What attracts the Aquarius women to a cancer man?

What makes you attracted to cancers (if so). how do you show your attraction. If you like a guy how do you approach him if you have a crush on him. Do you stare at them and smile and try to lock eye's? Or.. Well I don't know. Please fill me in. I think this girl that's into me and I also am into her is Aquarius since my sister is Aquarius I can some times tell by there personality. for example there more withdrawn seem shy but there not. artistic love art. she also dress very well and her figure fits the Aquarius description. But yea just wanna know how do you show your boy of interest attention what do you do to gain his attention? And also do you lose interest quickly?

Im pretty sure she isnt attracted to you because of your sign.
Ive dated a cancer and my best guy friend is a cancer.
My mother and eldser sister as well and a whole lot of others in the fam.

I probably will never date a cancer guy again. BUT its probably your sense of humor. You all are funny. Your kinda the complete opposite of us : dramatic, loud, abrasive/quick tempered, etc.

I used to flirt with the guys I didnt like and steer clear of those I did.

Yea you could be right. But this cancer seems to attract the Aquarius. It could be my Libra moon? Not sure. I do enjoy debating with an Aquarius about important stuff. Not arguing but talking with different perspectives on the situation at hand. Not all cancers are "Cancers" and same with the other signs. So ok. If you Like a guy you avoid him. interesting... She probably just think I'm cute. I always catch her eye tho. well thanks Lady_M that kinda helped a bit. Tho I'm still going to research more about you mysterious Aquarius "girls". One thing I do LOVE about them is that they all love art and have good taste in fashion. That is one of my passions. especially music. and photography. Graffiti art as well (not the lame gangster shit).

o, Im not saying she's not into you. Not at all. Its just when I was younger I would flirt and be I guess open to the guys I had no interest in and the total opposite with those I did. Its just 'safe' that way.


She probably is into you. There is a strange connection with aquas and cancers (once again it could be your sense of humor)...but ultimately we come from opposite sides of the spectrum. BUT you all are fun.

Keep flirting and maybe try asking her out. What do you have to lose?

I think Aquarians & Cancers are generally attracted to each other, BUT rather it works out or not in the long run is another story. Cancers seem to be so warm-hearted & always in need of advice about something & Aquas generally attract those who have a need to lean on us (Not saying Cancers are weak). I think when Aquas women are attracted to guys, we don't come off as too strong in the beginning. We are ourselves. We're not too touchy or affectionate & we def. don't throw ourselves at them. Instead we show them how intellectual we are & see how they react or respond to us. Usually we can tell when someone finds our conversations & our mindset intriging & when we know that they are "feeling" us, we let things go with the flow from there. We always try to appear in nice shape or in a classy manner. We attract guys through appealing to all of their senses. We show interest by asking them questions about themselves (We only ask when we really give a F)& through this technique, they realize that they are opening up to us because of the comfort level we've established with them. We are always trying to make others comfortable yet amazed by our poise & usually it works; Cancers immediately go for it & we like this.

BUT we start losing interest when the Cancers complain too much about the littlest of things or talk too much about the hurt they've experienced (We don't like it when the conversation starts to always be about the past & what who did what to them). We start to lose interest when we can sense being used for strength (we don't mind giving advice & helping someone, but we don't like it when we can sense desperation for love & for understanding because it's a sign of weakness & we start to question rather or not that Cancer or person is in the friendship with us because we are their shield or because we can BOTH do things for eachother mutually). Cancers like long-drawn out conversations just like we Aquas do but eventually when the conversations start to be about the same ole stuff over & over again, we get bored & irritated

Yea I agree. some cancers can be boring some times. but I do think it has a lot to do on the moon and ascendant signs. I some times slip and correct myself to change the subject quickly. However I do not feel like a cancer because I don't cling I find it annoying to me and to her. If a girl likes me more then I like her I lose interest I would feel like I'm being smothered. (Must feel some kind of connection and depends on the girl) Now Aquarius. That's a whole new ball game. Love it. love the space and when we do finally get together its intense. Love a strong women! just the way a Aquarius looks at me wow (if crushing). ANd yea that's exactly my point the whole not being very obvious when Aquarius has crush on someone. you set the field I am ready to play. lets play the eye game babe. I can also tell if an Aquarius is into me because we tend to lock eye's while she is talking to me but in a slow soft voice. And A smile at the end. Aquarius is one of the signs that just turns me on. I find myself having to hold myself back at times. You girls don't want a quick approach but more of a casual. Oooohh and I am willing to change my whole personality if I have to. I am motivated by women. I don't get along with other guys because I think there jealous of me because I attract the women. Tho I maybe flirty but If I fall for someone I will have my eye's set and prepare myself mentally and physically. So I can bring out the man of there dreams. Then I'd find out they have a boy friend and I'm like DAMNIT. Time to go home huge a pillow and move on. Thanks for all of your advice btw it helps.

Oh and Aquarius loves my personality I can make them laugh very easily =)

" What attracts the Aquarius women to a cancer man?"

"I can also tell if an Aquarius is into me because we tend to lock eye's while she is talking to me but in a slow soft voice."

I Wish I Truly Knew What Attracted Cancer Men Too Me. I Guess How Understanding & Caring Cancer Men Appear Attracts Me To Them, But It Always Starts Off As Some Guy (Who Always End Up Having A Cancer Sign) That Keep Staring At Me Until He Builds Up The Courage To Approach Me, I'm Usually Not Instantly Interested, Then He Becomes Somewhat Of A Persistent Pest, And I End Up Given In & Falling For Him. My Birth Chart Has A Lot Of Earth/Water Signs So That May Have Something To Do With It, Even Though Astrology Predicts Aquarius/Cancer Match To Not Succeed, I Believe Any Couple Can Succeed, With Adjustments, Understanding, & Love. I Find Myself More Compatible To Zodiac Signs That I Am Supposedly Incompatible (Vice Versa).

