whats going on in your head aqua man with scorpio

I'm in a relationship with an aqua man with a scorpio moon. Curious how does that scorpio moon play into your analyzing logical brain? When u disappear to analyze life events how does that scorpio moon effect you? I would imagine it would make things much more difficult and the time needed to come back might be longer?? I also have a scorpio moon too with a scorpio Sun so it's just natural and my time away to thing is purely emotional and feeling.

Posted by VanillaShake
I'm in a relationship with an aqua man with a scorpio moon. Curious how does that scorpio moon play into your analyzing logical brain? When u disappear to analyze life events how does that scorpio moon effect you? I would imagine it would make things much more difficult and the time needed to come back might be longer?? I also have a scorpio moon too with a scorpio Sun so it's just natural and my time away to thing is purely emotional and feeling.

Rupaul has a scorpio sun and scorpio moon, he's one of the smartest and emotionally mature person I know of.

I'm aquarius with scorpio moon......Sometimes I feel as if my moons subconscious is a completely different entity in my head, I can be very jealous, cruel, masochistic, sexually promiscuous and overly excessive when I drink or take drugs I go all the way and I won't stop until its all gone,
The reason I feel that its separate is because I don't like associating myself with that kind of stuff, me being a level headed aquarian man who is under control.

I have internal struggles dealing with my moon and it became a problem because my moon is always trying to egg on my sun and psyche it out and make it slip because my sun is so uptight, for example I did a course on responsible alcohol service and there was a hot guy in my course sitting in front of me, I glanced at his page which was in front of him to see what his name was, all of a sudden I heard myself say "Douglas" out loud, and it definitely wasn't my aquarian sun that said that, I believe it was the scorpio moon in me trying to make me embarrassed, which I was when he turned around.....but yeh its always making itself known and rearing its head when I'm at my most vulnerable,

I can't even look at random peoples profile pictures on Facebook because I'm scared ill click like on their page even though I'm super weary not to click like I find myself staring and the like button longer than I should and again its like my moon is going to make me click it.

I know what I'm saying sounds completely stupid and psychotic but I'm like that on the inside, so many ups and downs its like both consciousness and subconscious are fighting for the microphone, but when they are in harmony together I'm like the best person in the world, it all comes down to me accepting my scorpio traits and not feeling embarrassed, actually its more abou

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But I can definitely something similar with my aqua man. We text and I will say something sweet to him and it shows him texting for awhile and back up. Then he might just say thanks or a smiley. When I tell him in person when we are alone that I love him he Will hug me really hard or this last time he sorta swatted my leg that was under the blankets. I can look into his eyes and see those searing scorpio I love you too eyes. I can see him and feel him when he is hurting. But he himself is in such a power struggle with what he would impulsively say with the feeling he has at that moment and to hold back. As a scorpio with scorpio holding most of my planets and rising I don't understand why he can't open up and tell me. We only live once and tomorrow isn't guaranteed. Makes me sad.

@The_eleventh_sign_11,

Is it, lack of a better word, a demonic like ego that tries to destroy your esteem at any given moment?

Maybe at times you think and feel you've got it, but a voice inside your head tells you your not good enough, and will never have it. It angers you, and you push yourself harder. But your not really pushing yourself harder, but actually pushing the world around you harder.

Because of this you hold a great or destructive power over the world. A power that will send you to the brink of insanity and back time after time. You may start to think no one cares, and you slowly become cynical. Its all a lesson, and your mortal body desperately hopes you learn it. This giant intense ball of energy hurts, but you have to grab ahold of it and gain control.

You've learned nothing, but you will. Your emotions are a fixed and will never change. They are programmed to change the world around them, but never change themselves. Your power can be used to heal and help the world, which will mend the intense ball of energy that wounds you time after time. Or you can chose to hurt and destroy, which will let the energy consume you, and turn something great into nothing at all.

This makes me incredibly sad reading all that..... scorpios handle dark and dangerous so well and it's natural for us to feel to the extreme.... I want to know my aquarius better and he's not one to open up to me about these things. The first time he ran away for a day after I got upset with him I asked him why he did that and he said ... he didn't know why.... I know he knows why, but doesn't want to reveal his vulnerability to me. Which is silly cause he reads astrology and seen my birth chart and who I am and knows that a scorpio especially with one in 5 planets like myself is strong enough to feel and know (maybe not in detail) what might be going on. If he would open up I could maybe help him understand his scorpio moon better....... but lack of communication will be the end of any strong/intense relationship.....

if anyone else has some input I would love to hear it too... at least think of it as helping one of your fellow waterbearers who has a really good heart by helping me figure out what he needs from his emotionally fused scorpio... this makes me so sad

He may be facing a period of low self esteem. He could also be facing a moment in life where he is caught up in his own problems/emotions and afraid to open up. He's afraid because the crossfire may hurt you as well.

