Why are Aqua men so addictive?!! (Page 2)

being rude; thanx for the advice!

Posted by truecap

Posted by Zetarose

Plz just get off; everyone processes things differently he meant a lot to me; Ya it's been 8 months- i can't help the way I feerl tho! So you need to leave my thread plz

YOU came onto the Aqua board. She is an aqua who is actually giving you REAL insight into the aqua mind. You don't like what she has to say so you tell her to leave your thread?

I think this is pretty telling. I have a suspiscion that your aquaman probably did give you warnings and told you he didn't like your "nagging" and you chose to ignore the warning and do it anyway.

Basically, your demanding reassurance ruined it for him. Your aqua man is grounded with all that capricorn. Also means he isn't comfortable with emotions and he's DEFINTELY not going to put his emotions into words. Capricorn shows love by actions (moon and venus). You couldn't read the actions, you wanted words that he couldn't give. He's probably sitting there like "I'm still coming around aren't I? I'm contacting you aren't I? I'm showing you how I feel and it's not good enough". An aqua doesn't give reassurance - that's up to you to find your own reassurance. I've been there, I know how it feels, but I went with the flow and was patient and gave him time to open up. I recognized all the good he was doing. I get more reassurance now that I ever thought he'd be able to give. It takes time.

The fear of losing him made you become desperate. The constant demands for reassurance became needy and clingy. He felt smothered, so he wanted out. I'm sure you're a nice person and people are just being honest with you. All you can do now is move on and please stop obsessing - you're only hurting yourself. Suck it up as a life lesson learned and move on.

You going to ask me to leave your thread, too?

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not in reading all of them; I'm sorry I don't have time to reply to all the posts🙂

Posted by AquaMermaid

Posted by truecap

Posted by AquaMermaid
Capricorn Moons are very serious people.If they don't see a future with you, they won't waste a single minute with you.His time is precious and he invests his emotions very carefully.Your idea of togetherness may have been debating/talking a lot but Cap Mooners just can't do LDR.Infact same goes for Aquarians.Cap Mooners are very independent people,they need care but they don't want someone babying them.

Right on point! I'm a cap moon and I won't even consider LDR. It's neither practical nor feasible.

Yeah told her so but I guess I am invisible to her.

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Ok.. Thank you for all your insightful Aquarius advice... I take advice from kind people, I can tell in your words you are not happy. And I feel bad for you, so thank you I do appreciate your advice too🙂))!! Ok I'm done bye bye

Posted by flowingwater
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I don't do rude. I do REAL. Don't get with an aqua again because you obviously can't handle one. Your emotions are messy.

You guys we're getting our first gem9!! Lol
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After reading through this thread I still don't know what you're actually asking for. So I will just say

- No Aqua here is going to be the same as your Aqua dude
- You can pick up apart his placements and still not have your answer
- No matter how logical or how amazing your deduction skills are - lol jokes emotions
- Do yourself a favour and go out and see other guys so you can forget this one

Sure we're cold at times. There's plenty of potential reasons for this and I can list them all out for you but you're a virgo so I'm sure you've already created a massive list. Personally I think anyone who hasn't 'felt' anything like that before are either infatuated or honestly newbs in a relationship. If it's the latter then it's high time that you take this as a good experience on which guys not to date and forget LDR.

At the end of the day he doesn't owe you an explanation nor is one required. What you are asking from him is moot and what you should really ask if why you're still hung up about him.