Hot Aries stud where I work!

I've gotta tell someone, I can't keep it a secret any longer.

Okay, first of all, I'm committed, blah blah blah but OH MY GOD...

...There is an interesting thing going on between myself and an Aries who I know almost nothing at all about except that he's about the hottest thing I've ever laid eyes on in real life, ever. He has the whole bad-boy thing going on, he's all pierced and tatooed and what not and he is RIPPED, and I get to see this fact all the time because the work that he does is out of the public eye so he can wear whatever he wants. He is unbelievably hot. Whenever he comes around (which is a lot, thank the heavens above) -- I cannot even breathe, it's crazy. And what makes him even more attractive is his self-confidence and positivity. It makes me crazy. I just want to, you know, obtain carnal knowledge of him. 🙂

And so, here's the funny part...I had a feeling that the um, feeling was mutual, because I have been catching him stealing looks at me, all the time. And when I look back at him, we lock eyes for a few seconds, and then we both look away. And the electricity is almost too much to even handle!

It would be easy to think nothing of it except that I really like his personality, too. He's always doing little things for me, when I don't even ask him to, and being all chivalrous and friendly...

And then a couple days ago I was talking to a coworker and I guess the Aries guy was behind me and all of a sudden she stops talking and goes, "oh my god, that guy just totally checked out your ass." And I'm like, "who??" and she goes, "the tall blonde guy"....well he's the only blonde guy who works there, so I knew it was him.

Anyway....

He is so incredibly hot, I'm suprised he's also such a nice guy!

I just needed to share my excitement, thanks for reading. lol 🙂

ah yes. the aries/scorpio attraction.

ya know. its a weird thing. i think its because we are really so alike as far as passion and intensity. there really is a magnetic pull towards each other. we are impressed by the other's strength and fierceness that is so similar, yet so different from our own.

i had a scorpio lover once. it was the best sex i have ever had. it was electrifying, hot, sizzling, passionate, fierce, bordered on violent at times, and smoldering.

however, i have never been in a relationship with a scorp. something tells me it just wouldn't work out. maybe if you are 2 very evolved souls who aren't into power struggles or mind games....otherwise, it just seems like a recipe for disaster...sadly.

jennaT-

Yeah it's pretty fascinating actually. I can see how the two signs could tangle up magnetically with one another. I can also forsee out-of-this-earthly-world sex, oh yeah!!

Too bad about the recipe for disaster. I agree - things could only last at that level of intensity between 2 highly mature people.

Ha - haven't checked this board in a while but I guess I have to chime in because I have a story coming from the opposite direction (I'm an Aries guy).

One of my friends (a Virgo) introduced me to a co-worker of his about 2 weeks ago. I was hanging out with my friend, his fiance and his co-worker. His co-worker is a nice, if a rather low key gal. She is pleasant and decent conversation but sparks didn't fly right away.

Somewhere along the line that day, my friend and I run into a female friend of his, a former high school classmate.

Oh boy...I was jolted by his female friend. We ran into her at work and she was dressed nicely and all. But beyond that, there was just something about her like "wow". We had some chemistry going. My friend mentioned that he thought she was single.

Alas, unfortunately, I found her on one of those social networking sites and she is not single. However, the point of the story....she was a scorpio. 🙂

She noticed I was looking at her page online and we added each other as friends. So, we'll keep in touch and see if....anything happens....

But yeah, I can understand some of that instant chemistry cuz I had it too. 😄

Haha, how interesting! I'm glad you included enough detail that I was able to breathe a sigh of relief upon realizing that no, this is not "my" Aries guy. lol, wouldn't I have been mortified....But anyway, wow, it's also good to know I'm not alone with the whole chemistry thing. Good luck with your Scorpio coach41!

I think maybe people are just too critical of this pairing...Sure, Meg Ryan and Dennis Quaid eventually parted ways, but they lasted a pretty long time, and had several kiddies together, didn't they? That must show something. Maybe people need to be given more credit...this is a combination that could really be very powerful and lasting. With chemistry like that...I mean you know, there is a reason, biologically even, for such strong chemistry.

