
WallFlower422
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Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShine
If an Aries man isn’t over you like a rash, he’s not interested
I was with two …. very attentive and couldn’t keep their hands off me….
My dad was very affectionate with my mum even though they’d been together years.
That was in a relationship context though. Think about it like this on a dating app there is effectively 1000s of people in a large area, in reality the average man is maybe talking to 10+ at any one time.
We know date one was cancelled due to rain, but who cancelled it. There's also been to much emphasis placed on his sun. He has cancer moon and pisces venus which soften it and probably make him less like to rush. I do agree with what you have written about an aries being proactive, but this is on a dating app and not looking for sympathy but men have the odds stacked well against them compared to women. I do agree he might not be invested or as nobody has said might be talking to other women, but from personal experience if things aren't moving forward people move on and that is why I'm saying ignoring him as others have said is the wrong advice. He's a man first, zodiac is secondary.
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Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesYes truePosted by MyStarsShine
If an Aries man isn’t over you like a rash, he’s not interested
I was with two …. very attentive and couldn’t keep their hands off me….
My dad was very affectionate with my mum even though they’d been together years.
That was in a relationship context though. Think about it like this on a dating app there is effectively 1000s of people in a large area, in reality the average man is maybe talking to 10+ at any one time.
We know date one was cancelled due to rain, but who cancelled it. There's also been to much emphasis placed on his sun. He has cancer moon and pisces venus which soften it and probably make him less like to rush. I do agree with what you have written about an aries being proactive, but this is on a dating app and not looking for sympathy but men have the odds stacked well against them compared to women. I do agree he might not be invested or as nobody has said might be talking to other women, but from personal experience if things aren't moving forward people move on and that is why I'm saying ignoring him as others have said is the wrong advice. He's a man first, zodiac is secondary.
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Modern day dating is fecked up though
Most people seem to be out for a quick shag and then move on to the next one. I really don’t envy anyone who is a part of it.
It’d leave me cold tbh and seems quite stressful.
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Same thing was true when I was younger with face to face dating. Technology has simply streamlined it. Who remembers speed dating? Isn't that effectively a right or left swipe only face to face? What about going on the pull? What was the goal; it wasn't a serious relationship by 2am?
Lots of people are looking for a relationship on apps. I guarantee that. I know tinder was a hook up app, but it has moved away from that. Personally I see no problems in people using it for ONS as long as they are on the same page.
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Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesI don’t think it’s comparablePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShine
If an Aries man isn’t over you like a rash, he’s not interested
I was with two …. very attentive and couldn’t keep their hands off me….
My dad was very affectionate with my mum even though they’d been together years.
That was in a relationship context though. Think about it like this on a dating app there is effectively 1000s of people in a large area, in reality the average man is maybe talking to 10+ at any one time.
We know date one was cancelled due to rain, but who cancelled it. There's also been to much emphasis placed on his sun. He has cancer moon and pisces venus which soften it and probably make him less like to rush. I do agree with what you have written about an aries being proactive, but this is on a dating app and not looking for sympathy but men have the odds stacked well against them compared to women. I do agree he might not be invested or as nobody has said might be talking to other women, but from personal experience if things aren't moving forward people move on and that is why I'm saying ignoring him as others have said is the wrong advice. He's a man first, zodiac is secondary.
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Yes true
Modern day dating is fecked up though
Most people seem to be out for a quick shag and then move on to the next one. I really don’t envy anyone who is a part of it.
It’d leave me cold tbh and seems quite stressful.
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Same thing was true when I was younger with face to face dating. Technology has simply streamlined it. Who remembers speed dating? Isn't that effectively a right or left swipe only face to face? What about going on the pull? What was the goal; it wasn't a serious relationship by 2am?
Lots of people are looking for a relationship on apps. I guarantee that. I know tinder was a hook up app, but it has moved away from that. Personally I see no problems in people using it for ONS as long as they are on the same page.
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Two ltrs I had were with people i met at work
They weren’t talking to loads of other women and I got to know them gradually and then became involved with them
It’s completely different to online dating…
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I agree with you in principle, online dating does depend more on "text game" for a man and it's not the same as talking face to face.
Also in work, it's changed a lot recently and a lot of men are scared of sexual harassment lawsuits and with social media also being talked about online. Some totally false accusations or misconstruing someone's intentions could ruin someone's career.
TBF it doesn't matter if the man or woman or both are talking to a lot of people, it's whether or not they are each others priority and top choice.click to expand

Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesLife is crazyPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShine
If an Aries man isn’t over you like a rash, he’s not interested
I was with two …. very attentive and couldn’t keep their hands off me….
