What happens if you cant an Aqua man without notice and leave them forever?

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I have been in a relationship with an aqua man for about a year. He tells me he loves me, he told me about his darkest secrets but at the same time he told me he is not ready for marriage and he did not promise me anything.
I like his honesty, he is a sweet heart but I loved him. I gave him all of the freedom he wants, I know he talks to other girls and sometime he shares with me his talks with them.
One time he told me that doesn't matter how many girls he talks to, I will always be number one. I am not sure what that is supposed to mean!
Recently he told me that he is looking to get married and he is looking for a girl! when he mentioned that, I felt like a stab in the heart and I am not sure how to behave or how to act.

I just feel like completely cutting him off without mentioning anything. Will he care if I do that?

What should I do? and what is he thinking from an aqua perspective? Was he playing me around and lying about his love? how can he love someone and look for someone else to get married to!?? I don't understand!

I am a Leo female.
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Posted by leo91111
I have been in a relationship with an aqua man for about a year. He tells me he loves me, he told me about his darkest secrets but at the same time he told me he is not ready for marriage and he did not promise me anything.
I like his honesty, he is a sweet heart but I loved him. I gave him all of the freedom he wants, I know he talks to other girls and sometime he shares with me his talks with them.
One time he told me that doesn't matter how many girls he talks to, I will always be number one. I am not sure what that is supposed to mean!
Recently he told me that he is looking to get married and he is looking for a girl! when he mentioned that, I felt like a stab in the heart and I am not sure how to behave or how to act.

I just feel like completely cutting him off without mentioning anything. Will he care if I do that?

What should I do? and what is he thinking from an aqua perspective? Was he playing me around and lying about his love? how can he love someone and look for someone else to get married to!?? I don't understand!

I am a Leo female.
He likes you, but you're not "the one". I'm sorry. 😢
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I think he said that to get a reaction from you.

I always say that not matter what I do, my feelings won't change. I can go out with 10 guys and it won't mean a thing if I have feelings for another.
What should I do in this case?
Does he know you have feelings for him? I'm assuming he does as you said you were/are in a relationship and he told you he loves you.

What did you say when he told you he wants to get married and stuff?

Sometimes I say things to test the waters or to find out what other people think etc.
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Yes, I told him more than once that I love him. when he mentioned the marriage topic, I told him best of luck and I hope he will find what he is looking for. The thing is, he knows I love him and I want him!
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I have been in a relationship with an aqua man for about a year. He tells me he loves me, he told me about his darkest secrets but at the same time he told me he is not ready for marriage and he did not promise me anything.
I like his honesty, he is a sweet heart but I loved him. I gave him all of the freedom he wants, I know he talks to other girls and sometime he shares with me his talks with them.
One time he told me that doesn't matter how many girls he talks to, I will always be number one. I am not sure what that is supposed to mean!
Recently he told me that he is looking to get married and he is looking for a girl! when he mentioned that, I felt like a stab in the heart and I am not sure how to behave or how to act.

I just feel like completely cutting him off without mentioning anything. Will he care if I do that?

What should I do? and what is he thinking from an aqua perspective? Was he playing me around and lying about his love? how can he love someone and look for someone else to get married to!?? I don't understand!

I am a Leo female.
He likes you, but you're not "the one". I'm sorry. 😢
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I only say this because if you were "the one", he wouldn't be talking to other girls.

Just my opinion...

Aquas are a different breed than most of us though. Seems like I'm the only one who took what he said this way....so, there ya go.
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I have been in a relationship with an aqua man for about a year. He tells me he loves me, he told me about his darkest secrets but at the same time he told me he is not ready for marriage and he did not promise me anything.
I like his honesty, he is a sweet heart but I loved him. I gave him all of the freedom he wants, I know he talks to other girls and sometime he shares with me his talks with them.
One time he told me that doesn't matter how many girls he talks to, I will always be number one. I am not sure what that is supposed to mean!
Recently he told me that he is looking to get married and he is looking for a girl! when he mentioned that, I felt like a stab in the heart and I am not sure how to behave or how to act.

