borednbeautiful
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Aries man hot n cold
Posted by TXCowboyPosted by borednbeautiful
What’s up my dxp lovelies 🌸 🩷💫
Sorry I’ve been missing in dxp action since I can’t even remember when? 🤔😂
Not much is new in my boring life (figures) except for this Aries man. We haven’t gone out yet because he is stop and go.
Last time we talked I said I wasn’t into dating at this point in my life, we could take it slow, bla bla bla. He said that’s fine and he won’t insist. But that’s when he stopped hitting me up. He still likes my pics and my comments. But he is not talking. And I don’t wanna talk first.
When we first talked he talked about sex a bit (but not only sex) and I was like “oh God not another overly sexual man in my life!” Ugh 😑
He may have sensed it. I don’t know. We talked about other stuff too, but now 0 messages since 4 days ago :/
Is this a lost cause before it even began?
4 days ago? It's not looking good. You did say that you weren't looking to date at this point in your life, he took your word for it.
Looks to me like you're going to have to swallow your pride and reel this fishy back in.click to expand
Howdy TX cowboy! 🤠
So why didn’t he unfollow me? He still likes everything I post. But I I mean I get his point of view.
He is Aries sun and Scorpio ascendant. That’s all I know so far =)
Probably because you said you weren't interested in dating. 😅
@TXCowboy
How do I lure him back though? He is an Aries FFS. If he wants it, he’ll come and get it, right?
How do I lure him back though? He is an Aries FFS. If he wants it, he’ll come and get it, right?
Posted by TXCowboyPosted by borednbeautiful
@TXCowboy
How do I lure him back though? He is an Aries FFS. If he wants it, he’ll come and get it, right?
You have to make it safe for him to want to come back. That means it's going to require initiation on your part. Start flirting with him out of the blue again.
See how he responds to it. If he is still cold, try one more time. If it doesn't work the second time, move on.click to expand
How do I engage him in talks when he just likes my stuff? He doesn’t comment anymore. It seems passive-aggressive? I could message him, but I am kinda feeling against it…don’t know what to say. He might offer me his goodies lol 😝
Guys, I’ll have to respond tomorrow as it’s really late here and dxp is being glitchy! 🙁
Posted by Lionheart917
Aries or not, if you say you don't want to date right now, automatically you'd be put on the back burner. Unless he's a certified SIMP, In a guy's mind, you are playing games even if you don't.
I’m an Aries and when I was single if I didn’t get the right vibe, I put them on a back burner with no contact unless they had something to say. If we were talking and I got the “I don’t know what I want with my life” I’d legit ask them “when did your parents get married and have you?” If they responded anything before 30s I’d tell them “crazy how you don’t know what you want at 35….and your parents had you at 23, you were 12 by the time they were your age…and you still don’t know what you want for dinner or a relationship?” And then I’d ghost 👻….
As an Aries. Anytime anyone even gave off a slight impression they were playing games, I’d play them right back and then immediately block.
I just have no patience for any of that. Too many fun things to do. Why waste time on someone who needs drama just to feel like their life doesn’t suck.
Posted by borednbeautiful
@TXCowboy
How do I lure him back though? He is an Aries FFS. If he wants it, he’ll come and get it, right?
FFS girl. You're still dealing with an individual.
Don't let Sun Sign astrology dumb you down to that level. This is an example of how NOT to use astrology.
First of all we don't even know the signs of his Mars and Venus. Second, don't confuse taking the inituative with being a simp with no dignity, pride, or self-respect. Or as disregarding statements like "not looking for a relationship right now".
It seems like he wants you, but that's not good enough for you; you want him to bend over backwards for you.
Honestly, it seems to me like he still wants you to know he likes you and that he is available. But he is taking a more passive approach. Now he is waiting for you to give him the green light by making the first move. Go for it, you most likely won't be rejected as he has made it clear with his liking of your photos that he is receptive to you.
Ahhh you got to play a better game Gemini.
You can’t come out the gate and say you’re not looking for anything. You haven’t even gone out with him to play that card. At least let him see up close and then, hit him with that line.
Exchange energy for energy. He likes a picture, you like a mutual friend’s picture. Be visible. Be a catch.
