Does this sound like an Aries woman?

Hey everyone!

So I have an Aries BFF my other BFF is a Cancer. (Ya'll probably didn't need to know the later part of that info, but I already typed it so whatever.) I love my Aries BFF I can talk to her for hours on the phone about anything and everything. Sometimes I feel like its a power struggle with her though, when I say this I mean that she can sometimes be overbearing. I noticed that she HATES being wrong, and she won't admit when she is wrong. She also makes everything seem as though it is not her fault (when it is), and tries to come up with some other explanation as to why something went wrong. When we talk about certain subjects, sometimes she can become a bit defensive and argumentative and I just go on and let her rant because, I feel as though I don't have the energy to argue back with her (not argue in a bad way, like intellectual conversation type of argument) also another reason why I don't argue back is because she doesn't realize that she is wrong, it's her way or it's wrong. I don't like having intellectual conversations with HER because as I stated she always has to be right and I don't want to waste my time talking about something intellectual with someone who isn't going to listen to me. My question for you Aries are do ya'll sound like this? How do I make her realize she's not right all the time without being mean?

I feel like it's my Libra in Mars that makes me not want to tell her about her behavior.

Lol yup sounds like us. Just be real with her. Tell her how it is. That way she can try and correct it.

Posted by Leoqueen21
Hey everyone!

So I have an Aries BFF my other BFF is a Cancer. (Ya'll probably didn't need to know the later part of that info, but I already typed it so whatever.) I love my Aries BFF I can talk to her for hours on the phone about anything and everything. Sometimes I feel like its a power struggle with her though, when I say this I mean that she can sometimes be overbearing. I noticed that she HATES being wrong, and she won't admit when she is wrong. She also makes everything seem as though it is not her fault (when it is), and tries to come up with some other explanation as to why something went wrong. When we talk about certain subjects, sometimes she can become a bit defensive and argumentative and I just go on and let her rant because, I feel as though I don't have the energy to argue back with her (not argue in a bad way, like intellectual conversation type of argument) also another reason why I don't argue back is because she doesn't realize that she is wrong, it's her way or it's wrong. I don't like having intellectual conversations with HER because as I stated she always has to be right and I don't want to waste my time talking about something intellectual with someone who isn't going to listen to me. My question for you Aries are do ya'll sound like this? How do I make her realize she's not right all the time without being mean?

I feel like it's my Libra in Mars that makes me not want to tell her about her behavior.

Yes, definitely sounds like Aries. I was very much like that, but I have since grown and matured a bit. I don't quite place as much value on winning.

Except, when I am standing up for someone, I am relentless in that I won't back down.

Grow a pair or shut up about it.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
Grow a pair or shut up about it.

lmao what was your point of commenting?

I think RockyRoadIceCream is demonstrating to us how an Aries woman replies to these types of question?

It sounds like Aries to me, this is why they say Aries do well in politics, because they can talk and debate passionately, and doesn't matter if its correct.

I think a well delivered logical statement, one that can't possibly be argued against can stop an Aries.

Lol wait a minute, I just noticed you're Leo? hehe ok, this explains it, Leo for some reason want to be right. They don't like how an Aries can come across as acting superior, or how they like to talk about how they know best, or how they act righteous, something like that. Most star sign don't mind, but Leo have to have an argument because they believe they are always right. Both signs can be stubborn and won't back down. An Aries actually isn't doing it for the argument, they're trying to be helpful?

Posted by AriesJo
I think RockyRoadIceCream is demonstrating to us how an Aries woman replies to these types of question?

It sounds like Aries to me, this is why they say Aries do well in politics, because they can talk and debate passionately, and doesn't matter if its correct.

I think a well delivered logical statement, one that can't possibly be argued against can stop an Aries.

Lol wait a minute, I just noticed you're Leo? hehe ok, this explains it, Leo for some reason want to be right. They don't like how an Aries can come across as acting superior, or how they like to talk about how they know best, or how they act righteous, something like that. Most star sign don't mind, but Leo have to have an argument because they believe they are always right. Both signs can be stubborn and won't back down. An Aries actually isn't doing it for the argument, they're trying to be helpful?

No. RockRoadIceCream is just a being a belligerent bitch...lmao

As for me, I don't always have to be right in a situation or circumstance, I'm very open to hearing what others have to say and their opinion on things. What I don't like is when I'm having a intelligent conversation with someone and everything you are talking about is going in and out of the ear of the other person. She doesn't absorb what I'm saying, it's as if she can't wait to prove how I am wrong which is dumb cause like I said I don't waste my energy arguing with people if you are wrong for a fact, (not just wrong in my opinion). The reason I don't want to tell her about her behavior, is because I know her and I know the behavior is not going to change. Maybe this is just my little venting outlet. thanks for the response tho.

It’s ok, I don’t think I was very helpful. But I know what you mean, I had an Aries GF once and she didn’t listen, and even if she did she would just forget what I was talking about.

She would just ask me all the time if I was listening, but that’s what I would be listening too, listening to her asking me if I was listening. Never knew anyone that talked so much, but said so little. Maybe this is how an Aries/Aries conversation goes lol.