Fine Line

Have you ever felt like "S/He's the one, my soulmate, my everything", and you just knew that you wanted to spend the rest of your life with that person. Your search is over . . this is my place, my beloved?

How many times?

If it's more than once, and the two of you are no longer together, then what does that tell about the feeling? Is wasn't REAL?

What if it's been 5 times, or, 10?

At which point does a person stop to consider that this feeling, that's so overwhelming I can hardly breathe with, or, without him/her . . is lust, and therefore, within yourself the search must be made?

If it is "true love", and there are more than one, then, maybe there isn't just "One" . . maybe there is suppose to be many. In this theory . . there is no such thing as commitment, how can there be "exclusive"?

i had the feeling of having met my soulmate only twice in my life (i'm 33). i broke up after 7 years with soulmate no.1 because though we loved each other, we couldn't give each other what we needed. i needed warmth and he was not able to provide the amount of it i needed. he was a practical, sober taurus.
soulmate no.2 i'm still with and hope to stay with him for as long as possible. he fits me much better than my first love, he understands me (ironically, he's a scorpio and that's not supposed to fit well if you believe all those rubbish who's your best mate polls. i don't know if it's true love, but who can tell what true love is anyway?
i'm always doubting to some extend, but what i do know is that genuine feeling of warmth and connection.