy cause in his opinion they are not a match.
go see him, this is the only way you can tell whats 'really' going on in a person.
I think us aqurians are honest, if he says he wants to marry you, then he does!
maybe he's just needing a bit of space for the time being. face to face will tell the story.

Aquarius Female

I don't think he's the right person for you. I think he still feels like he wants to sow his wild oats. Also, Taurus are the total opposite of Aquarians. To be honest, it wouldn't work. Aquarians are all over the place and disappear and reappear... The move too fast for slow and steady Taurus... Feelings or not, I don't think it would be healthy for you to continue that relationship.. Try a Capricorn. They would fit you the best.

I've confused several Taurans myself with my unpredictable behavior and loner ways... 'caused them much confused and emotional pains. They also hated the fact that they can't hoard me to themselves. I'm always doing my own thing.

I'm an Aquarius... I fit the best with Libra's, Gemini's, and Other Aquarians... Basically, I'm a textbook Aquarius. Maybe he's not. Maybe it'll work, but I think it would be better to find someone who will fit you better.

I hope everything turns out.

86fever,

aquarius with taurus male.. we get along great!!!! the relationship is all over these boards.. and going strong.. perhaps you should read.

aquarius female

I'm glad that you're able to work things out. There are exceptions to the rules, of course there will be. I'm happy for you.

However, I'm basing it on my personal experiences on the fact that I've dealt with textbook Taurus girls and I'm a textbook Aquarian guy. Also, I've read almost every horoscope to reference whether it will work out and here's what I've discovered:

From this site:
Aquarius & Taurus: Freedom loving Aquarius will soon slip away from possessive Taurus.

From Starlight Astrology:
Aquarius does not recognize superiors unless they earn his/her respect, they are unconventional, and hates formality. Aquarius will only talk at length with someone if they have something interesting to say. With Taurus the material things and security plays a big role, but not so with Aquarius. Aquarius enjoys work for the sole sake of sharpening the intellect and increasing his/her knowledge base; frequent job changes result from the quest to satisfy these needs.

Any differences he/she may have with Taurus, or anyone else, is expected to be discussed in a sensible and cool manner, disdaining emotions that Aquarius feels impairs the judgment. The time Aquarius takes to sort out other peoples problems and to save the world will stir the Taurean jealousy up to a fever pitch. Unfortunately for Taurus there is so sympathy or empathy forthcoming from Aquarius.

Aquarius puts a low emphasis on sex and places it far down on the list of necessities. This attitude could cause Taurus some major upsets as he/she will not be able to accept the problems of the whole world sharing his/her bed, which could cause Taurus to become over demanding in Aquarius' eyes. This is a good match to shy away from, not made in Heaven...definitely!

From: Paranormality.com

Aquarious will have the most difficult time with:
Taurus, Leo, Scorpio

From: Love Test.com (not really that venerable, but still an reference)
AQUARIUS & TAURUS: The stubborn Bull will have difficulties understanding the unpredictable side of you. Concessions will be necessary on the part of both of you if success is to follow.

What meant to say is that I've referenced several books and sites and most do not point to the Aquarian/Taurus union as a successful. If either of you aren't text book Astrology examples for your signs the rules are obviously different. I'm just giving you the straight up answers that I've found through life and research.

Its so amazing how aqua men and taurus women have such an awesome chemistry in the beginning..then it just goes so bad. I got tired of my aqua hurting my feelings for no reason. Very insensitive and non-chalont when it came to my feelings and needs. Nothing to him was a "big deal". It was too much. I miss him (especially the sex!!) but he had to go. A painful but necessary decision.

In my defence, he is an Aqua, yet he told a close friend of mine that I am the only woman he trusts. He has has always kept in touch with me after 4 years, even if the last 2 years he lives across the country. Next month he's flying me out to visit him. The consistancy through the years proves he's better than a flaky asshole. Perhaps it has been my consistant Taurean love than has helped him trust me & to even talk of a future together. How this is impossible I don't see?!! The only problem is, is my frustration of not being SURE of what he wants. After your comments I realize I don't need to know everything about him, he will let me know in time. Him just calling & caring shows me enough. Thank you to the Aqua-Taurus supporters!!! Love you guys.

86fever,

I have read that yes.. I have a strong emotion about this relationship at the same time, I know it can work, cause we are both striving for the same thing. Taurus keeps us grounded, while Aquaruis brings inspiration.

Read the 'Taurus board' "Aquarius & Taurus, has anyone had a relationship with?" My post is on the last page.. it's the best one I had seen on the Taurus/Aquaruis relationship.. I like the way it's written.. tells what I am feeling for sure.

This 'can' work, as long as aquarians remember to talk things through, and Taurus don't pull back at the same time out of 'playing payback'.
Sex cemistry is fantastic. Our goals are the same. He's practical.. keeps thins and me organized. I bring fun to his life, and show him how easy it is to deal with hardship.

Taurus Goddess

thats the way I feel... I feel I can really trust my Taurus male, cause he is soo Intense, and soo hard to get him to really fall for me easy..he was really causious ofd the start.. now he's starting to confess his feelings to me. I know that he is honest and speaks the truth, and will not mess around..he's serious about this relationship.. I can feel it, he makes me feel good when I am around him,, I get good vibes. This tells me I can trust him.

You said about the 'consistant taurus love' yes.. I feel that. He's always reasureing me that he's not going to mess with me.. he's there to help me out, and stand by my side.

Aqarius Female