Posted by Gob_Shitetrust me I did its been 5 days now (hence why I joined here and am venting like a mad man lol) I want to block her but I would look like a damn fool shes fucking nuts
Please take a long break from using social media...
Posted by aquanibyeah my guy has libra moon and he stalks the crap outta my social media i find it flattering but I want her gone I have no idea wtf to do its really hard to tell if my guy is being friendly with her or if he is actually interested in her and shes an earth sign she has more patience where as I dont ughPosted by ariesleo5evaDude, don't mind Gob_Shite....he thinks capricorn is the best thing that happened since sliced bread.
trust me I did its been 5 days now (hence why I joined here and am venting like a mad man lol) I want to block her but I would look like a damn fool shes fucking nuts
Yes, capricorns are capable of obsessive behaviour like that. My best buddy is a cap, heard more than once how he low key stalks his love/flirt interests every once in a while on social media. He has libra moon though, so idk how that plays in. Libras can be obsessive/stalkish too.
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Posted by confusedaries7513talking but my patience is running short it sucks I like him too much I never took my time with someone as I am now and I am truly scared hidden scared ofcourse I am so frightened she will take my happiness that she does not deserve her aura comes off crazy I had a pisces girl from HS that took my aqua bf from me only because she saw how happy he made me well I think she only got him because I moved from the place (ex military kid) and he didnt do long distance but when they got together she cheated on him with numerous people and once she saw that I didnt care that crap did not last whats your situation?
I can relate to the emotions you are having on a spiritual level but best thing to do is to be patient for now i know its hard but the more you dont care, the less it will bite back at you. question: are you two dating? or just talking?
Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by ariesleo5evaPosted by Gob_Shitetrust me I did its been 5 days now (hence why I joined here and am venting like a mad man lol) I want to block her but I would look like a damn fool shes fucking nuts
Please take a long break from using social media...
I'm not talking about days - I'm talking about weeks, months, years or even forever...
Whatever happened to fucking e-mails? If it's all about communicating or connecting, the method or platform shouldn't really matter.
Most heavy users of social media are narcissistic morons...
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Posted by ariesleo5evadamn. If i were in you situation (since i always act too damn eager right off the bat, and please don't do what i do, im trying to change) i would try and ask the guy out so I know where i stand with him. I had a crush on this aquarius guy once and there was this gemini girl who was all over him. I'm pretty sure she and i both were aware we like the same guy and it was a shitty situation. i thought she seemed nice and pretty but at the same time i was very jealous so i would come home whenever i saw my crush and the gemini girl together at library and cry just because i was frustrated by how jealous i was lol.Posted by confusedaries7513talking but my patience is running short it sucks I like him too much I never took my time with someone as I am now and I am truly scared hidden scared ofcourse I am so frightened she will take my happiness that she does not deserve her aura comes off crazy I had a pisces girl from HS that took my aqua bf from me only because she saw how happy he made me well I think she only got him because I moved from the place (ex military kid) and he didnt do long distance but when they got together she cheated on him with numerous people and once she saw that I didnt care that crap did not last whats your situation?
I can relate to the emotions you are having on a spiritual level but best thing to do is to be patient for now i know its hard but the more you dont care, the less it will bite back at you. question: are you two dating? or just talking?click to expand
Posted by confusedaries7513jeeze was the gemini girl in the picture before you? Not bashing pisces woman but I notice the woman or if its in personal planets like tradgedy I am truly convinced pisces like playing 2nd or something I had a pisces friend who actually wanted my boyfriend and turned on me secretly its like when she saw how me and him were in a relationship she wanted my hapiness she went and told him that I still had feelings for my ex which was not true at all she broke girl code and she lied to me about it when my boyfriend had proof via facebook messages idk I think pisces like the idea of love but when they actually get it they dk wtf to do with itPosted by ariesleo5evadamn. If i were in you situation (since i always act too damn eager right off the bat, and please don't do what i do, im trying to change) i would try and ask the guy out so I know where i stand with him. I had a crush on this aquarius guy once and there was this gemini girl who was all over him. I'm pretty sure she and i both were aware we like the same guy and it was a shitty situation. i thought she seemed nice and pretty but at the same time i was very jealous so i would come home whenever i saw my crush and the gemini girl together at library and cry just because i was frustrated by how jealous i was lol.Posted by confusedaries7513talking but my patience is running short it sucks I like him too much I never took my time with someone as I am now and I am truly scared hidden scared ofcourse I am so frightened she will take my happiness that she does not deserve her aura comes off crazy I had a pisces girl from HS that took my aqua bf from me only because she saw how happy he made me well I think she only got him because I moved from the place (ex military kid) and he didnt do long distance but when they got together she cheated on him with numerous people and once she saw that I didnt care that crap did not last whats your situation?
I can relate to the emotions you are having on a spiritual level but best thing to do is to be patient for now i know its hard but the more you dont care, the less it will bite back at you. question: are you two dating? or just talking?click to expand
Posted by Gob_Shitewell I agree but then again I don't sometimes people feel comfortable with exploiting theirselves via social media maybe thats their safe haven. its tricky ive moved all over america and europe all my life and the only way to connect with my childhood friends was social media so all i know is long distance relationships receiving more web calls then phone calls from a distant lover when youre that attached thru social media it does get heightened to an emotional level hell no i dont do things for the likes or attention I found it was easier to connect with others how the hell else was I suppose to keep in contact with my boyfriend while my ass is in germany age 13 no cellphone because your parents dont believe in giving you a freaking phone until highschool thats when the internet became my phone my way to be with them sheeshPosted by ariesleo5evaPosted by Gob_ShitePosted by ariesleo5evaPosted by Gob_Shitetrust me I did its been 5 days now (hence why I joined here and am venting like a mad man lol) I want to block her but I would look like a damn fool shes fucking nuts
Please take a long break from using social media...