You can’t come out the gate and say you’re not looking for anything. You haven’t even gone out with him to play that card. At least let him see up close and then, hit him with that line.
Exchange energy for energy. He likes a picture, you like a mutual friend’s picture. Be visible. Be a catch.
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by borednbeautiful
Guys, I’ll have to respond tomorrow as it’s really late here and dxp is being glitchy! 🙁
And this post went alright…
She is some kind of a goofy sick ass.
How can one don’t get it when you say ‘I don’t want to date’ - man like Aries won’t kiss your ass! Then after saying it - waiting for him to act? Bipolar? 🤔🤷♀️🤦♀️click to expand
You’re literally nuts 💯 % of the time and then go out of your way to call people bipolar 😂
You’re so weird
"Last time we talked I said I wasn’t into dating at this point in my life, we could take it slow"
This killed it for him I think.
From my experience, Aries men thrive on bantering and flirting. Talks about "let's take it slow" is good and what adults should do but remember you're dealing with an Aries. If you want to take things slow do it with ACTIONS. Flirt and have fun but don't let him cross your boundaries. Keep him on his toes.
This killed it for him I think.
From my experience, Aries men thrive on bantering and flirting. Talks about "let's take it slow" is good and what adults should do but remember you're dealing with an Aries. If you want to take things slow do it with ACTIONS. Flirt and have fun but don't let him cross your boundaries. Keep him on his toes.
Also, lots of men dgaf about following or unfollowing on socmed. A Leo guy I talked to 2 years ago is still following me, likes my pics and watching my stories lol. Don't overthink the social media thing but then again you're an air sign lol
Op is almost 40 ??!!
Posted by borednbeautiful
@TXCowboy
How do I lure him back though? He is an Aries FFS. If he wants it, he’ll come and get it, right?
Just tell him you bought a new bikini.👙😂
We are fire signs, we don't have the patience for this type of thing. If you're not interested, someone else will be, who isn't saying no.
You cooled him off a bit too much, it's not even a challenged when you end things before they even began.
That's like telling a guy never to call you again, and then wondering why he hasn't called.
You cooled him off a bit too much, it's not even a challenged when you end things before they even began.
That's like telling a guy never to call you again, and then wondering why he hasn't called.
Quick update:
After he liked another picture and posts today, and he actually commented and made a joke, I decided to message him. It was fun and banter but my overall feeling is that he is looking for FWB type of a thing. He kept talking about my looks, sex, some relationship stuff too…but nothing sounds too promising. He also likes pics of some girls who look really slutty! Ugh 😩
So we went back and forth, and convo kinda died down…I said jokingly I will unfollow him and he sent me this emoji 😢
I also tried talking about something else. He didn’t respond.
But then nothing. Oh well. I am not going to engage him further and I will ignore his attempts (if any).
There was another Aries who I’ve met earlier this year, and it also died down. I think if you ignore them few times, they go away.
P.S. My Leo ex and I are on friendly terms, but not in a relationship. We talk like 1-2 x a month.
After he liked another picture and posts today, and he actually commented and made a joke, I decided to message him. It was fun and banter but my overall feeling is that he is looking for FWB type of a thing. He kept talking about my looks, sex, some relationship stuff too…but nothing sounds too promising. He also likes pics of some girls who look really slutty! Ugh 😩
So we went back and forth, and convo kinda died down…I said jokingly I will unfollow him and he sent me this emoji 😢
I also tried talking about something else. He didn’t respond.
But then nothing. Oh well. I am not going to engage him further and I will ignore his attempts (if any).
There was another Aries who I’ve met earlier this year, and it also died down. I think if you ignore them few times, they go away.
P.S. My Leo ex and I are on friendly terms, but not in a relationship. We talk like 1-2 x a month.
I think he was testing the waters. I may look easy and sleazy, but am not!!!
I don’t have the time or patience for any games what so ever.
I don’t have the time or patience for any games what so ever.
Posted by borednbeautiful
Quick update:
After he liked another picture and posts today, and he actually commented and made a joke, I decided to message him. It was fun and banter but my overall feeling is that he is looking for FWB type of a thing. He kept talking about my looks, sex, some relationship stuff too…but nothing sounds too promising. He also likes pics of some girls who look really slutty! Ugh 😩
So we went back and forth, and convo kinda died down…I said jokingly I will unfollow him and he sent me this emoji 😢
I also tried talking about something else. He didn’t respond.
