@pennystealing123
11 Years
Cutting an Aqua off
Posted by pennystealing123How do aquas generally react when cut off?
Don't care.
Even after four years of a serious relationship?
Don’t judge chicken. I’ve got plenty of earth in my chart to hold me steady.
Just curious.
I don’t cave if I’m constantly hurt.
Just wondering what’s going on in his head. 😢
Not planning to go back.
Posted by pennystealing123Don’t judge chicken.
Idk why but this had me laughing so hard 😂😂😂
They do care but they don’t want to show it. My aqua friend is still hung up on her Pisces dude.
Posted by Smidgehe probably didn't expect you'd actually leave, but we're good at that
Can't agree more (Aries Rising here). Kick him to the curb girl. I'm planning to ice out my Aqua as well. They need a lesson.
I know Aquarius FEELS things. They may not want to show, but they feel.
Posted by AerialViewPosted by pennystealing123How do aquas generally react when cut off?
Don't care.
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imao... don’t believe him 😛 nah joke it depends on the placement. See, aerial has aqua moon so he’s prob more detached. Ur man has tons of aqua . Venus n Mercury. So Ofcoz, he’s very detached. Too much for a Leo. If I could guess he’s Done with you too. Coz an aqua will answer and fight for the relationship if hesnt not done.. or even friendship. The aqua I was seeing has many Pisces so he’s very sensitive to blocking n ignoring him that can of stuff. He’s the opposite. If I don’t answer him in time or don’t pick up calls or blocking he gets very annoyed n cranky n moody. Again that’s the water in him. So I think thenlevel of attachment really depends on each aqua placements. Has he ever swore to u before? R u the first to swear at him? I don’t think aqua likes pointless drama.. esp if it involves swearing n everything. They put up with it for a while but they will never let their emotion take over their logic. to him right now u have to apologise not the other way around. Sad but true. But being Aries sun that u r, I don’t see this working out well. But good luck with it all 🙂
I meant to say too much for an Aries
Posted by FantamRoosterPosted by pennystealing123Don’t judge chicken. I’ve got plenty of earth in my chart to hold me steady.
Just curious.
I don’t cave if I’m constantly hurt.
Okay, my bad. It just sounds like you're looking for a reaction from him, and I think that's the wrong reason to ice someone out because it usually doesn't go the way you hope. I'm sorry about the breakup. 😢
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I agree with this. Specially with an Aquarius that approach doesn’t work
Posted by AerialViewPosted by pennystealing123How do aquas generally react when cut off?
Don't care.
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Aquarius in general you mean? 😜 Because I don’t agree with you much in this
Posted by WaterbearerwearerPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by FantamRoosterPosted by pennystealing123Don’t judge chicken. I’ve got plenty of earth in my chart to hold me steady.
Just curious.
I don’t cave if I’m constantly hurt.
Okay, my bad. It just sounds like you're looking for a reaction from him, and I think that's the wrong reason to ice someone out because it usually doesn't go the way you hope. I'm sorry about the breakup. 😢
I agree with this. Specially with an Aquarius that approach doesn’t work
Aqua respect women who are self expressed and who don’t worship feelings.
If you were always inside of them chances are he had enough. You icing him out is confirmation that you both weren’t suited.
Blocking him will pique his attention momentarily but the resentment and respect is gone.
It’s irreparable.
So be Icy all you want he won’t care if he knows you’re playing that card.
Games are for simpletons he wants a women who takes life by the balls and does so with a soft touch.
Needless to say I always find it fascinating when women make proclaimations post relo acting cool and “I got this” but all I hear is waaaaaaaaaaah somebody love me!!!!
Yawn
Girl just move on. Get another man or hobby.
Let your happiness be the leveller here.
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Totally 👍
I don’t play games.
I blocked him and haven’t reached out at all for nearly three months.
But I guess I care about his stupid feelings. Gosh!
Yeah. I have... 😢
I tried so much to work it out.
I sought lots of advice.
In the end I just gave up.
I question his feelings for me in the first place. What he said never matched what he did.
Posted by SkeletonPosted by pennystealing123Yeah. I have... 😢
I tried so much to work it out.
I sought lots of advice.
In the end I just gave up.
I question his feelings for me in the first place. What he said never matched what he did.
You have tried, even in mature way. Thats all it matters.
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I hope. Thanks
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by WaterbearerwearerPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by FantamRoosterPosted by pennystealing123Don’t judge chicken. I’ve got plenty of earth in my chart to hold me steady.
Just curious.
I don’t cave if I’m constantly hurt.
Okay, my bad. It just sounds like you're looking for a reaction from him, and I think that's the wrong reason to ice someone out because it usually doesn't go the way you hope. I'm sorry about the breakup. 😢
I agree with this. Specially with an Aquarius that approach doesn’t work
Aqua respect women who are self expressed and who don’t worship feelings.
If you were always inside of them chances are he had enough. You icing him out is confirmation that you both weren’t suited.
Blocking him will pique his attention momentarily but the resentment and respect is gone.
It’s irreparable.
So be Icy all you want he won’t care if he knows you’re playing that card.
Games are for simpletons he wants a women who takes life by the balls and does so with a soft touch.
Needless to say I always find it fascinating when women make proclaimations post relo acting cool and “I got this” but all I hear is waaaaaaaaaaah somebody love me!!!!
Yawn
Girl just move on. Get another man or hobby.
Let your happiness be the leveller here.
Totally 👍
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Agreed
Posted by pennystealing123Posted by SkeletonPosted by pennystealing123Yeah. I have... 😢
I tried so much to work it out.
I sought lots of advice.
In the end I just gave up.