I'm not talking about days - I'm talking about weeks, months, years or even forever...
Whatever happened to fucking e-mails? If it's all about communicating or connecting, the method or platform shouldn't really matter.
Most heavy users of social media are narcissistic morons...
lmfao youre talking to a double fire chick definition of narcissitic but thats how it works these days. connecting through social media yes
I've since come to the conclusion that many who are unable to take their relationships beyond social media aren't really interested in said relationships - they're merely using them to heighten their social media experience. In other words, other users are nothing more than disposable pawns and catalysts for self-gratification and narcissistic tendencies...
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Posted by ariesleo5evayeah she knew him before i did. but the thing is, i asked the aquarius guy out (and told him i have a crush on him which was the biggest fail of my life ever cause all he said was thank you thats nice of you). i was too naive back then so i thought i can still have a chance, and me and aqua guy became very close friends (i was a closer friend to him than the gemini girl even tho he knew her for longer). however, i did not know the gemini girl personally and wasnt aware she was even friends with the aqua, when i got to know her through him i realized how nice she was and i just felt overwhelmed and i backed off and got rid off my feelings for him in the end.Posted by confusedaries7513jeeze was the gemini girl in the picture before you? Not bashing pisces woman but I notice the woman or if its in personal planets like tradgedy I am truly convinced pisces like playing 2nd or something I had a pisces friend who actually wanted my boyfriend and turned on me secretly its like when she saw how me and him were in a relationship she wanted my hapiness she went and told him that I still had feelings for my ex which was not true at all she broke girl code and she lied to me about it when my boyfriend had proof via facebook messages idk I think pisces like the idea of love but when they actually get it they dk wtf to do with itPosted by ariesleo5evadamn. If i were in you situation (since i always act too damn eager right off the bat, and please don't do what i do, im trying to change) i would try and ask the guy out so I know where i stand with him. I had a crush on this aquarius guy once and there was this gemini girl who was all over him. I'm pretty sure she and i both were aware we like the same guy and it was a shitty situation. i thought she seemed nice and pretty but at the same time i was very jealous so i would come home whenever i saw my crush and the gemini girl together at library and cry just because i was frustrated by how jealous i was lol.Posted by confusedaries7513talking but my patience is running short it sucks I like him too much I never took my time with someone as I am now and I am truly scared hidden scared ofcourse I am so frightened she will take my happiness that she does not deserve her aura comes off crazy I had a pisces girl from HS that took my aqua bf from me only because she saw how happy he made me well I think she only got him because I moved from the place (ex military kid) and he didnt do long distance but when they got together she cheated on him with numerous people and once she saw that I didnt care that crap did not last whats your situation?
I can relate to the emotions you are having on a spiritual level but best thing to do is to be patient for now i know its hard but the more you dont care, the less it will bite back at you. question: are you two dating? or just talking?
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Posted by confusedaries7513Posted by ariesleo5evayeah she knew him before i did. but the thing is, i asked the aquarius guy out (and told him i have a crush on him which was the biggest fail of my life ever cause all he said was thank you thats nice of you). i was too naive back then so i thought i can still have a chance, and me and aqua guy became very close friends (i was a closer friend to him than the gemini girl even tho he knew her for longer). however, i did not know the gemini girl personally and wasnt aware she was even friends with the aqua, when i got to know her through him i realized how nice she was and i just felt overwhelmed and i backed off and got rid off my feelings for him in the end.Posted by confusedaries7513jeeze was the gemini girl in the picture before you? Not bashing pisces woman but I notice the woman or if its in personal planets like tradgedy I am truly convinced pisces like playing 2nd or something I had a pisces friend who actually wanted my boyfriend and turned on me secretly its like when she saw how me and him were in a relationship she wanted my hapiness she went and told him that I still had feelings for my ex which was not true at all she broke girl code and she lied to me about it when my boyfriend had proof via facebook messages idk I think pisces like the idea of love but when they actually get it they dk wtf to do with itPosted by ariesleo5evadamn. If i were in you situation (since i always act too damn eager right off the bat, and please don't do what i do, im trying to change) i would try and ask the guy out so I know where i stand with him. I had a crush on this aquarius guy once and there was this gemini girl who was all over him. I'm pretty sure she and i both were aware we like the same guy and it was a shitty situation. i thought she seemed nice and pretty but at the same time i was very jealous so i would come home whenever i saw my crush and the gemini girl together at library and cry just because i was frustrated by how jealous i was lol.Posted by confusedaries7513talking but my patience is running short it sucks I like him too much I never took my time with someone as I am now and I am truly scared hidden scared ofcourse I am so frightened she will take my happiness that she does not deserve her aura comes off crazy I had a pisces girl from HS that took my aqua bf from me only because she saw how happy he made me well I think she only got him because I moved from the place (ex military kid) and he didnt do long distance but when they got together she cheated on him with numerous people and once she saw that I didnt care that crap did not last whats your situation?