Answer to the question is in the psychology behind the question itself.

She haven't said she is attracted to you. You assumed it from her facial gestures and behavior. And without cross checking you began to imagine that she is attracted to you whereas its you who is trying to attract her. She is only being friendly. And you posted a thread with a title "What attracts the Aquarius women to a cancer man?" as if you are so sure that she is attracted to you.

Aquas are friendly with everyone. They don't look around for a lover in a stranger like most girls do. They fall for their good friend than someone who is chasing them for sex. But then i can be wrong.

Im definitely talking about caners. I have quite a few in my life. They all naturally speak very loud...even when there not going through the histrionics.

*cancers

"They all naturally speak very loud...even when there not going through the histrionics."

WOWWW!!! (Thinking in her head: Very very true)...This is crazy...Some of the things other say about Cancers (from their OWN point of view) that I never realized to be one of those "duh" thing is that they ARE very Loud! And sometimes I don't think it's necessarily all for attention, but just because they are constantly feeling like they need to be HEARD in any situation at any place

I'm not loud...

((I'm not loud...))

It could be wishful thinking. I haven't yet met a cancer who is not loud while in a group of people they know for a long time. They look shy in front of a stranger for a while but once they get comfortable, the constant need for attentions pops out.

How are things going shinsho?

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BUT we start losing interest when the Cancers complain too much about the littlest of things or talk too much about the hurt they've experienced (We don't like it when the conversation starts to always be about the past & what who did what to them). We start to lose interest when we can sense being used for strength (we don't mind giving advice & helping someone, but we don't like it when we can sense desperation for love & for understanding because it's a sign of weakness & we start to question rather or not that Cancer or person is in the friendship with us because we are their shield or because we can BOTH do things for eachother mutually). Cancers like long-drawn out conversations just like we Aquas do but eventually when the conversations start to be about the same ole stuff over & over again, we get bored & irritated

You are correct on this. As a Cancer I am currently so drawn to an Aquarius Sun /Scorpio Moon woman that I almost knew that if I didnt play it correctly that it could end up like this and it was too good of an opportunity to pass up.I knew I had alot to learn from this person and it was almost like it was written in the stars that I had to experience this person even if we never ended up romantic. I knew I could eventually could bring out my emotional side when it was the right time as her Scorpio moon wouldn't deny me of that when things got intense but her Aquarius Sun was going to to prevent that from happening until the time was right and I respected that as I don't want someone desperate either when it comes down to it. I knew any kind of conventional way of doing things had to be thrown out the window and if I relied on my Cancer sun in the beginning I would get nowhere. I tapped fully on my Gemini rising to keep things lighthearted and intentionally make myself aloofish in the beginning as it seems when I tapped into this energy it keeps the Aquarius interested and I don't come off as needy too soon. This woman can get a man easily if she really needed one and I knew I had to keep myself interested in other things as I could easily blow it messaging her too much if I didn't have other stuff like work and social engagements. I didn't want her to know I was focused on her but I tapped into my Pisces moon to show her I was a humanitarian as well at my core and would buy her nice things as a friend and just disappear until she texted me again.I didn't want her to feel like she was obligated to like me and my Cancer Sun fully understood growth would not happen unless I realized how to be a friend with a woman properly first.

The thing is after about 7 months and her talking about guys that came on too strong to her and not being gentleman and too needy acting so quickly I fully knew the combination of my Gemini rising and Pisces Moon had protected my sun in this situation from vulnerability and kept enough mystery about me so that she would at least still want me in her life as a friend. However there was only so much I misdirect until I had to show at my core I am a Cancer at the end of the day or I would be a fraud and I would at least say that I tried even if I failed. I could sense her Scorpio moon was tapping in more and more and that there were alot unspoken things that needed to be said as I knew she had a huge wall built up but no just anyone could deserve that. I felt like she could sense I saw right through it and wanted to come clean with me. I knew her Scorpio moon is what brought this all together as if she didn't have any water in her chart I would just have to quit while I was ahead and knew the best I could get was probably a sexual partner even though I wanted the whole package.

We ended up talking for hours about her life one night in general and she enamored me with her wisdom even in how she truly loved in a way that was the correct way. She was a true life partner to people once she committed even when they messed up and showed them the same type of love as she did from day one and still wanted to be friends with them even after things went south. This taught me that all I really wanted in life was someone who wouldn't focus on when I didn't live up to expectations and that you can have fun in life without feeling there always has to be an emotional charge at all times. I didn't have to have some deep emotional connection with someone in order to be happy is what i learned from all this and I felt like we exchanged some kind of deep rooted humanitarian ideal where

we both realized we needed each and that we didn't have to be in super heavy in order to enjoy each other as human beings. When the time was right we made love and I was surprised at how she let just channel my emotions in that regard and that how innocent a soul she really was at her core and how few people let you really see that. Even though it was emotionally charged in the bedroom I felt relaxed as I finally figured out I could find an outlet for that part of me where it doesn't have to the bane of who I am all the time. Even if it doesn't work out I feel like I have grown from the experience and I truly would like to have her as a friend in some regard in my life from now on that truly is one.

Wow a 9 year old thread.