I tried to break it off with an Aries man and he told me no!

Let me make this as short and sweet as possible and maybe someone can give me some insight lol. This is the first Aries man I've ever dated. So far what I'm realizing is he's such a gentleman and thoughtful. Here is where I am confused....he told me "he thinks he is in love with me". When he said it there was an awkward silence because I didn't know what to say. Fast forward 2 days later and he full on says, I love you. Once again, I saw nothing. He keeps catching me off guard. For the record, were not in a relationship as he says he is still getting to know me. That's Ok!! But now the text messages have slowed, the calls...he just seems distant. So I sent him a text breaking it off and asking to be on good terms because I just don't think that were a match. He calls back immediately...well twice and says no. That he has been busy and I'm over reacting. But in my gut I just feel like he's up to something lol. Mind you it's only

been a month were been "dating". Do I run for the hills or give him a chance??

You’re the next challenge for him.. he’s saying I love you after one month? lil too soon for that stuff lol.. the way that he is acting is childish.. Aries men have so many differences from the Aries women smh lol

I had the same exp with an Aries woman 😂😂😂 it's just in their nature, their idea of love may be romantic and all, but when it gets real they tend to just play god. NO. Like in Seinfeld...it's up to you. Im sure he means it when he says he was just busy.

Aries men come super strong at first. That is how they are.

He tell you and then he backs up because you haven’t reciprocated him. He wants you. And now after braking up even more. Just give him a chance. They can be super nice.

Aries falling hard, you were less responsive while he played his cards out. He backed off to let pull you out and show your cards, if you have no feelings for him tell straight.

You broke it off because you aren't a good match. Give him a chance for what?

During the summer, I was going out with an Aries guy and I’m a cancer and I just felt like we were always fighting and it wasn’t going anywhere and I wanted to break up and I said it in person and he kept saying no you’re not and when I walked away he ran after me and just kept saying we aren’t breaking up? I don’t know why this is but they’re known for saying no when it’s you breaking up with them, so I gave him another shot and then about 3 months later he broke up with me and I cried and begged but he ignored me and thats been that. But if you’re serious about breaking up be firm and say I don’t want to be in a relationship right now I just don’t feel it between us and if he’s feeling distant they normally go like that then they come back around again, I say if you wanna give a go at this relationship open up to him don’t hide yourself he needs to know the real you to love you. If you don’t feel comfortable saying I love you yet because you don’t feel it then that’s completely ok, my aries told me he loved me when we were just meeting up and not dating but I genuinely felt it back so I said it too and lasted for two years. I say go with your gut or just give him a go for another month and see where it goes. 🙂

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Let me make this as short and sweet as possible and maybe someone can give me some insight lol. This is the first Aries man I've ever dated. So far what I'm realizing is he's such a gentleman and thoughtful. Here is where I am confused....he told me "he thinks he is in love with me". When he said it there was an awkward silence because I didn't know what to say. Fast forward 2 days later and he full on says, I love you. Once again, I saw nothing. He keeps catching me off guard. For the record, were not in a relationship as he says he is still getting to know me. That's Ok!! But now the text messages have slowed, the calls...he just seems distant. So I sent him a text breaking it off and asking to be on good terms because I just don't think that were a match. He calls back immediately...well twice and says no. That he has been busy and I'm over reacting. But in my gut I just feel like he's up to something lol. Mind you it's only

been a month were been "dating". Do I run for the hills or give him a chance??

why did you break-up with him? because he was distant or because you are not a match? Do you really think you two are not a match, or you were just "hurt" he was distant and wanted a reaction from him?

if you decided you two are not a match, then why he should decide, if you are breaking up or not?

I just dont understand what are your motives in this

I mean sending him a text you are breaking it off is passive-agressive..... If you were not interested, you wouldnt write him that text, you would just ignore him and let it fizzle out

so, do you want him or not?

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Aries falling hard, you were less responsive while he played his cards out. He backed off to let pull you out and show your cards, if you have no feelings for him tell straight.

I most definitely do have feelings for him. He's an amazing person. However, he is moving hella fast and if he were to slow It down a bit I'd be all for it. I was less responsive because I didn't believe what he was feeling could be possible so soon.

Because we are kid like at times. And most of y'all don't mean what y'all say.

We Aries ride it out all the way until the end.

Until we soft stalk you.

I wouldn't tell a guy no he can't never leave me because sometimes I will become delusional and in my mind that's my decision and not his.

This is just the truth IF I like u enough

If I don't like u, I could sincerely care less what you do.

And seeing it is we like to chase you really can't go anywhere if we love you. That's never going to change.

But if you leave us in a bind. Or have me feeling used or unappreciated then so help you.