I can relate to the emotions you are having on a spiritual level but best thing to do is to be patient for now i know its hard but the more you dont care, the less it will bite back at you. question: are you two dating? or just talking?
would you even call her your friend? friend do not do that to each other :/ sorry you had to go through something like that
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Posted by ariesleo5evathat's nice of you to forgive her 🙂 good job. and about the cap girl... take it easy. try and take control of your feelings for the guy rather than letting your feelings control you which is what happens to me always. if he is interested in anyone, he will make a move.Posted by confusedaries7513Posted by ariesleo5evayeah she knew him before i did. but the thing is, i asked the aquarius guy out (and told him i have a crush on him which was the biggest fail of my life ever cause all he said was thank you thats nice of you). i was too naive back then so i thought i can still have a chance, and me and aqua guy became very close friends (i was a closer friend to him than the gemini girl even tho he knew her for longer). however, i did not know the gemini girl personally and wasnt aware she was even friends with the aqua, when i got to know her through him i realized how nice she was and i just felt overwhelmed and i backed off and got rid off my feelings for him in the end.Posted by confusedaries7513jeeze was the gemini girl in the picture before you? Not bashing pisces woman but I notice the woman or if its in personal planets like tradgedy I am truly convinced pisces like playing 2nd or something I had a pisces friend who actually wanted my boyfriend and turned on me secretly its like when she saw how me and him were in a relationship she wanted my hapiness she went and told him that I still had feelings for my ex which was not true at all she broke girl code and she lied to me about it when my boyfriend had proof via facebook messages idk I think pisces like the idea of love but when they actually get it they dk wtf to do with itPosted by ariesleo5evaPosted by confusedaries7513talking but my patience is running short it sucks I like him too much I never took my time with someone as I am now and I am truly scared hidden scared ofcourse I am so frightened she will take my happiness that she does not deserve her aura comes off crazy I had a pisces girl from HS that took my aqua bf from me only because she saw how happy he made me well I think she only got him because I moved from the place (ex military kid) and he didnt do long distance but when they got together she cheated on him with numerous people and once she saw that I didnt care that crap did not last whats your situation?
I can relate to the emotions you are having on a spiritual level but best thing to do is to be patient for now i know its hard but the more you dont care, the less it will bite back at you. question: are you two dating? or just talking?
damn. If i were in you situation (since i always act too damn eager right off the bat, and please don't do what i do, im trying to change) i would try and ask the guy out so I know where i stand with him. I had a crush on this aquarius guy once and there was this gemini girl who was all over him. I'm pretty sure she and i both were aware we like the same guy and it was a shitty situation. i thought she seemed nice and pretty but at the same time i was very jealous so i would come home whenever i saw my crush and the gemini girl together at library and cry just because i was frustrated by how jealous i was lol.
would you even call her your friend? friend do not do that to each other :/ sorry you had to go through something like that
aw thats awesome you did tho! and yeah i know you know whats crazy me and her are still friends lol she will never admit what she did but i have the proof it sucks me and her can never talk about it I feel stupid for taking her back sometimes but Ive been trying to be more open to forgiving people we all make mistakes i guess
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Posted by confusedaries7513thank you so much I think I will. I'll just observe only time will tellPosted by ariesleo5evathat's nice of you to forgive her 🙂 good job. and about the cap girl... take it easy. try and take control of your feelings for the guy rather than letting your feelings control you which is what happens to me always. if he is interested in anyone, he will make a move.Posted by confusedaries7513Posted by ariesleo5evayeah she knew him before i did. but the thing is, i asked the aquarius guy out (and told him i have a crush on him which was the biggest fail of my life ever cause all he said was thank you thats nice of you). i was too naive back then so i thought i can still have a chance, and me and aqua guy became very close friends (i was a closer friend to him than the gemini girl even tho he knew her for longer). however, i did not know the gemini girl personally and wasnt aware she was even friends with the aqua, when i got to know her through him i realized how nice she was and i just felt overwhelmed and i backed off and got rid off my feelings for him in the end.Posted by confusedaries7513jeeze was the gemini girl in the picture before you? Not bashing pisces woman but I notice the woman or if its in personal planets like tradgedy I am truly convinced pisces like playing 2nd or something I had a pisces friend who actually wanted my boyfriend and turned on me secretly its like when she saw how me and him were in a relationship she wanted my hapiness she went and told him that I still had feelings for my ex which was not true at all she broke girl code and she lied to me about it when my boyfriend had proof via facebook messages idk I think pisces like the idea of love but when they actually get it they dk wtf to do with itPosted by ariesleo5evaPosted by confusedaries7513talking but my patience is running short it sucks I like him too much I never took my time with someone as I am now and I am truly scared hidden scared ofcourse I am so frightened she will take my happiness that she does not deserve her aura comes off crazy I had a pisces girl from HS that took my aqua bf from me only because she saw how happy he made me well I think she only got him because I moved from the place (ex military kid) and he didnt do long distance but when they got together she cheated on him with numerous people and once she saw that I didnt care that crap did not last whats your situation?
I can relate to the emotions you are having on a spiritual level but best thing to do is to be patient for now i know its hard but the more you dont care, the less it will bite back at you. question: are you two dating? or just talking?
damn. If i were in you situation (since i always act too damn eager right off the bat, and please don't do what i do, im trying to change) i would try and ask the guy out so I know where i stand with him. I had a crush on this aquarius guy once and there was this gemini girl who was all over him. I'm pretty sure she and i both were aware we like the same guy and it was a shitty situation. i thought she seemed nice and pretty but at the same time i was very jealous so i would come home whenever i saw my crush and the gemini girl together at library and cry just because i was frustrated by how jealous i was lol.
