I think I'm a nympho. (Page 2)

This topic was created in the Aries forum by AriesandProud on Sunday, February 2, 2014 and has 64 replies.

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@JustBlaze
12 Years

It's not all staged I know people that have been on there.

Almost everytime on maury it's some dude saying he know she was a hoe and was sleeping around. He got the pussy and caught feelings. Now theres a

baby or babies and he don't trust it and most of the time he was right because she displayed throw away behavior but he tried to wife her because he was

thirsty Or he knew she throw away material but still was ejaculating in her along with everybody else because he is irresponsible and has nothing to lose and knocked her up.

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@JustBlaze
12 Years

I appreciate your insight. I have an open mind as I am always searching for the truth to improve myself and my environment. I am about love and

understanding. I understand

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

lol

This guy annoys the shit out of me, but I like seeing what he writes because it's a good example of the male mindset and how many DO think.

Women need to pay attention when guys like that when they open up about what they're really thinking. We have too many women on this forum inserting their own beliefs as if guys think the exact same way, and it's misleading a lot of lost and hurt women. It's an utter disservice and disgrace, tbh.

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@xtina
17 Years1,000+ PostsAries

@rocky
Well... ALL advice on here is going to be an assumption one way or another unless it's something said from the very man himself. I don't think any of the advice on here is actually anything that can be said with 100% certainty that it is what the man is thinking only the MAN knows that for sure.

So in essence the majority of the opinions and advice on here is useless garbage in that sense anyway. But women continue to flock here and people continue to give advice. Why? because I think the need is reciprocal.

If the women that come on here for advice are indeed women then they are not complete victims. The were not forced to go on here and they were not forced to take the advice. If they are not smart enough to understand a good advice from a bad one then that is on THEM. THEY MADE the choices to listen and follow.

So either they made these choices of following the advice or they were complete stupid sheeps and just "innocently" blindly followed an advice believing it was there "salvation" to the relationship... which one is it?

WAKE UP either way it's complete idiocy.

I believe women are smart they made the mistake of listening to said advice, and advice they ASKED for mind you. So sit on that one for a while.

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@xtina
17 Years1,000+ PostsAries

People need to take responsibility for their own shit and when their relationship is fucked up. You MADE the choice to come on here and ask for advice. NOBODY put a gun to your head and forced you.

People are naturally going to give you the advice. Take responsibility for the fact that you took the advice and you followed it which led you to the situations when you could have very well decided NOT to take the advice and NOT to go looking for help from other people then blaming them for your mistakes.

Damn grow up people. I'm tired of people not having the simple cognitive ability of looking in wards... "Hmmm oh shit I took the advice and I was the one that did all those things it's my fault... not taking advice from that person again"

Instead people are like "OMG, that stupid fucking bitch it's all her fault that my life sucks and that he doesn't love me and that I don't love myself, it can't be my fault because I'm perfect and I could NEVER do anything wrong."

Grow up fucktards. You people are really pissing me off.

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by xtina
@rocky
Well... ALL advice on here is going to be an assumption one way or another unless it's something said from the very man himself. I don't think any of the advice on here is actually anything that can be said with 100% certainty that it is what the man is thinking only the MAN knows that for sure.

So in essence the majority of the opinions and advice on here is useless garbage in that sense anyway. But women continue to flock here and people continue to give advice. Why? because I think the need is reciprocal.

If the women that come on here for advice are indeed women then they are not complete victims. The were not forced to go on here and they were not forced to take the advice. If they are not smart enough to understand a good advice from a bad one then that is on THEM. THEY MADE the choices to listen and follow.

So either they made these choices of following the advice or they were complete stupid sheeps and just "innocently" blindly followed an advice believing it was there "salvation" to the relationship... which one is it?

WAKE UP either way it's complete idiocy.

I believe women are smart they made the mistake of listening to said advice, and advice they ASKED for mind you. So sit on that one for a while.

You missed the point.

There are WOMEN who give advice that inserts how WOMEN think in place of what a man is thinking.

In short, they shouldn't be giving advice. This isn't about accountability of who's what and who's who. It's pointing out that this dude's thought process is a good example of what's REALLY going on with men in dating and relating. All too often here, you see "OH HE'S TESTING YOU, OH HE'S SCUURRRED, OH HE HAS SOME DEEP SEATED ISSUES THE POOR BABY!!"

Guys? "lol what a tool. He's just in it for some ass." Kinda like what this guy was saying in his posts. It all sounds utterly disgusting, but the reality is that a LOT of guys think and act like this and women choose to ignore it because it's so shitty. But it's the truth.

Overall, I was just pointing out the vast difference between the two and how maybe some of these ladies need to quit inserting their mindset as if it were the actual male mindset.

Simmer down.

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by xtina
People need to take responsibility for their own shit and when their relationship is fucked up. You MADE the choice to come on here and ask for advice. NOBODY put a gun to your head and forced you.