I question his feelings for me in the first place. What he said never matched what he did.
You have tried, even in mature way. Thats all it matters.
I hope. Thanks
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that’s aqua for you I guess. Very hard to match their words, I learn not to take their words so seriously n just watch their action instead, the disappearance is the answer really, he’s too detached for you.
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by AerialViewPosted by pennystealing123How do aquas generally react when cut off?
Don't care.
Aquarius in general you mean? 😜 Because I don’t agree with you much in this
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Not in general.
Just him 😜😄
Lol
Posted by AerialViewPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by AerialViewPosted by pennystealing123How do aquas generally react when cut off?
Don't care.
Aquarius in general you mean? 😜 Because I don’t agree with you much in this
Not in general.
Just him 😜😄
Lol
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I agree with that 😘😄😜 Lol
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by AerialViewPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by AerialViewPosted by pennystealing123How do aquas generally react when cut off?
Don't care.
Aquarius in general you mean? 😜 Because I don’t agree with you much in this
Not in general.
Just him 😜😄
Lol
I agree with that 😘😄😜 Lol
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Lol you're meanie 😄😘
Posted by AerialViewPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by AerialViewPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by AerialViewPosted by pennystealing123How do aquas generally react when cut off?
Don't care.
Aquarius in general you mean? 😜 Because I don’t agree with you much in this
Not in general.
Just him 😜😄
Lol
I agree with that 😘😄😜 Lol
Lol you're meanie 😄😘
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What?!? Why do you say that? 😝😄
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by AerialViewPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by AerialViewPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by AerialViewPosted by pennystealing123How do aquas generally react when cut off?
Don't care.
Aquarius in general you mean? 😜 Because I don’t agree with you much in this
Not in general.
Just him 😜😄
Lol
I agree with that 😘😄😜 Lol
Lol you're meanie 😄😘
What?!? Why do you say that? 😝😄
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You agree with me that he doesn't care 😄
Lol
Posted by AerialViewPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by AerialViewPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by AerialViewPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by AerialViewPosted by pennystealing123How do aquas generally react when cut off?
Don't care.
Aquarius in general you mean? 😜 Because I don’t agree with you much in this
Not in general.
Just him 😜😄
Lol
I agree with that 😘😄😜 Lol
Lol you're meanie 😄😘
What?!? Why do you say that? 😝😄
You agree with me that he doesn't care 😄
Lol
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You are an Aquarius man. I respect your opinion on this 😘. You know best 😄😘
Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by AerialViewPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by AerialViewPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by AerialViewPosted by pisceswoman123Posted by AerialViewPosted by pennystealing123How do aquas generally react when cut off?
Don't care.
Aquarius in general you mean? 😜 Because I don’t agree with you much in this
Not in general.
Just him 😜😄
Lol
I agree with that 😘😄😜 Lol
Lol you're meanie 😄😘
What?!? Why do you say that? 😝😄
You agree with me that he doesn't care 😄
Lol
You are an Aquarius man. I respect your opinion on this 😘. You know best 😄😘
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Always 😄😘
Interesting situation to watch, personally, as I recently left Aquarius ex because she was still remaining consistent contact and continually asking for help from ex of 3 years, despite my feelings around it. It was irresolvable. Having feelings of being used, but know that she is too short-sighted -or- too selfish to make a change. My new approach to balancing the imbalance between us: maintaining a friendship with her as I continue my search for love. I have her over, here and there, to catch up and talk, never make physical contact, sit down in different chairs. I don't think it phases her too much, though I can see that slight pain in her eyes. But the goal isn't to get the one-up on anyone, it's to establish equilibrium. I'm flirting with a Leo these days, woke up to her this morning. I dropped the romantic longing and the hope of a relationship nearly two months ago when I broke up with the Aquarius. She says she understands that we can't work out, but hopes to be a "positive role" in my life. We'll see. She's the Oprah of friendships; she hands the same kind out to everyone. And in a Utopia, I could see the working out. But what looks good on paper sometimes doesn't work well in life. Still care about her and enjoy her presence, so friendship works out in the end.
Poor Aries:
1. Self deception
2. Always bet on yourself
3. His rising sign is probably Capricorn
4. Never circle back
5. Good luck
Posted by IvyyPoor Aries:
1. Self deception
2. Always bet on yourself
3. His rising sign is probably Capricorn
4. Never circle back
5. Good luck
His rising is Aries
I know I'm late to the party...
He has a Leo moon (opposite sun), so deep down, it would be hard to tell how he feels.
If he starts going out of his way to make you jealous--that'll be the sign that he's still cares.
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No one likes to be iced out after a break up. But I’m an Aries and that’s what I do when I’m hurt. A big “Fvck You.” And poof, I disappear.
Aqua hurt me. He was being dismissive of my feelings. Over and over and over. He wasn’t answering questions, kept disappearing and giving me “fine then” kinds of responses when I would tell him I wasn’t happy. No extra effort to fix things. I tried, I feel to the best that I could.
He asked me not to block him, but then he would go and do things like disappear for a week without expecting me to react.
Finally, I just got sick of the crap and cut all ties.
Of course I’m not a heartless beast. I care. But I’m done. I expected a bit of a fight, him coming back wanting answers, him having some anger, or to want to try again, something. But... he’s been dodging me like the plague. Like even hasn’t checked his phone kind of stuff...
Is he done too? Is he embarrassed? Is he mad back?
Could be my Aries ego confused, “like what? He doesn’t want me?!” But seriously, I care if he’s hurting too...
What’s going through his mind?
His placements:
Aqua sun leo moon, merc Aqua, Venus aqua, mars libra - don’t know his rising.
How do aquas generally react when cut off?