He rather walk away and make himself suffer then make you both suffer. The problem is he doesn't realize he's making you both suffer anyway. Scorpio moons tend to be their own worse enemy, and find it hard to face problems as a team. There so use to doing it alone.

Some opinionated solutions would be comfort him the best you can. Show him safety and stability, which will make him trust you better. At the same time give him reasons to give you his safety and stability. By this I mean show him safety and stability but also give him reasons to heal and mend you. Scorpio moons love to heal and help, which is somewhat the same as Aquarius sun's.

I think it could make a perfect match, but you have to try and find ways to make it that. Unfortunately I don't know you or him even 15% , so it's hard to judge exactly what to do.

Omg Soul everything you say is the truth, a lot of what you say is what I'm coming to terms with currently I'm trying so hard to not by cynical because it makes me so ugly and my optimism is my most attractive trait. Thank you so much I know I have to help and do what I was meant to and I haven't been doing it and its been crippling me and I've been pissing people off and I know why but I know its because I'm not doing something right lol.

I need to know more of what I should do and how to do it,


Sorry vanilla shake I forgot what I wrote 😛

I definitely think it is low self esteem...... I am his first lover/relationship/anything since his wife divorced and left him for another man a little over a year ago. The holidays were very rough on him and my emotional stuff and wants were hard on him.... he hurt me several times without realize it until I said something but by then I was already in tears.

I couldn't agree with you more about scorpio moons wanting to go it alone... I don't like making others suffer for my issues.... I will tune off and go into myself to internally deal with my issues... when I know also that when I start to feel like im getting down I want him because he is my happy and grabbing at him to hold me is what I want but it's a lot I know for an aquarius to take, at the same time he has done this for me and made it all better.

I tell him almost daily when we are going well that I love him and that I'm going to stick it out no matter what because he's worth it. I intuitively feel he needs those words... I can't really explain how I know but ... I know that he needs it and appreciates the reminder that he is special to me.

Basically we are both in our 30's single parents... our reputations with our friends and family is that we are both very very good people and go above and beyond for even strangers.... we both are extremely hard working people that value family.. he even has a tattooed arm of a bee comb with a bee on the underside he says because they work together as a team for the better of the colony instead of for themselves. I believe we very pretty perfect for each other... we both challenge each other to be better people.... great encouragement and we have that valued friendship already. I want a friend and lover just as much as any aqua.... I don't need all the fluff to make me happy.. just a loyal caring person. I know he has self esteem issues..... I know he needs me too.... I make him feel loved and strong. I hate seeing any of my loved one's hurting..... it just kills me inside that I can't do anything.. when he's silent..... I try to limit my emotional episodes and I have pulled up all the strength I could to work on my patience during these times cause I want to respect his space that he asks for.

Eleventh sign I feel for you being a fello scorpio moon. Have you though of doing maybe some volunteer work? To put that big heart and hard working ethic in you to good use? I've been volunteering for shelters and zoos and museums and anything I can for many years now and it is extremely rewarding. Makes me feel so good to help others.

My poor bf. I wish I would just be okay with him being so distant lately. I just wish I knew what was going on his head right now or at least get some reassurance every once in awhile from him that we are okay. I take it so personally at least at first when he ignores my texts and phone calls lately. Then two days later he will answer like nothing is wrong.

You can't take it personally becuase it's not really about you. It's about them and what's going on in their heads.

Bad news is, it makes everyone else around them that care about them feel insignificant.

That's why anyone who wants to date them needs to have patience and thick skin.

Unfortunately scorpios more than likely have neither one of those.

Thankfully my mars is in Capricorn and my venus is in Sagittarius so patience is actually there and my sag allows me to understand his need for freedom. Unfortunately it's my watery moon that starts to miss after awhile. Especially if I am routined into hearing from him often. If he noticed in our relationship that when I even just get a hi text from him I just typically stay cool and awesome. Its when he goes totally silent that it bothers me. Obviously yeah I feel insignificant at that point. I just connect to that moon with him and worry about him. I've got so many projects to change the world myself I am pretty content with the space. Thick skin I do not have but I have all guy friends and I played full contact ice hockey all the way to college and travel level so I'm a pretty tough cookie dealing with adults telling me I shouldn't play with boys cause I'll get hurt. I was picked on my whole childhood so I can take it. Its when I disappoint someone or hurt them that I actually suffer.