But then nothing. Oh well. I am not going to engage him further and I will ignore his attempts (if any).
There was another Aries who I’ve met earlier this year, and it also died down. I think if you ignore them few times, they go away.
P.S. My Leo ex and I are on friendly terms, but not in a relationship. We talk like 1-2 x a month.
Does this approach usually work for you with men?
You've been waiting for him to contact and when he does you jokingly say you will unfriend him? You seem messy and dramatic, maybe that's why you attract Leo's, but Aries aren't like that.
Men like what they see. How do you guys see what others are liking? If I was a man and a girl I was trying to talk to questioned me about what pics I liked, it would be a red flag.
You're not the only girl on SM and men are visual creatures. Of course he will like a girls post that he thinks is hot.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by borednbeautiful
Quick update:
After he liked another picture and posts today, and he actually commented and made a joke, I decided to message him. It was fun and banter but my overall feeling is that he is looking for FWB type of a thing. He kept talking about my looks, sex, some relationship stuff too…but nothing sounds too promising. He also likes pics of some girls who look really slutty! Ugh 😩
So we went back and forth, and convo kinda died down…I said jokingly I will unfollow him and he sent me this emoji 😢
I also tried talking about something else. He didn’t respond.
But then nothing. Oh well. I am not going to engage him further and I will ignore his attempts (if any).
There was another Aries who I’ve met earlier this year, and it also died down. I think if you ignore them few times, they go away.
P.S. My Leo ex and I are on friendly terms, but not in a relationship. We talk like 1-2 x a month.
Does this approach usually work for you with men?
You've been waiting for him to contact and when he does you jokingly say you will unfriend him? You seem messy and dramatic, maybe that's why you attract Leo's, but Aries aren't like that.
Men like what they see. How do you guys see what others are liking? If I was a man and a girl I was trying to talk to questioned me about what pics I liked, it would be a red flag.
You're not the only girl on SM and men are visual creatures. Of course he will like a girls post that he thinks is hot.click to expand
It’s cool. I lost interest in getting to know him. He is intelligent but that’s it, pretty much.
I am not ready for anyone serious yet. Especially this Aries man whore 🤢
If he comes back; I am gonna be really mean!
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by saggurl88Posted by borednbeautifulDoes this approach usually work for you with men?
Quick update:
After he liked another picture and posts today, and he actually commented and made a joke, I decided to message him. It was fun and banter but my overall feeling is that he is looking for FWB type of a thing. He kept talking about my looks, sex, some relationship stuff too…but nothing sounds too promising. He also likes pics of some girls who look really slutty! Ugh 😩
So we went back and forth, and convo kinda died down…I said jokingly I will unfollow him and he sent me this emoji 😢
I also tried talking about something else. He didn’t respond.
But then nothing. Oh well. I am not going to engage him further and I will ignore his attempts (if any).
There was another Aries who I’ve met earlier this year, and it also died down. I think if you ignore them few times, they go away.
P.S. My Leo ex and I are on friendly terms, but not in a relationship. We talk like 1-2 x a month.
You've been waiting for him to contact and when he does you jokingly say you will unfriend him? You seem messy and dramatic, maybe that's why you attract Leo's, but Aries aren't like that.
Men like what they see. How do you guys see what others are liking? If I was a man and a girl I was trying to talk to questioned me about what pics I liked, it would be a red flag.
You're not the only girl on SM and men are visual creatures. Of course he will like a girls post that he thinks is hot.
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It’s cool. I lost interest in getting to know him. He is intelligent but that’s it, pretty much.
I am not ready for anyone serious yet. Especially this Aries man whore 🤢
If he comes back; I am gonna be really mean!click to expand
You're too funny lol It's not that serious.
You told him that you didn't want to date him and then that you were going to unfriend him, so just do it already. What's the point in waiting for him to come back so you can be mean. He hasn't done anything to you.