My dad was very affectionate with my mum even though they’d been together years.
That was in a relationship context though. Think about it like this on a dating app there is effectively 1000s of people in a large area, in reality the average man is maybe talking to 10+ at any one time.
We know date one was cancelled due to rain, but who cancelled it. There's also been to much emphasis placed on his sun. He has cancer moon and pisces venus which soften it and probably make him less like to rush. I do agree with what you have written about an aries being proactive, but this is on a dating app and not looking for sympathy but men have the odds stacked well against them compared to women. I do agree he might not be invested or as nobody has said might be talking to other women, but from personal experience if things aren't moving forward people move on and that is why I'm saying ignoring him as others have said is the wrong advice. He's a man first, zodiac is secondary.
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Yes true
Modern day dating is fecked up though
Most people seem to be out for a quick shag and then move on to the next one. I really don’t envy anyone who is a part of it.
It’d leave me cold tbh and seems quite stressful.
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Same thing was true when I was younger with face to face dating. Technology has simply streamlined it. Who remembers speed dating? Isn't that effectively a right or left swipe only face to face? What about going on the pull? What was the goal; it wasn't a serious relationship by 2am?
Lots of people are looking for a relationship on apps. I guarantee that. I know tinder was a hook up app, but it has moved away from that. Personally I see no problems in people using it for ONS as long as they are on the same page.
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I don’t think it’s comparable
Two ltrs I had were with people i met at work
They weren’t talking to loads of other women and I got to know them gradually and then became involved with them
It’s completely different to online dating…
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I agree with you in principle, online dating does depend more on "text game" for a man and it's not the same as talking face to face.
Also in work, it's changed a lot recently and a lot of men are scared of sexual harassment lawsuits and with social media also being talked about online. Some totally false accusations or misconstruing someone's intentions could ruin someone's career.
TBF it doesn't matter if the man or woman or both are talking to a lot of people, it's whether or not they are each others priority and top choice.
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Life is complete chaos, dating isn't too difficult. I've told multiple people how to get a date and they do something else and wonder why it hasn't worked. 🤦
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Posted by slugPosted by alexscariesPosted by slugPosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineThat was in a relationship context though. Think about it like this on a dating app there is effectively 1000s of people in a large area, in reality the average man is maybe talking to 10+ at any one time.
If an Aries man isn’t over you like a rash, he’s not interested
I was with two …. very attentive and couldn’t keep their hands off me….
My dad was very affectionate with my mum even though they’d been together years.
We know date one was cancelled due to rain, but who cancelled it. There's also been to much emphasis placed on his sun. He has cancer moon and pisces venus which soften it and probably make him less like to rush. I do agree with what you have written about an aries being proactive, but this is on a dating app and not looking for sympathy but men have the odds stacked well against them compared to women. I do agree he might not be invested or as nobody has said might be talking to other women, but from personal experience if things aren't moving forward people move on and that is why I'm saying ignoring him as others have said is the wrong advice. He's a man first, zodiac is secondary.
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" If things aren't moving forward people move on".. exactly. She should move on. 😂
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Talk to other people then reconnect. We actually don't know he isn't interested.
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Meh. He can reconnect with her if he really is interested.. she should sit back and relax. She's already wasted too much energy. 💅 😂
THREE TIMES. THREE... With no effort to reschedule. Naaah.
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Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesI was referring to dating crazy not the restPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineThat was in a relationship context though. Think about it like this on a dating app there is effectively 1000s of people in a large area, in reality the average man is maybe talking to 10+ at any one time.
If an Aries man isn’t over you like a rash, he’s not interested
I was with two …. very attentive and couldn’t keep their hands off me….
My dad was very affectionate with my mum even though they’d been together years.
We know date one was cancelled due to rain, but who cancelled it. There's also been to much emphasis placed on his sun. He has cancer moon and pisces venus which soften it and probably make him less like to rush. I do agree with what you have written about an aries being proactive, but this is on a dating app and not looking for sympathy but men have the odds stacked well against them compared to women. I do agree he might not be invested or as nobody has said might be talking to other women, but from personal experience if things aren't moving forward people move on and that is why I'm saying ignoring him as others have said is the wrong advice. He's a man first, zodiac is secondary.
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Yes true
Modern day dating is fecked up though
Most people seem to be out for a quick shag and then move on to the next one. I really don’t envy anyone who is a part of it.
It’d leave me cold tbh and seems quite stressful.
