Aries man Always returning ?

Hi all, I want to make this as short as possible to avoid confusion so I’ll just start out with the question

Do Aries men usually keep coming back ?

I met an Aries man a year ago and things didn’t work out it was mainly inconsistency he would become reclusive and then I would walk away thinking he wasn’t interested and then he would message me asking me why I walked away and it would just become a cycle and We’ve never really lost contact since then we kinda drift apart and then back together

Recently He told me the reason he was reluctant before was because he was going to move away and he didn’t wanna start something serious with me and then have to leave me if I wasn’t interested in going with him or he would think I’m just better off without him

He said he needed to be honest with me and say he did not give it his all in the past and he is sorry for that

I told him let’s just give it time before we’re sure about each other and he told me he is all in because he isn’t planning on moving away anymore

This would all be great if he wasn’t so difficult to read

I cannot physically see him yet due to COVID 19 restrictions So it’s mainly texting, but he always seems so distant and it’s like I have to carry the conversation

He really isn’t a technology person so I guess that could be to blame for his bad texting

I’m just frustrated because I feel like he tells me he wants things to work out between us and he doesn’t want to be with anyone beside me

But then he doesn’t show it

Do Aries men typically act this way ? Like are they usually more open in person or what ?

Does he keep coming back or has he actually never left? It sounds like you are the one who walks away. That can be confusing to him.

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Does he keep coming back or has he actually never left? It sounds like you are the one who walks away. That can be confusing to him.

We usually end up getting very close and then he disappears for a day or two and comes back saying he just needed to clear his head and stuff

And As a cancer I don’t deal well with inconsistency or space haha

So I get scared and I walk away he usually just lets me go if this happens

But he said it bugs him often when he thinks about the fact that I walk away

It’s just in order to be in it with him I have to accept that he disappears sometimes and I don’t know if I can do that

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Hi all, I want to make this as short as possible to avoid confusion so I’ll just start out with the question

Do Aries men usually keep coming back ?

I met an Aries man a year ago and things didn’t work out it was mainly inconsistency he would become reclusive and then I would walk away thinking he wasn’t interested and then he would message me asking me why I walked away and it would just become a cycle and We’ve never really lost contact since then we kinda drift apart and then back together

Recently He told me the reason he was reluctant before was because he was going to move away and he didn’t wanna start something serious with me and then have to leave me if I wasn’t interested in going with him or he would think I’m just better off without him

He said he needed to be honest with me and say he did not give it his all in the past and he is sorry for that

I told him let’s just give it time before we’re sure about each other and he told me he is all in because he isn’t planning on moving away anymore

This would all be great if he wasn’t so difficult to read

I cannot physically see him yet due to COVID 19 restrictions So it’s mainly texting, but he always seems so distant and it’s like I have to carry the conversation

He really isn’t a technology person so I guess that could be to blame for his bad texting

I’m just frustrated because I feel like he tells me he wants things to work out between us and he doesn’t want to be with anyone beside me

But then he doesn’t show it

Do Aries men typically act this way ? Like are they usually more open in person or what ?

I was married to an Aries man.

He was also very difficult to read. Very closed too. However he had a great sense of humour, very funny, and a lot of energy and drive and enthusiasm like a typical Aries Man.

However, I had to do ALOT of the communicating with him, and it was draining sometimes. If he had an issue with me he would go silent, and pretend he was fine.

He would sulk. Something I find irritating and childish!

I really had to work hard with him to find out what was wrong, otherwise I'd end up with an entire DAY (usually a Saturday), of Silent Treatment!!

.

So for you I think you're going to have to be patient with him and take your time getting to know him, then you may get used to him bring like that, and handle him how you feel is best.

What is your sign?

Aries men are soft and gooey inside but don't want to ruin their alpha male facade, so play with women's confidence instead. If you come to them with boundaries they will do whatever to break them down, then criticise you for not having any.

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Does he keep coming back or has he actually never left? It sounds like you are the one who walks away. That can be confusing to him.

We usually end up getting very close and then he disappears for a day or two and comes back saying he just needed to clear his head and stuff

And As a cancer I don’t deal well with inconsistency or space haha

So I get scared and I walk away he usually just lets me go if this happens

But he said it bugs him often when he thinks about the fact that I walk away

It’s just in order to be in it with him I have to accept that he disappears sometimes and I don’t know if I can do that

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1 or 2 days is nothing. He needs freedom to be himself and do what he wants. I’m a cancer dating an Aries. He likes hanging out with his friends on Saturdays. Not a big deal. Both our men are consistently here no matter how much drama is created. You need to be too and appreciate that and stop the drama. He will respond to you much better.

