Exhausted Aries Male

I’m a gem lady, met Aries guy who is 50 years old. Our first date was cool, he had a cool laid back energy. We laughed and talked he was super affectionate. I am open to getting to know him, we talk everyday, have an ongoing text thread. We have a cool vibe about us. He began purging all these stories of running through women his whole life. He has never been married. Story after story of degradation to these willing women of all ages. Throughout our time getting to know each other he’s constantly telling me he really likes me. He wants me to build him up into the man he’s suppose to be 🧐. He showers me with I miss you, compliments on my looks, he values my mind.. all the things that a woman likes. The thing is about two weeks in I’m not passionate for him. Sure I love good stories but it seems like he lacks respect for women, and whatever I had initially on our first date ain’t there no more. I feel like when a man has exhausted himself with so many women it’s not any thrill left. I don’t wanna be some cut up who just happens to catch a hard 🍆. So slowly my conversations are getting shorter. I like the his hard work ethic and practicality yet his exhaustion about running through women to the point that he engages for hours with no climax has me picking up a good book instead of wanting to be closer.do I wait on him to show more 🔥 or should I just accept the window has closed? Has anyone else met an older exhausted Aries? If so how did that work?

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I would be turned off if a 50 year old man told me he wants me to make him into the man he's supposed to be. At 50 he should already be who he's trying to be. How old are you?

He grew up without actually growing up

The humble bragging about his sexual conquests is nauseating

“I’ve had all my fun running through hundreds of women but now it’s time to settle”

I’m sorry but a 50 year old man isn’t changing suddenly at this point. Not relationship material at all

Posted by DonnaLibra
I would be turned off if a 50 year old man told me he wants me to make him into the man he's supposed to be. At 50 he should already be who he's trying to be. How old are you?

It’s so pathetic but also you have to laugh at the same time…. these words should be coming from a man HALF his age 🤣🤣🤣 This man ain’t turning into anyone at 50. He has already received his final firmware update 💀

Posted by Dastard2020
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Posted by DonnaLibra
I would be turned off if a 50 year old man told me he wants me to make him into the man he's supposed to be. At 50 he should already be who he's trying to be. How old are you?

I didn't bother reading the whole thing. It's too long for my delicate brain cells. But I totally agree with this. That alone should automatically be a huge red flag.

He talked you out of liking him basically. You never drag people from your past when dating someone new..

Big no-no.

Ugh, so much to cringe at. No. You don't need this.

Posted by DonnaLibra
I would be turned off if a 50 year old man told me he wants me to make him into the man he's supposed to be. At 50 he should already be who he's trying to be. How old are you?

I am 41 and yes the whole build him up theme had me perplexed because who built you this far? 🤷🏽‍♀️

Posted by geminiflyby
Ugh, so much to cringe at. No. You don't need this.

I thought with age it might get better. It’s the same things.

Every fucked up relationship I've been in has been because they were fucked up and I thought somehow I would change them. Nope. They just ended fucking ME up!

Posted by LuckyLibra7
He talked you out of liking him basically. You never drag people from your past when dating someone new..

Big no-no.

I definitely was open to having an understanding of where your coming from but this Chile has literally unloaded all his carnal enjoyment. Left nothing to ponder. I don’t know which is worse finding out early or way to late. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Ahh the 50 year old player. How disappointing.

He probably couldn’t get any of those girls/conquests to text him back and I know he’s tried to circle back to the many good girls he trashed.

He’s probably looking for a nice young naive girl/nurse 20 years younger than him to wipe his butt.

eww girl run

i dated a 51 year old musician for like a heartbeat

and tbh i'm low key judgy about how someone hasn't married or have had kids yet reached that age somehow

Posted by DMV
Ahh the 50 year old player. How disappointing.

He probably couldn’t get any of those girls/conquests to text him back and I know he’s tried to circle back to the many good girls he trashed.

He’s probably looking for a nice young naive girl/nurse 20 years younger than him to wipe his butt.

From what I see he has a feast of middle aged women. He sent me an image of a woman with “(his name) cum catcher” on her panties. Now I’m all for a good sexy time, maybe even a lil kink. The idea that he is sharing this image to make fun of the said cum catcher though… that’s messy.

Posted by virgoOPPP
eww girl run

i dated a 51 year old musician for like a heartbeat

and tbh i'm low key judgy about how someone hasn't married or have had kids yet reached that age somehow

I totally understand you on that.

Posted by Gemofagirl

Posted by DMV
Ahh the 50 year old player. How disappointing.
He probably couldn’t get any of those girls/conquests to text him back and I know he’s tried to circle back to the many good girls he trashed.
He’s probably looking for a nice young naive girl/nurse 20 years younger than him to wipe his butt.

