Question about Aries males

Just because I haven't ever been very close to any and now I have this new friend-ish who's an Aries, I am curious about something...

How much can their words be trusted? Let's say that he's told me things like "you're beautiful", "you're sexy", "you're intriguing"...they're not just words, are they? I don't feel that they are, and I know every person is different, but...

He's so incredibly attractive and charming, I know there must be tons of girls after him...I just hope that he's not just a playboy, you know?

Thoughts?

much of what he is saying depends on the individual themself
Aries men appreciate beauty and like to compliment it as such.
You may have to study him more before you can tell if he is being sincere

Thanks for your responses. 🙂

He is so interesting. He is in his (very) early 20s...to address the age thing. But he's so different from all the other guys his age that I know. Much more upfront, unafraid of what anyone thinks...Really a *man*. 🙂 By my standards, at least.

Well, I've had a fair amount of time and several opportunities to study him, and I do believe that he's being sincere (especially since we're just friends, and for the time being we are making sure things stay that way)...there isn't much of a reason for him to be insincere. But I wouldn't want to be just one of the zillion that he says the same kinds of things to, either. The problem is that I've never seen him talk to any other women, so I wouldn't know if he's the same with all of us, or what. And with him being an Aries, I certainly don't want to bring it up, and have him think I'm trying to get too deep or something, and scare him away. lol...Oh, the curse of being a scorpio...

And, I have definitely seen the sweet side. He does sweet things, and says sweet things, but isn't *sappy* about it. Which, I like. Perfect balance.

I'm always guessing with him, too...and I'm not sure if that's because it's just in my nature, or can Aries actually be...gasp..."mysterious"?? lol. The books don't describe them as mysterious, but he definitely comes across that way to me. It's not as if he's hiding a dark side, it's more like he's trying to stifle his extreme intensity...which I know is there, because during the (somewhat rare) moments when he's being serious and we're not just playing around, he has told me some wild stories about things he's done in the past 🙂

Sigh...yeah, I do really like him...

(I'm Aries)

Since this week i life with a Aries girl in a bungalow for my trainee. I must confess that i like her. Too bad she is allready taken. I have noticed that her boyfriend isn't really treating her well. When i was alone with her i told her she is cute. I would really give it a try whenever she breaks up with her BF...

SO: Aries people really say what's on they're heart !

That's my advice to you, phoenix rising

Good luck !

Wow, thanks you guys!

I suspect (very, very strongly suspect) that he's got some major earth sign influences in his chart...particularly Taurus (which of course only deepens/intensifies my fascination with him) - his bday is at the tail end of Aries, so I'm sure he's at least got Taurus rising. Which I think quiets him, a little, and lends some of that strong/silent attitude he has. Although he can also be chatty.

Yeah, they do seem to make awesome friends, very loyal/protective, exciting, interesting, not afraid to disagree with you (being a Scorp, I really appreciate that!).

It's weird...it's like we're doing this little dance...if we weren't with other people, I suspect we would have jumped right in (in all respects...emotionally, in the sack, not that i'm normally like that, but...lol). But because we're trying not to do that, there's all this incredible tension, it's really heavy. I have sort of a fear/respect for him...I fear what could happen if we were alone together, completely...

Yesterday we both shared with each other that we feel nervous in each other's presence, and sometimes it's hard to find words to say to each other.

He said he's not even normally the nervous type...

Is this good, do you think? That he feels this way? (We agreed it was the good kind of nervous)

The fact that he gets nervous around me, is that a good sign, with an Aries?

Well said Notso ...Either they are less than ordinary...ELSE capable of doing something which nobody else can even dream of !

so true about the aries/scorp sex...it is explosive!

HI, I JUST WANTED TO KNOW IF YOU MADE TO FIRST STEP TO LETTING HIM KNOW YOU MIGHT BE INTERESTED IN HIM IN A NOT SO FRIENDISH WAY..IF IT WAS THE OTHER WAY AROUND AND HE SHOWED LIKES YOU FIRST..THEN ALL THOSE COMMENTS ARE REAL..ARIES MEN GO AFTER WHAT THEY WANT ..SERIUSLY THEY DO..MY MAN/BABYDADDY..IS AN ARIES..AND HE HAD A WAY WITH WORDS WHEN WE JUST STARTED DATING..HE KNEW HOW TO MAKE ME FEEL LIKE I WAS THE MOST SEXIEST,HOTTEST GIRL HE'S EVER SEEN..