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Posted by msvyce
Let me make this as short and sweet as possible and maybe someone can give me some insight lol. This is the first Aries man I've ever dated. So far what I'm realizing is he's such a gentleman and thoughtful. Here is where I am confused....he told me "he thinks he is in love with me". When he said it there was an awkward silence because I didn't know what to say. Fast forward 2 days later and he full on says, I love you. Once again, I saw nothing. He keeps catching me off guard. For the record, were not in a relationship as he says he is still getting to know me. That's Ok!! But now the text messages have slowed, the calls...he just seems distant. So I sent him a text breaking it off and asking to be on good terms because I just don't think that were a match. He calls back immediately...well twice and says no. That he has been busy and I'm over reacting. But in my gut I just feel like he's up to something lol. Mind you it's only

been a month were been "dating". Do I run for the hills or give him a chance??

why did you break-up with him? because he was distant or because you are not a match? Do you really think you two are not a match, or you were just "hurt" he was distant and wanted a reaction from him?

if you decided you two are not a match, then why he should decide, if you are breaking up or not?

I just dont understand what are your motives in this

I mean sending him a text you are breaking it off is passive-agressive..... If you were not interested, you wouldnt write him that text, you would just ignore him and let it fizzle out

so, do you want him or not?

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Ok so in the beginning we explained to each other out dislikes and likes and one of the dislikes for me was disappearing. If you need time alone just tell me so I'm not worried about you. Simple. He messages me at the weirdest times of night like 2am or not at all. What's annoying to me is I won't say anything about it but I know that he knows I don't like it.

In terms of being a match, we share a lot in common and enjoy each other's company. It is when we're not together that he does things that I don't understand.

I wrote that text because I am not sure what his motives are! His actions are not reflective of his words, know what I'm saying?

I do want him, if were able to move past behaviour like this because although it takes me a bit longer to get mad, when I do there is no coking back from that lol. I'd like understand him more as a person without manipulating him. But that's kinda hard when the person is attempting to manipulate me lmao

Posted by miriyahhh
Because we are kid like at times. And most of y'all don't mean what y'all say.

We Aries ride it out all the way until the end.

Until we soft stalk you.

I wouldn't tell a guy no he can't never leave me because sometimes I will become delusional and in my mind that's my decision and not his.

This is just the truth IF I like u enough

If I don't like u, I could sincerely care less what you do.

And seeing it is we like to chase you really can't go anywhere if we love you. That's never going to change.

But if you leave us in a bind. Or have me feeling used or unappreciated then so help you.

That's just it, he's so intense that it's almost hard to see if he means it or not! I'm trying to take him seriously but from what I know is when a man declares his love for you in such a short period of time, he's usually trying to play you.

I thought I ended the chase by sending that message. I went as far as to delete him off social media too. He only has my # now.

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During the summer, I was going out with an Aries guy and I’m a cancer and I just felt like we were always fighting and it wasn’t going anywhere and I wanted to break up and I said it in person and he kept saying no you’re not and when I walked away he ran after me and just kept saying we aren’t breaking up? I don’t know why this is but they’re known for saying no when it’s you breaking up with them, so I gave him another shot and then about 3 months later he broke up with me and I cried and begged but he ignored me and thats been that. But if you’re serious about breaking up be firm and say I don’t want to be in a relationship right now I just don’t feel it between us and if he’s feeling distant they normally go like that then they come back around again, I say if you wanna give a go at this relationship open up to him don’t hide yourself he needs to know the real you to love you. If you don’t feel comfortable saying I love you yet because you don’t feel it then that’s completely ok, my aries told me he loved me when we were just meeting up and not dating but I genuinely felt it back so I said it too and lasted for two years. I say go with your gut or just give him a go for another month and see where it goes. 🙂

Thank you for the insight. I truly just don't want to be messed with. We haven't spoken since the "breakup" yesterday but he said he wanted to see me this weekend. Do I make other plans or do I see him?

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Because we are kid like at times. And most of y'all don't mean what y'all say.

We Aries ride it out all the way until the end.

Until we soft stalk you.

I wouldn't tell a guy no he can't never leave me because sometimes I will become delusional and in my mind that's my decision and not his.

This is just the truth IF I like u enough

If I don't like u, I could sincerely care less what you do.

And seeing it is we like to chase you really can't go anywhere if we love you. That's never going to change.

But if you leave us in a bind. Or have me feeling used or unappreciated then so help you.

That's just it, he's so intense that it's almost hard to see if he means it or not! I'm trying to take him seriously but from what I know is when a man declares his love for you in such a short period of time, he's usually trying to play you.

