How To Seduce An Aries

Seducing Aries is usually fairly easy compared to some of the other zodiac signs. These are hunters and absolutely can't resist the thrill of the chase. They're very impulsive, have nerves of steel, and don't have a problem taking risks to get what they want. Best of all they don't over analyze a situation before acting. They're also naturally flirtatious, and not overly intuitive. All in all, a perfect combination (for you!)

The key to seducing an Aries is to make them come to you. Don't let them realize you're pursuing them, as that will turn them off. Think of them as a cat, and you're a piece of string. Play hard to get. Alternate between flirting outrageously with them, and then appearing indifferent, timid or shy. They need to feel like the initiator here, and not you.

These folks like passion. Subtlety, philosophical debate and mind games aren't their thing. So you don't want to impress their mind; you want to get their blood pumping.

Be as blunt and sexy as you dare. Lots of eye contact, sexual innuendo, flash some skin if you've got it — and each time you do a —bad/sexy/inappropriate?? thing apologize and back off timidly for a while. Remember that cat and the string.

When you're ready to catch them in your net, tell them how much you want them — and be as fiery and passionate as possible. Once you have their full attention, give them a weak reason why a relationship would be a bad idea. Appear to be too shy/indecisive/afraid to be able to do anything about it.

Now sit back and wait (don't worry, we're talking minutes here, not days!) Aries will cross a snow covered mountain, barefoot, to get something they want. This may be counterintuitive, but they don't want to compromise, or negotiate, or intellectualize; they want the sport of getting what they can't have!

Stand there and breathe? 😉

Eh, I don't know. Playing and chasing, and mind games and cat and mouse...can also get a little boring and old after a while. Maybe it works on the younger Aries, but as we get older, wiser, more mature - we do enjoy philosohical conversations, intelligence and yes excitement, but don't become a challenge on purpose just because you know we're an aries. Substance, truth and honesty and excitement - THAT'S what matters in the end. Don't play around too much - we'll see through it and walk away from all the play.

or....yes, just stand there and breath. 😉

Ditto ArianPride and Love 365!!

Cat and string, hahahaahahah

The person I am madly deeply passionately chasing, started me on the chase, and when the trail goes cold, I am ready and waiting to pounce on the next lead. And mind you the last pursuit started off hot and exciting, and the next day I was read the most depressing expression of boredom from that person that I felt so dispassionate about that person. They read a famous essay over the phone about how we lose our pizazz as we age, and I was like, are you kidding me?

Yeah, that's right, Vensianbull, stand there and breath does the trick for me. Subtlety really isn't something I as an Aries really appreciates.