would you even call her your friend? friend do not do that to each other :/ sorry you had to go through something like that
aw thats awesome you did tho! and yeah i know you know whats crazy me and her are still friends lol she will never admit what she did but i have the proof it sucks me and her can never talk about it I feel stupid for taking her back sometimes but Ive been trying to be more open to forgiving people we all make mistakes i guess
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Posted by ariesleo5evaexactly! 🙂 just believe in yourself and have confidence. trust that if he is the one, he will find his way to you and only youPosted by confusedaries7513thank you so much I think I will. I'll just observe only time will tellPosted by ariesleo5evathat's nice of you to forgive her 🙂 good job. and about the cap girl... take it easy. try and take control of your feelings for the guy rather than letting your feelings control you which is what happens to me always. if he is interested in anyone, he will make a move.Posted by confusedaries7513Posted by ariesleo5evayeah she knew him before i did. but the thing is, i asked the aquarius guy out (and told him i have a crush on him which was the biggest fail of my life ever cause all he said was thank you thats nice of you). i was too naive back then so i thought i can still have a chance, and me and aqua guy became very close friends (i was a closer friend to him than the gemini girl even tho he knew her for longer). however, i did not know the gemini girl personally and wasnt aware she was even friends with the aqua, when i got to know her through him i realized how nice she was and i just felt overwhelmed and i backed off and got rid off my feelings for him in the end.Posted by confusedaries7513jeeze was the gemini girl in the picture before you? Not bashing pisces woman but I notice the woman or if its in personal planets like tradgedy I am truly convinced pisces like playing 2nd or something I had a pisces friend who actually wanted my boyfriend and turned on me secretly its like when she saw how me and him were in a relationship she wanted my hapiness she went and told him that I still had feelings for my ex which was not true at all she broke girl code and she lied to me about it when my boyfriend had proof via facebook messages idk I think pisces like the idea of love but when they actually get it they dk wtf to do with itPosted by ariesleo5evaPosted by confusedaries7513talking but my patience is running short it sucks I like him too much I never took my time with someone as I am now and I am truly scared hidden scared ofcourse I am so frightened she will take my happiness that she does not deserve her aura comes off crazy I had a pisces girl from HS that took my aqua bf from me only because she saw how happy he made me well I think she only got him because I moved from the place (ex military kid) and he didnt do long distance but when they got together she cheated on him with numerous people and once she saw that I didnt care that crap did not last whats your situation?
I can relate to the emotions you are having on a spiritual level but best thing to do is to be patient for now i know its hard but the more you dont care, the less it will bite back at you. question: are you two dating? or just talking?
damn. If i were in you situation (since i always act too damn eager right off the bat, and please don't do what i do, im trying to change) i would try and ask the guy out so I know where i stand with him. I had a crush on this aquarius guy once and there was this gemini girl who was all over him. I'm pretty sure she and i both were aware we like the same guy and it was a shitty situation. i thought she seemed nice and pretty but at the same time i was very jealous so i would come home whenever i saw my crush and the gemini girl together at library and cry just because i was frustrated by how jealous i was lol.
would you even call her your friend? friend do not do that to each other :/ sorry you had to go through something like that
aw thats awesome you did tho! and yeah i know you know whats crazy me and her are still friends lol she will never admit what she did but i have the proof it sucks me and her can never talk about it I feel stupid for taking her back sometimes but Ive been trying to be more open to forgiving people we all make mistakes i guess
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Posted by Gob_ShitePosted by ariesleo5evaPosted by Gob_Shitewell I agree but then again I don't sometimes people feel comfortable with exploiting theirselves via social media maybe thats their safe haven. its tricky ive moved all over america and europe all my life and the only way to connect with my childhood friends was social media so all i know is long distance relationships receiving more web calls then phone calls from a distant lover when youre that attached thru social media it does get heightened to an emotional level hell no i dont do things for the likes or attention I found it was easier to connect with others how the hell else was I suppose to keep in contact with my boyfriend while my ass is in germany age 13 no cellphone because your parents dont believe in giving you a freaking phone until highschool thats when the internet became my phone my way to be with them sheeshPosted by ariesleo5evaPosted by Gob_ShitePosted by ariesleo5evaPosted by Gob_Shitetrust me I did its been 5 days now (hence why I joined here and am venting like a mad man lol) I want to block her but I would look like a damn fool shes fucking nuts
Please take a long break from using social media...
I'm not talking about days - I'm talking about weeks, months, years or even forever...
Whatever happened to fucking e-mails? If it's all about communicating or connecting, the method or platform shouldn't really matter.
Most heavy users of social media are narcissistic morons...
lmfao youre talking to a double fire chick definition of narcissitic but thats how it works these days. connecting through social media yes
I've since come to the conclusion that many who are unable to take their relationships beyond social media aren't really interested in said relationships - they're merely using them to heighten their social media experience. In other words, other users are nothing more than disposable pawns and catalysts for self-gratification and narcissistic tendencies...
The safe haven excuse is an illusion...
I can understand the benefits of web calls, such as Skype, but that's as far as I'm prepared to go, in terms of acceptability.
Outside of that, the interest lies more in the social media platform experience than the people you're supposedly keeping in touch with. If that wasn't the case, such users would be using every method available to keep in touch (e.g. e-mail).
And, yes, some could use the lazy excuse but I'm not entirely convinced.
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You just have to force yourself to be above all the antics. Laugh at them and recognize them for the pathetic waste of time that they are. Unless you two are dating exclusively there's not much you can do or say about him liking all her pictures. Set yourself apart by not competing.
Come to terms with how you're feeling, acknowledge it, look at the situation objectively and realize there's not a damn thing you can do to control what these two people do. I'm not telling you to just "try not to think about it", no, accept that it bothers you, accept that you'll think about it from time to time, but remember there's not much you can do.
If you really want to "do" something, you have to tell him that you noticed it and that it bothered you. Not in a way that makes you come off as petty or angry, because you clearly aren't, you just seem worried, that's all. Preface it by saying you're being open with how you feel for the sake of transparency. In that scenario, if anything, you may end up having one of those conversations that makes you feel like you know/understand a person better by the end of it. The progress made by a talk like this could be the conclusion of a "grey area", which is usually a pretty damn freeing thing for the mind.
(By the way, Olivia Hussey is gorgeous so I love your icon.)