Excellent point Aprilbaby. In reality it all comes down to how people deal with challenge. If you're unafraid of challenge (and particularly if you are thrilled by it), not only could a traditionally "incompatible" zodiac coupling work, but it could take off and include more passion and excitement than any water+earth or fire+air combo could ever hope to include.

Today was awesome!! We kept running in to each other completely unplanned but it felt like fate to me, and now that we're getting a little more comfortable around each other he's taken to teasing me, in a funny way...If nothing else, I think this could even be an awesome friendship. He just puts me in the best mood! He's hilarious, and not many people put me in such an instantly great mood just by being around them.

He's a bit younger than me...'sup with that? It's all good though, because he's not immature, but he definitely is very playful and youthful.

This is all just so cool and weird, because I (unfortunately) don't really have any Aries people in my life...I never have, for some reason. I have like 2 Aries "acquaintances", and then there's always my dxp friend (that's you) Aprilbaby, and I like all the other Aries people on here too. But I mean in "real life", we never get thrown together like this.

What have I been missing—!!!! 😛

Isn't that interesting!! So we're both kind of experiencing the same thing (but in reverse). This must mean something. I agree about the universe and learning/growing and all that.

So the aries and I are cultivating a friendship, and so far he's awesome. Someone said something on another board (an Aries) about the fact that when they hang out with Scorpios they always end up getting in trouble with the law. lol, I just thought that was funny (and I can see how that could happen...two really strong signs who like to sometimes push the limits...more so with Aries than Scorpio I think.) Turns out my aries friend has had a bit of trouble with the law himself...lol....should I be afraid, should I let this alter my opinion of him? lol...hmmm.

Hahaha! That is a loaded statement... 😉 ("take the law into my own hands"...hmmm...)

But this trouble he had, was a few years ago. I don't think he's had any trouble since...

we're going to get together, "on the down-low" (Aprilbaby, do people still say that? lol)

Just as friends, to get to know each other as friends "first" (his suggestion...all of this was his suggestion).

Self -control, self-control...

🙂

Phoenix....U said u were committed ?

Yes, yes I did (which is why we've decided to be just friends, and go out platonically).

LOL @ Phoenix....that is what they ALL say 😉

You'll soon find out that one has a bit of time being "just friends" with an Aries - soon you will find yourself caught up in the "magic of the moments" 😉

Good Luck Lady! :-)

Have fun with Mr. Aries....I know you will *freebird waits patiently to hear of your "hypnotic" evening*

heheh, thank you Freebird! I will most certainly share when new developments arise!

You're awesome 😉

phoenix, phoenix, phoenix....will u ever learn? 🙂

What is that supposed to mean? 🙂

youre always in a committed relationship...and always messing with some one else it seems. at least it seems that way.

thats just an obsevation phoenix...not a personal attack.🙂

"Yes, yes I did (which is why we've decided to be just friends, and go out platonically)."

LOL....Phoenix...Can U explain the same to Ur dude ?

I am young, and I am not married, and I am trying to not get tied down to someone who isn't right for me.

How else am I supposed to figure out who I am supposed to be with?

And just so you guys know, there is a lot more to my story than what I've shared on these boards. And by story I mean my LIFE - I've barely said two words about my actual "relationship" in the last 2 years, so there is a lot you don't know, and cj7 I'm not even going to reply to that, how would you feel if I made some "observations" about your life?

And ps - the Aries said I shouldn't have to explain anything to my bf, that he is not my owner and you know what? He is right.

And just so everyone knows, I'm not all that happy in my current relationship, so yeah, I'm looking at other options. The end!

Right Phoenix...Itz Ur life aft all.

Hope U wont be hurting anyone in the process.

Guarav Aries...

I hope I'm not, also. I just don't know how else to fully explore my romantic options without at least hanging out with the Aries. You know?

(Didn't mean to seem like I was unleashing on you, by the way...it was more about the other comment that was made)

she was more unleashing on me there gaurav. thats fine i didnt realize this was a thread where we are only suppossed to support phoenix and say.... way to go.

well ive been coming here since 2002 so i think i have been around enough to form observations that arent motivated by any misguided feelings as phoenix is assuming.

if its the end then u would have no problem breaking up with your boyfriend and then hanging out with the aries (who would say anything to get u in bed). like monkeys ...people dont let go of one branch till they have a hold of another. if your relationship is so bad that u have to sneak around with someone else shouldnt that tell u something....but no people always justify things like this to themselves so they dont have to feel bad about it. like i said phoenix i wasnt attacking u but more irritated by the state of relationships and peoples actions and motivations as morality has vanished down the drain......🙂

go ahead phoenix observe away....this is an open forum.