From what I see he has a feast of middle aged women. He sent me an image of a woman with “(his name) cum catcher” on her panties. Now I’m all for a good sexy time, maybe even a lil kink. The idea that he is sharing this image to make fun of the said cum catcher though… that’s messy.

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He sent you what?!?!

He’s disrespectful af

Posted by virgoOPPP
eww girl run

i dated a 51 year old musician for like a heartbeat

and tbh i'm low key judgy about how someone hasn't married or have had kids yet reached that age somehow

You know what, I’m 42 single with no kids and people are astonished that I have no kids and no man.

They think something is wrong with me.

I think they might be right.

Some of us just can’t make connections on a individual level, especially with the opposite sex.

Posted by virgoOPPP
eww girl run

i dated a 51 year old musician for like a heartbeat

and tbh i'm low key judgy about how someone hasn't married or have had kids yet reached that age somehow

I don't know. I feel totally different about that last part. I can understand some people at an old age who was never married or don't have no kids. I don't judge nor discriminate. The reason for my understanding of that is because some people love their freedom too much and don't want to be bogged down in relationships.

You won't believe my oldest Taurus brother didn't have kids until he was already in his late 40s almost 50. Yes he's a late bloomer. And so am I. I was the very last one to get a driver's license. Of course my Aries sister never had a driver's license. So not counting her. But was one of the 1st to have kids.

Also some of us just aren’t attractive enough when compared to the status quo and the internet.

It seems like the majority is looking for one type of male or female and if you don’t fit that criteria, you’re passed up.

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Posted by virgoOPPP
eww girl run

i dated a 51 year old musician for like a heartbeat

and tbh i'm low key judgy about how someone hasn't married or have had kids yet reached that age somehow

I don't know. I feel totally different about that last part. I can understand some people at an old age who was never married or don't have no kids. I don't judge nor discriminate. The reason for my understanding of that is because some people love their freedom too much and don't want to be bogged down in relationships.

You won't believe my oldest Taurus brother didn't have kids until he was already in his late 40s almost 50. Yes he's a late bloomer. And so am I. I was the very last one to get a driver's license. Of course my Aries sister never had a driver's license. So not counting her. But was one of the 1st to have kids.

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maybe it's cultural idk but i guess where i'm from when men or women live that way, most people here just assume they're gay 🤷🤷

like at least one history of divorce would be a sigh of relief.

but i've noticed too that most of my peers tend to still have kids but a bit later on than our grandmas or moms.

Posted by Gemofagirl

Posted by LuckyLibra7
He talked you out of liking him basically. You never drag people from your past when dating someone new..

Big no-no.

I definitely was open to having an understanding of where your coming from but this Chile has literally unloaded all his carnal enjoyment. Left nothing to ponder. I don’t know which is worse finding out early or way to late. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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It happens often in the initial dating phase. But I'm more surprised that he just keeps rambling on & on. He's so comfortable you're one of the homies at this point 😂

@Gemofagirl "From what I see he has a feast of middle aged women. He sent me an image of a woman with “(his name) cum catcher” on her panties. Now I’m all for a good sexy time, maybe even a lil kink. The idea that he is sharing this image to make fun of the said cum catcher though… that’s messy."

Why are you even here having this conversation? Lose this loser!

Posted by DMV

Posted by virgoOPPP
eww girl run
i dated a 51 year old musician for like a heartbeat
and tbh i'm low key judgy about how someone hasn't married or have had kids yet reached that age somehow

You know what, I’m 42 single with no kids and people are astonished that I have no kids and no man.

They think something is wrong with me.

I think they might be right.

Some of us just can’t make connections on a individual level, especially with the opposite sex.

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i think it might just be the culture of modern dating overall.

i've been married barely 2 months but the absolute bliss of this in contrast to dating just wow.

people really be out there tiring themselves out with all their 'options' instead of genuinely connecting or maintaining worthy ones already established.

Posted by virgoOPPP

Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter

Posted by virgoOPPP
eww girl run
i dated a 51 year old musician for like a heartbeat
and tbh i'm low key judgy about how someone hasn't married or have had kids yet reached that age somehow

I don't know. I feel totally different about that last part. I can understand some people at an old age who was never married or don't have no kids. I don't judge nor discriminate. The reason for my understanding of that is because some people love their freedom too much and don't want to be bogged down in relationships.

You won't believe my oldest Taurus brother didn't have kids until he was already in his late 40s almost 50. Yes he's a late bloomer. And so am I. I was the very last one to get a driver's license. Of course my Aries sister never had a driver's license. So not counting her. But was one of the 1st to have kids.

maybe it's cultural idk but i guess where i'm from when men or women live that way, most people here just assume they're gay 🤷🤷

like at least one history of divorce would be a sigh of relief.

but i've noticed too that most of my peers tend to still have kids but a bit later on than our grandmas or moms.