I thought I ended the chase by sending that message. I went as far as to delete him off social media too. He only has my # now.

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When it comes to love I'm not playing about that.

Because I don't like to kid about relationships period. I know aries guys are the same.

But if you block me from social media and whatnot I'll take that hint because I'd feel kind you were then hiding something. And we don't play that.

And no I would declare my love asap if I feel that strongly about you. We are impulsive people and go off our feelings quickly but that doesn't mean it will change anytime soon.

I only waited to tell a guy I love him if I felt like he couldn't handle it and that takes a lot of will power from me. Because im full of love anyway and why can't I say that to you. People think too hard about stuff and it's only bad if u make it.

We are positive people.

If you don't like him make it seem like you've moved on and he'll leave u alone.

If you do don't block him. I hate that like with a serious passion I'll forget u even existed bcz that means your wishy washy and can't be trusted

He has messaged me first thing this morning like nothing happened lol. I really hope we can find a common ground so things like this can be avoided. I came too close to seeing his temper though...didnt like that.

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Because we are kid like at times. And most of y'all don't mean what y'all say.

We Aries ride it out all the way until the end.

Until we soft stalk you.

I wouldn't tell a guy no he can't never leave me because sometimes I will become delusional and in my mind that's my decision and not his.

This is just the truth IF I like u enough

If I don't like u, I could sincerely care less what you do.

And seeing it is we like to chase you really can't go anywhere if we love you. That's never going to change.

But if you leave us in a bind. Or have me feeling used or unappreciated then so help you.

That's just it, he's so intense that it's almost hard to see if he means it or not! I'm trying to take him seriously but from what I know is when a man declares his love for you in such a short period of time, he's usually trying to play you.

I thought I ended the chase by sending that message. I went as far as to delete him off social media too. He only has my # now.

When it comes to love I'm not playing about that.

Because I don't like to kid about relationships period. I know aries guys are the same.

But if you block me from social media and whatnot I'll take that hint because I'd feel kind you were then hiding something. And we don't play that.

And no I would declare my love asap if I feel that strongly about you. We are impulsive people and go off our feelings quickly but that doesn't mean it will change anytime soon.

I only waited to tell a guy I love him if I felt like he couldn't handle it and that takes a lot of will power from me. Because im full of love anyway and why can't I say that to you. People think too hard about stuff and it's only bad if u make it.

We are positive people.

If you don't like him make it seem like you've moved on and he'll leave u alone.

If you do don't block him. I hate that like with a serious passion I'll forget u even existed bcz that means your wishy washy and can't be trusted

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He blocked me too. But unblocked me this morning when He messaged me. The feelings I have for him are undeniable, I guess I'm just struggling with the fear of getting hurt whereas he just jumped right in.

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Because we are kid like at times. And most of y'all don't mean what y'all say.

We Aries ride it out all the way until the end.

Until we soft stalk you.

I wouldn't tell a guy no he can't never leave me because sometimes I will become delusional and in my mind that's my decision and not his.

This is just the truth IF I like u enough

If I don't like u, I could sincerely care less what you do.

And seeing it is we like to chase you really can't go anywhere if we love you. That's never going to change.

But if you leave us in a bind. Or have me feeling used or unappreciated then so help you.

That's just it, he's so intense that it's almost hard to see if he means it or not! I'm trying to take him seriously but from what I know is when a man declares his love for you in such a short period of time, he's usually trying to play you.

I thought I ended the chase by sending that message. I went as far as to delete him off social media too. He only has my # now.

When it comes to love I'm not playing about that.

Because I don't like to kid about relationships period. I know aries guys are the same.

But if you block me from social media and whatnot I'll take that hint because I'd feel kind you were then hiding something. And we don't play that.

And no I would declare my love asap if I feel that strongly about you. We are impulsive people and go off our feelings quickly but that doesn't mean it will change anytime soon.

I only waited to tell a guy I love him if I felt like he couldn't handle it and that takes a lot of will power from me. Because im full of love anyway and why can't I say that to you. People think too hard about stuff and it's only bad if u make it.

We are positive people.

If you don't like him make it seem like you've moved on and he'll leave u alone.

If you do don't block him. I hate that like with a serious passion I'll forget u even existed bcz that means your wishy washy and can't be trusted

He blocked me too. But unblocked me this morning when He messaged me. The feelings I have for him are undeniable, I guess I'm just struggling with the fear of getting hurt whereas he just jumped right in.

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If you wanna know these truth just see him in person. Texts can't convey a real emotion. Or talk on the phone. Even the busiest person can hold a phone conversation and let u know what's up.

Aries aren't wishy washy like other signs just go for it.

We are a lot of fun🙃