Phoenix...Since nobodyz aware of the whole dynamics, itz inappropriate to comment on what approach U shud adopt. U r the best judge.

she'll do what she wants anyway...u really think she would listen to me? dynamics are excuses. inappropriate..... gimme a break. heres a tissue....u have some brown stuff on your lips.

Oh please, cj7...lol, I wouldn't be so rude 🙂 There's too much Libra in my chart for that.

You're entitled to your opinions, but if you think you can lump me in to the rest of the population with regards to ANYTHING, you don't know me at all (and therefore, yes, you're a bit misguided in your sum-uppance). Just an observation, and truly not a personal attack, because as I said, I have more manners than to needlessly judge you on a public forum.

Guarav_Aries, thank you for your respect. 🙂

P.S.

CJ7, I am curious...what makes you say that the Aries would "say anything to get me into bed"? I'm honestly curious...do you really think so, and if so, why?

And by the way, for the record, I could care less about garnering "support" and "way to go"s here...that's not what I come here for, I come here for non-judgemental discussions with people who might know more than I do, or have more insight than what I have, and therefore could potentially enlighten me.

I don't give a rat's ass if anyone here likes me or supports me, but it's nice to be liked by the ones that I like.

It's more about the exchange of information.

well the libra in u doesnt want to hear anything negative so i wont bring reality into your fantasy. it just always seems thru-out the years that i have read stuuf that u write and i do read more than i post these days that u are always looking for something else or get involved with people out of reach...maybe thats by design.

an aries leo or sag are all salesman type people they would say anthing to help seal the deal or bring them closer to winning thier prize. im sure he would tell u what u needed to hear. like u said i dont know him or u so who am i to say. does he have a girlfriend?

and i am sorry but i am a judgemental person. u have to stand for something or u will fall for..........🙂

He has a "semi" girlfriend type thing, yeah. Which is why he said we should just get to know each other as friends and take whatever as it comes. He did say that he wouldn't cheat on an actual girlfriend, though.

It seems it is by design...I had a professional astrologer analyze my chart and big suprise actually, my house of love and marriage etc is ruled by aries, or is in aries, or something like that, so supposedly I'm meant to be drawn to aries. Also it was all over my chart that I often fall in love with foreigners, people from far away, etc. lol. So yeah. (And trust me, I wish it weren't so. But feelings are completely out of anyone's control! Don't you think?)

And by the way, I make a lot of judgements inside my head also...my point is that you don't have to be hurtful when you communicate what your judgements are. Either say something nicely (unless you or someone you care for is being attacked), or don't say it at all, is my philosophy.

no....now he has two semi-girlfriends 🙂

i have been told my the last two girls i dated that i lack a certain filter that most people have that keeps them from saying shit but oh well......must be the mars in aries 🙂

lol, must be.

I would have to agree that your filter, if not non-existent, has some cracks 🙂

And wait a minute...I don't think I'm anyone's semi-girlfriend...if I am, I certainly wasn't consulted on this matter...Keep in mind, we haven't hung out yet. In fact things are a tiny bit weird at the moment, because, you know, being a scorpio I'm not a big fan of being anyone's semi-anything...not that I have room to talk, since I'm involved also. He keeps talking about being friends, blah blah blah, but I just don't know how that's really possible if he still feels the things he semi-confessed to feeling for me, and vice/versa. Maybe Aries are really good at keeping things platonic, even when there is a strong attraction?? Any Aries out there who can shed some light?

In fact ...Stronger the attraction, the more he will try to keep it platonic. Especially if it makez a complex equation.

"Maybe Aries are really good at keeping things platonic, even when there is a strong attraction?? Any Aries out there who can shed some light?"

