Aries Break up to MAke up SCheme

Does any aries do this with their male or female mate, dump one another then get back together the same day? or within a matter of moments?

Taylor gangggggggg =] i am an aries you think gems do the same thing? i think they do =]

Passionate relationships can be like that sometimes lol

My opinion is that the most passionate relationships struggle with the love/hate thing. There really is a thin line b/w love & hate. And the people who constantly break up to make up (sometimes just for the thrill of it & not necessarily b/c it's even necessary) know the love/hate world a little more than others lol

umm oh yes you are right krysrenee i do this with a gemini who is risky how long will they last off of this love hate relationship

whats your sign tiziani?

Posted by Chachacha
umm oh yes you are right krysrenee i do this with a gemini who is risky how long will they last off of this love hate relationship

Just depends. It depends on why they're really breaking up to begin with

If it's for the thrill, it will not last that much longer b/c "the thrill" gets old after a while. There's only so many times something can feel new & exciting once it starts become old & routine lol

If it's b/c they're having reoccurring issues, they still may not last b/c of their own unwillingness to calm the hell down, have a seat & fix the issues before entering back into a relationship.

I get it. The whole love/hate thing can be fun, thrilling & exciting. Why? B/c it's forbidden & you know that you're playing a dangerous game. For some reasons, humans have always been fascinated with these things. And the more someone takes you back, the more you start foolishly thinking that they will ALWAYS take you back.

Blame that on greed & arrogance. Greed & arrogance can fizz out the flame in even the most passionate relationships. But the people in these relationships often don't realize this until it's too late...they don't realize it until they are dripping wet with sweat & too tired/drained to even start over no matter how much they try.

Once you're out of fuel, you're out of fuel

my gem has that problem when i say im going to leave him he thinks its ok while still getting mad at me. and i will give fine points only to show him i care and i really want to fix it but if i have to i will leave and im not into that break up make up stuff anymore we were even together and for 2 years we were doing that.

That whole breakup to makeup thing is childish, immature & not constructive. The couples who actually fix their issues when they should don't have to resort to breaking up just to make up b/c they're either back together b/c they fixed everything or they stay a part b/c they haven't.

Breaking up to make decreases the quality of the relationship. It's draining & it gives a false illusion to what love is really about.

A big role of thumb is this: If there's an issue that's big, BUT not big enough for you to leave them for, don't threaten to leave. Don't make empty threats. Don't undo something that you can't afford to STAY undone. If there's an issue that's big enough to leave them for, fine, but own that & stick to your guns. No one will ever take you seriously or have an incentive to fix the problems if they know they can keep re-entering into your life unfixed/unchanged.

And just b/c some people save face & act like the temporary breakup didn't hurt them doesn't mean that it's the truth. Losing someone, even for just a day or a week, hurts! And if you're using the breakup technique as a means of hurting or manipulating someone, then you've got issues & don't need to be in a relationship at all until you can learn the ADULT way of fixing problems/getting the attention that you want.

Posted by tiziani
They say a lot of things they don't mean. It's part of the package.

someones obsessed
I see

Posted by tiziani
It's like you guys care about my exes more than me. I can't remember taking any digs at Rams this week. They say things they don't mean. Live with it.

Absolutely precise. We say a lot of things we don't mean just to make sure you mean what you're saying. It's a test; always and forever will be.

Posted by feby16aqua
What the hell is this? And so what anyway? If it's true it shouldn't be used against someone!!

What are you talking about?

oh man i love the test we do on people. i think geminis do the same and we did solve our problems before getting back.

like lies lies like i hate you, i use to use the i heard someone likes you when really it was me back in middle school. ive grown from that game i rather use truth n logic to test people. test like i aint feeling you no more or that much

Oh tiziani you done know brejin