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Hi all, I want to make this as short as possible to avoid confusion so I’ll just start out with the question

Do Aries men usually keep coming back ?



I met an Aries man a year ago and things didn’t work out it was mainly inconsistency he would become reclusive and then I would walk away thinking he wasn’t interested and then he would message me asking me why I walked away and it would just become a cycle and We’ve never really lost contact since then we kinda drift apart and then back together

Recently He told me the reason he was reluctant before was because he was going to move away and he didn’t wanna start something serious with me and then have to leave me if I wasn’t interested in going with him or he would think I’m just better off without him

He said he needed to be honest with me and say he did not give it his all in the past and he is sorry for that

I told him let’s just give it time before we’re sure about each other and he told me he is all in because he isn’t planning on moving away anymore

This would all be great if he wasn’t so difficult to read

I cannot physically see him yet due to COVID 19 restrictions So it’s mainly texting, but he always seems so distant and it’s like I have to carry the conversation

He really isn’t a technology person so I guess that could be to blame for his bad texting

I’m just frustrated because I feel like he tells me he wants things to work out between us and he doesn’t want to be with anyone beside me

But then he doesn’t show it

Do Aries men typically act this way ? Like are they usually more open in person or what ?

I was married to an Aries man.

He was also very difficult to read. Very closed too. However he had a great sense of humour, very funny, and a lot of energy and drive and enthusiasm like a typical Aries Man.

However, I had to do ALOT of the communicating with him, and it was draining sometimes. If he had an issue with me he would go silent, and pretend he was fine.

He would sulk. Something I find irritating and childish!

I really had to work hard with him to find out what was wrong, otherwise I'd end up with an entire DAY (usually a Saturday), of Silent Treatment!!

.

So for you I think you're going to have to be patient with him and take your time getting to know him, then you may get used to him bring like that, and handle him how you feel is best.

What is your sign?

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I am a cancer !

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Aries men need their own space to recharge or to indulge in their hobbies, other signs do it as well.

You will know if they aren't interested.

How? She needs an explanation.

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Does he keep coming back or has he actually never left? It sounds like you are the one who walks away. That can be confusing to him.

We usually end up getting very close and then he disappears for a day or two and comes back saying he just needed to clear his head and stuff

And As a cancer I don’t deal well with inconsistency or space haha

So I get scared and I walk away he usually just lets me go if this happens

But he said it bugs him often when he thinks about the fact that I walk away

It’s just in order to be in it with him I have to accept that he disappears sometimes and I don’t know if I can do that

1 or 2 days is nothing. He needs freedom to be himself and do what he wants. I’m a cancer dating an Aries. He likes hanging out with his friends on Saturdays. Not a big deal. Both our men are consistently here no matter how much drama is created. You need to be too and appreciate that and stop the drama. He will respond to you much better.

BTW...where is your report about how your weekend went, darling? 🤔

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Girl! It wasn’t happening!! I’ve been in the er twice for my kidney stones and I’ve had a non stop migraine since Tuesday! I couldn’t leave my cold bedroom to even watch tv. So no way I could sit on a boat or be in the sun! I’ve never felt so sick!! Today I have slight pressure in my head. Staying inside to avoid triggers. Aries and I have dinner plans tonight. Reservations for indoor dining. I hope I can make it!

Stop with the text message convos. Facetime the dude.

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Does he keep coming back or has he actually never left? It sounds like you are the one who walks away. That can be confusing to him.

We usually end up getting very close and then he disappears for a day or two and comes back saying he just needed to clear his head and stuff

And As a cancer I don’t deal well with inconsistency or space haha

So I get scared and I walk away he usually just lets me go if this happens

But he said it bugs him often when he thinks about the fact that I walk away

It’s just in order to be in it with him I have to accept that he disappears sometimes and I don’t know if I can do that

1 or 2 days is nothing. He needs freedom to be himself and do what he wants. I’m a cancer dating an Aries. He likes hanging out with his friends on Saturdays. Not a big deal. Both our men are consistently here no matter how much drama is created. You need to be too and appreciate that and stop the drama. He will respond to you much better.

