could this work?

male/me
sun aries/ moon scorpio

female
sun cancer/ moon aries

i know that my sister is a sun aries/capricorn moon and her husband is a sun cancer not sure about the rest lol but she is a leo rising with venus in aries and they seem happy and good couple but they are not onthr same page as far children...i guess she is my sister after all hehehe

but anyhow can i get some input on the combo above?

CAA .. I've found with the couples I know who have a pretty good relationship, thier moon and venus signs are compatible .. being in the same position, even better .. Her moon with His venus

So her moon is in Aries .. where is your venus?

Certainly, I'm no expert on astrology .. but, it seems to hold true with the people I know .. if these two signs are matched, then the partnership is one of trust and respect.

me

me
rising aquarius or capricorn not sure about that
Sun Aries
Moon Scorpio
Mercury Taurus
Venus Aries
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Gemini
Saturn Leo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Lilith Taurus


her

Sun Cancer
Moon Aries
Mercury Leo
Venus Cancer
Mars Gemini
Jupiter Leo
Saturn Virgo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra

firestarter
i know what you mean but this girl has a brother and a sister both aries from the beginning of a sing lol so she has been broken in by the aries ways lol...she actually lives with her brother that she loves more than anything and she told me on numerous occasions that i remind her of her brother a lot....not sure if this is good or bad, but the way i see it should be the other way around since im older than him

she recently finished her divorce after being separated for 2 years from her sagitt husband of 5 years....just a note that he left as a typical sagitt does and had a gf right of way that he is getting bored of already

i dont know, i might give this a try, but the clingy side of a cancer makes me little uneasy, i guess we would have to talk about it before. but she knows how i am that i like to just hang out with my hommies and that i like to be left alone sometimes and that my job is demanding and keeps me away a lot

i think you just got burned out on cancers since you were married to one AND engaged to another .....obviously there was something there

but in my opinion the worst match up for aries if not in the entire zodiac lineup has to be aries-virgo specially male aries-female virgo....but thats my opinion only so dont jump at me all at once ya'all :-)

Just make sure you have plenty of enema's handy because once they crawl up your ass ...


One of my girlfriends had to have her Crab surgically removed ...

hehe man you guys are scaring me lol, she is such a nice person, and she trys so hard to get my attention, i guess as hard as you could expect from a cancer
i know her for years even when she was marreid to the sagitt guy and i didnt see that side of her, yeah she did take good care of home and all
i hope her aries moon will tone it down the clingy cancer?
but yeah, if it wasnt for that i would seal the deal long time ago with her, but for some reason i want her to do most of the work, since i tried last year and she turned me down just when i was getting really into her, lol not its the other way
since i broke up with the virgo few months back she has been paying more attention to me lol
i would prefer a sagitt or leo ut i dont thin k i can handle anothe heart brake ...this is not setteling by an by means cauze the cancer is a hottie but im trying new stuff i guess.....
my sister seems to be happy with her cancer husband so why cant i be?

It really depends on what you're looking for .. some people WANT a partner who will cater to their every whim.

My brother is a Cancer, and from his perspective, the whole world should bend over backwards to kiss his woman's butt (not literally, this is figuratively speaking) .. this is his attitude.

To some people, this is what they want .. a person to whom they could do no wrong, EVER .. this is great to some. However, the problem is that when it's over .. it's hard to get them out of your butt.

You said, you want her to do all the work .. so, it may not even be an issue for you, for this may be what you're looking for.

My SIL (Cancer) has run away every man she's ever had because of being so nosey with his personal affairs.

She rummaged through his wallet every night after he fell asleep.

She checks ALL in-coming and out-going calls on his cell.

She looks at all snail & e mails.

If she found calls on cell, texted or emails that she didn't know who it was ... she called/texted/emailed to tell them that he "is taken" just in case it was another woman. Can you imagine? What if it was a business associate? How embrassasing that would be.

He wasn't allowed to attend any social functions of any kind without her being there so she could monitor all the company he keeps.

Of course .. the flip side to this was .. she took care of his every needs and catered to his every desire at home.

However, every person is different .. so, you never know. One guy she was with for about 6 months was one of my husbands friends and he used to tell us that it was miserable. If he stayed on the toilet too long, she was pounding on the door.