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by saggurl88It’s cool. I lost interest in getting to know him. He is intelligent but that’s it, pretty much.Posted by borednbeautiful
Quick update:
After he liked another picture and posts today, and he actually commented and made a joke, I decided to message him. It was fun and banter but my overall feeling is that he is looking for FWB type of a thing. He kept talking about my looks, sex, some relationship stuff too…but nothing sounds too promising. He also likes pics of some girls who look really slutty! Ugh 😩
So we went back and forth, and convo kinda died down…I said jokingly I will unfollow him and he sent me this emoji 😢
I also tried talking about something else. He didn’t respond.
But then nothing. Oh well. I am not going to engage him further and I will ignore his attempts (if any).
There was another Aries who I’ve met earlier this year, and it also died down. I think if you ignore them few times, they go away.
P.S. My Leo ex and I are on friendly terms, but not in a relationship. We talk like 1-2 x a month.
Does this approach usually work for you with men?
You've been waiting for him to contact and when he does you jokingly say you will unfriend him? You seem messy and dramatic, maybe that's why you attract Leo's, but Aries aren't like that.
Men like what they see. How do you guys see what others are liking? If I was a man and a girl I was trying to talk to questioned me about what pics I liked, it would be a red flag.
You're not the only girl on SM and men are visual creatures. Of course he will like a girls post that he thinks is hot.
click to expand
I am not ready for anyone serious yet. Especially this Aries man whore 🤢
If he comes back; I am gonna be really mean!
click to expand
You don’t see that you acting like an idiot do you? I met Aries for sex and it lasted for 4 years. Aries men are gorgeous and in demand!
Apparently you are acting like spoiled brat with no brain. Men fuck you (if they do) and leave you. And that’s your own doing.
I think some relation therapy is crying for you.click to expand
He is not gorgeous but very average. He is a major dickhead though. My Leo ex is like a model, comparing.
Anyway. I am not interested anymore and I will never message him first again. Also, not gonna react to his lame flirting. I have no intention to meet him.
This is the second Aries man I declined this year. I liked them when I was much younger, but I don’t like this type of a man anymore 🤷
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by saggurl88Posted by borednbeautifulYou're too funny lol It's not that serious.Posted by saggurl88Posted by borednbeautiful
Quick update:
After he liked another picture and posts today, and he actually commented and made a joke, I decided to message him. It was fun and banter but my overall feeling is that he is looking for FWB type of a thing. He kept talking about my looks, sex, some relationship stuff too…but nothing sounds too promising. He also likes pics of some girls who look really slutty! Ugh 😩
So we went back and forth, and convo kinda died down…I said jokingly I will unfollow him and he sent me this emoji 😢
I also tried talking about something else. He didn’t respond.
But then nothing. Oh well. I am not going to engage him further and I will ignore his attempts (if any).
There was another Aries who I’ve met earlier this year, and it also died down. I think if you ignore them few times, they go away.
P.S. My Leo ex and I are on friendly terms, but not in a relationship. We talk like 1-2 x a month.
Does this approach usually work for you with men?
You've been waiting for him to contact and when he does you jokingly say you will unfriend him? You seem messy and dramatic, maybe that's why you attract Leo's, but Aries aren't like that.
Men like what they see. How do you guys see what others are liking? If I was a man and a girl I was trying to talk to questioned me about what pics I liked, it would be a red flag.
You're not the only girl on SM and men are visual creatures. Of course he will like a girls post that he thinks is hot.
click to expand
It’s cool. I lost interest in getting to know him. He is intelligent but that’s it, pretty much.
I am not ready for anyone serious yet. Especially this Aries man whore 🤢
If he comes back; I am gonna be really mean!
click to expand
You told him that you didn't want to date him and then that you were going to unfriend him, so just do it already. What's the point in waiting for him to come back so you can be mean. He hasn't done anything to you.
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She is a poster child for a floozy and does t even try to hide it. He could play CANT wait to marry AND would fuck her and leave. So what’s the difference if woman CANT KEEP THE MAN? At least he would get some…🤔click to expand
IDK Aries men are rarely deterred by things a woman says when they want her. Also he could be reading many stories so you can't judge by that. It sounds like he has low interest. Just block him.
