beebee1992
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How should I handle this situation with my Aries guy?!
Yes. You are correct
That's what dating has pretty much been like for the last decade or so.
Men and women dating multiple people until they decide who works and who doesnt.
I believe you are correct in walking away.
Sounds like you cant handle the reality of the situation and you dont know how to have a conversation with someone you're romantically involved with.
You're vulnerable enough for sex, but too vulnerable to have a conversation about what's leading up to the sex.
This man dates other women. Either you are okay with that or not.
That's what dating has pretty much been like for the last decade or so.
Men and women dating multiple people until they decide who works and who doesnt.
I believe you are correct in walking away.
Sounds like you cant handle the reality of the situation and you dont know how to have a conversation with someone you're romantically involved with.
You're vulnerable enough for sex, but too vulnerable to have a conversation about what's leading up to the sex.
This man dates other women. Either you are okay with that or not.
Posted by beebee1992Some people need this from you.
As a Gemini, I HATE being vulnerable and I don’t like people that I’m romantically dealing with knowing just how deep my feelings are.
Posted by beebee1992
Firstly, please no smart ass/ mean comments.
So I’ve been dealing with this Aries man on and off for 9 months ( I cut him off for 6 months). For the last two months, we’ve been hanging out, talking on the phone almost every day. I had a situation the other day where I needed some $ and he helped me out. When we’ve spoken, he let’s me know that he really likes me. He told me that the last few times we were intimate it felt different and that he feels we are building our chemistry. We aren’t together and he let me know he isn’t ready for a commitment. The last time we were together, I saw that some girl kept texting him, it was after 1am so I already know what that means.
I really like him, however, I’ve been in a situation like this before, where we act like we’re together, yet there’s no commitment and I REFUSE to do this again. I’m a Gemini woman so it is REALLY hard for me to communicate my feelings. I texted him and told him that I need space and I’ll talk to him soon. He was taken aback, saying it was random and he didn’t understand why I wanted to cut him off. I just don’t know how to communicate how I’m feeling without sounding like a broken record. I’m not saying that I want to jump in a relationship tomorrow, BUT I want to date where we date exclusively and see if a relationship is what we want. I’ve told him this before, so it’s my fault for letting the situation get to this. I am NOT trying to convince him to date me exclusively, I want to communicate to him that I like him a lot and while I’m not asking for a relationship right now, I need more than this and I can’t be okay with that fact that he is dealing with other girls so I have to walk away ☹ . While I’m sad about it, I feel it’ll be easier to walk away now before things get to deep.
As a Gemini, I HATE being vulnerable and I don’t like people that I’m romantically dealing with knowing just how deep my feelings are. PLEASE HELP.
P.S. Is this what dating is now? Men dating multiple people until he decides to cut off all the other girls and get serious with one? If so, I can’t date E
You are doing good.
He won’t commit to you as long as he can get away with what he is having so if you are not happy about it just walk away. If he really wants you then he will realize that the only way to have you is to be exclusive with you.
If he doesn’t do that you won’t be missing anything and you will be able to get someone better.
Just tell him that. You want an exclusive relationship. He doesn’t, then that’s it. He can not have you anymore.
There’s not other way. You know what you want and he has to step up to it or he won’t get you. That is the only way. Specially with an Aries. He has to work at it or he will never respect you.
Posted by DMVThanks for your response! And I know, I’m complicated lol sex is the easy part, sorting through my emotions is HARD. I’m not okay with him dating multiple people, is that unreasonable? Or am I expecting too much in today’s dating climate? I’m not sure how to put this into words I don’t want him to think I’m telling him to stop what he’s doing.
Yes. You are correct
That's what dating has pretty much been like for the last decade or so.
Men and women dating multiple people until they decide who works and who doesnt.
I believe you are correct in walking away.
Sounds like you cant handle the reality of the situation and you dont know how to have a conversation with someone you're romantically involved with.
You're vulnerable enough for sex, but too vulnerable to have a conversation about what's leading up to the sex.
This man dates other women. Either you are okay with that or not.
Posted by Mr_PinchyPosted by beebee1992
As a Gemini, I HATE being vulnerable and I don’t like people that I’m romantically dealing with knowing just how deep my feelings are.
