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Posted by kateinkansascity
After three days of him being gone and no call I got scared and texted him saying I could not do this and it was over. he texted me back asking if I had sent the text to the wrong person. I texted back and said no, that I want a companion and a relationship and could not do this with him. He texted me back and said he did not know how to respond to me but okay. He said that he and I were a lot alike and that scared him and that I was acting like a crazy girl.

Kateinkansascity

no offense, you were a bit of a crazy girl. i think you let your insecurity and paranoia get the better of you when he was gone for 3 days and there was no contact.

geez, he was only gone for 3 days. you gotta relax.

you dont have to break up or throw in the towel with someone to see how they will react or to see if they really like you.

is this something that happens in most of your relationships?

Posted by starlover
Kate 🙂

Are you a Scorpio by any chance?

Beat me to the punch. DOH!!! LIB—

Scorpio, of course..

I like when people are forceful, but don't like when the situation feels forced and too much like it isn't happening all natural and carefree.

That doesn't mean there isn't a little push here and there that is needed to keep things going, but all the same, I think he was interested to keep the initial spark going and see what blossoms.

I know he can handle rules and respcects how you carry yourself.

What might he not understand? Texting. Maybe he is a modern person and can have conversations by texting, but from my experience I get so frustrated with each incoming text, and think all the time, "what does that even mean?"

Pursue as much as you want, and keep things going on the course you want to have, I am sure you guys will figure something out, and I think you just need to work out what is what in person more perhaps.

Posted by kateinkansascity
Scorpio, of course..

RAOTFLMAO