Posted by borednbeautifulPosted by MonaLisa26Posted by borednbeautifulYou don’t see that you acting like an idiot do you? I met Aries for sex and it lasted for 4 years. Aries men are gorgeous and in demand!Posted by saggurl88Posted by borednbeautiful
Quick update:
After he liked another picture and posts today, and he actually commented and made a joke, I decided to message him. It was fun and banter but my overall feeling is that he is looking for FWB type of a thing. He kept talking about my looks, sex, some relationship stuff too…but nothing sounds too promising. He also likes pics of some girls who look really slutty! Ugh 😩
So we went back and forth, and convo kinda died down…I said jokingly I will unfollow him and he sent me this emoji 😢
I also tried talking about something else. He didn’t respond.
But then nothing. Oh well. I am not going to engage him further and I will ignore his attempts (if any).
There was another Aries who I’ve met earlier this year, and it also died down. I think if you ignore them few times, they go away.
P.S. My Leo ex and I are on friendly terms, but not in a relationship. We talk like 1-2 x a month.
Does this approach usually work for you with men?
You've been waiting for him to contact and when he does you jokingly say you will unfriend him? You seem messy and dramatic, maybe that's why you attract Leo's, but Aries aren't like that.
Men like what they see. How do you guys see what others are liking? If I was a man and a girl I was trying to talk to questioned me about what pics I liked, it would be a red flag.
You're not the only girl on SM and men are visual creatures. Of course he will like a girls post that he thinks is hot.
click to expand
It’s cool. I lost interest in getting to know him. He is intelligent but that’s it, pretty much.
I am not ready for anyone serious yet. Especially this Aries man whore 🤢
If he comes back; I am gonna be really mean!
click to expand
Apparently you are acting like spoiled brat with no brain. Men fuck you (if they do) and leave you. And that’s your own doing.
I think some relation therapy is crying for you.
click to expand
He is not gorgeous but very average. He is a major dickhead though. My Leo ex is like a model, comparing.
Anyway. I am not interested anymore and I will never message him first again. Also, not gonna react to his lame flirting. I have no intention to meet him.
This is the second Aries man I declined this year. I liked them when I was much younger, but I don’t like this type of a man anymore 🤷click to expand
Cope mechanism. You liked him enough to worry about him not dming you, liked him enough to make this post.
Your cope mechanism is a cop out. Any fire sign would walk from a nearly 40 hot mess that still plays games. Any. Inc the Leo.
😒🫰🏻 ur done
Posted by DonnaLibra
IDK Aries men are rarely deterred by things a woman says when they want her. Also he could be reading many stories so you can't judge by that. It sounds like he has low interest. Just block him.
Wouldn’t blocking him seem kinda dramatic and petty? Not right now, but I might possibly do it later. Just to show him, he is an asshole.
Hi Babygirl 💖 So many have asked for you
Posted by Midnite_RiserPosted by DMV
Op is almost 40 ??!!
Not to rag on her but at this stage, she's going to be one of those tiktoc women going ''Where are all the good men at??''click to expand
Oh don't be mean... Does any of you have the perfect relationship? Or even someone in sight? Someone interested in YOU?
She got her own standards and boundaries which she holds on to.
She can find her dream man any moment.
Posted by borednbeautiful
Quick update:
After he liked another picture and posts today, and he actually commented and made a joke, I decided to message him. It was fun and banter but my overall feeling is that he is looking for FWB type of a thing. He kept talking about my looks, sex, some relationship stuff too…but nothing sounds too promising. He also likes pics of some girls who look really slutty! Ugh 😩
So we went back and forth, and convo kinda died down…I said jokingly I will unfollow him and he sent me this emoji 😢
I also tried talking about something else. He didn’t respond.
But then nothing. Oh well. I am not going to engage him further and I will ignore his attempts (if any).
There was another Aries who I’ve met earlier this year, and it also died down. I think if you ignore them few times, they go away.
P.S. My Leo ex and I are on friendly terms, but not in a relationship. We talk like 1-2 x a month.
Girlfriend.
Of course he’s looking for a FWB.
You told him you weren’t down for a relationship.
What else would he be looking for? A crochet buddy?
Aries always start out as sexual. If he has a Venus in Taurus, it’s gonna be super slow and he will be hedonistic.