It was just about my Cancer sister-in-law and the way she does her men.

Ok, I'll show it .. I just felt like we had already discouraged CAA enough ..

wow all this sounds discouraging, i know that if some girl was checking up on my phone or even worse send out txt to ppl i would go bazirk! i make tone of calls and receive just as many and have hundreds of contacts in my phone and its none of her business who it is unless i let her know and not letting me do things on my own and sitting on the toilet its just creepy,
is it possible that the cancers you dealt with had very low self esteem?
as much as i know her i dont think sh is that kind of a girl, i mean we all went out on (while i was with my sagitt gf and she was still married to her saggit guy) on weekend getaways and long holidays and stuff and i did not notice any of that behavior, also we use to party a lot at their house before they got divorce and i didnt notice any of that...yes she would get mad at him on occasion but thats he just would get so drunk and high he black out for rest of the weekend...cant blame her for that
and my sisters husband isnt like that at all, i know my sister and she is a freaking fire cracker lol she wouldnt put up with no pussy of a man....she dated some winners and lame mamas boys before but she kicked them to the curb so fast and hard their head would bounce, lol
and as far as getting me an aries girl....man o' man i dont think i can handle that kind of intensity lol, hahahaha, i had to share a room with my aries sister till i was 14 and she was 13...yup just like you said...broken doors, furniture, black eyes bloody nose, scars and what not ( bot of us) she just would not go down, hehehe it gotten so bad i got tired of fighting with her we did not speak for like e3 years and lived in the same house...it was bad i tell ya, but we cool now but she still pisses me off sometimes
so i dont see my self with an aries girl unless its a one night stand and i have a get away car waiting

i have to think about what i want with her
at first when i was chasing her i probably would have fallen head over heels for her if she only let me but now its little different and i know she turned me down before ( so she is not so perfect like i wanted her to be ) :-)

aloha....P-Angel

so my venus $ her moon sign would be a good inkling to whether the relationship would be good or not?

my venus is aries.
her moon is aries.

is this why we are so attracted to each other?

now, all I have to do is find some courage....🙂
I almost finally there....

awaiting your response P-Angel.

and Class Act....your sister was born when...bithdate?
cuz she has same planets as me:

sun aries
moon capricorn
venus aries
rising libra

Aloha & Mahalo.

I have to agree with what everyone else says about Cancers.

I had 2 Cancer exes and they both did the same things:
checking phones
going through my things
following me around
listening to my phone calls

One time I heard my ex going through my phone. After that he got really cold and distant and was acting funny. I confronted him on it and he went off on me asking me who I was talking to earlier. It was the guy who had delivered a pizza - he called to ask me to let him into my apartment bulding. The ex was THERE when the pizza was delivered....

He also used to call me non-stop and when I would go to the store or anywhere in the middle of the day he used to want me to call him when I left and when I got back. I refused because I knew what it was about(being suspicious when I'm just grocery shopping) and he went off again. Another even used to get all worked up over any time I spent on the internet because he assumed I MUST be talking to people in chat rooms and on dating sites. They never showed that sort of behaviour in front of people. This crap drove me crazy and I'm not even an Aries(Aries moon - but I need respect, trust, and a little space). Also, both seemed very secure and were successful in their careers with many friends and were close with family so I don't know that it was a self esteem issue.

I also have an Aries guy friend who dated a Cancer. She did the same thing - going through his things, always asking where he was and what he was doing etc. She would go off on him for giving his brother's ex-girlfriend a ride to work when her car was down - and this was MONTHS after they broke up!!! From what he told me, they had "the talk" as well. Of course she acted like she was fine with just spending time getting to know each other etc. Wasn't worried about marriage or anything. But not long after being together she started getting possessive, controlling, and suspicious of everything he did. She was the one that got him into astrology because he knew he never wanted to go through that crap ever again. lol 😛

my venus is aries.
her moon is aries.

is this why we are so attracted to each other?



Mauicountry ... hows et bra?

Yep, from the relationships I've seen that work, long-term, and mainly with respect, trust, tolerance ... her moon/his venus match. So, this would explain why the two of you are so attracted to each other. His venus wants to love a woman for the way her moon loves domestically, family orientation. Her moon wants to love him for the way he regards her as the woman of his home, his children. If two people have these two signs in the same constellation .. then they love for the same reasons.

