How often...?

If you liked someone, how often would you try making plans with them?

Lol for a man liking a woman, which I'm assuming is what you're getting at, it should be often. For women, in the beginning, let the man worry about that 😉.

I wish it was that easy! lol This guy is a 25 yr old who just got out of a 3 yr relationship last year and has 2 kids with the girl so I feel like he may not want to have anything too serious right now. I know he was talkin to another girl, but that didn't last too long. Me and him have been "talking" since around May but didn't even get to hang out til the end of July. We also work together so we see each other every day but we dont talk much at work cus we didnt want it to be the subject of gossip around there. He also doesn't have a car right now, but I just feel like we're not hanging out enough (which is only once every 2-3 weeks). He was the one who had pursued me at first, but he just lets me initiate EVERYTHING now. When we hang out, what we do, texting eah other... he goes with the flow of it, but I dont get why he seems so unsure of what to do now. Any thoughts or advice?

Talk to him about it. Us Aries are pretty blunt about our feelings. We are upfront and don't sugar coat. If you want to know the truth, then ask him. Get to the bottom of it and you will have no wondering left to do. Don't be afraid...we actually like it when people ask us questions and want to know things about us. He will respect you more if you don't hide behind your concerns and just put it out there.

I don't get to talk to him too much at work and since we don't really hang out often.. would writing a note about my feelings work? We work at a school which I think makes it funnier and he had written me a note a few months ago when he asked me for my number again when we first started talkin since he forgot to save it the first time.

Posted by ScorpGirl83
I don't get to talk to him too much at work and since we don't really hang out often.. would writing a note about my feelings work? We work at a school which I think makes it funnier and he had written me a note a few months ago when he asked me for my number again when we first started talkin since he forgot to save it the first time.

Great idea! I think putting your thoughts/feelings down on paper can sometimes be a great route to take. That way you can edit if you need be...we all could use a little editing.