The sensitive aries

People always accuse aries of being blunt, hurtfull, harsh, etc. But when I see little aries wobble around with their happy faces I just can't believe!
Aries have a lot of fire on the outside, but I think with my (in)accurate emotion-sensor there might be a little boy or girl inside you toughies? 🙂

yeah. that's why we are the babies of the zodiac. that is also i think why so many people don't like us.


we are a strange mix of innocent naive little kid (hence the blunt-most kids don't know how to beat around the bush) and combative, tough warriors (if you piss us off!!)

not a combo most can deal with

they don't know whether to spank us or run like HELL!!! LOL!

but, do you have a soft, sensitive side? Cause I find the aries I know to be more sensitive than they appear?

i guess i do have a sensitive side although i've never thought of myself as 'sensitive'. everybody has a sensitive side though to some degree.

ALV!! shhhhh!!! don't you know i got a reputation to uphold??

I adore you too babe. I am sooooo happy for you..I am.

i confess, i have a soft side too. But i only show that side to VERY VERY good friends. Not just anybody. Only very very good friends.

The rest of the time i'm harsh like all the fellow aries..

I wish I could see mroe of ya'lls sensitive side. Dated of of em' and man.. yeah they talk and that's all good.. but when you're looking for some kind of emotion.... just let a girl know somethin.. then they act like.. what did i do.. when you quit talkin' to em cuz you haven't a clue where they head is at. What's the trick on pullin' that emotion for these males—

Im aries and I know I am a sensitive person even though I have a capricorn moon. With a though exteriour. But I noticed that every sign is sensitive. My rising sign is cancer, so I "unlock" other peoples feelings pretty easily. They tell me things they have never shared with anybody. Just have to remind myself not to get surprised, cause theres some heavy stuff going on in peoples heads.

Most aries men I've met are perfectly represented by the self proclaimed 14 year old "hard man". Sure he knows how to talk shite and make himself appear a tough cookie but when it matters most, during hard times, aries is the first to blame others and make a run for it while in their heads praising themselves for their cunning genious manouver. Saying that, the aries woman is a cookie I would like in my milk.

now now bastard....let's not turn this into an "i hate aries" thread 😉

Don't you just love internet though guys who think they know everything about everybody and say stupid things just to provoke a reaction? How can anybody take a guy named Hard McBastard seroiusly anyways.

This I agree with: "Most aries men I've met are perfectly represented by the self proclaimed 14 year old "hard man". Sure he knows how to talk buttere and make himself appear a tough cookie but when it matters most, during hard times, aries is the first to blame others and make a run for it"

This I'm not too sure of: "while in their heads praising themselves for their cunning genious manouver."

I think they blame others and run for it, because the 14 year old boy in them doesn't know how to take responsiblity for their actions. Frustrating AS hell...and I always make sure to point out to my aries when he behaves in this regard...that is sooo fukin frustrating!

do you have an example of these hard times?

truthseeker..i am just curious..if you dislike your aries so much, then why do you stay?

haha... i know why!! the sex?? LOL

Hey jenna,

I certainly don't dislike my aries...in fact I'm crazy about him. However, what i mentioned in my post is probably the main thing about him that frustrates the hell outta me (everyone has their own faults, yes?) I could go on and on about how much he drives me nuts, and I could on and on about how much I trully do adore him!

anybody have examples of these hard times aries run from?

I do Crisp...Aries related to me became obsessed with buying a second house and pushed his family forward making them look for houses, talk to agents etc. After about 3 months of continous searching and actually starting fights with his wife (which he believed was not putting enough effort into finding a house), he found a house he liked and purchased it. Amazingly enough...about 2 months after, he realized this new property was putting a lot of pressure on his finances so he went into depression mode, trying to sell the house and realising that he would lose money out of the whole thing due to agent commisions and related expenses. He blamed his family for not stopping him before he bought the house. Last I talked to him he seemed to just recently come out of the spell of doom and gloom he was under but still maintains that his family should have known better and stopped him from beeing stupid.

As an aries woman, I have never been able to relate to that aspect of my sign. I am only tough when I need to be, but I am a big softie.

Yeeeeeeey for the softies!!!!! 😄

Ok you aries-people, how about an elementary course: "How to find the sensitive aries in yourself.. and become a cry-baby" (lol)

Cancmini

Stop manipulating poor Aries people here. Let them be who they are.

hi cancimini,
id say ur right about arians being sensitive - we are very much so - perhaps in a different way from say a cancerian or a scorpian.....

arians aint very perceptive, they r all fire - dont expect them to be sensitive in the hidden water sign kinda way, or the quiet virgo way.....

but i think arians are extremely sensitve in their own way, afcourse like all fire signs they tend to get over their hurt quickly and rarely live in the past - but yes afcourse we are hurt deeply at times. Yet aries hates showing they r hurt - i guess they synonimise it with some kinda weakness n arians hate weakness of any sort

You're right, it's another kind of sensitivity. They rarely (never) cry, but they freeze up (this stage is serious, not to be taken lightly!!), although this might not be proof of a 'sensitive' soul to some people..

let me add - if an arian cares sincerely about u then they would be highly sensitive, but if they r not too much into u , well then they can be rather thickskinned!

Ingo, I agree with you. For most arians it makes them feel as they had failed themselves if they show their soft side. Arians look down on weakness (at least for the moment) so they won't ever admit that they are weak. Although we are usually all gungho about everything and fearless throughout the day. At night when all alone, it's a dark lonely path. We become more sensitive when no one's around. Inside we're all gushy and soft when our guard is finally down, right before our heads hit the pillow. Our soft side can be brought out in many ways however...not only when it's night night time.

🙂 I know an aries-male and he's a tough cookie. He went out, but his friends went home way too early from his point of view. So he got home.. all alone, in the dark... in the silence... (LOL, must be VERY VERY scary for him 🙂 ) so he called me up and we talked for a while. After that.. he sent me a message; "tell me a story 😢" That was so sweet!

Awww, how cute...

OMG this is soooo true, the night thing..... i never feel lonely and 'weak' in the day, but at night , yeah at times especially when i've had a bad patch in my personal life, i feel real low, i guess our defences are low at night!

i'm with aries man in young 20's - he seems really caring, loves to cuddle likes to caress - tells me how he feels bout me - doesn't seem selfish - gosh i hope he's not pretending

cancer12

I read your other post about him and from the looks of it, hes alot like me. Responsible and all that stuff. Does he have alot of earth in his chart? you can find it out at astro.com. Sex is key. Be a nympho an hes yours 😛

all i knw crip is that he was born april 7th 1986 - shit i can be a nympho