I told Aries I think I love him and he was more affectionate

Hi guys so basically I have been talking to this Aries for about 4 months now .. he has been so hot and cold. It’s actually been a little stressful lol but I just look Past it and enjoy the moments I get with him… he was super non affectionate i remember one time he was so rude! Like didn’t even want to lay with me nothing ! Okay long story short I told him I might love him I didn’t know because I was confused considering I barely know him!! Ever since then he was so much more affectionate when I hung out with him.. is this typical Aries behavior? Should I be scared now? He always is hot and cold like I said but this time it was so much more different ugh now I’m rlly falling for him 😡😡-Aquarius

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Hi guys so basically I have been talking to this Aries for about 4 months now .. he has been so hot and cold. It’s actually been a little stressful lol but I just look Past it and enjoy the moments I get with him… he was super non affectionate i remember one time he was so rude! Like didn’t even want to lay with me nothing ! Okay long story short I told him I might love him I didn’t know because I was confused considering I barely know him!! Ever since then he was so much more affectionate when I hung out with him.. is this typical Aries behavior? Should I be scared now? He always is hot and cold like I said but this time it was so much more different ugh now I’m rlly falling for him 😡😡-Aquarius

Check the other placements. For a man and what you said. Moon and Venus.

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Hi guys so basically I have been talking to this Aries for about 4 months now .. he has been so hot and cold. It’s actually been a little stressful lol but I just look Past it and enjoy the moments I get with him… he was super non affectionate i remember one time he was so rude! Like didn’t even want to lay with me nothing ! Okay long story short I told him I might love him I didn’t know because I was confused considering I barely know him!! Ever since then he was so much more affectionate when I hung out with him.. is this typical Aries behavior? Should I be scared now? He always is hot and cold like I said but this time it was so much more different ugh now I’m rlly falling for him 😡😡-Aquarius

Check the other placements. For a man and what you said. Moon and Venus.

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His moon is saggy that’s all I know 😢

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Hi guys so basically I have been talking to this Aries for about 4 months now .. he has been so hot and cold. It’s actually been a little stressful lol but I just look Past it and enjoy the moments I get with him… he was super non affectionate i remember one time he was so rude! Like didn’t even want to lay with me nothing ! Okay long story short I told him I might love him I didn’t know because I was confused considering I barely know him!! Ever since then he was so much more affectionate when I hung out with him.. is this typical Aries behavior? Should I be scared now? He always is hot and cold like I said but this time it was so much more different ugh now I’m rlly falling for him 😡😡-Aquarius

Check the other placements. For a man and what you said. Moon and Venus.

His moon is saggy that’s all I know 😢

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Also what is there to be confused about here?

Love means you care for someone's welbeing and happiness. Inlove is possessive and means they stimulate those kinds in feelings in yourself for yourself.

There is nothing wrong with feeling love for someone...ever. It's the nature of the relationship that is up for grabs.

enjoy the moments I get with him

This.

The number of times I found myself worrying and overthinking my relationships with Aries men, I now realize I just wasted my energy. If you're compatible, then things will work out. Just enjoy it is all the advice I can give you.

Is he single?

Haha! Does it really matter...............??

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Haha! Does it really matter...............??

Was this a response to my post? Because I did LOL when I interpreted it as such 😂😂

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Is he single?

Single and I truly believe still not over his BM

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Aries men love being flattered lol

I love to flatter.. what is a great ex of that

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Aries dont typically play the hot and cold game they are normally all in or not.

BUTTT depends on his other placements I tried to date and Aries with Pisces merc and capricorn mars and man oh man was he wishy washy he felt more like a pisces lol but he still always came back and chased in the end. Was just very hinty and moody.

But try and get the rest of his chart, sag moon is hard to commit but maybe he is unsure of you

Does he chase you at all? How did you guys start seeing eachother?

Does he sleep with you but not give affection?

In the process of moving so that’s why I haven’t reach back out !

Sun aries

Moon sag

Mercury Aries

Venus Taurus

Mars Gemini

Jupiter Capricorn

Saturn Gemini

Uranus libra

Neptune sag

Pluto libra

Lilith Scorpio

N node Aquarius

He is affectionate befoee and after.. through out the months he has been more and more affectionate.. when he tried to get my number he chased me, we met at my job.. I was a front desk agent at a hotel.. sometimes he makes jokes like for ex he tells me to go sleep in the other bed and he won’t cuddle all night! Some nights he cuddled it’s so annoying . For ex he told me he loved me the other night because I told him I loved him .. then after he tells me he makes the “other bed” joke…

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Is he single?

Single and I truly believe still not over his BM

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Give me his number, I’ll fix that 😈

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Is he single?

Single and I truly believe still not over his BM

Not over his Baby Mama!? Sounds like chaos will ensue.

