Aries the Push over

This topic was created in the Aries forum by CrabNextDoor on Sunday, August 6, 2017 and has 14 replies.

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@LibraLovesHim
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Posted by CrabNextDoor
Do you consider yourself to be a push over?

I used to see my Aries in this way. Probably because I am more "calculated" I give when its due-show me you are deserving of it and i'll do anything for you. Whereas he just does it off the bat...he does have a cut off point though but its more going through it deals with it whereas I generally have the foresight. I have caught myself resist "i told you so" a few times.

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Most Aries stand up for what they believe in and don’t back down, so overall I’d have to say no. However we aren’t exactly stubborn, and we are open minded, so it is possible to change our minds. When it comes to negotiating, we don’t exactly do mind-games, but we can smash things up if we don’t get what we want, so I think it’s situational?

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9 Years

Nope. My best friend appears to be this way (and he has a lot of pisces in his chart) because he's kind of a follower in his own way but a leader as well. He's a HUGE people pleaser, does everything by what people want to see or expect or see him to be, but then you get down to it, and you go past the sepurface and realise he doesn't do anything he doesn't want to do. He is stubborn and you can't make him if he isn't going to nope. He acts like he'd be a pushover, and then you try to push him over and you realise exactly how mistaken you are. AND BOY DO YOU GET BURNED. Believe me, him and I test each other all the time, always picking at each others boundaries, bossing each other around, pissing each other off. We are petty too, and I think everyone around us finds it amusing because it always gets joked about, but it's very much real and it defiantly helps us see our faults, helps us see where we are being close minded, and to open ourselves a bit, but it's so annoying. We need it though, lots of love between us, you can feel it from outer space if you tried. Point being....no aries is a pushover, just you try, push them with something they ARENT interested in doing but know where to stop poking the boundaries or else they will leave.

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One of my Aries best friends becomes the man she is with to like a crazy degree. Like almost joining a libertarian cult up in NH. Turning completely Vegan after a month of dating someone to the point shes like an insane advocate (is Portuguese and massive meat eater prior) She even dated a guy into drugs and then started popping pills and letting him be abusive. Ive never seen anyone change for men more than her. Yet she one-on-one seems so strong. She literally morphs into whoever she is dating, and with a fiery passion. Once the relationship is over she ditches whatever beliefs she was so passionate about.

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Well l think so but it's due to life's paradox....the strong abuse their power and then they need to be punished...if you officially show strength, you will be controlled. If you show weakness, you will be left free. (Libra)