So as you can prob guess im a gem and my best guy mate is an aquarius. When we first met we hit it off straight away, we tell each other everything. We dont see each all the time as we both work but I think that works best as I do like my freedom tho 7 times out of 10 he contacts me just to see how I am because im really bad at keeping in touch so about a 8 months ago we both got drunk and found out we have a thing for each other. That night we slept together. The next morning everything was fine and we spent the whole day watching telly messing around. We decided to become 'friends with benifits' and its worked really well about 3 months ago I started seeing this guy and the aquarius guy was fine with it, he actually really liked the guy but it didn't work out with me and this new guy. So me and my mate went back to be to being friends with benefits. I met this guy last week that im gonna go on a date with but my aquarius man has turned around and send that he wants to be in a relationship with me.
Does he really mean this or am I just gonna get hurt? Does this mean hes in it for the long run? I thought that if you were just friends with benefits thats how they would always see you.
He means it. He has a connection with you and we aquarius are very picky on who we choose to be with. You both have a very special connection. My man is a Gemini and he was scared also but we could not deny the connection we felt. I was the first one to say I love you but not in person...
Gemini and Aquarius is a VERY GREAT MATCH. Trust me on this. Don't let your insecurities get the best of you. Your both intellegent and love to have fun. Trust him.
He wants to be with you. He saw that he may lose his chance if he lets go now.
Don't be afraid to give it a try. Life is about living and learning. And loving.
Get with him. Give him your all and you won't be disappointed
He obviously realized with your last relationship that he dealt a bit jealous, even though he never showed it. This made him realize that there were feeling there for you. Aqua and Gem share a fantastic bond and you simply MUST pursue it if you have feeling for this man.
this isn't a fairytale sweety, even long term relationships are bound to have pain. So how about you go liberate yourself by not worrying so much about what if this and what if that. If you were to die tomorrow, would this split moment of bliss you have with him mean anything less than a lifetime of love?
man, i think i got that line from WALL-E that cute scene where wall-e and evee are watching tv. That song "it only takes a moment to be looOOOVved!" whatever it still works ;-P
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Does he really mean this or am I just gonna get hurt? Does this mean hes in it for the long run? I thought that if you were just friends with benefits thats how they would always see you.
Pleaae help me with this man
Any advice would be amazing thanks