Posted by ariesleo5evaYou've gotta do it at some point regardless of whether or not you're scared. There are ways you can deal with your fear, you just have to FEEL it, let it exist and admit it, but don't let it stop you from doing what's best for you. Before you have an honest conversation with him, you can also let him know that the idea of doing so is scary for you, but that you think it's important enough that you should do it anyway.Posted by Srslyscorpio
You just have to force yourself to be above all the antics. Laugh at them and recognize them for the pathetic waste of time that they are. Unless you two are dating exclusively there's not much you can do or say about him liking all her pictures. Set yourself apart by not competing.
Come to terms with how you're feeling, acknowledge it, look at the situation objectively and realize there's not a damn thing you can do to control what these two people do. I'm not telling you to just "try not to think about it", no, accept that it bothers you, accept that you'll think about it from time to time, but remember there's not much you can do.
If you really want to "do" something, you have to tell him that you noticed it and that it bothered you. Not in a way that makes you come off as petty or angry, because you clearly aren't, you just seem worried, that's all. Preface it by saying you're being open with how you feel for the sake of transparency. In that scenario, if anything, you may end up having one of those conversations that makes you feel like you know/understand a person better by the end of it. The progress made by a talk like this could be the conclusion of a "grey area", which is usually a pretty damn freeing thing for the mind.
(By the way, Olivia Hussey is gorgeous so I love your icon.)
Wow this is truly putting things together you are right! and thank you! I absolutely love her lo! I would love to be transparent with him its just I am so terrified of scaring him off (his mercury is in cancer) but I guess he would be willing to talk about his emotions I do think that's what we need a talk a long talk a emotional talk a talk on where we stand but I am just scared shitless of hearing something I dont want to hear or nothing getting a response at all
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Posted by Gob_Shitelol okay if privacy isnt the issue then what is it towards social media what are people trying to get outta the "social media experience" from what your saying im assuming its recongition flaunt what they got well this is now and what era are we in? the technology era im pretty sure there are social events where people dont have their phones out so publically I never said dxpnet is a platform its social media you are interacting with others maybe even connecting learning things sharing media (gifs, pictures, videos, maybe even blogging)Posted by ariesleo5evaPosted by Gob_ShitePosted by ariesleo5evaPosted by Gob_Shitewell I agree but then again I don't sometimes people feel comfortable with exploiting theirselves via social media maybe thats their safe haven. its tricky ive moved all over america and europe all my life and the only way to connect with my childhood friends was social media so all i know is long distance relationships receiving more web calls then phone calls from a distant lover when youre that attached thru social media it does get heightened to an emotional level hell no i dont do things for the likes or attention I found it was easier to connect with others how the hell else was I suppose to keep in contact with my boyfriend while my ass is in germany age 13 no cellphone because your parents dont believe in giving you a freaking phone until highschool thats when the internet became my phone my way to be with them sheeshPosted by ariesleo5evaPosted by Gob_ShitePosted by ariesleo5evaPosted by Gob_Shitetrust me I did its been 5 days now (hence why I joined here and am venting like a mad man lol) I want to block her but I would look like a damn fool shes fucking nuts
Please take a long break from using social media...
I'm not talking about days - I'm talking about weeks, months, years or even forever...
Whatever happened to fucking e-mails? If it's all about communicating or connecting, the method or platform shouldn't really matter.
Most heavy users of social media are narcissistic morons...
lmfao youre talking to a double fire chick definition of narcissitic but thats how it works these days. connecting through social media yes
I've since come to the conclusion that many who are unable to take their relationships beyond social media aren't really interested in said relationships - they're merely using them to heighten their social media experience. In other words, other users are nothing more than disposable pawns and catalysts for self-gratification and narcissistic tendencies...
The safe haven excuse is an illusion...
I can understand the benefits of web calls, such as Skype, but that's as far as I'm prepared to go, in terms of acceptability.
Outside of that, the interest lies more in the social media platform experience than the people you're supposedly keeping in touch with. If that wasn't the case, such users would be using every method available to keep in touch (e.g. e-mail).
And, yes, some could use the lazy excuse but I'm not entirely convinced.
you have a point but people cling to things that make them feel comfortable do you think all people who find social media as their outlet/safe haven another form of attention? lets look at dxpnet for example this is social media but im pretty sure to many its their outlet I can kinda see this being a modern day journal to vent let things out maybe people dont have others in real life to talk to maybe people feel more at ease with talking to others via social media modern day email is defintely direct messaging now i see where youre tryna make it a point to have things private where others dont have to see the convo what is the platform experience? to get popularity or recognition? I think not
1) dxpnet isn't strictly a social media platform, but a forum with add-on social media features.
2) Privacy isn't the issue here. It's about the level of enthusiasm maintaining relationships regardless of the method used.
You just have to go to a social event, to see people more engaged with their smartphones than the people around them. As I said before, most users (if they had to be honest with themselves) aren't that concerned with the people they're 'connecting' with - more the social media experience. If this wasn't the case, these very same people would be switching off their smartphones, in public, instead of being socially awkward and anti-social to others.