Hope that helped 🙂 ... hang loose !!

mahalo P. you're an ANGEL.

aloha

my opinion it will work (astrologically)

her aries moon will make it work

any girl having fire moon or air moon can work with aries sun men (astrologically) / trine sextile conjunct / - even if she is cap or cancer or virgo or anything else -


and in this situation aries moon ( girl ) conjunct aries sun (boy) / sun = masculine moon = feminine if u reverse it aries moon (boy) + aries sun (girl) it has less chance to work cuz sun represent masculinity while moon represent femininity

thats my opinion on the moon and sun connection of course there important other things .

cheers

not to change the subject ..but how do you guys know in what sign your Mercuries
Venuses Marses all those planet thingys are?? i'm a double gem girl 30/05/1985..at 05:10am
(serbia, belgrade)but other then that ..i dunnoooo.. anyone knows how to work it out?

cheers, =)=)

Firestarterscarlett,

Seems like you haven't found the right Cancer man. Bring your tough little Aries arse over here and I'll show you what you've been missing out on. Aries women are no match for this Cancer man. I can see right through that tough facade. My Aries g/f treats everything like a competition and she's not winning. Love watching her get frustrated.

taurusbabe

you couldnt be more wrong about me, yes i was in love, i was with a asgitt girl for 5 years, and it was great
Im very liberal when it comes to relationships, i know that i can not nor i want to control the person im with, i like when she has her own independence and her own life outside of me. I dont get jealous easy, because i like to flirt too and as long it stays at that than im not worried,
i base the relationship on trust, if i love her that means i trust her and there is no need to be possessive of controlling
i wasnt difficult to pleas, in fact just her presence was good enough
sounds like you had a bad seed aries there taurusbabe, because i can say for a fact im not like that
i would rather break off the relationship if a felt the need to control or be possessive that means that person is not for me

he might of thought of him self that he is not like that but he was, im not here to argue that,
i on the other hand am not like that
my ex sagitt always could do what she want, go out with her friends to a club or a party or whatever ,it never was a problem we always felt that we can do our thing and just meet up later, there is no need to be hanging off of each others necks all the time, i like my space, she likes her space, i was there to give support but i would not impose my advices on her unless asked,
i came from a family where my father was very possessive and controlling and yet he did what he wanted to, it pissed me off , and im the total opposite of that
my planets might be lined up like they are but im pretty mellow and easy going, and very much in control of my emotions, specially the bad ones so there is no reason to be afraid of me
unless you afraid of genuine feelings, lol

actually she pissed me off little bit yesterday
saturady we made plans to hang out sunday and that we will be in touch
so i didnt make any plans for sunday so i could spend some time with her,
between 3pm-8pm i txt her 4 times and no answer
so this morning she txts me and apologizes for messing up my sunday but she had little too much to drink on saturday and wasnt in condition to do anything on sunday.
hmm not even answers my txt and let me know whats up? i would of been cool with that, i would have gone watch football with my boys but no, i sat home and did nothing. all she had to do is txt me back and not ignore it.i dont like this kind of shit.

you know i dont mind that she got drunk, no big deal, i was out the night before to partying it up at a birthday party, she asked me to go with her to the club but it was late in the evening when she asked and i was already on the way to a birthday party.
i dont care that she drinks on occasion , so do I but she could txt me that her palns changed, no big deal, i got plenty of other things to do but why not let me know all day? seems like a pattern lately with all the women i come across , damn it

no i didnt tell her that, i just replied thanks for answering and she has not answer back
its ok, im not going to make plans with her now, if she wants to she knows hwere to find ,me

firestarterscarlett,

No problem...just trying to help you out. The last two Aries women that I've dated have been real clingy. They both wanted me to meet their parents after a month and one even threw in "L" word after a month. I think that the Cancer/Aries romance is fun in the beginning, but it always seems to fizzle out. I've always had a hard time with the Aries me first attitude and the temper tantrums when things don't go their way. Even if things are going smoothly, it seems that they have to get angry about something, just to get angry...don't know why. However, I do love the fire, passion, loyalty and independence. But the relationship does work better when its just a friendship.

"Besides I don't find people who get drunk appealing."

Me either. As long as it's at least in moderation. Otherwise, like you said, cyanora!