Aries and Kids

I have come across a lot of aries in my life and all of them love kids, is this a trait you all have??

The 2/3 Aries guys I have dated don't like kids at all. (The third was too long ago and can't remember.) Although my triple Aries doesn't like kids (AT ALL), He is great to my cat who has been staying with him for two months. 🙂

Well, I'm a triple Aries as well, may even be a quad Aries (it's bad)...anyway, I love kids, have one of my own actually. They do test our patience that's for sure - but I love showing the child adventures and just plain 'ole having FUN.

lol then it must be just a coincidence =D

i love kids...i just wish you didn't have to have them permanently

"i love kids...i just wish you didn't have to have them permanently"



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Most Aries I know are pretty bad parents, though, love is present.

I think I would admire the Ram who openly admits that kids annoy them and they would prefer that kids not be in their lives.

It seems to me that the ones who say the don't love kids, are better parents than the ones who say they do love them .... hum, never thought about trying figuring that one out .. will now though.

And then there's the exception to the rule ... the good Arian parent, who realizes kids need guidance and not just adventures that them nothing except irresponsibility.

Come to think of it .. I don't know any Aries, male or female, who want the children they have. They say they want them .. but, don't treat the children like they are wanted.


Hum .... interesting ... what does this mean?

I know 2 female Aries who have given their children, willingly, to others .. one to the father, the other to the grandparents (on fathers side).

And they did this, and live with close proximity of thier children so they can visit on a daily basis, if desired ... or can go on vacation or out to a club, if desired .. but, doesn't really have to do anything. Only has to do what is desired.


It appears to me that the Ram wants to have the claiming rights of the child ... but, doesn't want the responsibility.

P Ang i was almost a little offended when i read that but i kinda agree. i dont believe it's just for "show" but i also know im 25 and i like working 60 hour weeks and not having to think about other people when i make decisions. i would move anywhere at the drop of a hat and that kinda stuff wouldnt be so good for a kid. maybe one of these days though

Ewe, I'm glad you weren't offended because it was only intended to be real, and not intended for a person to get upset .... there's nothing wrong with people who can admit that they don't like kids. And if a person doesn't want the responsibility of something, then they likely aren't going to be much good at it.

On the other side of the coin .... every Sagittarius I know is an incredible parent, both genders.

I'm not positive about that.


The Arians love their kids, and can't bear to be away from them ... but, that doesn't make good parents. To love means nothing, if this love is blind.


Sag's don't fill their kids to the brim with a sense of being loved on the outside level, for the ego's embracing so it will feel special ... by giving their kids an abundance of "words" and "hugs" to try and convey love .. instead, they reinforce this love by instilling values, without a bunch of hugs and words for the ego.


Arian parents, it appears to me, make sure they thoroughly stroke their childrens egos, so the kids are given a sense of King/Queenship ... Arians parents want to make sure the children feel adored, with hopes that this adoration will bestowed back to the Ram.

Thier attention/affection given to their children appears to be for a person gain, so the kids will return this adoration back.


The ones I know will also say they love their kids and can't bear to be apart from them ... yet, they don't really teach their kids anything, or guide them .. except to have an inflated ego.

That's what I see when I observe .. and again, to love the child, doesn't make a good parent is this love is blind.

However, there is always an exception .... people, generally, cannot be tagged ... because this would conclude that there are no exceptions and that people are already predestined to follow a certain path.


For this reason, I don't believe in destiny ..... if it were real, then this would mean you don't have a choice.

No, my mother was Aqua, and me dad Scorpio.

I can only speak from experience with my aries mom. She loves kids, but its like she doesn't have the patience to raise kids well. She gets pretty pissed off if you can't understand her within the first sentence, and asking her a second time would send her babbling about how great her brain works compared to ours..and she loves to go out, so me and my sisters learned to do chores and cook at a very early age, just taking care of each other when she is away. But of course who am I to say anything, I am not a mother yet, so I probably don't understand how hard it really is. I love my aries mom to bits even if we blow up once in a while, we get over it quickly. =)

My aries bbf loves kids, so last week we were at the mall and she saw this boy beating his mother's leg. She said she can't believe how bad the boy was, and indicated that she can tell the mom was pretty pissed. She says to me, I can't imagine having a kid like that, one that would treat their mother so poorly after raising them up. In my mind, I was thinking I can't wait till she has kids her own and see how she raises them =) because she is so impatient.