Some people need this from you. click to expandclick to expand
What do you mean??
Posted by beebee1992That gemini cerebral romance together with some sex just might not be enough when other options pour their hearts out to this dude.Posted by Mr_PinchyWhat do you mean?? click to expandPosted by beebee1992
As a Gemini, I HATE being vulnerable and I don’t like people that I’m romantically dealing with knowing just how deep my feelings are.
Some people need this from you. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by pisceswoman123Thank you so much for your response! I kind of figured I have to walk away at this point. I speak my mind and demand certain things and I think that attracts him. In the past I’ve told him I don’t like certain things and he stopped doing it. Just wish I’d know where his head will be after I tell him this. I’ve told him this in the past and I know I sound like a broken record but it is what it is. I can’t act like I’m okay with the situation.Posted by beebee1992You are doing good.
Firstly, please no smart ass/ mean comments.
So I’ve been dealing with this Aries man on and off for 9 months ( I cut him off for 6 months). For the last two months, we’ve been hanging out, talking on the phone almost every day. I had a situation the other day where I needed some $ and he helped me out. When we’ve spoken, he let’s me know that he really likes me. He told me that the last few times we were intimate it felt different and that he feels we are building our chemistry. We aren’t together and he let me know he isn’t ready for a commitment. The last time we were together, I saw that some girl kept texting him, it was after 1am so I already know what that means.
I really like him, however, I’ve been in a situation like this before, where we act like we’re together, yet there’s no commitment and I REFUSE to do this again. I’m a Gemini woman so it is REALLY hard for me to communicate my feelings. I texted him and told him that I need space and I’ll talk to him soon. He was taken aback, saying it was random and he didn’t understand why I wanted to cut him off. I just don’t know how to communicate how I’m feeling without sounding like a broken record. I’m not saying that I want to jump in a relationship tomorrow, BUT I want to date where we date exclusively and see if a relationship is what we want. I’ve told him this before, so it’s my fault for letting the situation get to this. I am NOT trying to convince him to date me exclusively, I want to communicate to him that I like him a lot and while I’m not asking for a relationship right now, I need more than this and I can’t be okay with that fact that he is dealing with other girls so I have to walk away ☹ . While I’m sad about it, I feel it’ll be easier to walk away now before things get to deep.
As a Gemini, I HATE being vulnerable and I don’t like people that I’m romantically dealing with knowing just how deep my feelings are. PLEASE HELP.
P.S. Is this what dating is now? Men dating multiple people until he decides to cut off all the other girls and get serious with one? If so, I can’t date E
He won’t commit to you as long as he can get away with what he is having so if you are not happy about it just walk away. If he really wants you then he will realize that the only way to have you is to be exclusive with you.
If he doesn’t do that you won’t be missing anything and you will be able to get someone better.
Just tell him that. You want an exclusive relationship. He doesn’t, then that’s it. He can not have you anymore.
There’s not other way. You know what you want and he has to step up to it or he won’t get you. That is the only way. Specially with an Aries. He has to work at it or he will never respect you. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Mr_PinchyAhhhhh I get you! I completely understand this as e has told me it’s hatd to know how I’m feeling at times (I work soooo hard to not be vulnerable). To me, pouring out my feelings is sooo hard because I feel it makes me look needy and weak. How am I to express myself to this guy? I like him and I enjoy spending time with him. How does pouring your heart out to an Aries look?Posted by beebee1992Posted by Mr_PinchyPosted by beebee1992
As a Gemini, I HATE being vulnerable and I don’t like people that I’m romantically dealing with knowing just how deep my feelings are.
Some people need this from you. click to expand
What do you mean?? click to expand
That gemini cerebral romance together with some sex just might not be enough when other options pour their hearts out to this dude.
click to expandclick to expand
Posted by beebee1992Posted by pisceswoman123Posted by beebee1992
Firstly, please no smart ass/ mean comments.
