Aries man confusing

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Jjmarie
@Jjmarie
6 Years

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We aren’t together. I am a Leo. We’ve been “talking” or “dating” for 3 months almost going on 4 and recently his texts and phone calls have been getting slower. He’s always on social media posting and on live, liking other girls pictures, etc. We just started being intimate maybe last month and idk if that has anything to do with it but after sex he always tells me how good it was or compliments me after. So idk if the sex changed everything or what. He recently lost his job and has been going through things. I seen him earlier this week but haven’t heard from him since. He made a post today that stated “if you have not been hearing from me it’s not on purpose I promise right now I’m just trying to refind myself and focus..” idk I’m confused
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Jjmarie
@Jjmarie
6 Years

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Also like I mentioned he is like all into social media and I have an issue with it. I don’t like when he goes on live with other females and likes all their pictures. I know we’re both single but when your dating there are standards and boundaries kinda lol. He went on live one time basically saying he’s going out to talk to a bunch of girls to find the one and when I called him out on it he got mad. After that is when I noticed the weird behavior he started texting slower and stop calling. When he did call I asked him why was he acting so different he said I was giving you space. What?? He mentioned to me before that he wants to be in a serious relationship with me sooner or later but acts like this?? How can you go a week without talking to the person you “like”. He even told me he loves me so much one time. He always talks about being in a relationship but haven’t made us official yet. I understand he doesn’t want to rush but what is he waiting for??
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Sunmoonrising
@Sunmoonrising
6 Years

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You need to ask him straight out if you want to be an item officially. He isn't treating you that way atm as because of that he will still be looking. It's horrible I know for you as you've slept with him but until cards are on the table and you know where you stand with him you'll be left wandering.

He is kind of showing you already that he is treating this thing with you as casual. I've been where you are so no all the signs. Yes he likes you but you aren't exclusive yet so he does what he wants and it's painful I know as it's obvious you really want him.

Yes things can change but you need to have a chat and be the best there is out there so he always comes back to you. Just text him or call him and meet up xx
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Basorexia
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Posted by Jjmarie

No on his live he didn’t necessarily say he was talking to a bunch of girls he said the fall time is the time to find the one girl you really want. Fall semester of school is “recruiting time” I honestly don’t even know if he’s talking to other girls maybe so.


Don't be foolish, don't let him waste your time.

He's being vague, he's playing games and he's letting you wonder on about whatever else he's doing.

If you have to ask, you already know.

Aries anything is the most blunt straight forward tells it like it is.