AriesFireKnight
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How do Aries girls want to be pursued
You both are cancer rising.. I'm a cancer rising too!
I like it only when people are s..l...o...w.
If they chase me hard, I will run away. It should feel like nothing is happening at all. Be on friendly terms...romance can set in after marriage :p
But I'm Aries Venus (10 H) 🙂 ..and a Scorpio moon...the slower the better.
TBH , I want someone to purse only when I'm ready, and only when there's scope for marriage...but that's a different story.
I think because she's Aquarius moon/venus - she might value it if you make friends with her? She's also cancer rising...we do not right away want to be chased I guess? :p
Rising sign matters a lot because it decides all our houses and thus even our relationship.
Slow and steady wins the heart of cancer rising(IMO)! What do you say as a cancer ascendant?
I like it only when people are s..l...o...w.
If they chase me hard, I will run away. It should feel like nothing is happening at all. Be on friendly terms...romance can set in after marriage :p
But I'm Aries Venus (10 H) 🙂 ..and a Scorpio moon...the slower the better.
TBH , I want someone to purse only when I'm ready, and only when there's scope for marriage...but that's a different story.
I think because she's Aquarius moon/venus - she might value it if you make friends with her? She's also cancer rising...we do not right away want to be chased I guess? :p
Rising sign matters a lot because it decides all our houses and thus even our relationship.
Slow and steady wins the heart of cancer rising(IMO)! What do you say as a cancer ascendant?
Is the first time she didnt reply, and we had some long conversations, my best friend that is also a good friend of her saw them and he told me that I should go on talking with her because she is not treating me like the other guys.
Anyway, I was the one closing the disscusions almost every time. But you know, some girls in this strange communication era get a feeling of control and security when they just ignore you on social media. And I am not a social media guy... I tried direct contact first but she didn't seem to be on her own ground there.
Anyway, I'm a moody guy too, I dont feel like talking to her anytime and because the cancer rising I get a little bit shy now and then.
Anyway, I was the one closing the disscusions almost every time. But you know, some girls in this strange communication era get a feeling of control and security when they just ignore you on social media. And I am not a social media guy... I tried direct contact first but she didn't seem to be on her own ground there.
Anyway, I'm a moody guy too, I dont feel like talking to her anytime and because the cancer rising I get a little bit shy now and then.
Posted by RumiLMe as a Cancer Ascendant?
You both are cancer rising.. I'm a cancer rising too!
I like it only when people are s..l...o...w.
If they chase me hard, I will run away. It should feel like nothing is happening at all. Be on friendly terms...romance can set in after marriage :p
But I'm Aries Venus (10 H) 🙂 ..and a Scorpio moon...the slower the better.
TBH , I want someone to purse only when I'm ready, and only when there's scope for marriage...but that's a different story.
I think because she's Aquarius moon/venus - she might value it if you make friends with her? She's also cancer rising...we do not right away want to be chased I guess? :p
Rising sign matters a lot because it decides all our houses and thus even our relationship.
Slow and steady wins the heart of cancer rising(IMO)! What do you say as a cancer ascendant?
You are right, I like it slow at the beginning, I mean, I just want to stay chill, hang around a while till I'm confortable with that person... I mostly ignore them and any conversation with a crush is just very shy. One of my favorite tehniques is to get good friends with her friends to have a reason to be around her and then just show of with my aries side winning all their admiration to make sure that she see how amazing I am.
But after getting my barriers down is like a pitfall, because things got from 1 to 100 real fast. I got woth my last girlfriend in just a week in a summer camp. She was an Aqua. I just ignored her in the first 2 days, talked a little bit with her in the 3rd, in the 4nd a little bit more, in the 5nd we started to go alone and in the 6nd I kissed her and I got really involved. To shorten things out, we got back to our homes tried to stay in contact.. I got hearth broken and broke any contact with her, and now she takes drugs and stuff and is just fucked up in my opinion but she feels just fine... Aquas... Strange beeings.
Anyway, I like it slow too, but one part of me says "FAST FAST FAST... GO GET HER" and when I have the feeling that she doesn't value me enough is like "NEEEEEEXT"... But I still like her overall... Just Aries stuff 😆
Continue to try & communicate with her but not too much. Act in a friendly manner. She already knows u like her & are pursuing her. If she doesn't come around soon then she's just not that into u or has someone else behind the scenes she likes.
You know....this is a really good question.