Aries love flirting and banter. No wet blankets.
Instead of talking about blocking him, talk about slapping him.
Posted by borednbeautiful
I think he was testing the waters. I may look easy and sleazy, but am not!!!
I don’t have the time or patience for any games what so ever.
So obviously you don’t have time for yourself 😉😂
Posted by Midnite_RiserPosted by borednbeautiful
@TXCowboy
How do I lure him back though? He is an Aries FFS. If he wants it, he’ll come and get it, right?
Understand that you are dealing with a fire sign, especially Aries. Out of all 3 fire signs, Aries have the strongest BS detector. They will be the first to leave when things will go hot and cold REAL quick. And I believe you have a Mars in Leo correct? Nothing will ever work out because you will be hot and bothered one moment, cold the next. And given that you are a Gemini in your mid to late 30s, guys will already see you as a red flag. IF you are not there to commit, then why are you with these guys for? That on and off stuff ain't cute. In this stage, you should've already been married. I'm not being negative, I am just telling you the truth. You're not gonna be hot forever remember that. I'm only trying to help you out here. A woman should have a guy locked down by the age of 25 the latest tbh. They SEE that you are not married so because of that, they see no future with you. The same thing will be happening with the next guy, and the next guy and the next guy. And then you will be coming on here noting your problems with these guys. I remember that Cancer lady, she is old asf now into her 50s, she was crying to me about how she feels suicidal and stuff. Wheeping and crying because she is alone. She was bragging about the fact that she has $ 600,000 in her bank account. I told her , ''No guy cares about that. Guys only care about rather you are attractive or not and if you are a suitable mate to have a kid and a future with'' that is ALL! She showed me her ID of how she looked like back in her mid 20s, she was actually attractive in her 20s! But she was trying to lockdown 1 guy who she thought was the ''bad guy'' aka a Chad. She never got him because she didn't realize, there's competition. Long story short, I checked her chart, she had a Sun in Cancer with a Mars in Leo. So do you not see the picture here boredy? So now you have to asses your self and see what YOU are doing wrong. The bad girl years have been over for you. You're going to need a man eventually because everything is going to collapse very soon. There's no time for games anymore.click to expand
I disagree, as a Leo Mars. I have never had an issue with "keeping a man" and playing hot and cold.
It has nothing to do with having a Leo Mars.
Leo Moon, maybe, but not Mars.
Posted by Midnite_RiserPosted by borednbeautiful
@TXCowboy
How do I lure him back though? He is an Aries FFS. If he wants it, he’ll come and get it, right?
Understand that you are dealing with a fire sign, especially Aries. Out of all 3 fire signs, Aries have the strongest BS detector. They will be the first to leave when things will go hot and cold REAL quick. And I believe you have a Mars in Leo correct? Nothing will ever work out because you will be hot and bothered one moment, cold the next. And given that you are a Gemini in your mid to late 30s, guys will already see you as a red flag. IF you are not there to commit, then why are you with these guys for? That on and off stuff ain't cute. In this stage, you should've already been married. I'm not being negative, I am just telling you the truth. You're not gonna be hot forever remember that. I'm only trying to help you out here. A woman should have a guy locked down by the age of 25 the latest tbh. They SEE that you are not married so because of that, they see no future with you. The same thing will be happening with the next guy, and the next guy and the next guy. And then you will be coming on here noting your problems with these guys. I remember that Cancer lady, she is old asf now into her 50s, she was crying to me about how she feels suicidal and stuff. Wheeping and crying because she is alone. She was bragging about the fact that she has $ 600,000 in her bank account. I told her , ''No guy cares about that. Guys only care about rather you are attractive or not and if you are a suitable mate to have a kid and a future with'' that is ALL! She showed me her ID of how she looked like back in her mid 20s, she was actually attractive in her 20s! But she was trying to lockdown 1 guy who she thought was the ''bad guy'' aka a Chad. She never got him because she didn't realize, there's competition. Long story short, I checked her chart, she had a Sun in Cancer with a Mars in Leo. So do you not see the picture here boredy? So now you have to asses your self and see what YOU are doing wrong. The bad girl years have been over for you. You're going to need a man eventually because everything is going to collapse very soon. There's no time for games anymore.click to expand
Chill out manosphere
Posted by Midnite_RiserPosted by DMV
Op is almost 40 ??!!