So I’ve been dealing with this Aries man on and off for 9 months ( I cut him off for 6 months). For the last two months, we’ve been hanging out, talking on the phone almost every day. I had a situation the other day where I needed some $ and he helped me out. When we’ve spoken, he let’s me know that he really likes me. He told me that the last few times we were intimate it felt different and that he feels we are building our chemistry. We aren’t together and he let me know he isn’t ready for a commitment. The last time we were together, I saw that some girl kept texting him, it was after 1am so I already know what that means.
I really like him, however, I’ve been in a situation like this before, where we act like we’re together, yet there’s no commitment and I REFUSE to do this again. I’m a Gemini woman so it is REALLY hard for me to communicate my feelings. I texted him and told him that I need space and I’ll talk to him soon. He was taken aback, saying it was random and he didn’t understand why I wanted to cut him off. I just don’t know how to communicate how I’m feeling without sounding like a broken record. I’m not saying that I want to jump in a relationship tomorrow, BUT I want to date where we date exclusively and see if a relationship is what we want. I’ve told him this before, so it’s my fault for letting the situation get to this. I am NOT trying to convince him to date me exclusively, I want to communicate to him that I like him a lot and while I’m not asking for a relationship right now, I need more than this and I can’t be okay with that fact that he is dealing with other girls so I have to walk away ☹ . While I’m sad about it, I feel it’ll be easier to walk away now before things get to deep.
As a Gemini, I HATE being vulnerable and I don’t like people that I’m romantically dealing with knowing just how deep my feelings are. PLEASE HELP.
P.S. Is this what dating is now? Men dating multiple people until he decides to cut off all the other girls and get serious with one? If so, I can’t date E
You are doing good.
He won’t commit to you as long as he can get away with what he is having so if you are not happy about it just walk away. If he really wants you then he will realize that the only way to have you is to be exclusive with you.
If he doesn’t do that you won’t be missing anything and you will be able to get someone better.
Just tell him that. You want an exclusive relationship. He doesn’t, then that’s it. He can not have you anymore.
There’s not other way. You know what you want and he has to step up to it or he won’t get you. That is the only way. Specially with an Aries. He has to work at it or he will never respect you. click to expand
Thank you so much for your response! I kind of figured I have to walk away at this point. I speak my mind and demand certain things and I think that attracts him. In the past I’ve told him I don’t like certain things and he stopped doing it. Just wish I’d know where his head will be after I tell him this. I’ve told him this in the past and I know I sound like a broken record but it is what it is. I can’t act like I’m okay with the situation. click to expandclick to expand
In reality we don’t have any control about the other person. But you have to be true to yourself. You know what makes you happy and what you can not tolerate.
If you are not happy with his behavior you have to let him know and move away if he keeps doing it.
Guys date multiple women because they can get away with it.
But if he really likes you, believe me he will not let you go. If he does. He is not the man you want and he will never make you happy.
Let's be honest here.
You keep saying you've told him all this in the past...the past was only a few months ago, not even a year.
He already told you, hes not feeling a commitment with you. The other women is proof positive.
If he wanted to buy where your selling, aries man woulda purchased by now.
Why would he risk losing something he really wants?
You want him to see your growing value. Hes seen it. No action.
Do you know your value?
I wouldnt recommend pouring your heart out. If you want to make a last hail Mary play, you logically tell him what you want from him and that you want a relationship.
He either accepts or rejects your offer.
You keep saying you've told him all this in the past...the past was only a few months ago, not even a year.
He already told you, hes not feeling a commitment with you. The other women is proof positive.
If he wanted to buy where your selling, aries man woulda purchased by now.
Why would he risk losing something he really wants?
You want him to see your growing value. Hes seen it. No action.
Do you know your value?
I wouldnt recommend pouring your heart out. If you want to make a last hail Mary play, you logically tell him what you want from him and that you want a relationship.
He either accepts or rejects your offer.
Posted by DMVDefinitely no Hail Mary from me lol not going to ask him for a relationship because like you said, he knows what I want since I told him this in the past. I am a creature of habit and I’ve become more aware of my patterns. I know my value and I’m learning how to make sure my actions reflect that. I appreciate your advice! I have to keep it moving
Let's be honest here.
You keep saying you've told him all this in the past...the past was only a few months ago, not even a year.
He already told you, hes not feeling a commitment with you. The other women is proof positive.