BTW...where is your report about how your weekend went, darling? 🤔

Girl! It wasn’t happening!! I’ve been in the er twice for my kidney stones and I’ve had a non stop migraine since Tuesday! I couldn’t leave my cold bedroom to even watch tv. So no way I could sit on a boat or be in the sun! I’ve never felt so sick!! Today I have slight pressure in my head. Staying inside to avoid triggers. Aries and I have dinner plans tonight. Reservations for indoor dining. I hope I can make it!

OMG! See? He was right...you can’t deal with excitement! Lol

Feel better and there is always a next week...

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Yes, ty! We will see about next weekend. I like giving him freedom and not forcing him to do something. Summer is almost over anyways.

Be cautious. Don't give your heart until his actions align with his words.

Atm with the pandemic plenty of people are circling back around to former love interests since options are a bit limited.

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Does he keep coming back or has he actually never left? It sounds like you are the one who walks away. That can be confusing to him.

We usually end up getting very close and then he disappears for a day or two and comes back saying he just needed to clear his head and stuff

And As a cancer I don’t deal well with inconsistency or space haha

So I get scared and I walk away he usually just lets me go if this happens

But he said it bugs him often when he thinks about the fact that I walk away

It’s just in order to be in it with him I have to accept that he disappears sometimes and I don’t know if I can do that

1 or 2 days is nothing. He needs freedom to be himself and do what he wants. I’m a cancer dating an Aries. He likes hanging out with his friends on Saturdays. Not a big deal. Both our men are consistently here no matter how much drama is created. You need to be too and appreciate that and stop the drama. He will respond to you much better.

BTW...where is your report about how your weekend went, darling? 🤔

Girl! It wasn’t happening!! I’ve been in the er twice for my kidney stones and I’ve had a non stop migraine since Tuesday! I couldn’t leave my cold bedroom to even watch tv. So no way I could sit on a boat or be in the sun! I’ve never felt so sick!! Today I have slight pressure in my head. Staying inside to avoid triggers. Aries and I have dinner plans tonight. Reservations for indoor dining. I hope I can make it!

OMG! See? He was right...you can’t deal with excitement! Lol

Feel better and there is always a next week...

Yes, ty! We will see about next weekend. I like giving him freedom and not forcing him to do something. Summer is almost over anyways.

He has to pass the test before summer is over...don’t you want to know if he can be yours and not too much his friends?

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Yes, talked about it and he said he would invite me. Who knows when. I wasn’t in the mood to talk about it honestly. We had such an amazing dinner and night together!! We both opened up about some family things and had very good conversations. We are planning a trip in the fall. We live in NY and we can’t go to most states because their cases are too friggin high (thanks everyone) we are looking at options in Maine. Definitely felt the love ooze out of him this time. 🥰🥰 I think he could be the one!

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Does he keep coming back or has he actually never left? It sounds like you are the one who walks away. That can be confusing to him.

We usually end up getting very close and then he disappears for a day or two and comes back saying he just needed to clear his head and stuff

And As a cancer I don’t deal well with inconsistency or space haha

So I get scared and I walk away he usually just lets me go if this happens

But he said it bugs him often when he thinks about the fact that I walk away

It’s just in order to be in it with him I have to accept that he disappears sometimes and I don’t know if I can do that

1 or 2 days is nothing. He needs freedom to be himself and do what he wants. I’m a cancer dating an Aries. He likes hanging out with his friends on Saturdays. Not a big deal. Both our men are consistently here no matter how much drama is created. You need to be too and appreciate that and stop the drama. He will respond to you much better.

BTW...where is your report about how your weekend went, darling? 🤔

Girl! It wasn’t happening!! I’ve been in the er twice for my kidney stones and I’ve had a non stop migraine since Tuesday! I couldn’t leave my cold bedroom to even watch tv. So no way I could sit on a boat or be in the sun! I’ve never felt so sick!! Today I have slight pressure in my head. Staying inside to avoid triggers. Aries and I have dinner plans tonight. Reservations for indoor dining. I hope I can make it!

OMG! See? He was right...you can’t deal with excitement! Lol

Feel better and there is always a next week...

Yes, ty! We will see about next weekend. I like giving him freedom and not forcing him to do something. Summer is almost over anyways.

He has to pass the test before summer is over...don’t you want to know if he can be yours and not too much his friends?

Yes, talked about it and he said he would invite me. Who knows when. I wasn’t in the mood to talk about it honestly. We had such an amazing dinner and night together!! We both opened up about some family things and had very good conversations. We are planning a trip in the fall. We live in NY and we can’t go to most states because their cases are too friggin high (thanks everyone) we are looking at options in Maine. Definitely felt the love ooze out of him this time. 🥰🥰 I think he could be the one!