Not to rag on her but at this stage, she's going to be one of those tiktoc women going ''Where are all the good men at??''click to expand
Let’s assess your stage in life.
Where are you at?
Posted by DMVPosted by borednbeautiful
Quick update:
After he liked another picture and posts today, and he actually commented and made a joke, I decided to message him. It was fun and banter but my overall feeling is that he is looking for FWB type of a thing. He kept talking about my looks, sex, some relationship stuff too…but nothing sounds too promising. He also likes pics of some girls who look really slutty! Ugh 😩
So we went back and forth, and convo kinda died down…I said jokingly I will unfollow him and he sent me this emoji 😢
I also tried talking about something else. He didn’t respond.
But then nothing. Oh well. I am not going to engage him further and I will ignore his attempts (if any).
There was another Aries who I’ve met earlier this year, and it also died down. I think if you ignore them few times, they go away.
P.S. My Leo ex and I are on friendly terms, but not in a relationship. We talk like 1-2 x a month.
Girlfriend.
Of course he’s looking for a FWB.
You told him you weren’t down for a relationship.
What else would he be looking for? A crochet buddy?
Aries always start out as sexual. If he has a Venus in Taurus, it’s gonna be super slow and he will be hedonistic.
Aries love flirting and banter. No wet blankets.
Instead of talking about blocking him, talk about slapping him.click to expand
Yikes! I know an Aries man who said a woman slapped him and he knocked her into a glass table. Don't do that Bored.
Hi guys, here is another update:
This morning I woke up to an apology from this Aries guy. He said he was sorry if he just kinda left me hanging. He has been dealing with some stuff…it turns out he is a recovering sex addict (go figure!), he has anxiety, depression and PTSD. He is in therapy. We spent most of the day talking back and forth, bantering, joking and discussing some deep stuff.
I also said I was busy, I had to go, because I didn’t wanna seem too available and I actually had work to do. Later on, I posted a status, something about people carrying other people’s emotional baggage. And he immediately messaged me, asking me if I felt sad and needed to talk 😭
Oh my God! He is actually nice! And caring.
But his mental health problems incl sex addiction ouch 😓😬
I asked if he would ever be satisfied with one woman and he said he wasn’t sure. I asked if he ever wanted like marriage or family and he said “who knows” and said he felt defeated and wasn’t looking --if it happens, it happens.
So now I am even more confused than before…
This morning I woke up to an apology from this Aries guy. He said he was sorry if he just kinda left me hanging. He has been dealing with some stuff…it turns out he is a recovering sex addict (go figure!), he has anxiety, depression and PTSD. He is in therapy. We spent most of the day talking back and forth, bantering, joking and discussing some deep stuff.
I also said I was busy, I had to go, because I didn’t wanna seem too available and I actually had work to do. Later on, I posted a status, something about people carrying other people’s emotional baggage. And he immediately messaged me, asking me if I felt sad and needed to talk 😭
Oh my God! He is actually nice! And caring.
But his mental health problems incl sex addiction ouch 😓😬
I asked if he would ever be satisfied with one woman and he said he wasn’t sure. I asked if he ever wanted like marriage or family and he said “who knows” and said he felt defeated and wasn’t looking --if it happens, it happens.
So now I am even more confused than before…
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Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by DMVPosted by borednbeautifulGirlfriend.
Quick update:
After he liked another picture and posts today, and he actually commented and made a joke, I decided to message him. It was fun and banter but my overall feeling is that he is looking for FWB type of a thing. He kept talking about my looks, sex, some relationship stuff too…but nothing sounds too promising. He also likes pics of some girls who look really slutty! Ugh 😩
So we went back and forth, and convo kinda died down…I said jokingly I will unfollow him and he sent me this emoji 😢
I also tried talking about something else. He didn’t respond.
But then nothing. Oh well. I am not going to engage him further and I will ignore his attempts (if any).
There was another Aries who I’ve met earlier this year, and it also died down. I think if you ignore them few times, they go away.
P.S. My Leo ex and I are on friendly terms, but not in a relationship. We talk like 1-2 x a month.