If he wanted to buy where your selling, aries man woulda purchased by now.
Why would he risk losing something he really wants?
You want him to see your growing value. Hes seen it. No action.
Do you know your value?
I wouldnt recommend pouring your heart out. If you want to make a last hail Mary play, you logically tell him what you want from him and that you want a relationship.
He either accepts or rejects your offer.
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowYou feel my pain! Lol I swear my actions let a person know how I feel smfh. I when I told him I need space he kept asking me what’s wrong and what’s on my mind and that he doesn’t understand why I want to cut him off.Posted by beebee1992Posted by Mr_PinchyPosted by beebee1992
As a Gemini, I HATE being vulnerable and I don’t like people that I’m romantically dealing with knowing just how deep my feelings are.
Some people need this from you. click to expand
What do you mean?? click to expand
You have to open up. I'm a Gemini too and I know how it is opening up and being vulnerable and showing our feelings. It is the hardest thing to do in this world. But that's how bonds are established. I suck at it too... That min I freeze up and expect them to know how I feel.
How is he behaving now that you told him you don't want space? click to expandclick to expand
And yeah I can’t habdle this kind of dating lol maybe I’ll be forever alone because I can’t handle feeling like I’m competing and I refuse to. I don’t date multiple people at once so I expect the same.
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowI’m sure he knows I know lol he let me know that he was “talking” to someone. The other day I was with him and i had his phone and this girl kept texting him so i said “so and so keeps texting you”. We have discussed this before he said that he’s not ready for commitment. I texted him a half hour ago letting him know how I feel and that I can’t accept his having sex with other girls. Not asking him to commit at this point I’m just going to walk away.Posted by beebee1992Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by beebee1992Posted by Mr_PinchyPosted by beebee1992
As a Gemini, I HATE being vulnerable and I don’t like people that I’m romantically dealing with knowing just how deep my feelings are.
Some people need this from you. click to expand
What do you mean?? click to expand
You have to open up. I'm a Gemini too and I know how it is opening up and being vulnerable and showing our feelings. It is the hardest thing to do in this world. But that's how bonds are established. I suck at it too... That min I freeze up and expect them to know how I feel.
How is he behaving now that you told him you don't want space? click to expand
You feel my pain! Lol I swear my actions let a person know how I feel smfh. I when I told him I need space he kept asking me what’s wrong and what’s on my mind and that he doesn’t understand why I want to cut him off.
And yeah I can’t habdle this kind of dating lol maybe I’ll be forever alone because I can’t handle feeling like I’m competing and I refuse to. I don’t date multiple people at once so I expect the same. click to expand
People will jump from one person to another, it's like buying a shiny new toy. You know nowadays parents buy their kids everything they see, so I guess that habit got into their mindset that they need to be with everyone they see, they will pounce on anything new. They might be cute with you today but if they see someone they have no qualms being provocative with the other person. If I see that I become unreasonable, so I get you.
He's an aries? Does he know you know he's sleeping with multiple people? Let him know you don't do it and you will have to be ready if he ends it.
Rn he isn't ready for a relationship. So idk what you can do here. He isn't ready. Did you guys discuss this before? click to expandclick to expand
Dating is SO aanotingg and I’m already over it lol
Posted by SmidgeHe didn’t respond lol she texted him a bunch of times but he didn’t text back.
If he's texting other women at 1am while he's hanging out with you, that's just disrespectful. Tell him bye.
Posted by pisceswoman123I agree with this ladyPosted by beebee1992You are doing good.
Firstly, please no smart ass/ mean comments.
So I’ve been dealing with this Aries man on and off for 9 months ( I cut him off for 6 months). For the last two months, we’ve been hanging out, talking on the phone almost every day. I had a situation the other day where I needed some $ and he helped me out. When we’ve spoken, he let’s me know that he really likes me. He told me that the last few times we were intimate it felt different and that he feels we are building our chemistry. We aren’t together and he let me know he isn’t ready for a commitment. The last time we were together, I saw that some girl kept texting him, it was after 1am so I already know what that means.