Awww...listen...almost 2 years in rship at MY age and experience and I am still learning.

He does make me laugh on daily basis and it’s priceless. He always complaining when I shop - I dissapear in the store forever. Yesterday we were about to pick up my prescription at CVS and drive tru was closed so I said I’ll be quick. He took my hand - gazed into my eyes and said ‘now you’ll go in and...am I going to ever see you again?’ - he was so sad - I laughed all the way to the pharmacy...

These creatures are amazing. Just have to be handled with care and NO - they don’t play ‘in love’ game. One thing I can tell - it’s the only man whom my overly jealous ass would leave in the room full of women and not think that he would slip. Never happened before...so it’s also important.

And you guys from NY? We are neighbors...I love NY! Fuck DeBlasio! Hold on in there...❤️

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Aw he sounds so cute!! Definitely a keeper even if he doesn’t give u hugs lol And yes, I feel like I can trust my aries as well- something I haven’t been able to do well with other guys!! It’s a great feeling!! Both of us are in our thirties and we talk about kids and marriage. I can really picture it with him. This morning I was thinking to myself which room would be our first child’s room and where the playroom will be. I can picture it all with him. Honestly this is the most confident I’ve felt about a guy. Even if we fight hes still always here and ready to keep going.

We live upstate NY close to albany. Where do you live??

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Does he keep coming back or has he actually never left? It sounds like you are the one who walks away. That can be confusing to him.

We usually end up getting very close and then he disappears for a day or two and comes back saying he just needed to clear his head and stuff

And As a cancer I don’t deal well with inconsistency or space haha

So I get scared and I walk away he usually just lets me go if this happens

But he said it bugs him often when he thinks about the fact that I walk away

It’s just in order to be in it with him I have to accept that he disappears sometimes and I don’t know if I can do that

1 or 2 days is nothing. He needs freedom to be himself and do what he wants. I’m a cancer dating an Aries. He likes hanging out with his friends on Saturdays. Not a big deal. Both our men are consistently here no matter how much drama is created. You need to be too and appreciate that and stop the drama. He will respond to you much better.

BTW...where is your report about how your weekend went, darling? 🤔

Girl! It wasn’t happening!! I’ve been in the er twice for my kidney stones and I’ve had a non stop migraine since Tuesday! I couldn’t leave my cold bedroom to even watch tv. So no way I could sit on a boat or be in the sun! I’ve never felt so sick!! Today I have slight pressure in my head. Staying inside to avoid triggers. Aries and I have dinner plans tonight. Reservations for indoor dining. I hope I can make it!

OMG! See? He was right...you can’t deal with excitement! Lol

Feel better and there is always a next week...

Yes, ty! We will see about next weekend. I like giving him freedom and not forcing him to do something. Summer is almost over anyways.

He has to pass the test before summer is over...don’t you want to know if he can be yours and not too much his friends?

Yes, talked about it and he said he would invite me. Who knows when. I wasn’t in the mood to talk about it honestly. We had such an amazing dinner and night together!! We both opened up about some family things and had very good conversations. We are planning a trip in the fall. We live in NY and we can’t go to most states because their cases are too friggin high (thanks everyone) we are looking at options in Maine. Definitely felt the love ooze out of him this time. 🥰🥰 I think he could be the one!

Awww...listen...almost 2 years in rship at MY age and experience and I am still learning.

He does make me laugh on daily basis and it’s priceless. He always complaining when I shop - I dissapear in the store forever. Yesterday we were about to pick up my prescription at CVS and drive tru was closed so I said I’ll be quick. He took my hand - gazed into my eyes and said ‘now you’ll go in and...am I going to ever see you again?’ - he was so sad - I laughed all the way to the pharmacy...

These creatures are amazing. Just have to be handled with care and NO - they don’t play ‘in love’ game. One thing I can tell - it’s the only man whom my overly jealous ass would leave in the room full of women and not think that he would slip. Never happened before...so it’s also important.

And you guys from NY? We are neighbors...I love NY! Fuck DeBlasio! Hold on in there...❤️

Aw he sounds so cute!! Definitely a keeper even if he doesn’t give u hugs lol And yes, I feel like I can trust my aries as well- something I haven’t been able to do well with other guys!! It’s a great feeling!! Both of us are in our thirties and we talk about kids and marriage. I can really picture it with him. This morning I was thinking to myself which room would be our first child’s room and where the playroom will be. I can picture it all with him. Honestly this is the most confident I’ve felt about a guy. Even if we fight hes still always here and ready to keep going.