Of course he’s looking for a FWB.
You told him you weren’t down for a relationship.
What else would he be looking for? A crochet buddy?
Aries always start out as sexual. If he has a Venus in Taurus, it’s gonna be super slow and he will be hedonistic.
Aries love flirting and banter. No wet blankets.
Instead of talking about blocking him, talk about slapping him.
click to expand
Yikes! I know an Aries man who said a woman slapped him and he knocked her into a glass table. Don't do that Bored.
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He was telling me how he loves dominating women;
I teasingly said I am not into that and how it’s me actually who dominates men.
He is 187 cm tall and 100 kg. He said let’s wrestle and whoever wins can dominate the other one ☺️😍😄
Posted by Melantho
Aries doesn't do Hot and Cold. 100% in or out.
You'll know when an Aries wants you.
Even an Aries themselves would get overwhelmed!
He said when he wants a woman he has a hard-on 24/7. Yikes!! 😳😅
Posted by borednbeautiful
What’s up my dxp lovelies 🌸 🩷💫
Sorry I’ve been missing in dxp action since I can’t even remember when? 🤔😂
Not much is new in my boring life (figures) except for this Aries man. We haven’t gone out yet because he is stop and go.
Last time we talked I said I wasn’t into dating at this point in my life, we could take it slow, bla bla bla. He said that’s fine and he won’t insist. But that’s when he stopped hitting me up. He still likes my pics and my comments. But he is not talking. And I don’t wanna talk first.
When we first talked he talked about sex a bit (but not only sex) and I was like “oh God not another overly sexual man in my life!” Ugh 😑
He may have sensed it. I don’t know. We talked about other stuff too, but now 0 messages since 4 days ago :/
Is this a lost cause before it even began?
Nope. He stated his interest and you said you weren't interested in that at that time. He is respecting your wishes and boundaries.
It's on you to tell him if that's changed.
....or were you just into him for the attention that you are not longer getting 😏😜
Posted by Saturn_ReturnsPosted by Midnite_RiserPosted by saggurl88She's playing that game she always does. It's the hot and cold thing that Air signs are notorious for doing. To make it worse, any Venus or Mars placement that has Leo on it only amplifies this problem. Its the love games where its HOT at the moment, then cold in it's downtime. This is going to be an on going problem for her when she encounters the next guy. Watch lol
We are fire signs, we don't have the patience for this type of thing. If you're not interested, someone else will be, who isn't saying no.
You cooled him off a bit too much, it's not even a challenged when you end things before they even began.
That's like telling a guy never to call you again, and then wondering why he hasn't called.
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That's why I haven't bothered dating a Gemini in years.
Things usually start off really well but, boy, are they hell bent on sabotaging the relationship.
It's like any indication of the relationship becoming too real scares the hell out of them.
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We have commitment and attachment issues.
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by DMVPosted by borednbeautifulGirlfriend.
Quick update:
After he liked another picture and posts today, and he actually commented and made a joke, I decided to message him. It was fun and banter but my overall feeling is that he is looking for FWB type of a thing. He kept talking about my looks, sex, some relationship stuff too…but nothing sounds too promising. He also likes pics of some girls who look really slutty! Ugh 😩
So we went back and forth, and convo kinda died down…I said jokingly I will unfollow him and he sent me this emoji 😢
I also tried talking about something else. He didn’t respond.
But then nothing. Oh well. I am not going to engage him further and I will ignore his attempts (if any).
There was another Aries who I’ve met earlier this year, and it also died down. I think if you ignore them few times, they go away.
P.S. My Leo ex and I are on friendly terms, but not in a relationship. We talk like 1-2 x a month.
Of course he’s looking for a FWB.
You told him you weren’t down for a relationship.
What else would he be looking for? A crochet buddy?
Aries always start out as sexual. If he has a Venus in Taurus, it’s gonna be super slow and he will be hedonistic.
Aries love flirting and banter. No wet blankets.
Instead of talking about blocking him, talk about slapping him.
click to expand
Yikes! I know an Aries man who said a woman slapped him and he knocked her into a glass table. Don't do that Bored.
click to expand
I seriously laughed out loud.
Yeah, read the room
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