Aries Man and cancer woman breakup

I went out with a guy for two years who was an Aries and I am a cancer, we used to always fight and clash off eachother but after we’d makeup like nothing happened, I was in love with him and he was my first serious boyfriend I had others but weren’t as serious, he broke up with me 2 months ago over the phone telling me we were only breaking up now and we’ll get back together in the future and when I told him I love you he said I love you more which is why I’m so confused.. and idk if that’s true or not? I’d like to hope it is but I also don’t know why I would even take him back..he’s now seeing a new girl which hurt like fu*k and idk if she’s going to hinder us getting back but I’m convinced she’s a rebound but when he told me about getting back that we would at Christmas 2017 which is just next month so idk to wait for him or not.. anyone know how to help me figure this out? He told me also “if you really love me let me go and if I come back it was meant to be if not then it really wasn’t” I haven’t contacted him since because there was no reason to he’s been going out with this girl just a week after we broke up until now. Idk if there’s a chance we’ll get back.

It’s not looking good honey. In any event don’t ever wait for a man. Imagine if you would have started moving on when he did. You may have a new beau too. Get on with your life girl. You can cherish those memories and make new ones with someone else. But don’t wait!

You been ditched basically. The way he did is nasty. Not all aries like this example just letting you know. What is more interesting question how did he get to this point without you notice.

I was thinking on texting him to meet up in a week or two to just talk and see where things go but I’m guessing that’s probably a bad idea and I should just let go of him? Do you ever think he will come back or is that him just saying that to make it less hard of a break up for me, he also said it could be Christmas or June after he finished school so idk? I feel like a fall back plan.

I have just “ended” things with an Aries male and let me tell you that he dumped you in the worst possible way. I’m not saying that he didn’t love you or that he doesn’t care about you anymore ( I mean you dated for 2 years and it was serious ), but probably all the fighting kinda bored him. Maybe he got tired. And to be honest, even if aries are known as players and fuckboys, if he started going out with a girl a week after you broke up, it’s pretty obvious that she was already in his life when you broke up. So, not to hurt you girl, but maybe he was cheating on you. I mean breaking up with you over the phone? That’s rude and unfair after a 2 years relationship. Asking you to sort of wait for him? That was his way of telling you you’re his backup plan in case it doesn’t work out with this girl. Besides, if he really loved you and wanted you he wouldn’t have broken up with you in the first place. When aries love someone they go for it. And maybe it’s the age, I mean you are both young, an aries can be quite immature. And maybe he knows you know about the girl and he is avoiding you. My advice is try to focus on yourself and move on. Make new friends, have fun, go out, show him what his missing and live your life. Maybe he’d realize what he lost and if not, everything is for the best. I’m pretty sure you’ll find someone else 🙂

what I don’t understand is why did he ask for my house key a couple of days before breaking up and he’s never asked for his stuff back like his clothes and his favorite jumper he left behind, I just happened to bump into him today and that was the first time he knew he saw me with his new girl but I don’t think he ever looked at me. I know it’s for the best and I will move on, thank you guys it’s good help hearing other people’s opinions.