when they say i hate you

I've read it means a few different things, but WHAT THE HECK? does he mean it?

I asked him if he did, he said no but i don't why he would even say that.

haha! I mean it *seems* like he's just playing and I mean he's a stranger to lying... but =S . I used to say that when I was just messing around and I was in love with someone. Heh.. my moon in scorpio doesn't like having/admitting an attachment, but I don't know if it's the same reason for him. But keep in mind.. I'm only 19 and he's ONLY 18.

well methy.. i guess that's a good way of looking at it

wait methy! It's not like I actually want him to hate me though..!!

so for instance.. you're saying IF he actually hates me (maliciously) it's a good thing? ..YOU ARE CRAZY. sorry but you don't make sense.

It's strange for an Aqua...
As much as they can't say I love you, they can't say I hate you either...that's just too much verbal emotion for them.

I can't say my Aqua would ever say something like that even in his worst temper...but my Gemini ex used to say it all the time, in fact he even used to say he wished I'd die...then cry sorry about it afterwards...I don't think he meant it but it was not acceptable either way. The minute these things start being said the respect goes for a ball of sh1t so I'd nip it in the bud right now and let it be known that you will not tolerate that again.

actually does this person have Venus in Aries?

cause I get told all the time...by my friend...and not in a mean way either....they say "I hate you" with my name at the end.....but I know this person means the opposite.....of I hate you.....they say it in a playful manner lol ( if that makes sense)

And another person who also had Venus in Aries....I heard them say that to a friend for remebering her B-day but "I hate you" but this person also meant the opposite .......so these two people had Venus in Aries.....so for them....they need some from of confrontation in order to love someone

just a thought 🙂

i'm 99% sure he was joking, and I love that guy so part of me can't help but not care. His venus is in Aquarius and mine is in Taurus... which would make our composite venus in Aries.

I told Aqua guy at one point last year that "you can make me hate you" and he backed off for a minute.
Then he in turn told me he didn't love me. He didn't trust me. Not to trust anyone.

Then at one time I was asking him to leave me alone and go do what he does, I dint want him, I said to him "you don't have any emotions involved so it should not be difficult for you", he said "PGA I do have emotions involved" so with that? MAN they are hard pressed to see emotion from, but will quickly tell me as well, "never call me again", then he calls, and "delete my number" ,he has mine memorized and he calls, etc.......see the say what they don't really mean, or reverse psych? LOL

Tough cookies, tough tough cookie he is, was, whatever, Aqua typical mostly from what I read here. IDK? still checking it all out!

aquipa.... I know he was jokin.. well i'm almost sure he was, cus when this aqua doesn't like someone.. he tells them to leave his life. BUT yeah so

"Unless they're kidding about the hate thing, then that can mean that they love you. Wait. Do you have a sharpie and a large tablet so that i can make a flow chart? I could mindmap it out for you. I'd need the better part of the day though. Never mind."

heh, flow chart of what?