Seems strange to me, you're Aries? And your pursuing an Aries? I always thought it was automatic, how can you not be having sex already? Anyway yes as you know Aries like a challenge so don't appear to try too hard, but you have to try. Aries don't pick on "subtle" hints, so it has to be obvious-ish, flirty in a direct-ish way. My advice would just to find something exciting to do and ask her out on that, don't be boring, chances are she didn't accept your invite because it was boring? Also find her interests first and then modify her suggestions to something better and that's what you should be doing on a date. (this is just general dating advice for any girl)
It should be automatic as I say, so possibly your nerves are affecting your confidence, just relax and be yourself. The conversation will flow. But as a rule, and all guys should know this, the purpose of texts is to arrange a date, don't forget it, no point trying to have a deep and meaningful conversation over texts, so texts should be chit chat to get things going but don't forget your goal, it's to arrange a date.
And from you message, why are you worried about being rejected, grow balls and be fearless, Aries are attracted to Aries, don't be scared of rejection. Just be yourself, talk about all the sh1t Aries like to talk about, you will know it, but don't be afraid, and don't be afraid of rejection, there's no game here.
She's more chance of rejecting you because you're not being yourself, than because she wants an ego boost.
Posted by AriesJoSo I went over my mistake, by putting meanings into text. Deep conversation that probably the reason Aries stop replying/ responding.
Seems strange to me, you're Aries? And your pursuing an Aries? I always thought it was automatic, how can you not be having sex already? Anyway yes as you know Aries like a challenge so don't appear to try too hard, but you have to try. Aries don't pick on "subtle" hints, so it has to be obvious-ish, flirty in a direct-ish way. My advice would just to find something exciting to do and ask her out on that, don't be boring, chances are she didn't accept your invite because it was boring? Also find her interests first and then modify her suggestions to something better and that's what you should be doing on a date. (this is just general dating advice for any girl)
It should be automatic as I say, so possibly your nerves are affecting your confidence, just relax and be yourself. The conversation will flow. But as a rule, and all guys should know this, the purpose of texts is to arrange a date, don't forget it, no point trying to have a deep and meaningful conversation over texts, so texts should be chit chat to get things going but don't forget your goal, it's to arrange a date.
And from you message, why are you worried about being rejected, grow balls and be fearless, Aries are attracted to Aries, don't be scared of rejection. Just be yourself, talk about all the sh1t Aries like to talk about, you will know it, but don't be afraid, and don't be afraid of rejection, there's no game here.
She's more chance of rejecting you because you're not being yourself, than because she wants an ego boost.
After I think it through, I stop texting if it is not to arrange date, but still sometimes can't resist. Thank you for remind us the rule of text message. So I tried calling, she doesn't pick up. How?
Posted by Capricorn180189_GSBack in the the days I didn't know this rule and just talked like mad trough text and never had a real good conversatipn so the girl friend-zoned me. This time is not this way 😛Posted by AriesJoSo I went over my mistake, by putting meanings into text. Deep conversation that probably the reason Aries stop replying/ responding.
Seems strange to me, you're Aries? And your pursuing an Aries? I always thought it was automatic, how can you not be having sex already? Anyway yes as you know Aries like a challenge so don't appear to try too hard, but you have to try. Aries don't pick on "subtle" hints, so it has to be obvious-ish, flirty in a direct-ish way. My advice would just to find something exciting to do and ask her out on that, don't be boring, chances are she didn't accept your invite because it was boring? Also find her interests first and then modify her suggestions to something better and that's what you should be doing on a date. (this is just general dating advice for any girl)
It should be automatic as I say, so possibly your nerves are affecting your confidence, just relax and be yourself. The conversation will flow. But as a rule, and all guys should know this, the purpose of texts is to arrange a date, don't forget it, no point trying to have a deep and meaningful conversation over texts, so texts should be chit chat to get things going but don't forget your goal, it's to arrange a date.
And from you message, why are you worried about being rejected, grow balls and be fearless, Aries are attracted to Aries, don't be scared of rejection. Just be yourself, talk about all the sh1t Aries like to talk about, you will know it, but don't be afraid, and don't be afraid of rejection, there's no game here.
She's more chance of rejecting you because you're not being yourself, than because she wants an ego boost.
After I think it through, I stop texting if it is not to arrange date, but still sometimes can't resist. Thank you for remind us the rule of text message. So I tried calling, she doesn't pick up. How?click to expand
I know this girl for a while now because I am good friend with almost all of her close friends (she have just a few) and because of this I holded myself not to approach her directly trough the highschool. Do not get me wrong, I was the type to just tell the girls that I like them in the first days after meeting them. All of them were taken by surprise and I was rejected pretty much everytime.
My brain told me that this kind of direct approach WON'T WORK. "Why?" You will ask... "She is an Aries, you're an Aries, just talk and solve, that's your nature"... You see she was and still is the the kind of girl pursued by EVERYONE, I mean not just us, the boys from our year
... ,highschool or so... She had a lot of bigger, richer, etc. guys that pursued her and got rejected. Straight up players that got charisma, confidence and a good straight forward approach, left her cold, because everyone was trying to get in her pants rather than to know her.
