Aries friend gone..

This topic was created in the Aries forum by mgmtlove on Monday, April 13, 2015 and has 12 replies.

Understanding Aries Friend's Sudden Disappearance

An Aries friend may become distant due to personal conflicts, feeling overwhelmed, or needing space. Their actions are often driven by a desire for independence rather than hostility. It is important to respect their need for time and reflect on communication boundaries to rebuild trust if possible.

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@mgmtlove
14 Years500+ PostsLeo

Two friends gone in 2015..I was friend with an Aries girl since middle school..we lost touch then reconnected. I got her a job where I worked she only lasted six months before quitting. After she left the job she got distant from me. After awhile she just stopped answering my texts and blocked me on fb. No bye, no explanation...I found out by looking and my wall and seeing her name was black, and she had a new "last name" and profile pic..her with some guy. What gives? I'm not surprised my Cancer friend did the disappearing thing but Aries??

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@mgmtlove
14 Years500+ PostsLeo

You know how on Facebook, it's usually blue, and you have the option to click it and view their page? Her name was there like her account was still active, but it was black(in black letters) so I couldn't click it. I even tried searching her and nothing came up. I texted her around thanksgiving and a couple times after that but then I gave up.

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@VenusAquarius
14 Years10,000+ Posts

A new last name, or online pseudonym?

She doesn't like you anymore?

She associates you with a bad time at the job and wants to leave it all behind?

Is struggling because of the unemployment?

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@mgmtlove
14 Years500+ PostsLeo

I think I found out the reason.

Awhile back a customer asked me out, I said no.
The next week he asked her out and gave her his number and she told me.
I told her that he asked me out too. A couple days later he asked me out again, and I brought up the fact that he asked my friend out and gave her his number, so I was all set. He said "I gave her my number to give to you!" I asked her about it, and she said he did not, he's a liar, etc. Fast forward a few months she blocks me and our mutual friends on facebook. I went back to one of my old status and saw her last name changed to "Kane" (his last name) and there's a picture of the two of them together...smh. She blocked me over a guy I didn't even want. And he's a liar on top of that. Oh well 10+ years of friendship gone.

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@Amorprohibido1980
11 Years

oh well I guess she is one of those w**** Aries and probably was a shamed of her behavior and decided to block you! so forget about her she's disgusting anyway and this is coming from I asked for youwoman I asked