I really like him, however, I’ve been in a situation like this before, where we act like we’re together, yet there’s no commitment and I REFUSE to do this again. I’m a Gemini woman so it is REALLY hard for me to communicate my feelings. I texted him and told him that I need space and I’ll talk to him soon. He was taken aback, saying it was random and he didn’t understand why I wanted to cut him off. I just don’t know how to communicate how I’m feeling without sounding like a broken record. I’m not saying that I want to jump in a relationship tomorrow, BUT I want to date where we date exclusively and see if a relationship is what we want. I’ve told him this before, so it’s my fault for letting the situation get to this. I am NOT trying to convince him to date me exclusively, I want to communicate to him that I like him a lot and while I’m not asking for a relationship right now, I need more than this and I can’t be okay with that fact that he is dealing with other girls so I have to walk away ☹ . While I’m sad about it, I feel it’ll be easier to walk away now before things get to deep.
As a Gemini, I HATE being vulnerable and I don’t like people that I’m romantically dealing with knowing just how deep my feelings are. PLEASE HELP.
P.S. Is this what dating is now? Men dating multiple people until he decides to cut off all the other girls and get serious with one? If so, I can’t date E
He won’t commit to you as long as he can get away with what he is having so if you are not happy about it just walk away. If he really wants you then he will realize that the only way to have you is to be exclusive with you.
If he doesn’t do that you won’t be missing anything and you will be able to get someone better.
Just tell him that. You want an exclusive relationship. He doesn’t, then that’s it. He can not have you anymore.
There’s not other way. You know what you want and he has to step up to it or he won’t get you. That is the only way. Specially with an Aries. He has to work at it or he will never respect you. click to expandclick to expand
My mother used to say "Give a man an inch and he will take a yard"
Clear boundaries or else he will end up having things all his own way
Posted by beebee1992But he's sleeping with other women, more than one, as well as sleeping with you?Posted by Smidge
If he's texting other women at 1am while he's hanging out with you, that's just disrespectful. Tell him bye.
He didn’t respond lol she texted him a bunch of times but he didn’t text back. click to expandclick to expand
Is that okay? Is that respectful?
He must be having a field day!
🙄🙄
I was with an Aries guy for 2 and a half yrs.
I feel like with an Aries you really can tell them anything and they'll be honest with you back, nothing can really phase them in my experience.
If you wanna communicate to him how you feel you should go ahead! They will give you their honest response. But if you've communicated it to him before then maybe you'll be wasting your breath...
I feel like with an Aries you really can tell them anything and they'll be honest with you back, nothing can really phase them in my experience.
If you wanna communicate to him how you feel you should go ahead! They will give you their honest response. But if you've communicated it to him before then maybe you'll be wasting your breath...
Posted by MyStarsShineIt’s not okay at all! Lol I don’t like it and it’s not something I’m willing to deal with. He’s living his best life so I’m sure he has no problemsPosted by beebee1992Posted by Smidge
If he's texting other women at 1am while he's hanging out with you, that's just disrespectful. Tell him bye.
He didn’t respond lol she texted him a bunch of times but he didn’t text back. click to expand
But he's sleeping with other women, more than one, as well as sleeping with you?
Is that okay? Is that respectful?
He must be having a field day!
🙄🙄 click to expandclick to expand
Posted by beebee1992Living the dream 🙄Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by beebee1992Posted by Smidge
If he's texting other women at 1am while he's hanging out with you, that's just disrespectful. Tell him bye.
He didn’t respond lol she texted him a bunch of times but he didn’t text back. click to expand
But he's sleeping with other women, more than one, as well as sleeping with you?
Is that okay? Is that respectful?
He must be having a field day!
🙄🙄 click to expand
It’s not okay at all! Lol I don’t like it and it’s not something I’m willing to deal with. He’s living his best life so I’m sure he has no problems click to expandclick to expand
So when are you going to tell him to "feck off"?
If all the women he was doing it with did the same, he might get the message
Can't blame him if he can get away with it?
Am sure you already know about men and their dicks?
Posted by MyStarsShineI’m not mad at him at all lol if he can have sex with a bunch of women I can’t knock him. I know about men and their dicks lol they use them to think. I texted him and told him how I felt and that I want to end things and there’s no hard feelings. Let’s see what he saysPosted by beebee1992Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by beebee1992Posted by Smidge
If he's texting other women at 1am while he's hanging out with you, that's just disrespectful. Tell him bye.
