Will he ever come back or move on?

Hi, I'm new to this.

I'm a female cappy and he's an aquarius. We were together for 1 year and this is the second time we broke up. The first time was just after 2 months when we started dating. But after 2 weeks we got back together.. I care for him a lot so I would always like to know if he's alright. for him he tells me I need to "chill". It's a long distance relationship so I couldn't really "chill" when I know he works late a night and gets home really late.. he drives with his friends like 1:30 am and they're all tired as they work 10 hours, so I just wanted him to at least let me know he got home safe or he was just safe.
But one time he didn't contact me at all for a day so I tried so hard to contact him to check if he was okay. His phone was dead, no way to know how he is. We had an argument about this and then I told him I tried not worrying but that's how I am because that's how much I cared. He told me to give him a day to think about it and try to fix this.. I gave him a day.. and then the next day when I asked if we could talk he called me and broke up with me, he said that he doesn't want to force things and we will just make our relationship worse if we continue it. He said that he didn't love me as much as before and I asked when that started.. he said "that day when I had a day to think". So I told him clearly that I want to be with him but, I respect his decision if he really thinks that way. He said that he needs to think of himself first.

I was trembling so before he could hear me break down and cry, I told him it's fine... he asked me if we could remain friends and keep our lines open, but I refused to as I told him that I would just get hurt because he knows what I want and he can't give it to me.. I didn't want the conversation to continue as it was hurting me so I thanked him for everything and he said the same thing.. the last words he said was "this is so depressing".. and so I just said bye and put the phone down in a nice tone.

Is this the end? This was how we broke up too the first time. Will he come back? I miss him but I respect it if he doesn't want to come back. I just would like to hear from another person's point of view. I do have friends who I can talk to but they are biased and are always on my side so I just need to hear an unbiased opinion. Thanks.

You do realize that usually when a relationship goes through multiple break ups, that's a big red flag that things just may not be meant to be?

Also, go waste time on a real relationship. LDRs just add too many problems.

Wouldn't it be more fun to be with someone who's in the same town as you?

Take a day and think about it, maybe you'll see things more clearly too. I think that's what he did. I didn't mean that to sound flippant by any means. Just saying... You're a cap, take some time and analyze the situation to get some clarity.

He might come back. Aquas often do when they start missing you.

SOunds like the long distance relationship was the culprit here.

Long distance is really hard. Multiple breakups definitely not a good thing. Will he back? maybe, Should you care? well that's a dif matter. Hang in there hun, you're gonna be just fine no matter what.

thank you for the replies ladies. I guess I just need some time to accept it.

Posted by coldwater
SOunds like the long distance relationship was the culprit here.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
You do realize that usually when a relationship goes through multiple break ups, that's a big red flag that things just may not be meant to be?

Also, go waste time on a real relationship. LDRs just add too many problems.

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this.

if he has venus /moon both in aquarius, long distance is good for him. In my recommendation, it is always the Taurus Sun/Cancer moon/venus Gemini rising Researcher Michael Star who is very good with this:
http://www.astrologyzine.com/attract-men-aquarius.shtml<BR>
And as for friendship thing, it really depends on their 11th house. if their 11th house has strong social circle, or whateve it is they're good for. it's all good. but i do realize since we are on the aquarius forum, it will "focus" on the aquarius 11th house and if we want something deeper, just pull out the chart but sometimes that's confusing so, or just figure out what type of person they are through a lot of discussion.

but if we look at his venus/moon in aquarius: (it stately says that these guys will never have their love because of long distance/someone has already taken their woman and they should move on, UNREQUITED,

Especially while young, you may be drawn to women who are not really available for a lasting relationship (because of distance or inability to make commitments, or a prior commitment to someone else).

To some degree, what you see here also applies if you have the Sun in this Sign. But for a man it is his Moon and Venus Signs which best indicate the types of woman he is most attracted to, or may choose for a mate, especially the Moon.
This is usually because you may not yet be ready to make lasting commitments, and value your "space" and freedom more than emotional bonds or truly intimate relationships.

When you are ready to commit, you will. Meanwhile, you may be attracted to "free spirits", "space cadets", or even somewhat "strange" women.

Idealists or rebels also have a particular appeal to you. Politics may play a part in the attraction. Political foes might make strange bedfellows.

if he's got water venus/moon he's going to want someone close/live closer and be there always side by side. No long distance for that guy. Also, if he

^^ i realise that sounds so sad. 😢 "never have their love" early in life and will meet another one later in life.
Maybe i shall get some charts of famous people with venus/moon aquarius.

Aquarius Mooner Edward Burns who is married to a Capricorn woman with Aquarius venus and Cancer moon, got married in 1995:

that's a long time. but he's got a capricorn venus.

Your actually very good lisabeth

Posted by coldwater
Your actually very good lisabeth

i'm learning at a very slow pace 🙂 my own pace. like a snail. lol
but thanks.

Thank you lisabeth... How do I know what kind of Capricorn am I?

Posted by arcanicevo
Thank you lisabeth... How do I know what kind of Capricorn am I?

you're welcome but i honestly don't know.
you yourself would know yourself the best right? 🙂

Posted by arcanicevo
Hi, I'm new to this.

I'm a female cappy and he's an aquarius. We were together for 1 year and this is the second time we broke up. The first time was just after 2 months when we started dating. But after 2 weeks we got back together.. I care for him a lot so I would always like to know if he's alright. for him he tells me I need to "chill". It's a long distance relationship so I couldn't really "chill" when I know he works late a night and gets home really late.. he drives with his friends like 1:30 am and they're all tired as they work 10 hours, so I just wanted him to at least let me know he got home safe or he was just safe.
But one time he didn't contact me at all for a day so I tried so hard to contact him to check if he was okay. His phone was dead, no way to know how he is. We had an argument about this and then I told him I tried not worrying but that's how I am because that's how much I cared. He told me to give him a day to think about it and try to fix this.. I gave him a day.. and then the next day when I asked if we could talk he called me and broke up with me, he said that he doesn't want to force things and we will just make our relationship worse if we continue it. He said that he didn't love me as much as before and I asked when that started.. he said "that day when I had a day to think". So I told him clearly that I want to be with him but, I respect his decision if he really thinks that way. He said that he needs to think of himself first.

I was trembling so before he could hear me break down and cry, I told him it's fine... he asked me if we could remain friends and keep our lines open, but I refused to as I told him that I would just get hurt because he knows what I want and he can't give it to me.. I didn't want the conversation to continue as it was hurting me so I thanked him for everything and he said the same thing.. the last words he said was "this is so depressing".. and so I just said bye and put the phone down in a nice tone.

Is this the end? This was how we broke up too the first time. Will he come back? I miss him but I respect it if he doesn't want to come back. I just would like to hear from another person's point of view. I do have friends who I can talk to but they are biased and are always on my side so I just need to hear an unbiased opinion. Thanks.

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