Need adrenaline rush to feel like an Aries again!!

I have been reading some of the messages here and thought you all can help me out so I joined the forum!

I graduated from university last July and had zero luck in finding a job so far. Been living with my parents with very little money and it is beyond boring for me. This place literally has nothing in here, its a country side retirement hub! Being an Aries, I am completely restless with this situation, but can't seem to do anything about it! The all too gloomy weather is not helping either...I need sunshine!!

I want some adrenaline rush to feel like an Aries again. All my signs make me think am a walking contradiction!!

The entire story is too wide and big to post in here in one go...so more for later!

Am I the only Aries in here feeling this lost and completely down!??

I hate winter also, I get really bored as well. Find a hobby you can do to pass the time. Something you enjoy. I do auto detailing, but in the winter its not possible, but on a warmer day. I will go out wash my car even though I know it'll be dirty once I drive around the block. Sounds dumb, but it keeps me moving.

My Cousin is a female Aries and she rides motorcycles in the nice weather and is also bored during the winter LOL. You could try going to the gym. I personally never step foot in one, but for some Aries this is a good option.

Posted by spur
I hate winter also, I get really bored as well. Find a hobby you can do to pass the time. Something you enjoy. I do auto detailing, but in the winter its not possible, but on a warmer day. I will go out wash my car even though I know it'll be dirty once I drive around the block. Sounds dumb, but it keeps me moving.

My Cousin is a female Aries and she rides motorcycles in the nice weather and is also bored during the winter LOL. You could try going to the gym. I personally never step foot in one, but for some Aries this is a good option.

One bit of sunshine and I suddenly do feel better. But, Sun rarely comes out in here, Winter or not!!

I do understand what you are saying about getting out. But its almost like I lost the will to even go outside for a walk! I always tell myself I will go to gym when I get a job and have money!! I need to motivate myself to go out, I guess!!

Posted by RoseAries3

Posted by spur
I hate winter also, I get really bored as well. Find a hobby you can do to pass the time. Something you enjoy. I do auto detailing, but in the winter its not possible, but on a warmer day. I will go out wash my car even though I know it'll be dirty once I drive around the block. Sounds dumb, but it keeps me moving.

My Cousin is a female Aries and she rides motorcycles in the nice weather and is also bored during the winter LOL. You could try going to the gym. I personally never step foot in one, but for some Aries this is a good option.

One bit of sunshine and I suddenly do feel better. But, Sun rarely comes out in here, Winter or not!!

I do understand what you are saying about getting out. But its almost like I lost the will to even go outside for a walk! I always tell myself I will go to gym when I get a job and have money!! I need to motivate myself to go out, I guess!!

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Do you have any past things you're holding onto that is preventing you from motivating yourself. I know for us Aries we can get really stuck on past problems. Sometimes we don't take blame for our own mistakes for a long time. Maybe it is a time to reflect on any past issues, and see what can come from that first. The motivation the lacks is usually because of us holding onto our emotions and not finding ways to release them.

Maybe you can invite colleagues or friends over. and you guys can watch movies or stalk old crushes.

Or you can go over to their houses.

Maybe you will find something to do

Listen to some motivation, youtube it. You need to decide who you want to be and how you’re going to get there. You need a goal, something to work towards, something to improve yourself, a hobby to become obsessed with. For an Aries, life isn’t about surviving, it’s about thriving. You sit down for too long, you may as well be dead. Don’t focus on negative, or make excuses, the bad weather, the lack of money.. because you can train your mind to notice the opportunities where other may see none, this is what the down-times are for, self-development, make the most of it. Youtube that video where those bodybuilders in Africa have nothing, no job or anything, but they built their own gym, out of stones. You need something like that, something you want where you don’t stop and make excuses, you go for it, no matter what.