He didn’t respond lol she texted him a bunch of times but he didn’t text back. click to expand
But he's sleeping with other women, more than one, as well as sleeping with you?
Is that okay? Is that respectful?
He must be having a field day!
🙄🙄 click to expand
It’s not okay at all! Lol I don’t like it and it’s not something I’m willing to deal with. He’s living his best life so I’m sure he has no problems click to expand
Living the dream 🙄
So when are you going to tell him to "feck off"?
If all the women he was doing it with did the same, he might get the message
Can't blame him if he can get away with it?
Am sure you already know about men and their dicks? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowI know he likes and cares about me but it isn’t enough. He’s let me know he isn’t ready for that so I have to walk away.Posted by beebee1992Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by beebee1992Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by beebee1992Posted by Mr_PinchyPosted by beebee1992
As a Gemini, I HATE being vulnerable and I don’t like people that I’m romantically dealing with knowing just how deep my feelings are.
Some people need this from you. click to expand
What do you mean?? click to expand
You have to open up. I'm a Gemini too and I know how it is opening up and being vulnerable and showing our feelings. It is the hardest thing to do in this world. But that's how bonds are established. I suck at it too... That min I freeze up and expect them to know how I feel.
How is he behaving now that you told him you don't want space? click to expand
You feel my pain! Lol I swear my actions let a person know how I feel smfh. I when I told him I need space he kept asking me what’s wrong and what’s on my mind and that he doesn’t understand why I want to cut him off.
And yeah I can’t habdle this kind of dating lol maybe I’ll be forever alone because I can’t handle feeling like I’m competing and I refuse to. I don’t date multiple people at once so I expect the same. click to expand
People will jump from one person to another, it's like buying a shiny new toy. You know nowadays parents buy their kids everything they see, so I guess that habit got into their mindset that they need to be with everyone they see, they will pounce on anything new. They might be cute with you today but if they see someone they have no qualms being provocative with the other person. If I see that I become unreasonable, so I get you.
He's an aries? Does he know you know he's sleeping with multiple people? Let him know you don't do it and you will have to be ready if he ends it.
Rn he isn't ready for a relationship. So idk what you can do here. He isn't ready. Did you guys discuss this before? click to expand
I’m sure he knows I know lol he let me know that he was “talking” to someone. The other day I was with him and i had his phone and this girl kept texting him so i said “so and so keeps texting you”. We have discussed this before he said that he’s not ready for commitment. I texted him a half hour ago letting him know how I feel and that I can’t accept his having sex with other girls. Not asking him to commit at this point I’m just going to walk away.
Dating is SO aanotingg and I’m already over it lol click to expand
If he comes back don't fall into the same trap. Sucks.
I feel he isn't ready to commit even tho he might like you. He knows he can't be faithful... Smh
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Posted by beebee1992Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by beebee1992Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by beebee1992Posted by Smidge
If he's texting other women at 1am while he's hanging out with you, that's just disrespectful. Tell him bye.
He didn’t respond lol she texted him a bunch of times but he didn’t text back. click to expand
But he's sleeping with other women, more than one, as well as sleeping with you?
Is that okay? Is that respectful?
He must be having a field day!
🙄🙄 click to expand
It’s not okay at all! Lol I don’t like it and it’s not something I’m willing to deal with. He’s living his best life so I’m sure he has no problems click to expand
Living the dream 🙄
So when are you going to tell him to "feck off"?
If all the women he was doing it with did the same, he might get the message
Can't blame him if he can get away with it?
Am sure you already know about men and their dicks? click to expand
I’m not mad at him at all lol if he can have sex with a bunch of women I can’t knock him. I know about men and their dicks lol they use them to think. I texted him and told him how I felt and that I want to end things and there’s no hard feelings. Let’s see what he says click to expandclick to expand
Nice one Miss 👍😊
Let us know what he says
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowGemini moon problems too 😪Posted by beebee1992Posted by Mr_PinchyPosted by beebee1992
As a Gemini, I HATE being vulnerable and I don’t like people that I’m romantically dealing with knowing just how deep my feelings are.
