Male Aries, and those who have good sense...

What is it with the phrase "I love You?" When my b/f and I started dating...he began to say it 2 months later (which I know is typical aries, and I never said it back cuz...well...I didn't love him, then). Now that we've been dating for over a year, now...he doesn't say it often, or he'll say it after we've played around in the sack, or he'll respond w/ "dito" when I say it to him. Am I being paranoid to think that maybe he doesn't love me? Is it me and my femininity that is worried? Do Aries not like to say it often? What's the deal & should I be worried?

trust me, this is not an aries only issue. most men i know do this.

i say i love you to my man every day 5 times a day (at least)....in my experience guys aren't as vocal with their feelings.

sorry, but they just aren't.

well...that makes me feel good...I know it's a guy thing. I have my own insecurities, so that certainly doesn't help my own paranoia. But I do appreciate your suggestion!

it's true though. and i am sure he loves you to absolute death. for some reason though, guys just don't feel the need to announce their love for their woman. i don't know why, and i think it sucks.

oh well

Isn't it typical they tend to feel that they've said it so we should just know it? Kinda selfish i think.. but most think like that.. from my experiences anyway.

that is exactly what they feel. i think its selfish in a way, but in another way i think they feel more secure than we do, and therefore maybe don't need to hear it as often.

i don't know..maybe secure isn't the right word.

I don't think it's about being them being more secure... i'm secure.. but damn it i'd still like to hear it! LOL And most of the time, if you don't tell THEM they question it!

i don't mind hearing it (but mind, only if the person who says it really means it, i can smell a show-off for miles), i hardly ever say it myself. i like to think that men who are special to me get it through actions more than words. i don't give to much about what ppl say anyway, it's all about what they do. that's how they prove they really like me. that's the humble opinion of a female aries.