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Nah nah nah people need to stop assuming things they don't know about. It's kinda like the equivalent of me hanging around with the boys (whose around my age or so) and my wandering eyes can't help but look at all the pretty sexy ladies that passes by and they be wondering what's wrong with me. I be thinking to myself yall dont see all these fine lovely beauties flirtin around and about. Sometimes I be joking to them that they must be like looking at a man. But they take no offense to that cus they know I be trying to be funny. But in a way I do be serious. But just don't let it show. So no I don't think or assume they gay just because I like looking at women and they don't.

…i really wanna believe this is an old member just trolling cuz this can’t be real but if it is, what’s up with this trend i’m seeing a lot nowadays of “i know he’s gonna hurt me but i still wanna see where it goes😍”?

see where what goes? there’s literally nothing to see.

why even get on a sinking ship to begin with?

Posted by serenidad
…i really wanna believe this is an old member just trolling cuz this can’t be real but if it is, what’s up with this trend i’m seeing a lot nowadays of “i know he’s gonna hurt me but i still wanna see where it goes😍”?

see where what goes? there’s literally nothing to see.

why even get on a sinking ship to begin with?

I don’t put anything past anyone.

Some women are desperate enough to be loved…even by a dirtbag

Posted by serenidad
…i really wanna believe this is an old member just trolling cuz this can’t be real but if it is, what’s up with this trend i’m seeing a lot nowadays of “i know he’s gonna hurt me but i still wanna see where it goes😍”?

see where what goes? there’s literally nothing to see.

why even get on a sinking ship to begin with?

interest level cuts through logic. Troll thread or not.. this does happen.

Posted by DMV

Posted by serenidad
…i really wanna believe this is an old member just trolling cuz this can’t be real but if it is, what’s up with this trend i’m seeing a lot nowadays of “i know he’s gonna hurt me but i still wanna see where it goes😍”?

see where what goes? there’s literally nothing to see.

why even get on a sinking ship to begin with?

I don’t put anything past anyone.

Some women are desperate enough to be loved…even by a dirtbag

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but don’t they realize they’re making things worse and just amplifying whatever lack they were already feeling?

for example, if someone is already lonely and they get involved with someone who makes them feel like shit, they’re just gonna feel lonelier. they’re just gonna amplify the loneliness they already felt to begin with.

if someone is lonely, they need to be looking for safe places and people. not dangerous places and people.

they’ve got it all backwards. 😔

Posted by Gemofagirl

Posted by DMV
Ahh the 50 year old player. How disappointing.
He probably couldn’t get any of those girls/conquests to text him back and I know he’s tried to circle back to the many good girls he trashed.
He’s probably looking for a nice young naive girl/nurse 20 years younger than him to wipe his butt.

From what I see he has a feast of middle aged women. He sent me an image of a woman with “(his name) cum catcher” on her panties. Now I’m all for a good sexy time, maybe even a lil kink. The idea that he is sharing this image to make fun of the said cum catcher though… that’s messy.

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I’d text him and say what a turn off! Not interested

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Posted by virgoOPPP
eww girl run
i dated a 51 year old musician for like a heartbeat
and tbh i'm low key judgy about how someone hasn't married or have had kids yet reached that age somehow

I don't know. I feel totally different about that last part. I can understand some people at an old age who was never married or don't have no kids. I don't judge nor discriminate. The reason for my understanding of that is because some people love their freedom too much and don't want to be bogged down in relationships.

You won't believe my oldest Taurus brother didn't have kids until he was already in his late 40s almost 50. Yes he's a late bloomer. And so am I. I was the very last one to get a driver's license. Of course my Aries sister never had a driver's license. So not counting her. But was one of the 1st to have kids.
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maybe it's cultural idk but i guess where i'm from when men or women live that way, most people here just assume they're gay 🤷🤷
like at least one history of divorce would be a sigh of relief.
but i've noticed too that most of my peers tend to still have kids but a bit later on than our grandmas or moms.
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Eww. Is there pressure to be married and breed where you're from. I'm 41, no kids, and never married. I guess I'm damaged goods where you're from, but I sleep good at night. LOL. If I get married it will be for companionship, not reproduction.

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unfortunately so but i wasn't forced into it or anything. tho having my first child at 29 is actually considered pretty late here.

Cool thanks for telling us

Nice titties btw, thanks for sharing.

Posted by LuckyLibra7

Posted by Gemofagirl

Posted by LuckyLibra7
He talked you out of liking him basically. You never drag people from your past when dating someone new..
Big no-no.

I definitely was open to having an understanding of where your coming from but this Chile has literally unloaded all his carnal enjoyment. Left nothing to ponder. I don’t know which is worse finding out early or way to late. 🤷🏽‍♀️
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It happens often in the initial dating phase. But I'm more surprised that he just keeps rambling on & on. He's so comfortable you're one of the homies at this point 😂

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Basically yes one of the homies 😂😂😂