People are naturally going to give you the advice. Take responsibility for the fact that you took the advice and you followed it which led you to the situations when you could have very well decided NOT to take the advice and NOT to go looking for help from other people then blaming them for your mistakes.

Damn grow up people. I'm tired of people not having the simple cognitive ability of looking in wards... "Hmmm oh shit I took the advice and I was the one that did all those things it's my fault... not taking advice from that person again"

Instead people are like "OMG, that stupid fucking bitch it's all her fault that my life sucks and that he doesn't love me and that I don't love myself, it can't be my fault because I'm perfect and I could NEVER do anything wrong."

Grow up fucktards. You people are really pissing me off.

Tangent. Not related to what I said.

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@JustBlaze
12 Years

Fuckin right! Yo their aint noone like me. There's nobody else to that represents like me. Nobody! No man no women.

None of these dudes think like me.

Wow I just increased my power tonight you don't even know it! Stop with the hate. Because I tell you the truth... have I become you're enemy. Ladies I love you ZODIAK DON!!!!!! ARIES

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@AriesGirl74
12 Years500+ Posts

Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by xtina

You missed the point.

There are WOMEN who give advice that inserts how WOMEN think in place of what a man is thinking.

In short, they shouldn't be giving advice. This isn't about accountability of who's what and who's who. It's pointing out that this dude's thought process is a good example of what's REALLY going on with men in dating and relating. All too often here, you see "OH HE'S TESTING YOU, OH HE'S SCUURRRED, OH HE HAS SOME DEEP SEATED ISSUES THE POOR BABY!!"

Guys? "lol what a tool. He's just in it for some ass." Kinda like what this guy was saying in his posts. It all sounds utterly disgusting, but the reality is that a LOT of guys think and act like this and women choose to ignore it because it's so shitty. But it's the truth.

Overall, I was just pointing out the vast difference between the two and how maybe some of these ladies need to quit inserting their mindset as if it were the actual male mindset.

Simmer down.

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This is soooo right Rocky. When women come asking for advice we are essentially saying "what are your experiences (LADIES)/have you had something similar happen to you (LADIES)?". Then we can try and draw some similarities from it but we don't actually ask that; we tend to end up asking "help, what does this meeeeaaaaaan—" which a woman can't answer.

As you say only a guy can answer regarding why a guy does or acts a certain way.

I've asked for a guys perspective recently and I have been truly shocked by their thought processes coz we really don't think the same - But it soooo valuable if you want to understand what goes on in most guys' heads - get a GUYS opinion lol

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@JustBlaze
12 Years

We are individuals first with our own goals experiences responsibilities and thoughts. There may be some general truth to likeminded thought patterns amongst each sex but cmon you sound bitter.

We just need to slow down and pay attention to our intuition. Sober up when making important decision. Most men are different just like most women are different. It's hilarious to see how ridiculous and immature some of you ladies are taking negativity out of everything I'm expressing when I've been respectful to all of you even after you continue to insult me,

You obviously have communication issues. You need to understand whats going on in your own head. Good luck with that.

I have my own set of experiences that most of you obviously can't relate too and that understandable.

Since your so intelligent and so smart tell me how many people have you healed or even helped with your information

I'll wait

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@JustBlaze
12 Years

Yes I am strange.

I was speaking to Rocky but if you feel it applies to you then who am I to say that it doesn't

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by AriesGirl74
As you say only a guy can answer regarding why a guy does or acts a certain way.

I've asked for a guys perspective recently and I have been truly shocked by their thought processes coz we really don't think the same - But it soooo valuable if you want to understand what goes on in most guys' heads - get a GUYS opinion lol

I was talking to one of my guy friends about all of this last night- How we have so many women giving advice and making up shit in regard to guy's shitty behaviors. I recently had someone give me some spiel about how it's not so black and white and how guys have FEELINGS!!! (this is followed by a scenario where the guy was clearly thinking with his penis).

He loled and was like "uh, it IS that black and white. We can be total dicks when it comes to stuff like this. It happens. Not all are like that but a lot ARE."

It's why I give the advice I give. I'm not bitter or upset like some reality evading dipshits here like to claim, I'm going off what I've been told by my guy friends- ones who have grown up and did some pretty shitty things when they were younger just to get what they wanted and/or treated a girl like shit because they just could.

None say it's right and will admit that it's fucked up, but it DOES happen.

All this fairy tale, psychoanalysing, deep, hidden fears/feelings is shit created by women. They're inserting estrogen based reactions and responses where testosterone belongs.

I think it's why you have so many misunderstandings between the two. Sure, there are exceptions to the rule, but not in a lot of these scenarios where it's clear that the guy doesn't have much respect for her and has no idea what he wants, hence jerking her around and using her for his own needs.

Maybe if some women were more honest with themselves, not so focused on the ideal outcome that they want, and wake up to what's really going on, there'd be a lot less confusion on their parts. It just doesn't help that you have other women feeding into the usual myths of dating, which is sad. They're doing a disservice to their own genders by doing so.