I am Aries too, but the Cancer ascendant and especially the Aquarius Venus (statuses that she have also because we have the birthdays 4 days closer) make me very hard to satisfy by a certain person. I mean I tend to pretty much idealise the idea of the lover and only have feelings for persons that I choose to love, and the most important, the persons I chose to pursue. So as I say, pherphaps I have a very inflated ego and I am selfish but once I see that someone pursue me or like me, I feel how all my intrest towards that person is somehow lost. I don't know why... I feel like all I want is a direct approach, and Aries style fast love, but the truth is that in the beginning I'm turned off by directness because I want to feel like I CHOOSE the person, I SEDUCED her, and I CONQUERED all I wanted to conquer.
After that, yeah, I'm pretty much a straight forward Aries. But I like the chase, and I know that she likes it more than anything... She is the bookworm girl dreaming for an ideal knight in shinig armor, but in the same time it had to be a knight in shining armor that she chose first, before all interanctions, because I know that I get turned on by the same kind of scenario.
So the only way to get this girl is to show to the whole world that I want the things that she wants in a boy and make her feel like I was her choice only, because that's what she wants.
UPDATE: I don't like crazy Aries chicks either and I'm a little bit diffrent than the other crazy traditional Aries boys that I have met. Idk, I found myself a lot in the description of a Cancer guy and she prrety much acts like a Cancer girl too at the first sight.
I am Aries too, but the Cancer ascendant and especially the Aquarius Venus (statuses that she have also because we have the birthdays 4 days closer) make me very hard to satisfy by a certain person. I mean I tend to pretty much idealise the idea of the lover and only have feelings for persons that I choose to love, and the most important, the persons I chose to pursue. So as I say, pherphaps I have a very inflated ego and I am selfish but once I see that someone pursue me or like me, I feel how all my intrest towards that person is somehow lost. I don't know why... I feel like all I want is a direct approach, and Aries style fast love, but the truth is that in the beginning I'm turned off by directness because I want to feel like I CHOOSE the person, I SEDUCED her, and I CONQUERED all I wanted to conquer.
After that, yeah, I'm pretty much a straight forward Aries. But I like the chase, and I know that she likes it more than anything... She is the bookworm girl dreaming for an ideal knight in shinig armor, but in the same time it had to be a knight in shining armor that she chose first, before all interanctions, because I know that I get turned on by the same kind of scenario.
So the only way to get this girl is to show to the whole world that I want the things that she wants in a boy and make her feel like I was her choice only, because that's what she wants.
UPDATE: I don't like crazy Aries chicks either and I'm a little bit diffrent than the other crazy traditional Aries boys that I have met. Idk, I found myself a lot in the description of a Cancer guy and she prrety much acts like a Cancer girl too at the first sight.
I have the things that she wants in a boy* (lmao, that soumded awkward like hell) #nohomo
Slow and steady wins the race. Being a gentlemen and treating her like a lady is big brownie points. If she's shy she probably like shy guys too. I'm shy and I like shy guys. Extroverted guys drain me energetically.
Intention is huge. We can see right through to it. So if your intentions are good and you have confidence with sweetness you'll definitely have an edge.
No expectations either. You don't know how many times I've been on the fence with a guy and he acts bitter or butt hurt for some reason or other because of expectations and it will completely turn me off. Just be the cool chill guy. Stand your ground if/when necessary. But being a gentlemen is key.
Intention is huge. We can see right through to it. So if your intentions are good and you have confidence with sweetness you'll definitely have an edge.
No expectations either. You don't know how many times I've been on the fence with a guy and he acts bitter or butt hurt for some reason or other because of expectations and it will completely turn me off. Just be the cool chill guy. Stand your ground if/when necessary. But being a gentlemen is key.
Posted by xtinaThaks 😄 You know... Right now I have no idea how she see me... I mean when I'm with my friends I am a crazy, loud and extroverted guy who just talks with everybody, says jokes and just loveee to tell stories... I mean I just get in my role and I make it seem a drama act 🙂) Just a tipic aries who (I was told) look like an endless energy and good vibes reactor... Tough, I fear that because all of my way of beeing she will see me as extremley childish guy, because thats what I am with my friends and in general...
Slow and steady wins the race. Being a gentlemen and treating her like a lady is big brownie points. If she's shy she probably like shy guys too. I'm shy and I like shy guys. Extroverted guys drain me energetically.
Intention is huge. We can see right through to it. So if your intentions are good and you have confidence with sweetness you'll definitely have an edge.
No expectations either. You don't know how many times I've been on the fence with a guy and he acts bitter or butt hurt for some reason or other because of expectations and it will completely turn me off. Just be the cool chill guy. Stand your ground if/when necessary. But being a gentlemen is key.
