Having difficulty with LDR at the moment, I met someone a couple of years back whilst on vacation, we kept in touch and I went back to see her a couple of months later. It’s impossible to get a tourist visa for her to visit me in England, the only way would be to get married, but I’m not really prepared to do that. I managed to get her visa for France in August last year, that was the last time we saw each other. We message each other every day, but recently I’ve just been thinking it’s too much, I can’t see how it’s going to work out in the long term. I can do a visa for France again, but because it’s a lot of paperwork, it’s only worth it for a two week vacation (min). I have my own company and work is busy at the moment so this is just causing too much stress. I’ve ignored her for the past week now wondering what to say. I just feel really bad about it. She definitely loves me, but she’s also desperate to move to England. If the relationship was here, it would be fine. Some people have told me to take a chance and just get married, and others have said that’s insane. I have no idea what’s best anymore.I’m not sure I have a question, I just need help sorting my head out.
