Aries Relationship Behavior.

You have a charming manner and very winning ways with the opposite sex, when you so choose. Despite your charm, you often find that some unforeseen problem seems to emerge that prevents you from obtaining the object of your desire and those to whom you are most attracted may indeed fail to respond in the way you expect. You need to harness your powerful energies, or even rein them in a little, so that those with whom you would like to spend time are not overwhelmed by your battle tactics.

Aries, a masculine sign, loves to lead and hates to follow. So in a relationship, Aries, the child of the zodiac, is the motivator and wants to be the controller. The Aries driving force compels those born under its influence to become the leading light in any co-operative venture. This can be a particular problem for Aries women, who constantly seek to measure themselves against their man (or men), always trying to gain the upper hand.

Aries is straightforward in its need to dominate. While quite socially acceptable for men, until recently this need has been rather problematic for women.

Women with Aries prominent often seem to work to overcome or defeat their partners, but in the event they succeed, have a tendency to lose respect for their formerly admired "opponents". The constant outflow of energy from egotistical Aries masks a sense of insecurity, which has its roots in a lack of self-esteem. The externalising of demons enables them to be conquered, but Aries is usually unable to formulate the problem. Like his mythic image, the Ram, Aries prefers to charge at full tilt, with little knowledge of, or care for, the consequences.

Similarly in the art of lovemaking, the Arien is enthusiastic and adventurous. Partners can sometimes be overwhelmed by this spirited approach, something which is not necessarily a sign of their weakness, but simply a reaction to the ardent intensity of passion. Aries loves to experiment and to take things to the limit, so, roll over Kama Sutra, the Aries lover is writing it all from scratch!

Seriously, though, it would not hurt for some ardent Ariens to actually take the time to discover some more sensitive approaches to the art of love. A glance through a manual or two, especially in the company of a lover, can lead to new highs and lingering climaxes that may extend the limit far beyond the boundaries of imagination.

http://www.astrologycom.com/ariesrel.html

Extract on Scorpios from the same website:

Scorpio in relationships
You have a dark and mysterious style which, combined with an irresistible personal magnetism, creates a fascination in members of the opposite sex (and the same sex - or any other sex that happens along). You ooze sexual excitement and require a partner (or partners) who can keep up with your marvellous capacity for taking everything to the limit - and beyond.

Scorpio, although a feminine (yin) sign, is ruled by Mars, the warrior god and Pluto, the king of the underworld. This fiercely potent combination creates tensions in your internal balancing mechanism between the male and female polarities. Your emotions run deep and your faculty of intuition is remarkably accurate, so your antennae can prick up and pick out a prospective partner at first sight. You need however to keep a part of yourself private and personal and can react vigorously should anyone have the temerity to trespass in your personal domain.

Possessing great self-control, combined with intellectual ability and creativity, you can achieve greatness in your chosen field, but can be unduly domineering in personal relationships, especially should you perceive your partner to be weaker than yourself.

Unfortunately, weaker types seem to congregate around you like fragile moths, fatally drawn to the fiery, incandescent flame.

Scorpio is a fixed sign, so your biggest problem is finding someone who, while strong enough to maintain the tempestuous life style , is interesting enough to remain challengingly enigmatic. However, knowing your penchant for getting to the bottom of things, it won't take you all that long to sniff one out!

Scorpio sexuality
Scorpio is ruled by Pluto, the transformer, and Mars, the warrior. Both planetary influences may be seen in your personality. Ambitious, energetic, you seek activities that are economically rewarding, as well as mentally or physically challenging. The jealousy associated with Mars and Pluto is minimal unless other factors in the chart support such a trait (say Scorpio, Aries or Capricorn Sun). You possess the cleverness and mechanical ability associated with Mars, as well as the innate resourcefulness associated with Pluto. Attracted to others with strong, magnetic personalities, you are oriented toward gathering resources of all kinds. For example, you consciously or subconsciously tend to establish relationships with strong or powerful people in t

you consciously or subconsciously tend to establish relationships with strong or powerful people in the belief such contacts may prove useful in some way. You can be quite secretive about personal affairs, a trait that often escapes the attention of most people you meet. You are so accommodating and pleasant that, unless others make serious attempts to probe beneath the surface, your real personality and activities may stay hidden indefinitely (So true for me)

So...mm,

If I am not getting too personal here and if I am, please let me know.

Have you ever been with an Aries before or will this be your first time?

I am just curious if there really is a strong connection between to "martians" 😉

Nope never been with an Aries before..But if one is romantically interested you can feel the energies drawwwwwww you in!..Never really come across many to be honest for relationship purposes...But now I can see why I get along with them..and understand them..

I have 3 close male Aries friends..I wasn't into the whole astrology thing back then..only started looking into it about a year ago (well since being on DXP)..but now that I am and read about them etc..I can see why we get along..See although we share Mars with you etc, we also have our Pluto side..the intense, seething brooding underside..lol..so its not just two martians coming together and its a helluva lot more!..lol..u lucky aries men..you dont' know what your missing!..

A libra friend of mine got married to her Aries man but his best friend is a Scorpio chick..I don't know how those two never made it into bed..but they are VERY close much to the annoyance of the libra chick..

I am not sure whether Aries female/Scorpio male make a good pair, but I defo think aries male/scorpio female is a formidable team..

Apparantly theres fatal attraction between the two...Well we shall wait and see...If there is..nice knowing you people and all that but I think I will mostly be spending my time on my back!!!

Brrrrrrrrring it on!

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"Ambitious, energetic, you seek activities that are economically rewarding, as well as mentally or physically challenging."

Economical..always..but I would say mentally and physically challenging..Physical is a great need for me..otherwise my energies become redundant..Thats dangerous as I become irritable and moody..So sport is the only way to release..well there are other ways too..lol

Oh yeah.....you're gonna experience the "other ways" 😉

Don't get me started...I can barely sit still as it is!..

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A scorpion that keeps moving is very inticing to the ram......

::here comes the fun::

Yes "catch me if you can"...A film with Leonard De Caprio - Scorpio!..shares the same birthday as me!..

Woohoo..says it all

Damnnnnnn!!!..I can't wait..I want to fast forward time itself...

Scorpio is the energy of the atom smashing, of energy released. Its nature depends upon the direction in which it is focused. Just as with nuclear energy, it can be a tremendous healing tool or a destructive bomb. Scorpio is the sign most susceptible to these forces of Dark or Light. It is indeed a time when choice must be made, and that choice will direct the kind of transformation to take place.

For me...OUTWARDS!..I am coooming to get you!!!!

*eyes wide open*


"I am coooming to get you!!!!" when you are coooming to get someone, are you planning on using that stinger that is attached on the back of your cute little tail? 😛

No..the stinger will be kept in reserve for when he messes up!..

Heres what he will see:

He will go blind.....


He will never be the same.....

Unforgettable....thats what you are!!

I am soooooooo having that song at the wedding!

I need a glass of wine now..

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Cheers to YOU being "Unforgetable" 😉

Although I often sing "Candyman" by Christina Aguilera to him to which he replies "I am not a piece of meat, I am a human being"

HAHAHA..

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