Aries guy saying I love you ...wtf

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Libralove666
@Libralove666
9 Years

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Some of you might know my story. So now after lots of emotional turmoil, I tried so hard to fall out of love with this aries guy. He behave however and whatever way he wanted during these last few weeks. He did what he wanted..like calling me whenever he wanted, asking me for help to choose wall colors for his new apartment , and I here suffering alone with all his kiddish attitude. omg I still remember those days where I was all the f..king time thinking what i did wrong and wished if I could rewind everything to make things right. Only thing i knew to deal with this guy was to give him lots of space and not initiating any call or msgs. He told me several times to be just friends and not couples. This really broke my heart. Now that I feel that I am somewhat stronger than before and I have started making new friends, this guys last night started calling me like crazy and when I was really ignoring his calls, he did it more intentionally. I was at the mall shopping so I had to pick up twice to tell him to stop it but when I picked up the video call it was his mom saying hi to me. I could see him right at the corner near his mom. Ofcourse I spoke to her in a calm way and told her that I will speak to her later. She knew something was wrong and her son was forcing her to speak to me. He kept calling me and msging me. His msgs were like "why are you outside so late.. go home. " after i reached home he Skype me again to check if I am home. I told him calmly to stop doing all this and if he has to say something just say it quickly as I have to go. He didn't say anything so I said bye and disconnected the call. Today morning he msges me in whatsapp where he had blocked me for several days. His msg was" (my name) I love you , I am falling in love with you, I have started having feelings for you".

For me these used to be such magical words, but now i feel like these words can't be trusted from an aries man or should i? I am not very excited about this, as he really made me suffer so much mentally. But I do like him . I am not sure how to behave further. Any advise—
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rockyroadicecream
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Posted by Libralove666
Posted by rockyroadicecream
No, I do not know your story.

Therefore, I did not read past "some of you might know my story."
Okay no problem. Thanks for trying !
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The point is that if you're here, again, asking about more trivial shit, chances are it's not meant to be. Putting every single action, breath, word, whatever under a microscope to find some sort of glimmer of hope that the troll you thought was prince charming is not a troll is a waste of time and energy.

Move on.

I know it's not easy, but try to move in that direction.
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spur
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8 Years

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Posted by Libralove666
Some of you might know my story. So now after lots of emotional turmoil, I tried so hard to fall out of love with this aries guy. He behave however and whatever way he wanted during these last few weeks. He did what he wanted..like calling me whenever he wanted, asking me for help to choose wall colors for his new apartment , and I here suffering alone with all his kiddish attitude. omg I still remember those days where I was all the f..king time thinking what i did wrong and wished if I could rewind everything to make things right. Only thing i knew to deal with this guy was to give him lots of space and not initiating any call or msgs. He told me several times to be just friends and not couples. This really broke my heart. Now that I feel that I am somewhat stronger than before and I have started making new friends, this guys last night started calling me like crazy and when I was really ignoring his calls, he did it more intentionally. I was at the mall shopping so I had to pick up twice to tell him to stop it but when I picked up the video call it was his mom saying hi to me. I could see him right at the corner near his mom. Ofcourse I spoke to her in a calm way and told her that I will speak to her later. She knew something was wrong and her son was forcing her to speak to me. He kept calling me and msging me. His msgs were like "why are you outside so late.. go home. " after i reached home he Skype me again to check if I am home. I told him calmly to stop doing all this and if he has to say something just say it quickly as I have to go. He didn't say anything so I said bye and disconnected the call. Today morning he msges me in whatsapp where he had blocked me for several days. His msg was" (my name) I love you , I am falling in love with you, I have started having feelings for you".

For me these used to be such magical words, but now i feel like these words can't be trusted from an aries man or should i? I am not very excited about this, as he really made me suffer so much mentally. But I do like him . I am not sure how to behave further. Any advise—
ditto what others have said. walk away. Just flat out ignore him. He will give up eventually. He acted like an ass and then he realized he is an idiot, and now he wants to win you back, if he can't say sorry than it is his loss. I would not waste your time with him.