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Sometimes I can't read my Aries?

His mind is all over the place. Makes me insecure. Any ideas why they are like this?

Maybe I'm more invested than him

Aries with Gem Moon... lol. Sorry, men find it alluring. I guess for females dealing with male Gem moons, you're lacking that "connection."

We are all over the place. Listen faster?Analyze faster? The two signs associated with quickness are Gemini and Aries. So, you got a double dose. We think our feelings and have more intense states of minds rather than actual feelings. Look up states of mind.
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Posted by Sunmoonrising

Sometimes I can't read my Aries?

His mind is all over the place. Makes me insecure. Any ideas why they are like this?

Maybe I'm more invested than him


Have you been to grupovenus.com?

We had just discovered this place earlier and I had SO much info that I woke up with nightmares! Lol

But that’s MY problem.

Go read and find out. It’s wealth of knowledge. Good luck.

And yes. Mine is also ‘strange’ at times but he is an artistic ass so...it’s no problem. I am just just finding cozy place at his feet and laying there posting at dxp...lol

He will notice me when he is hungry...THATS for sure...😂👩🏻‍🍳🤦‍♀️
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Posted by Sunmoonrising

Sometimes I can't read my Aries?

His mind is all over the place. Makes me insecure. Any ideas why they are like this?

Maybe I'm more invested than him

Aries with Gem Moon... lol. Sorry, men find it alluring. I guess for females dealing with male Gem moons, you're lacking that "connection."

We are all over the place. Listen faster?Analyze faster? The two signs associated with quickness are Gemini and Aries. So, you got a double dose. We think our feelings and have more intense states of minds rather than actual feelings. Look up states of mind.

I agree. Gemini moon together with aries sun =super fast mind. And talk a lot. 😂
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The internal dialogue, yes. The outside, not as much; hence, the OP' "closed" book.
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Yes they can be talkative but not about feelings....that you have to guess and it changes constantly

In general men are less talkative about feelings than women and aries men even more so. Instead of trying to guess have you communicated with him how you feel?

What are you looking for from him? Answer that first and communicate that to him.
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He is clear what I want and he's one day up for it and the next day wishy washy. But generally I think he's pretty steady just struggles with commitment I think. Think it scares him.
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If you hold back your emotions, usually they will spill theirs. Try it.

I tried this tonight on phone and was abit me me me and it does work.....thank you

You're welcome!
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Any other tips to have them in the palm of your hand lol..im generally really fine with him but had afew moments I've gone abit mental due to bring insecure..
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If you hold back your emotions, usually they will spill theirs. Try it.

I tried this tonight on phone and was abit me me me and it does work.....thank you

You're welcome!

Any other tips to have them in the palm of your hand lol..im generally really fine with him but had afew moments I've gone abit mental due to bring insecure..
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Insecurity is the worst. Aries are very controlling, but understanding, there really isn't a need to be insecure.

They will track you down and call you every 5 minute when they can't find you. It's hard to actually get rid of them, so I'm not sure what you're doing. Probably too available. Disappear and take a day for yourself without worrying about him and he will wonder where the heck you are and come sniffing. Just don't play games like ignoring. Actually plan a busy day and don't check in with him but answer him when he calls.
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Posted by saggurl88

If you hold back your emotions, usually they will spill theirs. Try it.

I tried this tonight on phone and was abit me me me and it does work.....thank you

You're welcome!

Any other tips to have them in the palm of your hand lol..im generally really fine with him but had afew moments I've gone abit mental due to bring insecure..

Insecurity is the worst. Aries are very controlling, but understanding, there really isn't a need to be insecure.

They will track you down and call you every 5 minute when they can't find you. It's hard to actually get rid of them, so I'm not sure what you're doing. Probably too available. Disappear and take a day for yourself without worrying about him and he will wonder where the heck you are and come sniffing. Just don't play games like ignoring. Actually plan a busy day and don't check in with him but answer him when he calls.
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I've sent you a pm hun so you get the picture. Lol. Yes he's controlling but he keeps alot of space for himself as you'll soon understand x hence the insecurity