I just feel like completely cutting him off without mentioning anything. Will he care if I do that?

What should I do? and what is he thinking from an aqua perspective? Was he playing me around and lying about his love? how can he love someone and look for someone else to get married to!?? I don't understand!

I am a Leo female.
He likes you, but you're not "the one". I'm sorry. 😢
I only say this because if you were "the one", he wouldn't be talking to other girls.

Just my opinion...

Aquas are a different breed than most of us though. Seems like I'm the only one who took what he said this way....so, there ya go.
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The thing is, you could be right.

One of the great things about Aquarius is that if she asks him directly, he'll likely answer honestly, and then she'll know.
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I have been in a relationship with an aqua man for about a year. He tells me he loves me, he told me about his darkest secrets but at the same time he told me he is not ready for marriage and he did not promise me anything.
I like his honesty, he is a sweet heart but I loved him. I gave him all of the freedom he wants, I know he talks to other girls and sometime he shares with me his talks with them.
One time he told me that doesn't matter how many girls he talks to, I will always be number one. I am not sure what that is supposed to mean!
Recently he told me that he is looking to get married and he is looking for a girl! when he mentioned that, I felt like a stab in the heart and I am not sure how to behave or how to act.

I just feel like completely cutting him off without mentioning anything. Will he care if I do that?

What should I do? and what is he thinking from an aqua perspective? Was he playing me around and lying about his love? how can he love someone and look for someone else to get married to!?? I don't understand!

I am a Leo female.
He likes you, but you're not "the one". I'm sorry. 😢
I only say this because if you were "the one", he wouldn't be talking to other girls.

Just my opinion...

Aquas are a different breed than most of us though. Seems like I'm the only one who took what he said this way....so, there ya go.
The thing is, you could be right.

One of the great things about Aquarius is that if she asks him directly, he'll likely answer honestly, and then she'll know.
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We've definitely learned that, haven't we? lol!
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I think he said that to get a reaction from you.

I always say that not matter what I do, my feelings won't change. I can go out with 10 guys and it won't mean a thing if I have feelings for another.
What should I do in this case?
Does he know you have feelings for him? I'm assuming he does as you said you were/are in a relationship and he told you he loves you.

What did you say when he told you he wants to get married and stuff?

Sometimes I say things to test the waters or to find out what other people think etc.
Yes, I told him more than once that I love him. when he mentioned the marriage topic, I told him best of luck and I hope he will find what he is looking for. The thing is, he knows I love him and I want him!
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If I asked and my boyfriend replied like you, I would be mortified at first, but then come back full force to see what his attitude really meant.

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I have been in a relationship with an aqua man for about a year. He tells me he loves me, he told me about his darkest secrets but at the same time he told me he is not ready for marriage and he did not promise me anything.
I like his honesty, he is a sweet heart but I loved him. I gave him all of the freedom he wants, I know he talks to other girls and sometime he shares with me his talks with them.
One time he told me that doesn't matter how many girls he talks to, I will always be number one. I am not sure what that is supposed to mean!
Recently he told me that he is looking to get married and he is looking for a girl! when he mentioned that, I felt like a stab in the heart and I am not sure how to behave or how to act.

I just feel like completely cutting him off without mentioning anything. Will he care if I do that?

What should I do? and what is he thinking from an aqua perspective? Was he playing me around and lying about his love? how can he love someone and look for someone else to get married to!?? I don't understand!

I am a Leo female.
He likes you, but you're not "the one". I'm sorry. 😢
I only say this because if you were "the one", he wouldn't be talking to other girls.

Just my opinion...