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Posted by ariesleo5evaI would be bothered as well , mostly cuz he's liking every single one of these girls pics & not all of mine.. I wouldn't just be seeing someone for 9 months because of this reason though .. i don't share - so if I was seeing someone 9 months & this was happening I would be straight up with the guy, not harsh , but direct ... I don't know how u girls do it not exclusive for so long cuz shit like this makes me want to punch ppl lol
Hey so I've been talking to this Leo guy for 9 months and recently on social media I've been seeing this capricorn girl pop up on my guys stuff lets face it she is pretty and when I see her post stuff it is very obvious she is trying to get his attention I was kinda sad because I found her IG and lately hes liked all her pics and he hasnt been consistent with mine I am 100 percent sure she knows who I am which makes it worse
Posted by SofiaV87see its crazy how im looked at as narcisttic because its an issue on social media I cant help it I have feelings I care and Idk how i am still doing it either but im growing tired of it i feel like i keep making excuses and it sucks because I DO NOT know how to address it trust me I want to so bad but I am so terrified and idk why what is wrong with mePosted by ariesleo5evaI would be bothered as well , mostly cuz he's liking every single one of these girls pics & not all of mine.. I wouldn't just be seeing someone for 9 months because of this reason though .. i don't share - so if I was seeing someone 9 months & this was happening I would be straight up with the guy, not harsh , but direct ... I don't know how u girls do it not exclusive for so long cuz shit like this makes me want to punch ppl lol
Hey so I've been talking to this Leo guy for 9 months and recently on social media I've been seeing this capricorn girl pop up on my guys stuff lets face it she is pretty and when I see her post stuff it is very obvious she is trying to get his attention I was kinda sad because I found her IG and lately hes liked all her pics and he hasnt been consistent with mine I am 100 percent sure she knows who I am which makes it worseclick to expand
Posted by TaurusBull1977Girl you are knocking sense into my head and long story short we met last summer and it was obvious how we felt about each other so couple months (me being impatient af) I let him know that i feel that this is right and that I hope this blossums into something more he told me he wasn't ready which i accepted because I felt the same way (i was 5 months out of my last relationship) he doesnt live in my area he lives 2 and a half hours away but every other month we did take turns to see each other but we've been busy families this that the 3rd which is fine and I do agree hearing other peoples pov on leaving their relationship off social media might be a thing I need to try for once its just hard LDR is all i know and how did we connect via social media its tricky i know everyone does things at their own pace but gah damn can we really put a time limit on when people are ready to commit thats why idk idk
@AriesLeoLove5Eva,
You have been 'talking' to this Leo guy for nine months. This indicates that you're not in a solidified relationship.
Is he your man?
I can't stress this enough, LDR's, online 'alleged' relationships, they're all jokes.
Emotional bridges are built on perception and unrealistic expectations, instead of practicality or reality.
You're in awe of the person. It's like reading a Harlequinn romance novel, and being infatuated with the male leading character and everything he represents.
Coffee and great conversation -priceless.
A picnic at the park- priceless.
A netflix 'chill at home' movie with a loved one -priceless.
All real-life genuine connections.
Maybe, I'm a bit old-school, but I rarely use any form of social media with my SO, unless it's absolutely inconvenient for me to converse with him.
You have this other woman's natal chart memorized. How did that happen?
This effort could have been placed elsewhere. Try actually calling him. Visiting him.
I have known females to be in 'alleged' relationships with men who are only 15-30 minutes away. No dates, no phone calls. Just empty promises....and yet they see NO red flags!
It's difficult to advise on your situation.
Very little information is given about the nature of your relationship.
Posted by LadyNeptunelmfaooooooo I did not do anything sexual lol he is not getting this until I get what I want
9 months is a long time to be strung along by someone. He must have a magical dick.
Posted by ariesleo5evaOk cool. But it doesn't look like your gonna get what you want. 9 months in...Posted by LadyNeptunelmfaooooooo I did not do anything sexual lol he is not getting this until I get what I want
9 months is a long time to be strung along by someone. He must have a magical dick.click to expand
Posted by ariesleo5evaOkay first it wasn't obvious. In fact you go onto describe how you and him are on completely different pages.
it was obvious how we felt about each other so couple months (me being impatient af) I let him know that i feel that this is right and that I hope this blossums into something more he told me he wasn't ready which i accepted because I felt the same way (i was 5 months out of my last relationship)
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by ariesleo5eva
it was obvious how we felt about each other so couple months (me being impatient af) I let him know that i feel that this is right and that I hope this blossums into something more he told me he wasn't ready which i accepted because I felt the same way (i was 5 months out of my last relationship)
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Posted by LadyNeptuneits not validation its opinons at the end of the day I will make the decision to do wtf I want to do no I value your opinion just do not talk to me like I'm fucking stupid. and do not twist my words obvi this post meant something to you if your trying to give my ass advice you could of just laughed at my confusion and kept it moving girl lol and ya know what read the fucking context it was mainly about the girl who was being aggressive others made it obvious that 9 months is a long time talking to someone you dont need to put a time limit on anything but that is a while so it jumped from the girl social media stalking me to the length of time we have been talking then somehow to him not feeling me lmao do you see? I'm not that dumb to be strung along but it seems like you have past experience in this LOL
Spit what back at me? I'm not here asking for advice...you are.
And the reason your 'growing tired of making excuses' and 'so terrified' is because you allowed yourself to fall for someone who doesn't feel the same. And you know that subconsciously. But you don't want to hear my words... so go ahead and get the validation from others to stay and wait around for this dude. Its your choice and your time.
Posted by LadyNeptunenope I took it down because it was rude
Damn you fucked up the formatting too...smh
Posted by TaurusBull1977I can't believe that I had to scroll through 1.5 pages of misc shit before somebody addressed the "been talking to him for 9 months" issue.
@AriesLeoLove5Eva,
You have been 'talking' to this Leo guy for nine months. This indicates that you're not in a solidified relationship.
Is he your man?
I can't stress this enough, LDR's, online 'alleged' relationships, they're all jokes.
Emotional bridges are built on perception and unrealistic expectations, instead of practicality or reality.
You're in awe of the person. It's like reading a Harlequinn romance novel, and being infatuated with the male leading character and everything he represents.
Coffee and great conversation -priceless.
A picnic at the park- priceless.
A netflix 'chill at home' movie with a loved one -priceless.
All real-life genuine connections.
Maybe, I'm a bit old-school, but I rarely use any form of social media with my SO, unless it's absolutely inconvenient for me to converse with him.
You have this other woman's natal chart memorized. How did that happen?