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Same thing was true when I was younger with face to face dating. Technology has simply streamlined it. Who remembers speed dating? Isn't that effectively a right or left swipe only face to face? What about going on the pull? What was the goal; it wasn't a serious relationship by 2am?
Lots of people are looking for a relationship on apps. I guarantee that. I know tinder was a hook up app, but it has moved away from that. Personally I see no problems in people using it for ONS as long as they are on the same page.
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I don’t think it’s comparable
Two ltrs I had were with people i met at work
They weren’t talking to loads of other women and I got to know them gradually and then became involved with them
It’s completely different to online dating…
click to expand
I agree with you in principle, online dating does depend more on "text game" for a man and it's not the same as talking face to face.
Also in work, it's changed a lot recently and a lot of men are scared of sexual harassment lawsuits and with social media also being talked about online. Some totally false accusations or misconstruing someone's intentions could ruin someone's career.
TBF it doesn't matter if the man or woman or both are talking to a lot of people, it's whether or not they are each others priority and top choice.
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Life is crazy
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Life is complete chaos, dating isn't too difficult. I've told multiple people how to get a date and they do something else and wonder why it hasn't worked. 🤦
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but I refrain so don’t get caught up in the madness of if all
I actually don’t do chaos….it’s bad for the health
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I was reading up on the discordians and I think they might be right. People look for things to guide them when most of the time it is random.
It's risk reward with dating. Even if it is more difficult for a man to date, there is relatively little to no risk of say violence. Worst case scenario is some coke head Barbie steals my stuff and that's more likely to happen on a night out
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Posted by alexscariesPosted by TimonePosted by slugI agree. He's not that interested. If he was he would have asked her out already.Posted by alexscariesPosted by slugTalk to other people then reconnect. We actually don't know he isn't interested.Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShine
If an Aries man isn’t over you like a rash, he’s not interested
I was with two …. very attentive and couldn’t keep their hands off me….
My dad was very affectionate with my mum even though they’d been together years.
That was in a relationship context though. Think about it like this on a dating app there is effectively 1000s of people in a large area, in reality the average man is maybe talking to 10+ at any one time.
We know date one was cancelled due to rain, but who cancelled it. There's also been to much emphasis placed on his sun. He has cancer moon and pisces venus which soften it and probably make him less like to rush. I do agree with what you have written about an aries being proactive, but this is on a dating app and not looking for sympathy but men have the odds stacked well against them compared to women. I do agree he might not be invested or as nobody has said might be talking to other women, but from personal experience if things aren't moving forward people move on and that is why I'm saying ignoring him as others have said is the wrong advice. He's a man first, zodiac is secondary.
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" If things aren't moving forward people move on".. exactly. She should move on. 😂
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Meh. He can reconnect with her if he really is interested.. she should sit back and relax. She's already wasted too much energy. 💅 😂
THREE TIMES. THREE... With no effort to reschedule. Naaah.
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You got to keep the fires burning. He's weighing her up.
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Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesYes I think soPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShineSame thing was true when I was younger with face to face dating. Technology has simply streamlined it. Who remembers speed dating? Isn't that effectively a right or left swipe only face to face? What about going on the pull? What was the goal; it wasn't a serious relationship by 2am?Posted by alexscariesPosted by MyStarsShine
If an Aries man isn’t over you like a rash, he’s not interested
I was with two …. very attentive and couldn’t keep their hands off me….
My dad was very affectionate with my mum even though they’d been together years.
That was in a relationship context though. Think about it like this on a dating app there is effectively 1000s of people in a large area, in reality the average man is maybe talking to 10+ at any one time.
We know date one was cancelled due to rain, but who cancelled it. There's also been to much emphasis placed on his sun. He has cancer moon and pisces venus which soften it and probably make him less like to rush. I do agree with what you have written about an aries being proactive, but this is on a dating app and not looking for sympathy but men have the odds stacked well against them compared to women. I do agree he might not be invested or as nobody has said might be talking to other women, but from personal experience if things aren't moving forward people move on and that is why I'm saying ignoring him as others have said is the wrong advice. He's a man first, zodiac is secondary.
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Yes true
Modern day dating is fecked up though
Most people seem to be out for a quick shag and then move on to the next one. I really don’t envy anyone who is a part of it.