Aquas are a different breed than most of us though. Seems like I'm the only one who took what he said this way....so, there ya go.
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I took it as he talks to other girls as friends.
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Posted by leo91111
I have been in a relationship with an aqua man for about a year. He tells me he loves me, he told me about his darkest secrets but at the same time he told me he is not ready for marriage and he did not promise me anything.
I like his honesty, he is a sweet heart but I loved him. I gave him all of the freedom he wants, I know he talks to other girls and sometime he shares with me his talks with them.
One time he told me that doesn't matter how many girls he talks to, I will always be number one. I am not sure what that is supposed to mean!
Recently he told me that he is looking to get married and he is looking for a girl! when he mentioned that, I felt like a stab in the heart and I am not sure how to behave or how to act.

I just feel like completely cutting him off without mentioning anything. Will he care if I do that?

What should I do? and what is he thinking from an aqua perspective? Was he playing me around and lying about his love? how can he love someone and look for someone else to get married to!?? I don't understand!

I am a Leo female.
He likes you, but you're not "the one". I'm sorry. 😢
I only say this because if you were "the one", he wouldn't be talking to other girls.

Just my opinion...

Aquas are a different breed than most of us though. Seems like I'm the only one who took what he said this way....so, there ya go.
I disagree.
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See, I was "the one" shortly after we started seeing each other but we broke up a lot, saw other people in between, he saw me and another girl at the same time, and eventually he decided for sure.

Aquas do everything in their power to make damn sure that "the one" is really the One.

TrueCap met hers after they were grown and mature. That makes a lot of difference.
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I know this is in the aquarius forum but just… HOW?! I am totally confused by this coming from a leo. Literally scratching my head lol. Wuuutttt…
Why?
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Because leo women won't usually do competition. If they do, they'll get right in between the two, usurp the girl's friendship, make them feel guilty, and dog them out in the process. They'll be in control. Extremely rare and a waste of time in the end.. Usually successful, but they'll still be disgusted and will leave anyway after they proved their point. Leos are regal. The crown isn't up for grabs or negotiable. Friends are fine.. But saying you are looking to get married and straight up telling her that you are looking for a girl? Even if she sticks around for a minute, you've turned a switch off.. And she will be all head no heart. You'll feel it. It will suck pretty bad. She'll be gone soon.
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I know this is in the aquarius forum but just… HOW?! I am totally confused by this coming from a leo. Literally scratching my head lol. Wuuutttt…
Why?
Because leo women won't usually do competition. If they do, they'll get right in between the two, usurp the girl's friendship, make them feel guilty, and dog them out in the process. They'll be in control. Extremely rare and a waste of time in the end.. Usually successful, but they'll still be disgusted and will leave anyway after they proved their point. Leos are regal. The crown isn't up for grabs or negotiable. Friends are fine.. But saying you are looking to get married and straight up telling her that you are looking for a girl? Even if she sticks around for a minute, you've turned a switch off.. And she will be all head no heart. You'll feel it. It will suck pretty bad. She'll be gone soon.
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This is exactly how I feel now. I am actually disgusted by what he said and I feel like disappearing from his life. I am not sure how to deal with this situation. Sometimes I feel like fuming at him but then I hold myself. I dont know what to do 😢 I am heart broken
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I know this is in the aquarius forum but just… HOW?! I am totally confused by this coming from a leo. Literally scratching my head lol. Wuuutttt…
Why?
Because leo women won't usually do competition. If they do, they'll get right in between the two, usurp the girl's friendship, make them feel guilty, and dog them out in the process. They'll be in control. Extremely rare and a waste of time in the end.. Usually successful, but they'll still be disgusted and will leave anyway after they proved their point. Leos are regal. The crown isn't up for grabs or negotiable. Friends are fine.. But saying you are looking to get married and straight up telling her that you are looking for a girl? Even if she sticks around for a minute, you've turned a switch off.. And she will be all head no heart. You'll feel it. It will suck pretty bad. She'll be gone soon.



This is exactly how I feel now. I am actually disgusted by what he said and I feel like disappearing from his life. I am not sure how to deal with this situation. Sometimes I feel like fuming at him but then I hold myself. I dont know what to do 😢 I am heart broken
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Yep.
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This may explain why all Leo women I know ended up living without a partner...
A pisces would say that.
No, there are other people who know them too 🙂
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So leos are single because they didn't stay around for someone who told them they're looking for someone else? LOL!!! Nearly every leo female I know is either committed or married. That's not just leos though.. Nearly every sign would look for the nearest exit if they were told that unless they have severe issues.
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@Undine

The OP states:
"Recently he told me that he is looking to get married and he is looking for a girl!"