The truth is that deep inside I am a very serious and goal oriented person that work very hard to improve everyday and have a clear vision of life and what I want to achive. She knows that I have a lot of hobbyes where I am very good. I hit gym very hard (I had to say that I look really great, oh humble me...), I draw very well to and I work very hard each week for an architecture collage (all highschool knows that I'm a good artist) and for 4 years straight now I work on my own fantasy series. Underneath of al the childish image that I have lies a very deep person struggling with great insecurities.
I don't want her to see me as an idiot, because I'm not one... I just fckin fear rejection and thats why I really avoid any situation where I could get attached to someone... Idk what to do... Story of my life.
Honestly, I kind of don't want to be pursued. I much prefer to initiate and simply have the guy reciprocate. If the guy initiates, I prefer for it to be a clean and straightforward process, "Hey, I like you. Let's go out for a picnic. I'll pick you up tomorrow at 1PM." I want the wooing to happen as we are dating, not before.
Sweet nothings pre-dating will be met with a dismissive swat of the ram hoof and the guy will never be respected or taken seriously.
Once we are dating, it is PRUDENT that the guy is consistent. His words must match his actions, and his actions his words. If he says he will pick me up at 7PM, it's important to me that he does (or let me know if he is going to be early or late.)
As the relationship goes on, and trust and security is established, I will become much more flexible and less sensitive to impromptu schedule changes (whether he's going to be later or earlier.)
Aries sun
Pisces moon
Virgo rising
Sweet nothings pre-dating will be met with a dismissive swat of the ram hoof and the guy will never be respected or taken seriously.
Once we are dating, it is PRUDENT that the guy is consistent. His words must match his actions, and his actions his words. If he says he will pick me up at 7PM, it's important to me that he does (or let me know if he is going to be early or late.)
As the relationship goes on, and trust and security is established, I will become much more flexible and less sensitive to impromptu schedule changes (whether he's going to be later or earlier.)
Aries sun
Pisces moon
Virgo rising
Posted by AriesFireKnightIm very similar. If you're worried the best thing to do especially in the beginning is ask her about her and talk to her. You don't know how many dates I've been on where the guy just blabs about himself all the time. Want to show her you're serious, respect her space and really show her you genuinely want to get to know her.Posted by xtinaThaks 😄 You know... Right now I have no idea how she see me... I mean when I'm with my friends I am a crazy, loud and extroverted guy who just talks with everybody, says jokes and just loveee to tell stories... I mean I just get in my role and I make it seem a drama act 🙂) Just a tipic aries who (I was told) look like an endless energy and good vibes reactor... Tough, I fear that because all of my way of beeing she will see me as extremley childish guy, because thats what I am with my friends and in general...
Slow and steady wins the race. Being a gentlemen and treating her like a lady is big brownie points. If she's shy she probably like shy guys too. I'm shy and I like shy guys. Extroverted guys drain me energetically.
Intention is huge. We can see right through to it. So if your intentions are good and you have confidence with sweetness you'll definitely have an edge.
No expectations either. You don't know how many times I've been on the fence with a guy and he acts bitter or butt hurt for some reason or other because of expectations and it will completely turn me off. Just be the cool chill guy. Stand your ground if/when necessary. But being a gentlemen is key.
The truth is that deep inside I am a very serious and goal oriented person that work very hard to improve everyday and have a clear vision of life and what I want to achive. She knows that I have a lot of hobbyes where I am very good. I hit gym very hard (I had to say that I look really great, oh humble me...), I draw very well to and I work very hard each week for an architecture collage (all highschool knows that I'm a good artist) and for 4 years straight now I work on my own fantasy series. Underneath of al the childish image that I have lies a very deep person struggling with great insecurities.
I don't want her to see me as an idiot, because I'm not one... I just fckin fear rejection and thats why I really avoid any situation where I could get attached to someone... Idk what to do... Story of my life.click to expand
But don't forget at the end of the day we (men and women) are all afraid of rejection. It's why we play these games. If she's go By out with you that's a good sign. Just be you and if she rejects you you don't want her anyway. You want someone who loves you for you. I hope that helps and good luck 🙂
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You see, the whole problem here is that I know from myself that as an Aries I lose intrest very fast if someone pursue me to hard. Even if I have a crush on them and they give up too fast I reject them and in the most cases look for something better. She is that type too because even beeing hard pursued by some guys for long times she remained single because she is independent enough to stay like this (aqua moon, aqua venus, cancer rising same as me, but i'm aries moon).
She can reject me to boost her self esteem and prove herself her independence even if she likes me and I am aware of that.
An Aries lady should know this mentality too 😛 So how do you like to be pursued girls? How I should act with her?