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This topic was created in the Aries forum by truthseeker on Thursday, April 20, 2006 and has 6 replies.

How Aries Men and Women Recognize the End of a Relationship

Aries individuals often notice signs like loss of interest, emotional withdrawal, and impatience when ending relationships. They may become more aggressive or detached as they process the breakup. Both Aries men and women tend to act decisively once they decide to end things, often ending communication abruptly and moving on quickly.

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@truthseeker
21 Years500+ PostsCancer

Now we've learned why "aries guys are nutzo," and about "Aries Men in Love," and "the paradox in Aries men." Now, I want to know how you Aries men come to the conclusion that a relationship is over? What are the signs that you take as an ending, and how do you behave when you are on the verge of ending things? In fact, I'm interested in hearing from Aries women, as well.

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Yep...TB said it perfectly....once our mind is made up we are Finito - done and dusted - outta there - and there is no looking back as we are truly "livers in the moment"

For me personally, if someone has lied to me, disrespected me, cheated on me they are history in my book - once the trust is gone so is the relationship. Next! I say! 😉

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Pretty good FB...so what if the sex was initially amazing, and then it got mediocre and then it just wasn't happening enough...would you take that as a sign that the relationship is headed for the end? If so, would that be a reason for you to leave?

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@AriesBeauty4-19
21 Years

muahaha right on! If the SEX isn't good..GOODBYE! and if you can't even talk to the person anymore..just about anything...then so long sucker...
Maybe I'll try working it out the first two tries, and if it STILL doesn't work? Then yeah..i'll sliently drift away...less visits..less phone calls..POOF i'm gone! 🙂

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"...less visits..less phone calls..POOF i'm gone!" Ah yes...this is the second part of my question. This comment makes me automatically think that an Aries will never come out and say 'it's over.' Instead, you stop showing interest and the other person is supposed to figure it out?!?!?!!? Is that how it works w/ an Aries, you drift away until POOF your gone?

Also, we need some feedback from the men.

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@Freebird
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Well TS...not always do we "drift away" - I have had MANY occassions where I have bluntly told a man that I am not interested - this relationship is not working for me. Ya know what I have concluded? they have suddenly and unexpectedly lost all ability to hear !!! They keep calling, sending flowers and cards. I can completely get to the point of no contact and that does not even work! What I have found that does work is to slowly "wean" them off....or as you say..."drift away." Perhaps for anyone it is the sudden ending of a relationship that is difficult for us to deal with? Going "cold turkey" can be hard on the emotions and the body.

"Instead, you stop showing interest and the other person is supposed to figure it out?!?!?!" yeah...me thinks so...at least figure out that he/she is not interested - as far as the why? does it really matter? I dunno. I have also explained to a guy why I could no longer be in the relationship with him - he didn't agree with me - was in denial so what was the point for me to share that with him?

Just my Arian thoughts....hopefully a Hot Arian man will make his presence known and share his insights. C'mon Ram men - come forth! NOW!!!!!!