OMG Heart is Breaking

NO, My aries didnt tell me he never wants to see me again or anything like that. Anyways...

We are just FWB ...BUT.. In my other posts he told me i was too special to him to be called a fwb. Soo anyways, i asked him when he could come over again, he asked me when my schedule was free. I Told him "Anytime till thursday" so he said "How about after i get off work" he came over, he was giving me some advice with a friend i am having problems with and told me to stop being taken advantage of and some other stuff, we a quickie "2 hours" .. He leaves, and he gets almost home. He calls me and says "I Forgot to tell you something and i want you to be the first to know.. It is between me and two other people in my company, one of us is getting promoted, and whichever of us it is, has to move to Las Vegas,NV" I Think my heart dropped to my feet,. I than said "I am not trying to sound like a bitch, but i hope you dont because i would hate to see you move" Than he said "My mom will probably say the same thing [laugh] but you could come out and be a chef since you cook so great and you wanted to be a chef remember"? i said "Only if i can be a roomate" he said "Yes and wouldnt it be cool if you worked as a chef in one of their 5 star restaurants" I said "Yea" than he said "But i dont know if i would take it if i got it because springfield is my home,but it does pay 7x more than what i get now,so i am not sure" .......Grrrr.. i dont know if i should tell him how i feel.. or if its a test.. or what.. but i would be absolutely heartboroken, as i have fallen for him, and i just havent told him because i dont wanna lose what we have. Since in the very beginning he told me he didnt wanna girlfriend, just 1 friend he can be great friends with and have some fun on the side. Any advice—

lovin' the 2 hour quickie!

As a non androgynous Aries, I would be happy that you trusted me with your feelings. But totally understand if you want to wait til he finds out definitely about the job.

I would move to the moon if I got paid 7x more. Mizzourah is not that far from NV. He is mad if he doesn't seize the opportunity if offered to him. too many Aries waste their talents, it's a sad thing.

And I know I sound like a broken record, but if it's all happening between the sheets, then we aren't keen to let you go.
Schmexual chemistry is a wonderful/powerful thang. Lots of people don't have it so when we have it with someone we treetrunking want you all for ourselves. And hey, if that sounds selfish so be it. I never said we were perfect!

FWB - pfft
*flips bird at FWB*

But hey - it's a neat word... and gave me a great visual!!!

*hugs*

I was thinking you were a David Bowie or Annie Lennox lookalike.
Nothing wrong with that.

I like to look from other people's points of view too. Don't know why people seem to think we Aries are pig headed bozos that don't care.

*shrugs*

I Let him meet some of my friends. And a few days ago, my gay guy friend called me and said "You KNOW that exclusive FWB of yours?" i said "Yeah?" he said "He just left here, he knocked on my door asking for my female roomate and he had his clothes and a bag packed and condoms and was gonna stay the night till he saw me and said "Oh i must have the wrong house" So i went to my friends house and she showed me the text messages, sure enough it was his number, Grrrrrrr thats why i been quiet the past few days... owell! Gald i know now!

Well, he has certainly fallen off the stupid tree and hit every branch on the way down..
What a way to kiss away a perfectly good Goddess.
massive hugs to you and remember we aren't all dickheads like that.
xxxxxxx

CG, you went into this knowing it was a FWB...not something i really believe in because we all know that a girls gona catch feelings...I feel for you, but hope this is a lesson in itself. You're not cut out for FWB BS, be patient and wait for someone real. He is out there somewhere!

I thought he decided to upgrade CG because she was too good to be just a FWB.

dude sounds like a scuzz to me

and there was i saying how FWB is too flaky for real deal Aries....tie my arms and smack me with a big stick

CG, I hesitated to speak my mind before but now I have to. Please don't meet men on the internet like this. Meet them somewhere and establish a dating relationship rather than have them come to your house right away & get physical. As a woman, I'm scared for you and glad you weren't hurt but you didn't know this guy and he could have hurt you. Never trust these men who would do what he did because if he does it with you, he's out to do it with others.

Darhlin', you deserve better than a fwb. Why not a real relationship with someone you can have great sex with AND potentially love? Your body is sacred and keep it as such until you find the right man. It will be worth the wait. The right guy would ask you out and want to wait to get to know you first. That's the only way to establish a relationship. Men put women in categories and a woman who gives it up fast is not respected no matter how nice you are. Yeah, these are cliches but they are true and an Aries man deep down is traditional. He does love to romance and chase you so let him. Above all, protect yourself, honey, 2-24 hours of pleasure isn't worth a lifetime of regrets. xoxox

Awwwwww thanks guys. Your right! I "DO" deserve better. I MISSSSSSSSSS the courtship process. I am very traditional,but it seems most men these days, no matter what sign. Only want sex. So i am NOW holding out till i find the one. *smile*


*XOXOXOXO~EVERYONE~XOXOXOXO*

Mystic and I want to headbutt him

LOL Yea, i know me too. But hey it happens. I Just cant believe i spent 2 hours making homeade chicken soup with fresh organic herbs because he was sick, and i got a real kick in the arse. Ugh!! I Actually took care of him,and started opening up to him. Its okay, i will find another guy. This time, i am going to be more careful. No more, FWB's!