Yes, Phoenix - we Aries - ooops, I can only speak for myself here...I am very good at keeping platonic relationships with the opposite sex and do have many. Us Aries just seem to love everybody and everyone is our friend!

I will say that this quality that I have drives one of my male Cancer buds nutty. He seems to think that one cannot be just "friends" with the opposite sex. 😢 He is trying to be my friend however he says it is very hard for him - he wants me to be his girlfriend or nothing! oh boy......presently, he is in his "shell."

Hope all is going well you and your Aries pal - enjoy his friendship...we are very loyal to our friends 😉

Hey thanks, you two!

Freebird, I think your Cancer is having a hard time of it because it's so anti-water-sign to be able to keep things platonic when there's an attraction. But keep being your awesome self and he should come out of his shell eventually (everything takes time with Cancers though!) It's hard for the more jealous signs, too...we worry whether all your friendships are truly devoid of sex...lol. Ah, we have much to learn from the Aries people, indeed.

Gaurav, really?? See, I thought that anything complicated would make an Aries sprint for the hills. Do you enjoy the complication, or are you just shy about feeling more than friendly feelings? Or is it both?

I will say that since we decided to be friends, he's approached me much more often and looked at me much more ... flirtatiously. Weird! (We Scorps enjoy a challenge. I just don't want to be toyed with) 🙂

Sounds so familiar 🙂

Sometimes itz the complication which becomes the drive. Aries wont be shy under normal circumstances...But yeah ...he may be a bit cautious about Ur reaction to his overtures.

Haa Haa...I can fully appreciate the plzzure of having a licence to flirt w/o actually being an aggressive mover. Moreover, he might be holding bak coz he wud like to make up his mind properly before plunging with full passion into it. Aft all the stakez gonna zoom later on.

Else he might be thinking of his semi- ***. U need to find that out quickly coz then it wud be like allowing him to toy with U. He can be a kid...YEAH 🙂...But not incorrigible.

"Cautious", yes, that's exactly it, I think. I've also noticed that it's not easy for him to hide what he's feeling, in front of me...I don't actually call him out on stuff, but it's like he knows that I know...and sometimes, he has a hard time looking me in the eyes for very long! It's kind of comical actually.

And for all this semi-girlfriend stuff, he continues to say, "but I don't really want a girlfriend right now anyway." lol, mkay 🙂

Thanks so much for all your insight, Gaurav! It is much appreciated.

scorps are so sexy.

i have a love/hate relationship with you guys

perhaps because we are related??

anyone for a little incest? 🙂

whenever i am around scorps who i am intensely and magetically attracted to, i usually become very calm, and play their game of watching and waiting

every scorp i know has this attraction to me and vice versa...i really don't know what it is.

but it's weird cos usually i am the aggressor, whereas with this pairing i have a compelling urge to just sit back and let them come to me.....they always do 🙂

when a scorp and i touch or get close it's the weirdest feeling. it's a feeling of sameness. yet sooooo different... i really can't describe it....strange.

wonderful (in a sexual way) yet strange

Ah, but such beauty in the strangeness!

The Aries and I are becoming closer as friends every day, it seems. We are managing to keep everything platonic. I just have so much fun with him...we just seem to make each other really happy, but, this is just all way too soon to even think about that. Neither of us could really justify throwing away what we have with our others, this soon...we still don't know each other very well. But I have a feeling we're going to become extremely close.

Aries are at their best when they are just friends. Once they get into a serious relationship they start expecting a lot more. Insecurity creeps in, since an official stamp of joint "ownership" is in place.Often , they become competitive even in "love" as they are almost always hell bent to prove that they are the best. A slight indiscretion on your part wud lead to him to believe that you have started to lose interest or not taking him seriously anymore. Also, they tend to become whimsical and start getting hurt frequently over imaginary insults.

The bottomline is that they set very very highs standards in love for themselves and their partner and need constant approval/encouragement. They can be very pragmatic and dispassionate when they observe from far , but once they are into it ...They just cant bear a loss...even imaginary !

"Aries are at their best when they are just friends." I must say that I agree with you, GA 100% !!!!