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Not really , we are in long distance relationship and they have grown children .. he is also much older closer to his 50s. I’m sure he acts the way he does to prevent things from happening. I noticed the more distant THEY become he becomes more affectionate towards me

You keep deleting your threads. I do not believe a thing you post on here.

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Posted by dontgiveup

Aries dont typically play the hot and cold game they are normally all in or not.

BUTTT depends on his other placements I tried to date and Aries with Pisces merc and capricorn mars and man oh man was he wishy washy he felt more like a pisces lol but he still always came back and chased in the end. Was just very hinty and moody.

But try and get the rest of his chart, sag moon is hard to commit but maybe he is unsure of you

Does he chase you at all? How did you guys start seeing eachother?

Does he sleep with you but not give affection?

In the process of moving so that’s why I haven’t reach back out !

Sun aries

Moon sag

Mercury Aries

Venus Taurus

Mars Gemini

Jupiter Capricorn

Saturn Gemini

Uranus libra

Neptune sag

Pluto libra

Lilith Scorpio

N node Aquarius

He is affectionate befoee and after.. through out the months he has been more and more affectionate.. when he tried to get my number he chased me, we met at my job.. I was a front desk agent at a hotel.. sometimes he makes jokes like for ex he tells me to go sleep in the other bed and he won’t cuddle all night! Some nights he cuddled it’s so annoying . For ex he told me he loved me the other night because I told him I loved him .. then after he tells me he makes the “other bed” joke…

He has a lot of fickle placements, not a lot of earth. The Taurus Venus will help offer some consistency. But Gemini mars likely contributes to the hot/cold behavior.. I’ve never dated a Gemini mars man but I’ve read that it’s a whorish placement. Aries does like having victory, so by telling him you love him probably stroked his ego and made him feel good.

If you’re mostly air/fire too, you will probably be a good match for him.

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Yes I kinda felt that he liked his ego stroked, his on and off behavior would make me run. way normally but I feel as if I have so much patience… here is mine!

Sun Aquarius

Moon Cancer

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Capricorn

Mars Leo

Jupiter Sagittarius

Saturn Pisces

Uranus Capricorn

Neptune Capricorn

Pluto Sagittarius

Lilith Gemini

N Node Scorpio

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Aries dont typically play the hot and cold game they are normally all in or not.

BUTTT depends on his other placements I tried to date and Aries with Pisces merc and capricorn mars and man oh man was he wishy washy he felt more like a pisces lol but he still always came back and chased in the end. Was just very hinty and moody.

But try and get the rest of his chart, sag moon is hard to commit but maybe he is unsure of you

Does he chase you at all? How did you guys start seeing eachother?

Does he sleep with you but not give affection?

In the process of moving so that’s why I haven’t reach back out !

Sun aries

Moon sag

Mercury Aries

Venus Taurus

Mars Gemini

Jupiter Capricorn

Saturn Gemini

Uranus libra

Neptune sag

Pluto libra

Lilith Scorpio

N node Aquarius

He is affectionate befoee and after.. through out the months he has been more and more affectionate.. when he tried to get my number he chased me, we met at my job.. I was a front desk agent at a hotel.. sometimes he makes jokes like for ex he tells me to go sleep in the other bed and he won’t cuddle all night! Some nights he cuddled it’s so annoying . For ex he told me he loved me the other night because I told him I loved him .. then after he tells me he makes the “other bed” joke…

Oh no he has similar placements to the Taurus guy who I was talking to. He keeps harassing me. I blocked him on my phone, but I forgot that my phone was also connected to my computer. I logged onto my computer and he messaged me again even after I told him straight up to leave me alone. It’s scary to me and a turn off. He also was more clingy when flattered. I thought it was endearing at first until he kept seemed to be too secretive and hard for me to get to know. He was also too serious, he couldn’t understand my sense of humor I guess.

I would run for the hills if I net another guy like him, for tge mere fact he keeps messaging me despite my wishes to not continue. Idk though maybe you will be more compatible with a guy like that. What are your placements?

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Lmao.. I mean at first I love that behavior but I see how it can get out of hand.. my guy is totall opposite of serious.. please let me get sentimental and tell him how I feel and he gets all weird and he doesn’t want to even hear it .. almost as if he is a true child.. he jokes a lot so I have to appreciate that because I love to laugh.. he doesn’t chase me at all.. I mean he does when I’m mad at him.. lol I chase him a lot .. can’t help it

Sun Aquarius

Moon Cancer

Mercury Aquarius

Venus Capricorn

Mars Leo

Jupiter Sagittarius

Saturn Pisces

Uranus Capricorn

Neptune Capricorn

Pluto Sagittarius

Lilith Gemini

N Node Scorpio

Posted by black773

You keep deleting your threads. I do not believe a thing you post on here.

Not sure why deleting posts would make you not believe me. Lol I delete Bexause I don’t like having a history of my posts. Also I don’t like receiving notifications for old posts, this person I’m talking about acts different every month. I remember one post I posted that he left me alone and ignored me, now he’s telling me he loves me. I can’t talk about something and he doesn’t even do what I posted about. So that’s why I deleted.. gosh trust issues much lol

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You keep deleting your threads. I do not believe a thing you post on here.