Hello how could you miss it. Leo is king/queen of the zodiac so.. Imaginary you say? 🙂 The sun is home in leo.. Just like the moon is home in cancer, and so on.. The view that they see themselves as such is grossly exaggerated but in matters of the heart they do see you and themselves as King and Queen. Not servants.
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I think he said that to get a reaction from you.

I always say that no matter what I do, my feelings won't change. I can go out with 10 guys and it won't mean a thing if I have feelings for another.

I am sorry this is kinda out of topic but how do you know a Gemini moon likes you for real? When do you guys use the friendzone tool?
I befriend everybody...it can become something else or not. One of my exes is still my bff to this day. I don't friendzone anyone, I can see a guy as a friend now but there's always a chance that I'll change my mind.

I have many air placements though. Open a thread 😛
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Done! It's in the moon signs forum 🙂 thank you!
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@Undine

The OP states:
"Recently he told me that he is looking to get married and he is looking for a girl!"

Hello how could you miss it. Leo is king/queen of the zodiac so.. Imaginary you say? 🙂 The sun is home in leo.. Just like the moon is home in cancer, and so on.. The view that they see themselves as such is grossly exaggerated but in matters of the heart they do see you and themselves as King and Queen. Not servants.
Are you really as dumb as you sound? Well, don't go any near Aquas!

That is what I said:

As I recall, he said he was looking for a girl to marry.....isn't OP a girl?

Do Leo females consider themselves men in drag, perhaps?


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"Recently he told me that he is looking to get married and he is looking for a girl! when he mentioned that, I felt like a stab in the heart and I am not sure how to behave or how to act."

@Undine, you're boring. Nice try though.. However pathetic.
He said he was looking for a girl to marry. FACT.

The rest of the sentence is HER emotive response to HER OWN (mis ?) judgement of the situation.

So here here dumby...got it now?



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I know this is in the aquarius forum but just… HOW?! I am totally confused by this coming from a leo. Literally scratching my head lol. Wuuutttt…
Why?
Because leo women won't usually do competition. If they do, they'll get right in between the two, usurp the girl's friendship, make them feel guilty, and dog them out in the process. They'll be in control. Extremely rare and a waste of time in the end.. Usually successful, but they'll still be disgusted and will leave anyway after they proved their point. Leos are regal. The crown isn't up for grabs or negotiable. Friends are fine.. But saying you are looking to get married and straight up telling her that you are looking for a girl? Even if she sticks around for a minute, you've turned a switch off.. And she will be all head no heart. You'll feel it. It will suck pretty bad. She'll be gone soon.



This is exactly how I feel now. I am actually disgusted by what he said and I feel like disappearing from his life. I am not sure how to deal with this situation. Sometimes I feel like fuming at him but then I hold myself. I dont know what to do 😢 I am heart broken
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This is why Aquas and Leos don't mix well. You have two people with a lot of ego. The idea that an Aqua wants a competition is ridiculous and only points out how truly different the thought process is behind the sign. Aquarius will study you intently before making that final step. We want to know EVERYTHING, we're like paparazzi in celebrity trash, we want the good, the bad, the ugly, so we can make an informed decision about spending the rest of our lives with someone and giving them our devotion. The airyer the Aqua the more likely you are to encounter this gauntlet. It wont make sense, we'll break patterned behavior, come across with bizarre conversations, play hot and cold, it's trial by fire.

This is usually an affront to Leo's ego. After all, who is Aquarius to make you jump through hoops? Here you are trying to show Aqua your best self, what you take pride in, and that gets ignored as your secrets are pried out. You have to have somewhat thick skin to have a successful, romantic relationship with a Aqua.