It’d leave me cold tbh and seems quite stressful.
click to expand
Lots of people are looking for a relationship on apps. I guarantee that. I know tinder was a hook up app, but it has moved away from that. Personally I see no problems in people using it for ONS as long as they are on the same page.
click to expand
I don’t think it’s comparable
Two ltrs I had were with people i met at work
They weren’t talking to loads of other women and I got to know them gradually and then became involved with them
It’s completely different to online dating…
click to expand
I agree with you in principle, online dating does depend more on "text game" for a man and it's not the same as talking face to face.
Also in work, it's changed a lot recently and a lot of men are scared of sexual harassment lawsuits and with social media also being talked about online. Some totally false accusations or misconstruing someone's intentions could ruin someone's career.
TBF it doesn't matter if the man or woman or both are talking to a lot of people, it's whether or not they are each others priority and top choice.
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Life is crazy
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Life is complete chaos, dating isn't too difficult. I've told multiple people how to get a date and they do something else and wonder why it hasn't worked. 🤦
click to expand
I was referring to dating crazy not the rest
but I refrain so don’t get caught up in the madness of if all
I actually don’t do chaos….it’s bad for the health
click to expand
I was reading up on the discordians and I think they might be right. People look for things to guide them when most of the time it is random.
It's risk reward with dating. Even if it is more difficult for a man to date, there is relatively little to no risk of say violence. Worst case scenario is some coke head Barbie steals my stuff and that's more likely to happen on a night out
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What do you find most chaotic about life?
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Same thing as everyone else uncertainty. People say how good they are at prepping but nothing can prepare them for say cancer or an accident.
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Posted by alexscariesPosted by TimonePosted by alexscariesShe should have burned💥 him on the first strike when he gave the lame excuse not letting him do it over and over again.Posted by TimonePosted by slugPosted by alexscariesPosted by slugPosted by alexscaries" If things aren't moving forward people move on".. exactly. She should move on. 😂Posted by MyStarsShine
If an Aries man isn’t over you like a rash, he’s not interested
I was with two …. very attentive and couldn’t keep their hands off me….
My dad was very affectionate with my mum even though they’d been together years.
That was in a relationship context though. Think about it like this on a dating app there is effectively 1000s of people in a large area, in reality the average man is maybe talking to 10+ at any one time.
We know date one was cancelled due to rain, but who cancelled it. There's also been to much emphasis placed on his sun. He has cancer moon and pisces venus which soften it and probably make him less like to rush. I do agree with what you have written about an aries being proactive, but this is on a dating app and not looking for sympathy but men have the odds stacked well against them compared to women. I do agree he might not be invested or as nobody has said might be talking to other women, but from personal experience if things aren't moving forward people move on and that is why I'm saying ignoring him as others have said is the wrong advice. He's a man first, zodiac is secondary.
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Talk to other people then reconnect. We actually don't know he isn't interested.
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Meh. He can reconnect with her if he really is interested.. she should sit back and relax. She's already wasted too much energy. 💅 😂
THREE TIMES. THREE... With no effort to reschedule. Naaah.
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I agree. He's not that interested. If he was he would have asked her out already.
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You got to keep the fires burning. He's weighing her up.
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If it was the other way round, we would get told how she is doing the right thing if she isn't sure. If he's not feeling it there's probably a reason why and it could be he's genuinely busy or ill. Most excuses are actually objections you just beat it by offering a solution.
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Posted by WallFlower422
I connected with an Aries guy on an online dating app. Conversation is pretty good. He suggested a first date some time ago, but we had to cancel the day of because the weather was atrocious. Since then, the last few times I have suggested we meet up for a date and he's agreed. But then the day of or the night before he'll pull out for one reason or another (sick, work got busy, family event). I'm not sure what to make of it. He is still very responsive and conversational over text. I imagine if he wasn't interested he would ghost altogether, or at least come out and say it. But at the same time he doesn't offer to reschedule. What's up with this? I'll admit I'm really interested in him because it's hard to connect on a basic level with people while OLD the way I felt I connected with him. I at least want to see if the vibe is right in person. Am I wasting my time?
Him:
Aries Sun
Cancer Moon
Venus Pisces
Sag Rising
Me:
Taurus Sun
Aquarius Moon
Venus Aries
Sag Rising

Posted by alexscaries
Worse combination on an Aries imo, the mix of cancer and pisces is the pits.
Obvious what you are doing wrong, you are arranging it. Say you want to meet up and bribe him if need be with free food then ask what his schedule is like. Not let's meet up Saturday or whatever.


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Him:
Aries Sun
Cancer Moon
Venus Pisces
Sag Rising
Me:
Taurus Sun
Aquarius Moon
Venus Aries
Sag Rising