This effort could have been placed elsewhere. Try actually calling him. Visiting him.
I have known females to be in 'alleged' relationships with men who are only 15-30 minutes away. No dates, no phone calls. Just empty promises....and yet they see NO red flags!
It's difficult to advise on your situation.
Very little information is given about the nature of your relationship.
Posted by RamOfPeaceyou wasted your time not mine 🙂Posted by TaurusBull1977I can't believe that I had to scroll through 1.5 pages of misc shit before somebody addressed the "been talking to him for 9 months" issue.
@AriesLeoLove5Eva,
You have been 'talking' to this Leo guy for nine months. This indicates that you're not in a solidified relationship.
Is he your man?
I can't stress this enough, LDR's, online 'alleged' relationships, they're all jokes.
Emotional bridges are built on perception and unrealistic expectations, instead of practicality or reality.
You're in awe of the person. It's like reading a Harlequinn romance novel, and being infatuated with the male leading character and everything he represents.
Coffee and great conversation -priceless.
A picnic at the park- priceless.
A netflix 'chill at home' movie with a loved one -priceless.
All real-life genuine connections.
Maybe, I'm a bit old-school, but I rarely use any form of social media with my SO, unless it's absolutely inconvenient for me to converse with him.
You have this other woman's natal chart memorized. How did that happen?
This effort could have been placed elsewhere. Try actually calling him. Visiting him.
I have known females to be in 'alleged' relationships with men who are only 15-30 minutes away. No dates, no phone calls. Just empty promises....and yet they see NO red flags!
It's difficult to advise on your situation.
Very little information is given about the nature of your relationship.
People typically make arrangements to meet up, or have already met by this time mark (even if he lives in New Zealand and she lives in Zimbabwe).click to expand
Posted by ariesleo5evaIn short, if you maintain this attitude in your communication with him as well, then he might just as well be fucking that Cap girl by now/has been for awhile.Posted by LadyNeptunelmfaooooooo I did not do anything sexual lol he is not getting this until I get what I want
9 months is a long time to be strung along by someone. He must have a magical dick.click to expand
Posted by ariesleo5evaOnly 2 minutes vs 9 months. AyyyyPosted by RamOfPeaceyou wasted your time not mine 🙂Posted by TaurusBull1977I can't believe that I had to scroll through 1.5 pages of misc shit before somebody addressed the "been talking to him for 9 months" issue.
@AriesLeoLove5Eva,
You have been 'talking' to this Leo guy for nine months. This indicates that you're not in a solidified relationship.
Is he your man?
I can't stress this enough, LDR's, online 'alleged' relationships, they're all jokes.
Emotional bridges are built on perception and unrealistic expectations, instead of practicality or reality.
You're in awe of the person. It's like reading a Harlequinn romance novel, and being infatuated with the male leading character and everything he represents.
Coffee and great conversation -priceless.
A picnic at the park- priceless.
A netflix 'chill at home' movie with a loved one -priceless.
All real-life genuine connections.
Maybe, I'm a bit old-school, but I rarely use any form of social media with my SO, unless it's absolutely inconvenient for me to converse with him.
You have this other woman's natal chart memorized. How did that happen?
This effort could have been placed elsewhere. Try actually calling him. Visiting him.
I have known females to be in 'alleged' relationships with men who are only 15-30 minutes away. No dates, no phone calls. Just empty promises....and yet they see NO red flags!
It's difficult to advise on your situation.
Very little information is given about the nature of your relationship.
People typically make arrangements to meet up, or have already met by this time mark (even if he lives in New Zealand and she lives in Zimbabwe).
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Posted by ariesleo5evaI'm not talking to you like your stupid. If you feel that way its cause your defensive and just too close to this. And yes I am speaking from life experience.Posted by LadyNeptuneits not validation its opinons at the end of the day I will make the decision to do wtf I want to do no I value your opinion just do not talk to me like I'm fucking stupid. and do not twist my words obvi this post meant something to you if your trying to give my ass advice you could of just laughed at my confusion and kept it moving girl lol and ya know what read the fucking context it was mainly about the girl who was being aggressive others made it obvious that 9 months is a long time talking to someone you dont need to put a time limit on anything but that is a while so it jumped from the girl social media stalking me to the length of time we have been talking then somehow to him not feeling me lmao do you see? I'm not that dumb to be strung along but it seems like you have past experience in this LOL
Spit what back at me? I'm not here asking for advice...you are.
And the reason your 'growing tired of making excuses' and 'so terrified' is because you allowed yourself to fall for someone who doesn't feel the same. And you know that subconsciously. But you don't want to hear my words... so go ahead and get the validation from others to stay and wait around for this dude. Its your choice and your time.
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Posted by LadyNeptunesee outta context again I said when we first started talking couple months I said something I didnt SAY NOW lol girl read clearly idk how he feels about it now but I feel like I should say something and yeah im scared I dont like talking about my emotions to any of the people I'm interested in I'm can be indirect af or aloof af but deep down I'm hot for someone people can hide their emotions well and I am sorry to hear that no one deserves to get their time wastedPosted by ariesleo5evaI'm not talking to you like your stupid. If you feel that way its cause your defensive and just too close to this. And yes I am speaking from life experience.Posted by LadyNeptuneits not validation its opinons at the end of the day I will make the decision to do wtf I want to do no I value your opinion just do not talk to me like I'm fucking stupid. and do not twist my words obvi this post meant something to you if your trying to give my ass advice you could of just laughed at my confusion and kept it moving girl lol and ya know what read the fucking context it was mainly about the girl who was being aggressive others made it obvious that 9 months is a long time talking to someone you dont need to put a time limit on anything but that is a while so it jumped from the girl social media stalking me to the length of time we have been talking then somehow to him not feeling me lmao do you see? I'm not that dumb to be strung along but it seems like you have past experience in this LOL
Spit what back at me? I'm not here asking for advice...you are.
