Why so captivating.

What is the best way to approach this?

An Aqua lady I adore and believe is the one has re-iterated that she doesn't want a relationship right now or the foreseeable future. Which I'm fine with and respect as I have a lot going on that I need to focus on also.

I've tagged her in some things and she has said she's overwhelmed and very flattered I feel that way. But she needs to focus on her and then said the above. As a Gemini I have tendency to analyse words used. Obviously she hasn't said she doesn't feel the same or doesn't want it with me. I'm not hanging on, have told her my feelings will change in time. But obviously I care a huge amount for her.

She's laid her cards down and been so honest. I respect everthing and trust her. What I'm asking is, it's her birthday next Monday we haven't spoken for a few days, I'll wish her happy birthday of course after that shall I leave her to message me or hit her up in a couple weeks or just leave it and see what happens.

I've read that when Aqua women say things it comes from the heart.

We have both honestly said or as drake said it better best we ever had I'm every way.

A any snippets of wisdom?

Just hoping to find a common ground on the approach ?

Me being me and impulsive without thinking tagged her in something.

She then posted a picture about "someone going happily and voluntarily should be let gone and not chased. Otherwise it shows an obsession of love which should be about happiness". I'm not obsessed with her but think she is the one.

I think it was aimed at me. I apologised saying it was out of order tagging her and that I had a few to drink.

She is adamant she's focusing on her self. Would there even any chance of her wanting to rekindle anything with me, or shall I just cut losses and move on?

Any advice would be welcome.

Well damn. Guys issues are less than that of woman it seems.

Personally I'm not asking for dating advice, just advice on this subtle situation.

Honestly can no one be bothered to offer something? Dang