I love kids, They remind me of the innocence I lost a long time ago.

I guess I'm the exception; being an Aries parent. I love my daughter, I encourage her, I adore her, I can't stand to be away from her, I hug her and tell her I love her several times everyday. But more importantly, I focus on developing a good value system for her, teaching her to be ethical and moral, teaching her right from wrong, leading by example, etc... I do all of these selflessly - I expect no personal ego stroke in return. I'm proud as hell of her, nothing wrong with that - and yeah, it puts a smile on my face when she chooses the right thing to do and if you want to call that an ego stroke, go ahead, I'll take those kind any day.

No parent is perfect, regardless of sign.

I don't think this is an Aries thing - the question originally posed - I think it's an individual thing.

I love MY kids. I can only tolerate others for so long.

Posted by Lunamistress
I have come across a lot of aries in my life and all of them love kids, is this a trait you all have??

LOL - It's not a sign thing I think.

I have my days with kids, like some days I wanna stop by my sis and the thought of her kid just makes me pass out on the couch and not go...
but some days I wanna play too but not for too long...

so some days kids annoy the hell out of me, some days they don't...so like ewe, don't want them permanently for now, that might change, I'm open to that too

The weirdest thing though is that kids always follow me around no matter how much I put on my mean face...

P-Ang, I have noticed Sag that are not great parents... as well as good Sag parents... like one of my closest friend's Sag and she finds anyway to dump her kids whenever... like 99.9% of the time they're awake 🙂 she dropped off her kids at baby sitters from like 3 months old... oh did we forget Britney Spears 🙂
On the other had, I can name not so great parents from all signs including my parents who are not Arieses...

So I think viewing people/parents as outsiders and judging them based on our own standards of how we will raise out kids doesn't really qualify us as knowing the best for the kids, does it?

In this climate, going out and getting what you personally want of life is advisable, makes you a happier, more balanced person... happier more balanced people will definitely give the best to their kids, no matter the sign... no one knows the best way to raise kids, if we did, I'm sure the prisons will not be as full as they are in England for example 😛

My mom's an aries. Loves kids to death. She retired from the school system when my sis and I were still tots and became a stay at home mom till my twin sister and I left for college. Now she works at a daycare. Is she the best parent in the world? No. She was very lenient in disciplinary action--she left that part up mostly to my scorpio dad. There were times when my sis and I got away with a lot and I wondered if it was because she was too busy being self-involved to bother or show concern about what we did. She also got frustrated a lot and annoyed at having to take time out of her busy schedule being a STAY AT HOME mom to pick us up from practices, school, extacurricular activites and stuff. She doesn't quite necessarily earn the award for best parent in the world, but she loves kids enough to work in the profession and still be there for me and my sister and our other brothers and sisters when we needed her the most. And I think we turned out okay, lol. 😛

yea cherished, she had kids with her 24/7!!!
that's potentially my worse nightmare

I'm so worried about my Aries and the kind of father he will make. Then again I'm a tad worried about my parenting skills. I'm pretty strict and not overly kid friendly. My mother is a Scorpio and oh my Lord was it painful! She snooped ALL the time. I never got away with anything and I was a private kid to say the least 😛
I'm worried I'll be the same way.
My Aries on the other hand.... geez I worry about him being so much of a kid himself. I can see it now walking in on kids and Aries playing and him being just as big part of the mayham that the kids are. Or letting them do dangerous things that makes mama Scorp a nervous wreck. I'm really worried the kids want to be like Army Daddy and try to parachute off things and play with weapons. *smacks forehead* I'm not joking I could see where he'd think this was ok as long as they were supervised.
Eh... we have to get through the wedding first but I like to statagize ahead. LOL

lol Gingerscorp, still worrying eh... happy good solid foundation is all you need...