Not sure why deleting posts would make you not believe me. Lol I delete Bexause I don’t like having a history of my posts. Also I don’t like receiving notifications for old posts, this person I’m talking about acts different every month. I remember one post I posted that he left me alone and ignored me, now he’s telling me he loves me. I can’t talk about something and he doesn’t even do what I posted about. So that’s why I deleted.. gosh trust issues much lol

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I do not believe your response. I believe you deleted your other threads because of the backlash.

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Is he single?

Single and I truly believe still not over his BM

Not over his Baby Mama!? Sounds like chaos will ensue.

Not really , we are in long distance relationship and they have grown children .. he is also much older closer to his 50s. I’m sure he acts the way he does to prevent things from happening. I noticed the more distant THEY become he becomes more affectionate towards me

With Aries there's really no in between. They're all in or not. No hesitation. And you'll KNOW. Wondering is not even an option in my experience.

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I agree, everyone tells me this as well.. but as soon as I want to leave he does things to make me stay, I won’t even threaten to leave sometimes and he just comes up with something and makes up for his behavior. I mean we are humans sometimes we get confused.. sometimes we want someone even tho we don’t think it’s the right time.. idk makes me wonder why we are so back and fourth

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You keep deleting your threads. I do not believe a thing you post on here.

Not sure why deleting posts would make you not believe me. Lol I delete Bexause I don’t like having a history of my posts. Also I don’t like receiving notifications for old posts, this person I’m talking about acts different every month. I remember one post I posted that he left me alone and ignored me, now he’s telling me he loves me. I can’t talk about something and he doesn’t even do what I posted about. So that’s why I deleted.. gosh trust issues much lol

I do not believe your response. I believe you deleted your other threads because of the backlash.

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You are so weird.. I have no backlash.. idgaf tbh lmao .. I accept all criticism

Posted by Dani style e26Lmao.. I mean at first I love that behavior but I see how it can get out of hand.. my guy is totall opposite of serious.. please let me get sentimental and tell him how I feel and he gets all weird and he doesn’t want to even hear it .. almost as if he is a true child.. he jokes a lot so I have to appreciate that because I love to laugh.. he doesn’t chase me at all.. I mean he does when I’m mad at him.. lol I chase him a lot .. can’t help it

As a Sagittarius moon myself, I can tell you your man’s moon is showing.

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You keep deleting your threads. I do not believe a thing you post on here.

Not sure why deleting posts would make you not believe me. Lol I delete Bexause I don’t like having a history of my posts. Also I don’t like receiving notifications for old posts, this person I’m talking about acts different every month. I remember one post I posted that he left me alone and ignored me, now he’s telling me he loves me. I can’t talk about something and he doesn’t even do what I posted about. So that’s why I deleted.. gosh trust issues much lol

I do not believe your response. I believe you deleted your other threads because of the backlash.

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Give me a week I will delete this post too ! I always do this even Reddit lol

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You keep deleting your threads. I do not believe a thing you post on here.

Not sure why deleting posts would make you not believe me. Lol I delete Bexause I don’t like having a history of my posts. Also I don’t like receiving notifications for old posts, this person I’m talking about acts different every month. I remember one post I posted that he left me alone and ignored me, now he’s telling me he loves me. I can’t talk about something and he doesn’t even do what I posted about. So that’s why I deleted.. gosh trust issues much lol

I do not believe your response. I believe you deleted your other threads because of the backlash.

You are so weird.. I have no backlash.. idgaf tbh lmao .. I accept all criticism

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When you delete the threads, you delete the evidence. Nice try.

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Is he single?

Single and I truly believe still not over his BM

Not over his Baby Mama!? Sounds like chaos will ensue.

Not really , we are in long distance relationship and they have grown children .. he is also much older closer to his 50s. I’m sure he acts the way he does to prevent things from happening. I noticed the more distant THEY become he becomes more affectionate towards me

With Aries there's really no in between. They're all in or not. No hesitation. And you'll KNOW. Wondering is not even an option in my experience.

I agree, everyone tells me this as well.. but as soon as I want to leave he does things to make me stay, I won’t even threaten to leave sometimes and he just comes up with something and makes up for his behavior. I mean we are humans sometimes we get confused.. sometimes we want someone even tho we don’t think it’s the right time.. idk makes me wonder why we are so back and fourth

Aries are very clear in what they want and what they stand for. I'd leave this alone if I were you. Way too fishy and complicated, don't entertain it.

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Right, then when we hang out the other night he tells me he loves me .. he told me two times.. plus he’s acting more affectionate .. I’m moving even further down south he is up north about 5 hours away.. I don’t see him following me.. but I also didn’t expect him to tell me he loved me