And the reason your 'growing tired of making excuses' and 'so terrified' is because you allowed yourself to fall for someone who doesn't feel the same. And you know that subconsciously. But you don't want to hear my words... so go ahead and get the validation from others to stay and wait around for this dude. Its your choice and your time.
He said hes not ready for a relationship...its been 9 months. Read the writing on the wall.
Like I said previously....its a massive waste of time.click to expand
Posted by ariesleo5evaIts not your place to address it at all. Like you said, your not exclusive. Which means he can like photos, date, fuck, anyone he wants. Your putting expectations on him cause you caught feelings. Abort.
example: If I post something in a creepy way she will direct her topics on what i talk about if I am affectionate she will be I did some snooping and I notice way before the things that interest her now (AKA my interests) are all she raves about this makes me think this has to do with her venus being in pisces its hard cuz her moon is in sagittarius its not coincedental I think he is aware but its like how do I adress it if we are not official and I abs hate looking like I am jealous like hate
Posted by RamOfPeacelmao 😄Posted by ariesleo5evaOnly 2 minutes vs 9 months. AyyyyPosted by RamOfPeaceyou wasted your time not mine 🙂Posted by TaurusBull1977I can't believe that I had to scroll through 1.5 pages of misc shit before somebody addressed the "been talking to him for 9 months" issue.
@AriesLeoLove5Eva,
You have been 'talking' to this Leo guy for nine months. This indicates that you're not in a solidified relationship.
Is he your man?
I can't stress this enough, LDR's, online 'alleged' relationships, they're all jokes.
Emotional bridges are built on perception and unrealistic expectations, instead of practicality or reality.
You're in awe of the person. It's like reading a Harlequinn romance novel, and being infatuated with the male leading character and everything he represents.
Coffee and great conversation -priceless.
A picnic at the park- priceless.
A netflix 'chill at home' movie with a loved one -priceless.
All real-life genuine connections.
Maybe, I'm a bit old-school, but I rarely use any form of social media with my SO, unless it's absolutely inconvenient for me to converse with him.
You have this other woman's natal chart memorized. How did that happen?
This effort could have been placed elsewhere. Try actually calling him. Visiting him.
I have known females to be in 'alleged' relationships with men who are only 15-30 minutes away. No dates, no phone calls. Just empty promises....and yet they see NO red flags!
It's difficult to advise on your situation.
Very little information is given about the nature of your relationship.
People typically make arrangements to meet up, or have already met by this time mark (even if he lives in New Zealand and she lives in Zimbabwe).
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Posted by ariesleo5evaJust because you hide your emotions don't assume he's hiding his. That would be a mistake.Posted by LadyNeptunesee outta context again I said when we first started talking couple months I said something I didnt SAY NOW lol girl read clearly idk how he feels about it now but I feel like I should say something and yeah im scared I dont like talking about my emotions to any of the people I'm interested in I'm can be indirect af or aloof af but deep down I'm hot for someone people can hide their emotions well and I am sorry to hear that no one deserves to get their time wastedPosted by ariesleo5evaI'm not talking to you like your stupid. If you feel that way its cause your defensive and just too close to this. And yes I am speaking from life experience.Posted by LadyNeptuneits not validation its opinons at the end of the day I will make the decision to do wtf I want to do no I value your opinion just do not talk to me like I'm fucking stupid. and do not twist my words obvi this post meant something to you if your trying to give my ass advice you could of just laughed at my confusion and kept it moving girl lol and ya know what read the fucking context it was mainly about the girl who was being aggressive others made it obvious that 9 months is a long time talking to someone you dont need to put a time limit on anything but that is a while so it jumped from the girl social media stalking me to the length of time we have been talking then somehow to him not feeling me lmao do you see? I'm not that dumb to be strung along but it seems like you have past experience in this LOL
Spit what back at me? I'm not here asking for advice...you are.
And the reason your 'growing tired of making excuses' and 'so terrified' is because you allowed yourself to fall for someone who doesn't feel the same. And you know that subconsciously. But you don't want to hear my words... so go ahead and get the validation from others to stay and wait around for this dude. Its your choice and your time.
He said hes not ready for a relationship...its been 9 months. Read the writing on the wall.
Like I said previously....its a massive waste of time.click to expand
Posted by ariesleo5evaI don't think its narcissistic & it is an issue in social media.. there's nothing wrong with u , it's ok to care that's he paying more attention to other girls on social media than u , he knows u can see it .. now its time to either tell him how u feel & see if he wants to be exclusive or continue going how the relationship is goingPosted by SofiaV87see its crazy how im looked at as narcisttic because its an issue on social media I cant help it I have feelings I care and Idk how i am still doing it either but im growing tired of it i feel like i keep making excuses and it sucks because I DO NOT know how to address it trust me I want to so bad but I am so terrified and idk why what is wrong with mePosted by ariesleo5evaI would be bothered as well , mostly cuz he's liking every single one of these girls pics & not all of mine.. I wouldn't just be seeing someone for 9 months because of this reason though .. i don't share - so if I was seeing someone 9 months & this was happening I would be straight up with the guy, not harsh , but direct ... I don't know how u girls do it not exclusive for so long cuz shit like this makes me want to punch ppl lol
Hey so I've been talking to this Leo guy for 9 months and recently on social media I've been seeing this capricorn girl pop up on my guys stuff lets face it she is pretty and when I see her post stuff it is very obvious she is trying to get his attention I was kinda sad because I found her IG and lately hes liked all her pics and he hasnt been consistent with mine I am 100 percent sure she knows who I am which makes it worse
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