Aries guys testing women (Page 2)

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So run his chart!

what time should i put? is it going to work without a time?

It’ll tell you or there is check box ‘don’t know the time’...

i know how to do it. it was the time thing that is the problem

he might be a virgo moon. what is the deal with virgos and me? i look up his chart and put unknown on the time

"he might be a virgo moon"

try to put different times (like 1 am and 11 pm) to see, if there is a different moon

I know Aries like lightness and fun, but telling somebody to be thinking about them while having sex with other woman.... hm, I am not sure I would like this (not the idea, but telling me? ).... I mean, thats gross a bit 🙂 or maybe not, just an Aries joke 🙂

people cant always help who they think about at times. he said more like he was shocked about it. I found it flattering

"people cant always help who they think about at times. he said more like he was shocked about it. I found it flattering"

true, people cant help it, but can help talking about it? it sounds like selling out the person who he had an encounter, which is still gross

he can maybe flatter you some other ways, just maybe 🙂

but you know him, if its okey between you 2, then that is what matters

PS. I would be just cautious with a person who jokes around like this , but again, only you know how him, its probably nothing serious

generally, its not cool to talk about sexual experiences with others to get an attention of somebody, unless its a made up fantasy to impress you 🙂

really how is that selling out other person? people talking about their sex life is selling out the other person?

Disrespecting I’d say. Makes what they had not so important. So I’d have to think if I’d been with them, would it be the same then? Thinking about someone else.

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i think of it more like a hard truth. i get what your saying. he is no longer with that woman. sometimes thought of other people at very strange times but they get you wondering about yourself and what it is you really want. from what he told me about this woman is she was not in love with him but obsessed with him. she did a lot of stocking stuff and controlling stuff. that is not real love and i told him that. I am and will always be his friend before anything else and be straight with him about stuff, even though there has been very strong attraction between us. I knew him when he was a boy and i knew some of his girlfriends back then. He has a good heart and looks at each day as a great day. he never complains.

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What is the deal? This Aries guy seems to be testing me a lot. Sometimes i am wondering if i failed a test. lol other times it will be things he says like ' great answer. is my feel right? do aries guys put women through a test? and if so what that hell is that all about?

No...

Don't think it's his Sun sign. It's something else. Most known for Scorp Sun, Moon, Venus.

Does he have Moon square Venus?

Gotta look deeper that the Sun for this one.

Now, in general and being an Aries female, an Aries man will challenge you. It's like a natural contention with Mars + Mars. I've been there.

Do not care for Aries men, skin crawls if one is in my radar... can sense it. I'm 44. Never fails. My thread titled "Beat Yo Ass Music" is dedicated to an Aries male. MF.

i dont know his birthchart at all

Wait...you know him for 30 years and you don’t know his moon and you are Astro forum member?

You need to be tested...lol

i knew him back in school. since 6th grade. we have not seen each other since high school. so we really didnt know each other. i have not seen or heard from him for 30 years. one day Nov of last year i get a friends quest from him on facebook. He said he was looking for me but i dont know if i believe that. first thing he told me was that i owed him a hug because of a dance we have and i just about ran from him after the dance was over with. that was 8th grade

It’s what @IAmRam said...🙈

So ask him the birth and shit...isn’t it on FB?

he was born 4/8/1971 he is five days older then me. he was born in chihuahua mexico. he doesnt know the time he was born

This is his chart. I was figuring he may have a Virgo moon since he is 5 days older than you. He could have a Libra moon if he was born later. I pulled the chart from cafeastrology.com and put unknown for birth time. Try to get his birth time. Tell him to look at his birth certificate to see if it is on there. Can you post your chart, @witchmitchAries? Would be nice to see the synastry.

Sun Aries 18°15'

Moon Virgo 25°25'

Mercury Taurus 3°43'

Venus Pisces 12°08'

Mars Capricorn 16°11'

Jupiter Sagittarius 6°03' R

Saturn Taurus 21°06'

Uranus Libra 11°14' R

Neptune Sagittarius 2°46' R

Pluto Virgo 27°51' R

Lilith Virgo 24°12'

Asc node Aquarius 22°12'

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back in those days they never wrote the time of birth like they do now or they did for my girls. i looked it up too. he got the same Jupiter like me 😆. i looked up virgo moons too. why?!! lol

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Never mind, you do not have to post your chart. It would be the same placements as him because he was only born 5 days earlier than you. The only difference would be the moon. @WitchMitchAries

maybe all the virgos in my life is to help me deal whit his virgo moon 😆 this whole thing is just to funny

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the convos had been happening over the past year. as for the lonely path i have be lonely through my whole 30 years of marriage 😆

I do you he his dealing with his own shit even though he says it all good lol

and i have had a lot of shit to deal with.

we only have seem each other twice this year and now i am leaving for New York. He did tell me once that he was thinking of me while having sex with another woman. that was an ego boost.