Some people need this from you. click to expand
What do you mean?? click to expand
You have to open up. I'm a Gemini too and I know how it is opening up and being vulnerable and showing our feelings. It is the hardest thing to do in this world. But that's how bonds are established. I suck at it too... That min I freeze up and expect them to know how I feel.
How is he behaving now that you told him you don't want space? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowDo you know how many times family and friends have called be a closed book. LolPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by beebee1992Posted by Mr_PinchyPosted by beebee1992
As a Gemini, I HATE being vulnerable and I don’t like people that I’m romantically dealing with knowing just how deep my feelings are.
Some people need this from you. click to expand
What do you mean?? click to expand
You have to open up. I'm a Gemini too and I know how it is opening up and being vulnerable and showing our feelings. It is the hardest thing to do in this world. But that's how bonds are established. I suck at it too... That min I freeze up and expect them to know how I feel.
How is he behaving now that you told him you don't want space? click to expand
Gemini moon problems too 😪 click to expand
Do you even open up? I do it when they are super cute with me and I'm sure they like me. Otherwise brick wall and deflect. click to expandclick to expand
We talking serious crowbar material here
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowLol. No things tend to flow as much as the alcohol does. But only scratches just below the surface if you know what I mean lolPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by beebee1992Posted by Mr_PinchyPosted by beebee1992
As a Gemini, I HATE being vulnerable and I don’t like people that I’m romantically dealing with knowing just how deep my feelings are.
Some people need this from you. click to expand
What do you mean?? click to expand
You have to open up. I'm a Gemini too and I know how it is opening up and being vulnerable and showing our feelings. It is the hardest thing to do in this world. But that's how bonds are established. I suck at it too... That min I freeze up and expect them to know how I feel.
How is he behaving now that you told him you don't want space? click to expand
Gemini moon problems too 😪 click to expand
Do you even open up? I do it when they are super cute with me and I'm sure they like me. Otherwise brick wall and deflect. click to expand
Do you know how many times family and friends have called be a closed book. Lol
We talking serious crowbar material here click to expandclick to expand
That's sadddd! Alcohol doesn't help either?
I blabber everything when I'm tipsy. click to expandclick to expand
Personally I don’t see anything wrong with dating other people. However I refuse to enter into a physical relationship with someone without terms of exclusivity on the table. This is to protect both my body and my heart.
I need to feel comfortable and relaxed to enjoy sex. Wondering how many other pussies he’s been through since our last date doesn’t do it for me.
I need to feel comfortable and relaxed to enjoy sex. Wondering how many other pussies he’s been through since our last date doesn’t do it for me.
9 months is more than enough time for him to have fallen in love with you OP. He isn't feeling you that way. The proof is the other girls he's seeing. You need to ghost his butt.
Posted by DonnaLibraLmao I should’ve ghosted him huh? Lol I said what I needed to say and it’s over 🤷🏾♀️ Ugggggghhh so done with dating for a very long time.
9 months is more than enough time for him to have fallen in love with you OP. He isn't feeling you that way. The proof is the other girls he's seeing. You need to ghost his butt.
Every guy I've dated, right from the start I've said I don't share and if he wants to see others, go ahead but he won't be seeing me
Always worked well and resulted in long term rships
The key is being firm, clear and stating what you want, if not, how do they know?
Always worked well and resulted in long term rships
The key is being firm, clear and stating what you want, if not, how do they know?
“Alright im not the one to bother someone when they don’t want to talk to me 😘“
One of his responses to my messages lol mind you I never said I don’t want to talk to him....I said that I can’t handle him dealing with other women. Reverse psychology much? 🙄
One of his responses to my messages lol mind you I never said I don’t want to talk to him....I said that I can’t handle him dealing with other women. Reverse psychology much? 🙄
Thank you all for the advice! I knew I was doing the right thing it’s still nice to hear that from others 😃.