We live upstate NY close to albany. Where do you live??

And they are amazing parents too...

Yep...fights doesn’t mean breaking up. True.

I am from Philly currently quarantining in Jersey.

He is born and raised in Staten Island. True NYker...🤝

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Oh nice!! U are close!! Jersey could be an option for a vacation. I want to visit the ocean even if I can’t swim. Lol

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Does he keep coming back or has he actually never left? It sounds like you are the one who walks away. That can be confusing to him.

We usually end up getting very close and then he disappears for a day or two and comes back saying he just needed to clear his head and stuff

And As a cancer I don’t deal well with inconsistency or space haha

So I get scared and I walk away he usually just lets me go if this happens

But he said it bugs him often when he thinks about the fact that I walk away

It’s just in order to be in it with him I have to accept that he disappears sometimes and I don’t know if I can do that

1 or 2 days is nothing. He needs freedom to be himself and do what he wants. I’m a cancer dating an Aries. He likes hanging out with his friends on Saturdays. Not a big deal. Both our men are consistently here no matter how much drama is created. You need to be too and appreciate that and stop the drama. He will respond to you much better.

BTW...where is your report about how your weekend went, darling? 🤔

Girl! It wasn’t happening!! I’ve been in the er twice for my kidney stones and I’ve had a non stop migraine since Tuesday! I couldn’t leave my cold bedroom to even watch tv. So no way I could sit on a boat or be in the sun! I’ve never felt so sick!! Today I have slight pressure in my head. Staying inside to avoid triggers. Aries and I have dinner plans tonight. Reservations for indoor dining. I hope I can make it!

OMG! See? He was right...you can’t deal with excitement! Lol

Feel better and there is always a next week...

Yes, ty! We will see about next weekend. I like giving him freedom and not forcing him to do something. Summer is almost over anyways.

He has to pass the test before summer is over...don’t you want to know if he can be yours and not too much his friends?

Yes, talked about it and he said he would invite me. Who knows when. I wasn’t in the mood to talk about it honestly. We had such an amazing dinner and night together!! We both opened up about some family things and had very good conversations. We are planning a trip in the fall. We live in NY and we can’t go to most states because their cases are too friggin high (thanks everyone) we are looking at options in Maine. Definitely felt the love ooze out of him this time. 🥰🥰 I think he could be the one!

Awww...listen...almost 2 years in rship at MY age and experience and I am still learning.

He does make me laugh on daily basis and it’s priceless. He always complaining when I shop - I dissapear in the store forever. Yesterday we were about to pick up my prescription at CVS and drive tru was closed so I said I’ll be quick. He took my hand - gazed into my eyes and said ‘now you’ll go in and...am I going to ever see you again?’ - he was so sad - I laughed all the way to the pharmacy...

These creatures are amazing. Just have to be handled with care and NO - they don’t play ‘in love’ game. One thing I can tell - it’s the only man whom my overly jealous ass would leave in the room full of women and not think that he would slip. Never happened before...so it’s also important.

And you guys from NY? We are neighbors...I love NY! Fuck DeBlasio! Hold on in there...❤️

Aw he sounds so cute!! Definitely a keeper even if he doesn’t give u hugs lol And yes, I feel like I can trust my aries as well- something I haven’t been able to do well with other guys!! It’s a great feeling!! Both of us are in our thirties and we talk about kids and marriage. I can really picture it with him. This morning I was thinking to myself which room would be our first child’s room and where the playroom will be. I can picture it all with him. Honestly this is the most confident I’ve felt about a guy. Even if we fight hes still always here and ready to keep going.

We live upstate NY close to albany. Where do you live??

And they are amazing parents too...

Yep...fights doesn’t mean breaking up. True.

I am from Philly currently quarantining in Jersey.

He is born and raised in Staten Island. True NYker...🤝

Oh nice!! U are close!! Jersey could be an option for a vacation. I want to visit the ocean even if I can’t swim. Lol

Yeah...retard Murphy Is sick with power making everybody’s lives miserable...as DeBlasio...so probably next year if they aren’t going to sold our beaches to foreigners.

Let me stop before Dxp liberals lighted their torches...😂😂😂

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😂😂 luckily I don’t deal with either of them haha