He already knows my heart i couldnt hide it from him and i am very good at hiding that. Any relationship i have ever been in i always have control over myself even if it doesnt look like i do, but him i can get control of myself even back in school i couldnt.

the thing is he wont tell me how he feels about me and i cant tell by chat. no face or body language. He says its his secret and say fine keep you stink secret lol

he is still married and said he will give his wife a divorce when she finds someone she falls in love with. one time he asked me how i did my divorce and i asked whats wrong why. he said he was tired of the fighting but something happen and he change his mind.

so now i got this things in my head that it is never going to be. 😢

we do have a shit common.

you are so right about it being way far down. gggrrrr 😆

@IamTheRam he is the one who said he had plans for me and i have yet to see those plans 😆

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Hehe

Ok, ok ! You seem to know what you are doing and you got your feet on the ground ^^

(Altough since you are both Aries, there is this high chance that none of you actualy know what you are doing 😆 )

Him not telling you how he feels for you it's good ^^ very good ^^

And the playfullness all the time...the extreme bluntfullness on some topics lool...the secrecy on others...the plans things...It's a good thing, trust me ^^

Just think about what's better for you for now, and you know...be happy with what you do witchy, after all that's what this is all about 🙂

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the convos had been happening over the past year. as for the lonely path i have be lonely through my whole 30 years of marriage 😆

I do you he his dealing with his own shit even though he says it all good lol

and i have had a lot of shit to deal with.

we only have seem each other twice this year and now i am leaving for New York. He did tell me once that he was thinking of me while having sex with another woman. that was an ego boost.

He already knows my heart i couldnt hide it from him and i am very good at hiding that. Any relationship i have ever been in i always have control over myself even if it doesnt look like i do, but him i can get control of myself even back in school i couldnt.

the thing is he wont tell me how he feels about me and i cant tell by chat. no face or body language. He says its his secret and say fine keep you stink secret lol

he is still married and said he will give his wife a divorce when she finds someone she falls in love with. one time he asked me how i did my divorce and i asked whats wrong why. he said he was tired of the fighting but something happen and he change his mind.

so now i got this things in my head that it is never going to be. 😢

we do have a shit common.

you are so right about it being way far down. gggrrrr 😆

@IamTheRam he is the one who said he had plans for me and i have yet to see those plans 😆

Hehe

Ok, ok ! You seem to know what you are doing and you got your feet on the ground ^^

(Altough since you are both Aries, there is this high chance that none of you actualy know what you are doing 😆 )

Him not telling you how he feels for you it's good ^^ very good ^^

And the playfullness all the time...the extreme bluntfullness on some topics lool...the secrecy on others...the plans things...It's a good thing, trust me ^^

Just think about what's better for you for now, and you know...be happy with what you do witchy, after all that's what this is all about 🙂

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😆 i dont feel like i got my feet on the ground. I trust what you say. The whole thing is just a pain in my ass at times. gggrrr. i guess i have a hard time in trusting myself with this whole thing and needed another view point.

thank you

Posted by macmiller

He’s prolly just fking with u lol.

😆 did you even read this forum

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What is he testing? I don’t think guys test on the same level as women, Aries men are more direct, it sounds more like a silly sense of humour, like he’s winding you up?

Why don’t you say something like “it shows you like me, if you’re testing me that is” ..because that is actually the only reason people test each other? But what is he testing?

men do test. just might be different. I am wondering if he likes me more then he says. but i dont like to assume and if i bring it up he says thing like 'my secret' lol so i thought to post and see what others have to say about it.

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Men definitely test. They do it in a far more subtle manner and feign being more straightforward but they absolutely do test because they equally have an innate desire to be partnered with someone and have a companion. Part of that desire means they must ensure that the woman is worthy of that partnership and of his serious intentions. For him to procreate with her (another inmate desire) he would want to ensure that she’s worthy of being a mother to his children. It’s all very relevant.