It bruises my ego but if he liked me as much then the situation would be different. It is what it is
It bruises my ego but if he liked me as much then the situation would be different. It is what it is
Posted by WittyGem88v2I FREAK when things start getting too deep and I get in my own head. I love aquas lolPosted by Mr_PinchyPosted by beebee1992
As a Gemini, I HATE being vulnerable and I don’t like people that I’m romantically dealing with knowing just how deep my feelings are.
Some people need this from you. click to expand
Gemini issues. We walk away when we feel we are getting too deep. Aquas are good at pulling us back. Lol. Its why I consider aquas my anchor in life lol click to expandclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneAgreed! Lol I don’t have the patience for it to be honest.
Personally I don’t see anything wrong with dating other people. However I refuse to enter into a physical relationship with someone without terms of exclusivity on the table. This is to protect both my body and my heart.
I need to feel comfortable and relaxed to enjoy sex. Wondering how many other kitties he’s been through since our last date doesn’t do it for me.
Posted by WittyGem88v2Well, i suppose if you say so, i don't have much experience with this "pulling". 😢 😄 😄 😄Posted by Mr_PinchyPosted by beebee1992
As a Gemini, I HATE being vulnerable and I don’t like people that I’m romantically dealing with knowing just how deep my feelings are.
Some people need this from you. click to expand
Gemini issues. We walk away when we feel we are getting too deep. Aquas are good at pulling us back. Lol. Its why I consider aquas my anchor in life lol click to expandclick to expand
Posted by WittyGem88v2Poor aqua, acting as the homebody in all this 😆Posted by Mr_PinchyPosted by WittyGem88v2Posted by Mr_PinchyPosted by beebee1992
As a Gemini, I HATE being vulnerable and I don’t like people that I’m romantically dealing with knowing just how deep my feelings are.
Some people need this from you. click to expand
Gemini issues. We walk away when we feel we are getting too deep. Aquas are good at pulling us back. Lol. Its why I consider aquas my anchor in life lol click to expand
Well, i suppose if you say so, i don't have much experience with this "pulling". click to expand
Lols. Well, I guess its a different kind of pull. More like when I leave and do stuff, there’s always an aqua to come home to. Hahaha aquas stay in one place for a long time and knowing they will be there, I feel happy and free to do things I need to do without getting too worried that my partner wont be around anymore click to expandclick to expand
Posted by exsqueezemeI don’t believe me being realistic about the situation enables men. From what I’ve seen, most men (and I should’ve said must from the beginning instead of making it seem like all men are this way) are ruled by their desires. That in no way is acceptable behavior for me, and that’s why I ended things with Mr.Aries. I’m not mad at him for doing what I’ve seen men do, however, he won’t be doing it while dealing with me 🤷🏾♀️Posted by beebee1992Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by beebee1992Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by beebee1992Posted by Smidge
If he's texting other women at 1am while he's hanging out with you, that's just disrespectful. Tell him bye.
He didn’t respond lol she texted him a bunch of times but he didn’t text back. click to expand
But he's sleeping with other women, more than one, as well as sleeping with you?
Is that okay? Is that respectful?
He must be having a field day!
🙄🙄 click to expand
It’s not okay at all! Lol I don’t like it and it’s not something I’m willing to deal with. He’s living his best life so I’m sure he has no problems click to expand
Living the dream 🙄
So when are you going to tell him to "feck off"?
If all the women he was doing it with did the same, he might get the message
Can't blame him if he can get away with it?
Am sure you already know about men and their dicks? click to expand
I’m not mad at him at all lol if he can have sex with a bunch of women I can’t knock him. I know about men and their dicks lol they use them to think. I texted him and told him how I felt and that I want to end things and there’s no hard feelings. Let’s see what he says click to expand
WHY. Why do women think like this? It’s attitudes like this that have made it the norm and socially acceptable for men to claim their peen’s dictate their behaviour and it can’t be helped because of this impulse carnal urge. You’re giving excuses for men to use. You’re serving it on a damn silver platter saying treetrunk other women, cheat, play me, it’s fine because I know you have no self control. It’s so incredibly untrue that men can’t control their sexual desires. I know plenty of men for one reason or another who have done it and it’s because they simply decided that the repercussions significantly outweighed that desire. From there on it was easy to not go around treetrunking women like they were just taking a dump for the day. click to expandclick to expand
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