@SofiaV87
10 Years1,000+ Posts
I dont understand ... at all !
Understanding a Man's Emotional State After a Breakup
He is still emotionally affected by his ex-fiancé and not ready for a new relationship. His reactions indicate unresolved feelings, and pushing him too soon may push him further away. Patience and understanding are key to navigating such situations.
Whoa you went 5 stage clinger.
I wouldn't bark up this tree nemore. He has some unresolved issues.
You both kinda do. You have to allow people to have some space when they ask for it. The baiting email probably sealed your fate.
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Whoa you went 5 stage clinger.I wouldn't bark up this tree nemore. He has some unresolved issues.
You both kinda do. You have to allow people to have some space when they ask for it. The baiting email probably sealed your fate.
I gave him 4,5 days!.. how much time do they need when someone asks for a space? I really have a problem with waiting ..
Posted by DMV
Whoa you went 5 stage clinger.I wouldn't bark up this tree nemore. He has some unresolved issues.
You both kinda do. You have to allow people to have some space when they ask for it. The baiting email probably sealed your fate.
I gave him 4,5 days!.. how much time do they need when someone asks for a space? I really have a problem with waiting ..
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Haha u think 4-5 days time is space ?
U met him in August thats makes it 3-4 months only. Why so keen on a guy u have just known for this short ? Desperation of wanting to be contacted by someone u like is maddening but its useless. It is always a 2 way street . Dont expect anything, not even a conversation till u have no right on the person .
He was engagged recently and she left him..
You decided maybe "its time to talk about it with him."
Whatever you said to him,
"he was so mad about my thoughts and i tried to explain that i didnt say this was my opinion its just how some of his actions make me feel!"
So, you took his broken engagement and related that break up to your feelings about him in your current dating situation with him? That's like insult to injury, salt to wound.
BURN
Whatever you said, which you have left out, is the cause of all of this. You clearly underestimated his sensitivity to a broken engagement.
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He made it clear that he's not over his fiancé that left him by getting angry with u when u brought it up. Then u pushed him away when he wasn't ready for something serious in the first place. The fact that his fiancé left him means that u & whoever else comes along for the time being will be "hump girls" aka , the girls he gets with to get over his ex fiancé .. & she may even come back in the picture. I'm not surprised he blocked u, u came on too strong but hey, he did u a favor before u invested your feelings any further