I have many wonderful guy pals and so do enjoy their friendships and our times together but....the thought of being in a "serious" relationship is not welcoming to me at this moment in my life. In my past....there have been men who have "expected" me to be a certain way in a relationship like...do NOT talk to anyone else, call me all the time, we will be together on this date and this date...yada-yada. No can do that type of relationship so, I have decided that friendships do work better for me. When that "right" guy does enter my world....I will then change my thought! 😉 For now,

I have a man who will fix things for me
another one who will go to movies with me
another man who loves to eat out (at restaurants)
another guy who loves dancing
another to have coffee chats with
one who enjoys traveling

In case you are wondering...I am not intimate with any of them - just friends.

Great post GA 🙂

Thanks Freebird.

GF -

I don't know about your Aries or really how any others may think regarding WORDS - to me words are very powerful. They can encourage a person or they can tear him down...they can uplift and encourage or they can destroy the spirit of another. They can build a great relationship or they can knock it down and out.

A man is his word in my book along with actions. I don't really see it as "imaginary insults" an insult is an insult - a negative comment is a negative comment. This allows one to see the character of another. Aries love honesty, justice, and the truth especially if we are going to be in a relationship with someone. Any fly by Joe can say or do what he pleases - I will accept them for who they are. This is most likely the "high standards" that we Aries have.

Honestly, if I was in a relationship with a man and he began to disrespect, say unkind things to me or exhibited unkind actions...I'd be gone in a heartbeat - my thought is .....I don't need that in my life because it does not make me feel very good.

GF - I hope you are not reading this as directed towards you because it is not...I am answering how we can be affected by others.....such sensitve souls we are!

Keep your chin up....your best friend will be back 🙂

Hey, just wanted to thank ALL of you for sharing your experiences, keep it up! I really appreciate it.

So I thought I'd update...

Every day we just get closer and closer, it's weird...and so very cool. Normally it takes me a lot longer to feel so close to someone, but it's just like from day one something has been meant to happen here...the friendship is great, but exactly as you said Freebird, we have had about a thousand "almost" moments, if you know what I mean. He has also started confessing little things to me, about how strong his attraction to me is and how deep down, he wishes he could be with me...it's just that we're both involved seriously with our s.o's. And he and I have only been talking for a month...he's known his girl 10 years; I've been with my guy a couple. I guess he was into her for a long time before they finally officially got together recently, which was right around the time he and I started talking. So he felt conflicted, and (I don't blame him at all for this), he went along with the other girl (woman). And I have told him I don't really want to throw away my relationship this soon either, which he understands. So the other day he sort of implied that maybe we should, for now, have like...a secret, undercover affair kinda thing. Which, while I have of course thought about that, seems a bit shady...and I don't want to ruin what we are building, nor do I want to cause anyone else that much pain....but boy, we really, really have the most intense attraction to each other. It never subsides...every time I see him, it's there...it's thick....it never dissipates. We hung out (platonically in a public environment) the other day, and it was crazy, it was so much fun (and we didn't do anything but talk the whole time!) We were both talking so much, there were hardly two seconds that weren't filled with chatter. lol. He said he had a blast....and wants to hang out more.

Hmmm....thoughts? lol

Yep....kinda thought you would be in this place - there is an underlying attraction between Aries and the maaaavalas scorps ( we share the same Mars energy). The only thoughts I have are and I think you already know this - is every action has a reaction - for every cause, there is an effect. My question to you is, are you ready to deal with your "unknown" emotions? If it is something that your soul needs to explore, then I say trust your inner guidence system and know - "there are no accidents" 😉

There has only been ONE man that has caught me off guard, seemed to have thrown me off and that was a scorp! we just stayed at the "friend" level - so I know of the attraction you are feeling - wonderful isn't it?

Have fun Phoenix 😉

Haha...."there are no accidents"....I so agree with that.

We talked a little about it and I told him that I thought we should really try our best to keep things on just the friend level for as long as possible...and if it doesn't work, it doesn't work, but then we can at least say we tried to be ethical. 😛 To which he replied that he agrees with that, but that now he wants to have some fun teasing me to see how strong my will is.

you won't last long- Aries are hard to resist 😉

No need to be frightened....unless you are afraid of experiencing intense, powerful,incredible physical and emotional feelings- a journey like no other awaits you......................................................

Keep us posted 😉